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I Dont Miss My Ex, I Miss What We Had

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    HUH Miss the Ex !!

    I do not miss her for she needs help finding herself. What I do miss is the family get togethers. And the closeness.  She has a new beau. And wants no parts of me. I think she would like to see me dead...... Anything is possible...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 31, 2009

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    I miss our bond our connection the way he's the

    only man that I felt 100 percent with. It's going to take a long time to get over losing my best friend. I don't miss him or his terrible actions but I miss having him around or just being on the other line. So I just tell myself there's something better waiting when I'm ready...
    Rhone123 Rhone123 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2014

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    Summer 2014. I swear

    that was the best summer ever <3 I know we only dated for a month and a half but I miss your hugs I miss your kisses I miss your cuddles I miss your piggy back rides I miss you making me laugh all the time I miss our walks I miss seeing you every day and our long phone calls...
    Haylee13xo Haylee13xo 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    I Don't Miss Him, I Miss Me and My Self-respect

    There's no reason I should miss him.  He was a total a**.  Many people tell me he cheated on me.  In my heart I know it's not true, it would've been easier if it was.  Still, he did a lot of bad things. First off, it was very important for me to be a virgin...
    Marshmellowed Marshmellowed 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2008

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    Nope, Don't Miss Him.

    I do NOT miss my Ex. I thought I would, after 3 years of being in a relationship I really thought I would miss him, but I don't. I was always so afraid to leave him even though he was an *** because I didn't want to be alone and I thought I loved him. I wanted to post this...
    TriciaLicious TriciaLicious 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2010

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    I don't miss her as if she was part of my life,

    but miss what we had, Cla****, soon, you'll be invited by me to join EP, and probably we could write our story!? Well, I'll tell just a brief part of us, and hopefully hope she joins too! It's doing almost 11 years that we've met, the time you started to be a neighbor to me, our...
    hdias1 hdias1 18-21, M Jan 29, 2014

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    Didn't realize it came up to four years of

    ending, our five years of being together.. I've already wasted over half my life I woulda laid down and died for you, I no longer cry for you No more pain, *****, you took me for granted, took my heart and ran it Straight into the planet, into the dirt, I can no longer stand...
    shexlove shexlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    Friendship

    Of all the things I lost, the friendship I had with my ex was, by far, the most precious thing I lost in life. Actually, I think destroyed would be a better word to describe what happened. I miss being able to talk freely and openly with her. She'd listen to what I have to say...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 27, 2011

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    Brandon..Come Back

    He held me like no other, With hands so soft and smooth And a scent, fresh, like morning dew. In his arms my pain did die Replaced with a steady calm, My heart beating slowly with his, Beating as one. A kiss of passion, Freed my mind No longer bound to guilt or shame Or petty...
    StarkButcher StarkButcher 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    Revisiting Vacation Destination But Will Remember Ex...should I Go?

     was with a gal for 2 years, broke up a year ago...she's now engaged after only 8 months with a new dude she met 1 month after me)...anyway, i'm out there joining a number of social groups trying to keep active and make new friends/activity buddies with** ie kayaking, tennis...
    canali canali 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    Relationships Cant Last On Laughs Alone.

    A little over a year and a half ago, I left my boyfriend at the time for one of mutual friends. It was a good decision, and I dont regret it. Infact, Im still with him today, we have been together longer than I was with the guy I broke up with him for. But Ill always...
    paixian paixian 18-21 1 Response Oct 27, 2008

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    I was married 28 yrs

    and divorced. I can relate... You don't really miss the but rather the familiarity... That's hard to lose and takes YEARS to regain in someone new.
    BumMagnet BumMagnet 46-50, F Jul 14, 2014

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    Don't Miss The Ex...but Miss The Future We Were Planning

    I really don't miss my ex. We were together for almost 4 years.  I thought I would but I grew up and he didn't. I am not in love with the person he is but only the person he was. Even pictures I have of him don't hurt any more. I am now dating a great guy but I ...
    kaybe kaybe 22-25, F May 3, 2010

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    Like To Have It Again

    When I first got married, and for quite a number of years after, my ex-wife and I had great sex. We went to movies together, to the zoo, museums, concerts, lots of things. I miss doing those things with a woman. I hope to regain that one day soon.
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 6, 2011

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    Good Times

    It's not my ex boyfriend. It's my ex best friend. We've been each other's best friends for almost 4 years. And I moved away from her about a year ago. Last time we met everything changed. Her sister was getting married. Her cousins from America were there. The whole family was...
    Lola91 Lola91 16-17, F Aug 9, 2008

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    Good While It Lasted.

