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I Don't "Need" Sex

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    I've Come This Far...

    I've gone 19+ years without it.  Yes, urges come and go and I take care of them as they come, but sometimes it would probably nice to have sex, but I can wait.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F Feb 25, 2009

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    Nope

    I've been a virgin for almost 20 years now...and I'm not dead am I?  I'm not sick am I?  Sex obviously isn't necessary for survival, or else I would be dead! Sure, I like to think that I'll have sex sometime in my life.  But it's not a priority.  I'm sure it...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 84 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    No Need For Sex.

    SEX? Never had it. Don't miss it. Don't want it. Don't get it. I'm perfectly fine the way that I am. I like myself and I wouldn't want to change. The joy, clarity, and peace of mind that comes from pure living is enough to fill up any emptiness in my life...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    Its Not A Nessesity

    Its is a craving that our flesh has, not my mind. I have never had sex. If i met a realy nice girl and she never wanted to have sex then I wouldnt not be with her because of that. I truly believe a relationship with another person means more than sex. altho, saying that gets me...
    Krie Krie 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    Look At That

    ropin texan you're the only member of this group. thats proof enough for me, clearly you need sex, or atleast everyone but you does......
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    My Experience With Sex

    the last time i had sex was 10 years ago. since than i haven't ever really wanted to have sex. i understand the reason to have sex, and i do eventually want to have sex again. just not anytime soon.
    Michaelthesoldier Michaelthesoldier 22-25, M Nov 28, 2009

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    Why I Do Not Need Sex

    I was 45 when I started dating again. I met many men. One of them was a 60 year old well-educated, very attractive and very fit, tall man. He told me a lot what was on his mind. Mainly 22 year old pretty girls. Once he asked me: "Who would you do and who would you be in love with...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2011

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    I Can Take It Or Leave It

    I loved it in my late teens and early twenties. Now that I'm older I would much rather relax and spend time doing other things. I still love to touch and be touched, kiss and be kissed and I'm very affectionate and romantic. But sex every day? Been there. Done with that. But hell...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M Apr 14, 2009

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    But I Do "Need" Love

    I need the intimacy to sex that love can bring. I need the cuddling, soft pillow talk. I want the total mindblowing sex too..........But I could live without it. I can't live without the rest though. It's lonely here & I need someone to love freely & with all of me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 13, 2009

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    Not Completely!!

     i mean i suppose we all need some amount of sex to a certain extent, but for me, sex just isnt all that important than it would be to some people!!! im not the type of guy that would just go out to a bar or a club, pick up some woman & go home and have sex, like lots of...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    I Just Don't Care About It

    It's not something I think about, or crave like most people seem to. I know I could live my life to the end perfectly happy and fulfilled without it, and not even thinking twice about it. I don't feel like I need it at all. I'm not the type to see someone "attractive" and start...
    LoneWolfWanderer LoneWolfWanderer 18-21, F Oct 14, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Sorry guys, i don't go for SEX talks and HORNY stuffs. It's not a bad thing though. Call it boring and out but it's just not my thing so please don't count me in. You are just...
    hollyhelly hollyhelly 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    My mom is Chinese, my dad is Indian and I was born in UK but half raised in Malaysia where my parents are from. However until REALLY recently I never used to find myself sexy (even...
    littlesaiyan littlesaiyan 22-25, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I need more cockkk too I'm a slutt
    sluttykimm sluttykimm 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 3

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    Unless you want to be a problem, then you got yourself a problem! Some fools need to have problems, I hope it's well worth your time!
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Omg, they always say women can have sex anytime no matter how ugly they are. I am nowhere near ugly and the last time I had sex, I cannot even remember when!
    carlyistortious carlyistortious 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 23

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    I love sex ! Hardcore rough sex ! Sooo what I'm only ******* human !
    lou1221 lou1221 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I sex would be nice right about now.
    VGod888 VGod888 18-21, M Mar 27

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    My boyfriend is a Virgin and won't have sex with me
    idkifnormal idkifnormal 13-15, F 9 Responses Apr 2

