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I Dont Miss My Ex, I Miss What We Had

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    Nope, Don't Miss Him.

    I do NOT miss my Ex. I thought I would, after 3 years of being in a relationship I really thought I would miss him, but I don't. I was always so afraid to leave him even though he was an *** because I didn't want to be alone and I thought I loved him. I wanted to post this...
    TriciaLicious TriciaLicious 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2010

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    Summer 2014. I swear

    that was the best summer ever <3 I know we only dated for a month and a half but I miss your hugs I miss your kisses I miss your cuddles I miss your piggy back rides I miss you making me laugh all the time I miss our walks I miss seeing you every day and our long phone calls...
    Haylee13xo Haylee13xo 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    I was married 28 yrs

    and divorced. I can relate... You don't really miss the but rather the familiarity... That's hard to lose and takes YEARS to regain in someone new.
    BumMagnet BumMagnet 46-50, F Jul 14, 2014

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    Friendship

    Of all the things I lost, the friendship I had with my ex was, by far, the most precious thing I lost in life. Actually, I think destroyed would be a better word to describe what happened. I miss being able to talk freely and openly with her. She'd listen to what I have to say...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 27, 2011

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    HUH Miss the Ex !!

    I do not miss her for she needs help finding herself. What I do miss is the family get togethers. And the closeness.  She has a new beau. And wants no parts of me. I think she would like to see me dead...... Anything is possible...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    I Don't Miss Him, I Miss Me and My Self-respect

    There's no reason I should miss him.  He was a total a**.  Many people tell me he cheated on me.  In my heart I know it's not true, it would've been easier if it was.  Still, he did a lot of bad things. First off, it was very important for me to be a virgin...
    Marshmellowed Marshmellowed 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2008

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    Good While It Lasted.

    As much as he made me smile, he was not the one. It took me forever to realise that he is not perfect, that he is not 'the one' because he makes me feel worse rather than better about myself. It was always about competition when we were together, and even when we were only...
    lntel lntel 22-25 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    I miss our bond our connection the way he's the

    only man that I felt 100 percent with. It's going to take a long time to get over losing my best friend. I don't miss him or his terrible actions but I miss having him around or just being on the other line. So I just tell myself there's something better waiting when I'm ready...
    Rhone123 Rhone123 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2014

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    Don't Miss The Ex...but Miss The Future We Were Planning

    I really don't miss my ex. We were together for almost 4 years.  I thought I would but I grew up and he didn't. I am not in love with the person he is but only the person he was. Even pictures I have of him don't hurt any more. I am now dating a great guy but I ...
    kaybe kaybe 22-25, F May 3, 2010

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    Like To Have It Again

    When I first got married, and for quite a number of years after, my ex-wife and I had great sex. We went to movies together, to the zoo, museums, concerts, lots of things. I miss doing those things with a woman. I hope to regain that one day soon.
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 6, 2011

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    I don't miss her as if she was part of my life,

    but miss what we had, Cla****, soon, you'll be invited by me to join EP, and probably we could write our story!? Well, I'll tell just a brief part of us, and hopefully hope she joins too! It's doing almost 11 years that we've met, the time you started to be a neighbor to me, our...
    hdias1 hdias1 18-21, M Jan 29, 2014

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    Revisiting Vacation Destination But Will Remember Ex...should I Go?

     was with a gal for 2 years, broke up a year ago...she's now engaged after only 8 months with a new dude she met 1 month after me)...anyway, i'm out there joining a number of social groups trying to keep active and make new friends/activity buddies with** ie kayaking, tennis...
    canali canali 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    Relationships Cant Last On Laughs Alone.

    A little over a year and a half ago, I left my boyfriend at the time for one of mutual friends. It was a good decision, and I dont regret it. Infact, Im still with him today, we have been together longer than I was with the guy I broke up with him for. But Ill always...
    paixian paixian 18-21 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    Brandon..Come Back

    He held me like no other, With hands so soft and smooth And a scent, fresh, like morning dew. In his arms my pain did die Replaced with a steady calm, My heart beating slowly with his, Beating as one. A kiss of passion, Freed my mind No longer bound to guilt or shame Or petty...
    StarkButcher StarkButcher 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    Didn't realize it came up to four years of

    ending, our five years of being together.. I've already wasted over half my life I woulda laid down and died for you, I no longer cry for you No more pain, *****, you took me for granted, took my heart and ran it Straight into the planet, into the dirt, I can no longer stand...
    shexlove shexlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    Good Times

