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I Dont Miss My Ex, I Miss What We Had

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    I don't miss her as if she was part of my life,

    but miss what we had, Cla****, soon, you'll be invited by me to join EP, and probably we could write our story!? Well, I'll tell just a brief part of us, and hopefully hope she joins too! It's doing almost 11 years that we've met, the time you started to be a neighbor to me, our...
    hdias1 hdias1 18-21, M Jan 29, 2014

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    Didn't realize it came up to four years of

    ending, our five years of being together.. I've already wasted over half my life I woulda laid down and died for you, I no longer cry for you No more pain, *****, you took me for granted, took my heart and ran it Straight into the planet, into the dirt, I can no longer stand...
    shexlove shexlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    Friendship

    Of all the things I lost, the friendship I had with my ex was, by far, the most precious thing I lost in life. Actually, I think destroyed would be a better word to describe what happened. I miss being able to talk freely and openly with her. She'd listen to what I have to say...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 27, 2011

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    Good While It Lasted.

    As much as he made me smile, he was not the one. It took me forever to realise that he is not perfect, that he is not 'the one' because he makes me feel worse rather than better about myself. It was always about competition when we were together, and even when we were only...
    lntel lntel 22-25 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    Nope, Don't Miss Him.

    I do NOT miss my Ex. I thought I would, after 3 years of being in a relationship I really thought I would miss him, but I don't. I was always so afraid to leave him even though he was an *** because I didn't want to be alone and I thought I loved him. I wanted to post this...
    TriciaLicious TriciaLicious 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2010

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    Relationships Cant Last On Laughs Alone.

    A little over a year and a half ago, I left my boyfriend at the time for one of mutual friends. It was a good decision, and I dont regret it. Infact, Im still with him today, we have been together longer than I was with the guy I broke up with him for. But Ill always...
    paixian paixian 18-21 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    Revisiting Vacation Destination But Will Remember Ex...should I Go?

     was with a gal for 2 years, broke up a year ago...she's now engaged after only 8 months with a new dude she met 1 month after me)...anyway, i'm out there joining a number of social groups trying to keep active and make new friends/activity buddies with** ie kayaking, tennis...
    canali canali 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    Like To Have It Again

    When I first got married, and for quite a number of years after, my ex-wife and I had great sex. We went to movies together, to the zoo, museums, concerts, lots of things. I miss doing those things with a woman. I hope to regain that one day soon.
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 6, 2011

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    I was married 28 yrs

    and divorced. I can relate... You don't really miss the but rather the familiarity... That's hard to lose and takes YEARS to regain in someone new.
    BumMagnet BumMagnet 46-50, F Jul 14, 2014

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    I miss our bond our connection the way he's the

    only man that I felt 100 percent with. It's going to take a long time to get over losing my best friend. I don't miss him or his terrible actions but I miss having him around or just being on the other line. So I just tell myself there's something better waiting when I'm ready...
    Rhone123 Rhone123 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2014

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    Brandon..Come Back

    He held me like no other, With hands so soft and smooth And a scent, fresh, like morning dew. In his arms my pain did die Replaced with a steady calm, My heart beating slowly with his, Beating as one. A kiss of passion, Freed my mind No longer bound to guilt or shame Or petty...
    StarkButcher StarkButcher 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    Summer 2014. I swear

    that was the best summer ever <3 I know we only dated for a month and a half but I miss your hugs I miss your kisses I miss your cuddles I miss your piggy back rides I miss you making me laugh all the time I miss our walks I miss seeing you every day and our long phone calls...
    Haylee13xo Haylee13xo 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    Good Times

    It's not my ex boyfriend. It's my ex best friend. We've been each other's best friends for almost 4 years. And I moved away from her about a year ago. Last time we met everything changed. Her sister was getting married. Her cousins from America were there. The whole family was...
    Lola91 Lola91 16-17, F Aug 9, 2008

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    I Don't Miss Him, I Miss Me and My Self-respect

    There's no reason I should miss him.  He was a total a**.  Many people tell me he cheated on me.  In my heart I know it's not true, it would've been easier if it was.  Still, he did a lot of bad things. First off, it was very important for me to be a virgin...
    Marshmellowed Marshmellowed 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2008

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    Don't Miss The Ex...but Miss The Future We Were Planning

    I really don't miss my ex. We were together for almost 4 years.  I thought I would but I grew up and he didn't. I am not in love with the person he is but only the person he was. Even pictures I have of him don't hurt any more. I am now dating a great guy but I ...
    kaybe kaybe 22-25, F May 3, 2010

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    HUH Miss the Ex !!