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    Same here. Never enough for me. I have a high sex drive.
    Neveknow Neveknow 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    It could never be enough! you have only one life and im living it to the max ;)
    cindy97 cindy97 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Dating is weird for me because I have never done it before. I have been in several relationships, none of which started out with dating. All of them started out as friendships and...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't think will, I know I won't. If that's all you have, your pretty damn one dimensional, abusive, and boring as hell. I don't need nor want those people as friends. I didn't...
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Before you msg me or add me please take note! I'm a married women who really does love & respect my hubby. I'm not here for your entertainment! I'm here to make friends & converse...
    FeelAlone75 FeelAlone75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I know I am a good person. I am always there for people when they need me. I go out of my way to help anyone, I do this on a daily basis. I am always supportive and try to give the...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Somedays i feel attractive Even sexy. But most of the time i don't feel attractive. I need new clothes, i need to work out, and i need to start eating healthy...all these skinny...
    stinabobina stinabobina 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    😩😩😩 if I don't have sex soon I'm going to go CRAZY.
    lolabaybee lolabaybee 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    I need intimacy, it's been nearly 3 months and all I want is just that feeling of heat. A body, heart to heart, chest to chest. You move and your stuck, clammy, sweaty. I don't...
    SpudKat SpudKat 18-21 1 Response Mar 24

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    I used to be really close to two of my friends last year, and I could tell them everything. I told one of them that I was lesbian and she completely accepted me for who I was. But...
    Randomcityify Randomcityify 13-15, F Mar 27

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    Who can rplay well? I mean proper quick reply rplay? If you can add me or let me add u, if not don't reply to this. No time wasters.
    Ballos Ballos 31-35, F 13 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have a date tonight, lucky guy I know lol, but I've really been asking myself what the point is in spending around £50 each on a night out for it to end with us arranging to do...
    iBabe iBabe 22-25, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    I don't really get a long with most gay men that much. I find them very childish and self-centered in many ways. I see a great many with alcohol and drug problem and other problems...
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Woke up and was so comfortable I didn't feel like getting out of bed... Until my husband came in the room and started to massage me..... But as always it lead to his penis hard and...
    chellabella76 chellabella76 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I'm am shocked by how many people here use this for this matter, its disgusting perverts are sick people along with people who post nude pictures go join a **** site jeez this is a...
    Nny7 Nny7 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I may share some quirky & some other random encounters that I have been through in my life-time & some that are motivated by instantaneous thoughts...but this does not mean that Im...
    cycloneange cycloneange 70+, F Apr 11

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    I don't feel guilty that I had sex with a woman because my husband won't have sex with me!!!!! You think he is getting it from somewhere else besides himself in the shower?
    ob1knob1 ob1knob1 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Apologies in advance: this is a longer rant. Most sitcoms disturb & anger me because much of the humor is mean-spirited & involves humiliating other people. I like witty, creative...
    LuminousMotes LuminousMotes 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    So, I never really felt girls had to shave, because my mom was a hippy. I shaved, because I wanted to try things out and now I kinda don't want to. I like to shave my armpits and...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I don’t have a normal eating disorder like anorexia or bulimia or even binge eating. I guess I have ednos. I was my lowest weight in awhile at 108 a few days ago and it felt...
    8ecc4 8ecc4 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    So if you don't want x don't bother me
    joe2874 joe2874 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    So I have had some stories about how men disrespect women I figure I should state this one. There are some women out there, who use their assets to use good men. They use them for...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 4

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    I like guys, but then I also find myself attracted to women who are really attractive and act/dress like guys too. But then I think about the fact that she's a woman and I'm like...
    adorea adorea 70+, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I hate how others judge you for being gay or bi. Or black or white. Or English or American. Were all people, why don't others see that? I'm bi myself but i just don't understand...
    Wolves13 Wolves13 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi. I'm not sure what I'm doing here - but I do know I'm tired of I don't know. That's been the answer since I was a kid. Seriously. My mother is a professional cook - and is...
    BariSag BariSag 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    It sickens me. Especially how they bring religion into it and say that God hates gays, like really? If someone grows up feeling that way, and likes the same sex, LEAVE THEM ALONE...
    levanlee levanlee 18-21, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    They are heartless humans ******* one to other they say they have feelings then why do they do bad for other being.selfishness Money Sex Hungry...
    vilgaxabhi129 vilgaxabhi129 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    have sex with someone... it's really not that hard to say no. Don't just say yes to **** them over later.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 24

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    Women are human beings. Women are not just for sex. Women have brains. Women are not just faithless ho's who cheat on every man that's around them. Stop generalizing. I am so sick...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 16 Responses Mar 25

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    For over 6yrs now I have been meeting muslims and I am a xtian. To cut the long story short, I'm soooo confused now cause I had a 9 month relationship with a guy, like we just...
    Deeyor Deeyor 22-25 Mar 26

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    I don't want photos of your **** you know?and me being gay doesn't mean if i try yours i'll change change my mind.
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I get odd requests from people who I have never heard of before and when I go to check their profile I am shocked. So if you are a bit of a bad hat and you want to add me,please...
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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