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I Don't Mind If My Man Takes The Lead

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    First Guilhem Now Robert

    I don't know if it is something I should think about, but I don't mind if my man takes the lead in our relationship, deciding where we go and what we do, as long as I have the say in whether we have sex or not. I think this is essentially the correct way not least because most of...
    Anuledroan Anuledroan 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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