    I do not miss her for she needs help finding herself. What I do miss is the family get togethers. And the closeness.  She has a new beau. And wants no parts of me. I think she would like to see me dead...... Anything is possible...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    He was my best friend, we fought a lot, he helped me when I was down and I did the same for him. I met him at the most conflictive time of my life when I was 17 years old and was...
    Devilch Devilch 18-21, M Feb 18

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    I miss my friend Josh. He was one of the first people I met at that school. We always talked and I knew him really well. Then in fifth grade he left to live in Panama. I'm in...
    MsLyleDylandy MsLyleDylandy 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I've posted on here before and lately shy away from this sort of thing because when I am feeling down and need some sort of encouragement it tends to turn around and slap me while...
    LaGentilleDame LaGentilleDame 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I Miss The Relationship i have with my mother , I miss the memories we had before she meet him. I hate it when i see him trying to get her to forget what happened. And sometimes i...
    KaitlinDwan KaitlinDwan 13-15, F Jan 29

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    If you were to choose a song for your husband, your AP or ex AP what would it be? Have you ever truly listened to the words of a song someone has dedicated to you?! It's a part of...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 20 Responses a week ago

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    It was just sex. That is what the plan was anyway. We are both married, and yes, I know it's awful of us to seek comfort in each other, but we did. The first time we met for sex I...
    klady23 klady23 26-30, F 36 Responses 4 days ago

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    Has anyone remained as good friends with their AP after breaking up? We always had a much better non-physical connection. He always wanted to remain as good friends but I always...
    FleetingThots FleetingThots 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    "Sometimes you never really know how important a moment is until it becomes a memory." Growing up, I never really had a father figure. The closest person I had to a dad was my...
    queenmallow queenmallow 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    So this is going to be somewhat of a long story.. But I need to share with someone. Maybe sharing it will help me figure out where my heart lies. My ex an I broke up about 2 years...
    StephanieLynne1125 StephanieLynne1125 22-25, F Feb 6

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    Fluffy . . ..Remembering Bear years later i vowed not to have a pet ever again. My ex brought a cat home one day and of course failed. I did my best to try not accept her. The cat...
    Dreambuttterfly Dreambuttterfly 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 30

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    I’m a college freshman, and I can easily say that these first few months of my new life have been unbearable. My boyfriend and I dated for a year, and he was my best friend...
    lalarose lalarose 18-21, F Feb 1

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    Hey, i am a 24 year old working man with a baby, trouble is things didn't work out with my ex (babys mom) problems originated because i openly admit to liking or finding other...
    horgan90 horgan90 22-25, M Jan 30

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    Everyone knows what the hell I went to in this town. My ex ap wife and I had mutual friends close mutual friends so when everyone found out everyone was first completely shocked at...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    My brother had his two girls very close to around the time I was born. The oldest is four years younger than me and the second one is six years younger. They always lived near, or...
    j1494 j1494 18-21, F Feb 15

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    the problem is he was my best friend and then he wanted to become more than friends so he proposed.. i was already in love with him when we were just friends and when he proposed i...
    LoulouB80 LoulouB80 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Just under a year ago me and my now ex broke up because he had cheated on me and he was depressed... Over the past year we have struggled with keeping our friendship because of...
    catho catho 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 11

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    This is REALLY long, but I feel I have to share my experience. My fiance and I met when I was in 9th grade and he was in 10th grade. We went to the same high school and met through...
    NewMommy2015 NewMommy2015 18-21, F Feb 17

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    It wasn't a relationship kind of thing, I met him when I was going though a horrible time with my daughter's father, and he was going though a really tough time with his daughter's...
    Karmicjoy Karmicjoy 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I hate her, but I miss her.She was easy to talk to and fun to be around.She lost her sister when they were young and she still has a hard time dealing with it.She told me that she...
    vivad46 vivad46 26-30, F Feb 1

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    I hurt him more than anyone else? I hurt him?! His best friend turns my ex into a coke head. Friend helps ex hide it from me, even gave ex coke on our wedding day! Ex drifts...
    lovinlife81 lovinlife81 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I had a girlfriend (R). I loved her a lot and we did all kinds of krazy stuff together. She loved guitar, so I learned how to play one. One of the most memorable day that I...
    ArupDas20 ArupDas20 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    So my ex mm or whatever you want to call him. We haven't had any sexual contact since last May bc at the end of June he went distant for 6 weeks not sure why but he just bought a...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F Feb 5

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    Yesterday i spoke to my ex. Talking about our boys. She mentioned that the boys were eager to give Valentines day cards. Then she said we had some really great ones, didn't we...
    jaml jaml 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 13

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    it feels horrible to not be able to get over my ex. he left me for his ex that had been with him for about almost 6 years. i understand that they went through a lot. i don't...
    sandibella sandibella 18-21, F Feb 18

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    I remember my very first memory of my mother,I was about 3 she was leaving me alone with the girl that lived down the street (my babysitter) for what she said would be a couple...
    harmonyk harmonyk 18-21, F Feb 3

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    Well I anticipated and gave myself permission for this to happen. Just being realistic. I think missing my affair partner has an addiction aspect to it. And as with any addiction...
    Shineonblueyes Shineonblueyes 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    I think that's what we are. Although he said we weren't in a relationship to begin with. We were both faithful so far as I know. I missed the call yesterday. Didn't have the...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I fell in love with his sweet side without remembering to keep my guards up. The day I found out that he was unfaithful really did killed a part of me. I will never understand why...
    kaceeeytl kaceeeytl 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I didn't know if it was just a dream or it was a mix of a nightmare. To be able to see him in person, and the fact that he was happy and didn't need me anymore. I remember it...
    JuicyLuck JuicyLuck 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    I have been into both offline and online love.. great part was both though i was great for them.. sad part is both thought i needed to move on and find someone awesome.. am i...
    sunnsood sunnsood 31-35, M Jan 30

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    totally belong in this group I am the poster child for this group the CEO ...I finally lowered the guillotine on my rotting passionless relationship with my now ex fake husband I...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F Feb 1

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