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I Don't Mean to Offend Anyone

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    Sometimes

    Well,actually I mean to offend the people I don't like. See my story in the group,"I Don't Pretend To Like People I Don't".That should just about explain it.
    Bryceman99 Bryceman99 13-15, M Jun 28, 2009

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    I never mean to offend others,

    but I usually find out a way to anyways. I am usually very cautious with what I say and I always keep my opinions to myself, I try avoiding conflict and not to be rude. But I always find a way to say something wrong or bring up a bad topic or seem not interested. I always seem...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F Jul 7

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    But my housemate is mad at me.

    She said i didn't invite her for dinner. I'm so sad..
    Kimgiri Kimgiri 18-21, F Jan 16

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    Not Intentionally

    I will not censor my beliefs or opinions, but I will not be disrespectful about expressing them. I don't name-call or use personal attacks, I just state my opinion. If you disagree, I am fine with that. We can't all feel the same way about every issue. If I offend you, it is...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    My Intent Is Never to Offend Or Hurt Someone

    BUT sometimes it happens.  I think it is because I am very blunt and honest.  Alot of people ask for the truth in life, but when it is given to them, they get angry and shoot the messenger, so to speak.  I don't mean to offend someone, but if I disagree then I will...
    haydenrules haydenrules 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    But I'm not attracted to black guys .

    . So no I won't accept your friend request .. sorry
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 4

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    I Don't Mean To

    I don't mean to,If I do,Offend anyone,When making jokes,Problem is,Some people,Take it,All the wrong way,When you tell them,No harm meant,They just don't wanna know.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 17, 2011

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    But I Seem To Have That Gift

    so why even bother? tipping his cap,he sets fire to the compost pile...
    dubkebab dubkebab 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    If we ever chat or interact in any way here on

    EP or anywhere else, know that I don't mean to offend you or disrespect you in any way shape or form. I personally don't think that I get offended easily, so you don't have to worry about offending me. Also, know that I'm sure I can get annoying by my seemingly pointless...
    ItsHIStory ItsHIStory 18-21, M Jul 7

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    It Always Happens

    I always say the wrong thing at the wrong time in front of the wrong person. And i never say things to hurt somebodies feelings. It could just come out, or somebody thinks that i meant it in a way that i didnt.. And im the worst when it comes to break ups. because im...
    Tippy0492 Tippy0492 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    But

    At some point I'm guessnig I probably will. Not intentionally... well unless you get me first *devilish grin*.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2008

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    I'm pretty sensitive

    so I try the very best to consider others' views even when I could not share it. I try to have compassion and avoid words that can hurt the person so I'm more inclined to find common points than stressing in the ones I disagree to avoid a confrontation. I have been called...
    mmorgam mmorgam 41-45, F Jul 21

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    I Really Don't Want To...

    And I make a large effort not to offend anyone, but regrettably, I'm a member of the species that does a fairly good job of irritating their peers, so sometimes I do or say things that others perceive as offensive. If anything I say or do offends anyone here, please, don't...
    UlricWindfury UlricWindfury 18-21, M Apr 1, 2010

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    I Don't Mean To

        i don't mean to offend anyone . no one . i love making people happy and hate when i have failed at this .
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 19, 2009

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    Really!

    I think I offend people quite often. I've never really thought about. I don't talk to people very often so I don't think that helps. Although sometimes I just don't care if I offend someone or not. Most of the time I try not to though. But I think that's part of my problem. I...
    UnseenBlossom UnseenBlossom 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    I'M Not Perfect

    No human being is. Not since Original SIn - or even before that. I try to treat everyone the way I would like to be treated - especially if I had ever been or can imagine ever being - in such a situation. I like to try to help everyone if it' s within reason. "No" is a hurting...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F 1 Response May 28, 2013

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    She Was There I Was Here

    i knew this girl a while ago that i thought i could go pretty far with but i said to myself i don't want to **** with her head cause i was still young and wanted to be single for a bit and get my life on the go. I always called her the girl i'd marry not the girl i'd date in...
    tutchmiwainer tutchmiwainer 18-21, M Jun 3, 2009

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    I Mean This From My Heart!

    I would like to say to any one on EP that has read any of my life experiences I don't mean to offend you If I have I would ask you except my apology I do not write to hurt anyone but I write in hopes to help some one anyone!
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2011

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    'Course Not

    I didn't join EP just so I could slag stuff off, I hope that no-one ever gets offended by what I type and I honestly will never put anything put to hurt anybody, i've always hated hurting peoples feelings.
    nshanz nshanz 18-21 2 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Arrogant

    People only see me as two: If they don't describe me as a serious person, then it have to be 'totally arrogant'. I've never ever in my life intend to offend anyone. It's just the way I behave. I'm a serious person. I talk only when it's necessary. I say what I have to say. But if...
    Airlangga Airlangga 22-25 May 7, 2013

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    Just Being Me

    I seem to offend alot of people, just by stating my opinion. I never mean it to be rude, but it seems most people take it that wa.  Like everyone else, though, I am  entitled to speak my mind, even if others do not agree, and I can only help what I say, not...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F Nov 17, 2009

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    Honestly. I always get people offended by my

    experience and I wind up deleting them an rewriting. If my experience offended you send me a message, post a comment and we can discuss it.
    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2014

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    No Offense

    The last thing I want to do is offend anyone.  I may say things and you may think (general speaking), I'm meaning it in a bad way and in fact, I'm not.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 23, 2011

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    But I Do

    All the time it seems. People just don't understand my sense of humor and it really doesn't bother me. If I offend you then perhaps you just need to relocate.
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Oct 9, 2011

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    I Find This Very Irritating

    When I answer a question, I certainly may not agree with the values, morals, or the very nature of the question.  I may criticize or answer in a way that some people do not like.  I am not talking about the asker, they are not the problem.  On a couple of occasions...
    chance1 chance1 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    I watched a movie that had an actress probably

    about my age. She was homely, frumpy and generally physically unappealing, but a sweet person. It made me wonder what it would be like to look like that. I've always been attractive. And I admit it's important to me to look good. But what if I'd been born into a body that simply...
    Walkalone9000 Walkalone9000 51-55, F 7 Responses Mar 29

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    ...unless They Need It

    I never deliberately set out to give offense.  Some may argue that my writing is offensive to them.  Well, I apologise  - I didn't have them in mind when I wrote the piece - but no-one forced them to read it.  I don't like confrontation and will seek to avoid...
    reteps reteps 51-55, M Jun 21, 2010

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    My Sense Of Humor

    I have a very odd sense of humor. I don't mean to offend anyone in any way, it's just how I joke around. Please feel free to laugh it off. I mean well!! Just thought Id throw it out there.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 5, 2012

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    That Was Not The Question

    On a recent Q and A debate, there was a question relating to food. I was shocked to see how many people responded to this like it was a sex site, saying things like "sex", "boobs", "hour in bed", and the like. People - do you read these questions before responding? if it doesn...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Jul 1, 2013

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    Troubled In A Politically Correct Society

    As my beliefs are all their own and I do not push my race, religion or sexual preferences on to anyone ever, I believe to each their own, and you have free will, just as I do you going to do what you want, just like I do and many will be all opened up about theirs. I do often in...
    vvonderwoman vvonderwoman 36-40, F Oct 29, 2012

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    Its Called Sarcasm

    Really i gre up in a culture where insults counted as greetings. its how i show my love... not everyone gets that though. if i upset someone i'm truely sorry but i'm gonna do it again because its who i am. then there was that time i insenuated someone had raped their two year...
    yedmeipa yedmeipa 22-25 3 Responses Mar 3, 2009

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