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I Dont Miss My Ex, I Miss What We Had

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    Summer 2014. I swear

    that was the best summer ever <3 I know we only dated for a month and a half but I miss your hugs I miss your kisses I miss your cuddles I miss your piggy back rides I miss you making me laugh all the time I miss our walks I miss seeing you every day and our long phone calls...
    Haylee13xo Haylee13xo 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    I was married 28 yrs

    and divorced. I can relate... You don't really miss the but rather the familiarity... That's hard to lose and takes YEARS to regain in someone new.
    BumMagnet BumMagnet 46-50, F Jul 14, 2014

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    Brandon..Come Back

    He held me like no other, With hands so soft and smooth And a scent, fresh, like morning dew. In his arms my pain did die Replaced with a steady calm, My heart beating slowly with his, Beating as one. A kiss of passion, Freed my mind No longer bound to guilt or shame Or petty...
    StarkButcher StarkButcher 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    Like To Have It Again

    When I first got married, and for quite a number of years after, my ex-wife and I had great sex. We went to movies together, to the zoo, museums, concerts, lots of things. I miss doing those things with a woman. I hope to regain that one day soon.
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 6, 2011

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    Good Times

    It's not my ex boyfriend. It's my ex best friend. We've been each other's best friends for almost 4 years. And I moved away from her about a year ago. Last time we met everything changed. Her sister was getting married. Her cousins from America were there. The whole family was...
    Lola91 Lola91 16-17, F Aug 9, 2008

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    Revisiting Vacation Destination But Will Remember Ex...should I Go?

     was with a gal for 2 years, broke up a year ago...she's now engaged after only 8 months with a new dude she met 1 month after me)...anyway, i'm out there joining a number of social groups trying to keep active and make new friends/activity buddies with** ie kayaking, tennis...
    canali canali 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    I don't miss her as if she was part of my life,

    but miss what we had, Cla****, soon, you'll be invited by me to join EP, and probably we could write our story!? Well, I'll tell just a brief part of us, and hopefully hope she joins too! It's doing almost 11 years that we've met, the time you started to be a neighbor to me, our...
    hdias1 hdias1 18-21, M Jan 29, 2014

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    I miss our bond our connection the way he's the

    only man that I felt 100 percent with. It's going to take a long time to get over losing my best friend. I don't miss him or his terrible actions but I miss having him around or just being on the other line. So I just tell myself there's something better waiting when I'm ready...
    Rhone123 Rhone123 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2014

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    Nope, Don't Miss Him.

    I do NOT miss my Ex. I thought I would, after 3 years of being in a relationship I really thought I would miss him, but I don't. I was always so afraid to leave him even though he was an *** because I didn't want to be alone and I thought I loved him. I wanted to post this...
    TriciaLicious TriciaLicious 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2010

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    Don't Miss The Ex...but Miss The Future We Were Planning

    I really don't miss my ex. We were together for almost 4 years.  I thought I would but I grew up and he didn't. I am not in love with the person he is but only the person he was. Even pictures I have of him don't hurt any more. I am now dating a great guy but I ...
    kaybe kaybe 22-25, F May 3, 2010

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    Friendship

    Of all the things I lost, the friendship I had with my ex was, by far, the most precious thing I lost in life. Actually, I think destroyed would be a better word to describe what happened. I miss being able to talk freely and openly with her. She'd listen to what I have to say...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 27, 2011

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    I Don't Miss Him, I Miss Me and My Self-respect

    There's no reason I should miss him.  He was a total a**.  Many people tell me he cheated on me.  In my heart I know it's not true, it would've been easier if it was.  Still, he did a lot of bad things. First off, it was very important for me to be a virgin...
    Marshmellowed Marshmellowed 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2008

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    Relationships Cant Last On Laughs Alone.

    A little over a year and a half ago, I left my boyfriend at the time for one of mutual friends. It was a good decision, and I dont regret it. Infact, Im still with him today, we have been together longer than I was with the guy I broke up with him for. But Ill always...
    paixian paixian 18-21 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    Didn't realize it came up to four years of

    ending, our five years of being together.. I've already wasted over half my life I woulda laid down and died for you, I no longer cry for you No more pain, *****, you took me for granted, took my heart and ran it Straight into the planet, into the dirt, I can no longer stand...
    shexlove shexlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    Good While It Lasted.

    As much as he made me smile, he was not the one. It took me forever to realise that he is not perfect, that he is not 'the one' because he makes me feel worse rather than better about myself. It was always about competition when we were together, and even when we were only...
    lntel lntel 22-25 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    HUH Miss the Ex !!