    It's not my ex boyfriend. It's my ex best friend. We've been each other's best friends for almost 4 years. And I moved away from her about a year ago. Last time we met everything changed. Her sister was getting married. Her cousins from America were there. The whole family was...
    Lola91 Lola91 16-17, F Aug 9, 2008

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    he can not talk to me for days, weeks even; but when we do talk it can be for hours. He will tell me he misses me and what not theeeeen I am like okay does he like me, am I just...
    LostLatina LostLatina 18-21, F Jan 3

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    My ex boyfriend was a guy called Iain he used to be my boyfriend at university that was until he went on a field trip and got some woman in the class to give him oral sex. when he...
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    I asked MM, "Do you love me? Truly.... tell me.. do you love me?" He looked at me and said, Fmina.. you asked me that question before. I can't say 'I love you' because if I...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    It was like 3 o'clock in the morning of January 25, 2006 when i got a call from home. It was my niece on the other line telling me Dad passed away ( accidentally drowned in the...
    Lakee112812 Lakee112812 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    My ex beat my on multiple occasions over nothing. He has his issues but I really don't care to explain away his behaviors anymore. All I know is that he brutalized me, over and...
    thirdgirl thirdgirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I guess it's the only time i'm posting this way about my ex. That once in a life time kind of love, love of my teens. I loved him so much. I've been intimate with guys after him...
    Xyanii Xyanii 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    CaliforniaCobra CaliforniaCobra 26-30 Jan 1

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    My ex left last March. It's coming up on a year and I am still a train wreck. We dated for three years, he said he wanted to father my children. We bought a house together. His...
    essie01 essie01 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    I finally slept with my (no longer) AP! It was so comfortable and natural and I did not feel awkward at all! I don't miss my ex yet, although we have been chatting a little bit...
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I had an account a few years ago that I had to delete because my ex-wife, who was my soon to be ex-wife at the time found it, and was trying to use it to extort money from me. I...
    justinlife justinlife 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    Me and the bae just broke up, I guess she's the ex-bae now. I don't know why though? I guess she thought I cheated on her with some girl. She said she had caught me holding this...
    Jr2299 Jr2299 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I was very close to one of my friends. She and I used to do everything together and I thought we had a good friendship. But another girl came into the picture. Suddenly, she didn't...
    Soccerkickin Soccerkickin 22-25, F Jan 7

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    Could be taking a chance by posting this but Idc at this point.... So I'm talking to this guy who is amazing in every way and has some faults but don't we all and I just don't know...
    ArtisticLife ArtisticLife 16-17, F Jan 11

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    I have a LOT to reveal about my relationship with my long distance boyfriend. I need ADVICE!!! So if you can, please read this. Thank you for your time. My boyfriend gave me the...
    kamilleredd kamilleredd 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    I missed my tram stop while reading someone's story on EP, now I have to take the long walk home, sigh!!!
    52hell 52hell 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I still miss my ex, but I'm actually feeling much better today. He's really an idiot for dumping me. He's 44, I'm 25 .. I was really his dream girl... At least that's what he said...
    kamilleredd kamilleredd 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I've been on a few dates since the break up. It didn't help at all... No matter how good those guys are I can never feel the same way I feel when I was with my ex with them. I...
    TwingleLittleStar TwingleLittleStar 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    So I agreed to watch my ex's cat while he was on a trip to help his girlfriend give birth. She was our cat before the divorce and I love her. Well, time is up and they came and...
    ranabp ranabp 41-45 Jan 12

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    Everyday i torture myself , i made some choices that affect me today. I thought it would be easy living with my ex , he tells me to be a woman and grow up,to face the truth. I don...
    grabamic828 grabamic828 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    My ex- I loved and still do but not as much We were together a month We grew distant for a couple days He broke up with me I felt like he rip out my heart stepped on it and...
    AloneGirl13 AloneGirl13 13-15, F Dec 30, 2014

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    I feel so lost right now. It's been four months since I've talked to my ex boyfriend and I don't know how to reach him. Our breakup was amicable. About six months ago, we agreed...
    Nekroerotic Nekroerotic 26-30, F Jan 6

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    There are so many...I keep finding these ones that say how I feel about missing my ex. :( I will put one of them here...I don't like the video for it (either one), but I like the...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 9

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