    As much as he made me smile, he was not the one. It took me forever to realise that he is not perfect, that he is not 'the one' because he makes me feel worse rather than better about myself. It was always about competition when we were together, and even when we were only...
    lntel lntel 22-25 1 Response Mar 22, 2012

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    I tend to catch myself thinking about my ex best friend a lot and it always seems to upset me. It somewhat feels like I went through a tough breakup. A mass amount of places, foods...
    dfe213 dfe213 18-21, F May 15

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    I had a best friend who was like a sister to me, she even lived with me for a period of time. We were inseparable. And then I fell in love with and married her ex... we havn't...
    GoldenArrowGirl GoldenArrowGirl 26-30, F 1 Response May 15

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    It has been one of the most difficult losses for me because there is no reason and no conclusion. A close friend, who was like a sister to me, is now no more than a stranger. We...
    saltwaterrose saltwaterrose 26-30, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Since I've graduated from college and I'm living with my parents and working a job that pays just over minimum wage and I don't really have any friends that I see very often these...
    DoctorOBlivion DoctorOBlivion 26-30, M 1 Response May 14

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    I miss my friend who has past away from cancer we were like same pea in the same pod and had so many plans but she left before we had the chance to do some of them.
    snowcop snowcop 46-50, F May 15

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    good I miss her so much I miss thee days also
    rosegogy rosegogy 26-30, F May 18

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    I had this one great best friend that left me hanging. I miss her so much. I want her back but she's already tired being my best friend. Am I not good enough?
    Rose99228 Rose99228 16-17, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Its one of those things that always happens. Friends who were once inseparable drift apart. Life gets in the way; work, partners, distance... Any number of factors. Its part of...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 1 Response May 17

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    I had the best friend ever.. She was more like my diary, my pillow to lay all my secrets to, my workout buddy, my life.. Now its all gone.. She moved on and i guess i just cant...
    TheLeftBehind TheLeftBehind 18-21, M 2 Responses May 16

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    I thought my high school "bestie" would have been my friend forever & probably my maid of honor when I get married. Life definitely teaches you the lessons you need, especially...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 15

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    We were supposed to go to Harvard together, now I'm stuck sitting alone at UCL. I refused to attend the best college in the world because it reminded me too much of what a sucky...
    LostEmeraldEyes LostEmeraldEyes 18-21, F 1 Response May 16

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    This time it's an EP friend; however, it's not a friend who's no longer on EP, not this time. We first met two weeks ago, and she fell head over heels for me. I was so flattered...
    DoctorOBlivion DoctorOBlivion 26-30, M 2 Responses May 14

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    My best friend for all of middle school was the best person i had ever met in my life. However, i told lies and talked about her behind her back to make friends with a cooler girl...
    bythebeardofmoses bythebeardofmoses 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

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    we were 8th grade and he was strange weirdo kid with a giant imagination. we had some good times
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 1 Response May 15

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    I was at a college party during Halloween with a group of friends. I ended up seeing a guy (we'll call him Jake) I knew at the party and we had promised to smoke one day together...
    Nohcidrac1 Nohcidrac1 18-21 16 hrs ago

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    I'm trying to be strong and move forward but I keep thinking about what had happened between my ex and I. When we first started dating, he would tell me stories about the girls he...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 Response May 8

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    don’t even know where to start with this, but this is for me so what the hell about grammar and what not. On the 29th of October 2014 my life changed forever, maybe make that...
    thingsalright thingsalright 22-25, F 2 Responses May 5

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    A while ago when I was 21. I was convinced to share this as I did not join EP for anything sexual but as she intelligently added, it's a part of EP and our lives, why not share it...
    Golfknar Golfknar 36-40, M 1 Response May 9

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    I used to wonder this all the time, and then I found out. Earlier this year, I ended up in a hospital for making an attempt on my life. I went completely radio silent on my friends...
    sullygirl611 sullygirl611 18-21, F 2 Responses May 3

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    as it says I miss my grandpa, I miss when I you to stay at their home and he'd wake up very early I'd smell the coffee that was brewing and the food that was cooking, we would eat...
    KValentine17 KValentine17 22-25, M 2 Responses May 1

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    At 36 weeks and 5 days I went in for my regular NS testing - low fluid level and my littke one was breech. Well, my fluid levels had once again dropped from a 6 to a 5 (6 is low...
    thejoneses thejoneses 26-30, F 2 Responses May 14

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    I really hope that ******** or bar or whatever had your attention during mass and called you away immediately so no time to enjoy your son's 8th grade graduation is worth it.
    Gwall1234 Gwall1234 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am nearing the end of my marriage as my divorce is only waiting for a court date. My wife is buying stuff for her new house that she is getting with a boyfriend she has been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 9

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    We've been separated for over 3 years. She uses our kids as weapons not letting me see or talk to them for months at a time but for some stupid reason I woke up this morning...
    Techtonic Techtonic 26-30, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    So, I guess I've been pretty ashamed about contacting my AP. It had been three weeks, and the longest we've ever gone without any contact, and I caved. I unblocked him and then a...
    Rosybottomz Rosybottomz 31-35, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am struggling with the decision to put my cat Sam to sleep. he's 17, having some health problems, probably some dementia, and just sleeps all day. I can see the signs that...
    anderson77 anderson77 41-45 4 hrs ago

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    i can't deal with my mom anymore. i get screamed at by her every single day. The worst part is that it is always over something stupid. i cry almost everyday because of my own...
    anxiety13 anxiety13 13-15, F 12 mins ago

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