    I do not miss her for she needs help finding herself. What I do miss is the family get togethers. And the closeness.  She has a new beau. And wants no parts of me. I think she would like to see me dead...... Anything is possible...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F 31 mins ago

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    first of all, i can no longer drink caffeine due to anxiety. however, i miss going to coffee houses to hang out alone or with a friend. i did that so much when i was single. there...
    cosmosdrift cosmosdrift 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    For some reason I really want to talk to my ex AP today. I want to make sure he's ok and I remember how much I liked talking to him. I know it would do more harm then good though...
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84 26-30, F 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I met him in college and he was my best friend. I settled for his friendship, even though I secretly was in love with him. I think about him all the time and have had numerous...
    jaynepayne jaynepayne 31-35, F 19 hrs ago

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    I miss you a lot...I miss the talks we had, they always kept me entertained. We were friends, I was fine with that, you knew I wanted something more but we tried it and I screwed...
    Kbrabbit Kbrabbit 16-17, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    very much! I miss u, bestie : )
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 1 day ago

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    It's not my ex, it's my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, Kayla. She is completely out of her mind. In high school, she dated this kid and she got knocked up. She went through with an...
    coolestdweebyahknow coolestdweebyahknow 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    My ex and I were dating for 5 months and 9 days and I had already planned what I was going to do for our 6 month anniversary... See, we love "Nightmare Before Christmas"- that's...
    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh 16-17, T 2 days ago

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    what happened to dating before technology took over... what happened to getting to know someone... what happened to spending quality "face time" with someone. i miss seeing a...
    harleyblu73 harleyblu73 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have this ex who I only dated for like two weeks about three years ago. We broke it off cleanly and then "he" started messaging me about how he used me and frankly never actually...
    tinywoman tinywoman 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know it's been awhile since I've updated and I apologize for how long this is. I just need to get it all out. Telling the whole story seems like the best way to explain how I'm...
    Rosybottomz Rosybottomz 36-40, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    i moved there at 24, didnt know anybody, no job, basically no money, no prospects, didnt really know the area... all i knew is what i had learned when in the USAF and at Lowry.. So...
    mrawesome08755 mrawesome08755 46-50, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I thought he was the man I was going to spend my life with at 21 and 5 years into our relationship I knew that was no longer a possibility. Me and T. Had an amazing relationship...
    2015dao 2015dao 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ok. So last Halloween I invite my now ex to hangout with my friends. She's late, but we have a good time without her. Drinking partying. We went to Hollywood Blvd. My friends had...
    Spidey0 Spidey0 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    ikr.....my ex boyfriend from high school sent !e a msg on Facebook out of the blue! lol over the years we have been in and out of each others lives, usually when one of is is going...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 6 days ago

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    I need honest opinions. I don't need anyone to bash me or judge me. Just please put yourself in my shoes...this is a long one. I hooked up with a guy that I have had on and off...
    nh8907 nh8907 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Everything seemed simple back then, I was happy I lived at my grandparents house with my mother. Honestly if it weren't for my grandparents, I never would be close to guessing what...
    Jaylaska Jaylaska 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    A couple of years ago I divorced my now ex-husband. He cheated on me a year after we were married. Our relationship changed the day I caught him cheating and went downhill from...
    scifyblue scifyblue 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Relationship :: Rebound Relationship - Get Your Ex Back following your Rebound When people go through a breakup, you will find 4 classic mistakes they generate that will ruin...
    trwenke52 trwenke52 36-40, M a week ago

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    so my ex was extremely emotionally abusive. we were together for 2 years. his family saw he was abusive and always sided with me. I was very close with his dad and sisters. a month...
    pippalynne pippalynne 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    i miss my ex gf, we broken up 2 weeks ago bc of my trust issue. i hate myself for being like this but it isnt my fault for having these problems. in my past i gotten so badly hurt...
    LONELYGUY95 LONELYGUY95 18-21, M Aug 26

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    so I had a very bad break up with my ex recently. To be precise, it is already been two week that we both got separate without able to communicate. I still like this person. but...
    earlyday19 earlyday19 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    One in three women will experience violence/abuse from a man they know. And if you've ever been in an abusive relationship, you'll know it doesn't start out that way. It can feel...
    koh72 koh72 41-45, M 8 Responses Aug 25

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    I miss some of my childhood but most of it was very unhappy because I came from an abusive home. But I do miss mostly being ten-14 because that was when I got a little bit more...
    BunheadSalamander BunheadSalamander 16-17, F Aug 24

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    I can't sleep tomorrow school starts for my kids, intermediate and junior high. Every first day of school I would drop my kids off and go have coffee with my mom. I have been doing...
    Missingyou81 Missingyou81 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    Sooo, my ex-wife was unfaithful for roughly half our marriage(5 years total).. we have kids together, she actually left me and took the kids with her. Now she is getting remarried...
    ajmered1 ajmered1 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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