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I Don't "Need" Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 55 People

    Not Completely!!

     i mean i suppose we all need some amount of sex to a certain extent, but for me, sex just isnt all that important than it would be to some people!!! im not the type of guy that would just go out to a bar or a club, pick up some woman & go home and have sex, like lots of...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    But I Do "Need" Love

    I need the intimacy to sex that love can bring. I need the cuddling, soft pillow talk. I want the total mindblowing sex too..........But I could live without it. I can't live without the rest though. It's lonely here & I need someone to love freely & with all of me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 13, 2009

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    Nope

    I've been a virgin for almost 20 years now...and I'm not dead am I?  I'm not sick am I?  Sex obviously isn't necessary for survival, or else I would be dead! Sure, I like to think that I'll have sex sometime in my life.  But it's not a priority.  I'm sure it...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 84 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    No Need For Sex.

    SEX? Never had it. Don't miss it. Don't want it. Don't get it. I'm perfectly fine the way that I am. I like myself and I wouldn't want to change. The joy, clarity, and peace of mind that comes from pure living is enough to fill up any emptiness in my life...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    Sexual Desires...

    Of which, I have none. I don't think I really ever had any so called sexual desires...I can't even find myself thinking about such a topic. I suppose, I don't have much grounds to say this on, considering my only experience with the matter wasn't exactly...pleasant, shall we say...
    Chasing4flowers Chasing4flowers 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    I Just Don't Care About It

    It's not something I think about, or crave like most people seem to. I know I could live my life to the end perfectly happy and fulfilled without it, and not even thinking twice about it. I don't feel like I need it at all. I'm not the type to see someone "attractive" and start...
    LoneWolfWanderer LoneWolfWanderer 18-21, F Oct 14, 2011

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    But I Do Need

    the love of another person thatw ants to share life hand in hand and walking side by side the rest of life
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jul 5, 2011

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    Why I Do Not Need Sex

    I was 45 when I started dating again. I met many men. One of them was a 60 year old well-educated, very attractive and very fit, tall man. He told me a lot what was on his mind. Mainly 22 year old pretty girls. Once he asked me: "Who would you do and who would you be in love with...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    My Experience With Sex

    the last time i had sex was 10 years ago. since than i haven't ever really wanted to have sex. i understand the reason to have sex, and i do eventually want to have sex again. just not anytime soon.
    Michaelthesoldier Michaelthesoldier 22-25, M Nov 28, 2009

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    I Can Take It Or Leave It

    I loved it in my late teens and early twenties. Now that I'm older I would much rather relax and spend time doing other things. I still love to touch and be touched, kiss and be kissed and I'm very affectionate and romantic. But sex every day? Been there. Done with that. But hell...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M Apr 14, 2009

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    Look At That

    ropin texan you're the only member of this group. thats proof enough for me, clearly you need sex, or atleast everyone but you does......
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    Sex Was Perverted to Me At a Young Age

    My story is probably very familiar to some people.  I was forced to perform certain sex acts as a young child (age 7) with a fiends father. I never told anyone until I got married at 23. He knew before he married me that I hated sex and didn't care for it.   After...
    irishgurl01 irishgurl01 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2009

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    I've Come This Far...

    I've gone 19+ years without it.  Yes, urges come and go and I take care of them as they come, but sometimes it would probably nice to have sex, but I can wait.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F Feb 25, 2009

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    Not That It's Anyones Business But....i Think I've Had Too Much Sex

    Truth is I've had sex all my life.  By the time I was 15yrs old I never stopped.  I went from one relationship to the next (not the best thing to do).  The longest between any relationship was 3 months.  But that's not to say I didn't have any...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 25 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    Its Not A Nessesity

    Its is a craving that our flesh has, not my mind. I have never had sex. If i met a realy nice girl and she never wanted to have sex then I wouldnt not be with her because of that. I truly believe a relationship with another person means more than sex. altho, saying that gets me...
    Krie Krie 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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