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I Don't "Need" Sex

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    My Experience With Sex - the last time i had sex was 10 years ago. since than i haven't ever really wanted to have sex. i understand the reason to have sex, and i do eventually...
    Michaelthesoldier Michaelthesoldier 22-25, M Nov 28, 2009

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    Nope - I've been a virgin for almost 20 years now...and I'm not dead am I?  I'm not sick am I?  Sex obviously isn't necessary for survival, or else I would be dead! Sure...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 84 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    I Can Take It Or Leave It - I loved it in my late teens and early twenties. Now that I'm older I would much rather relax and spend time doing other things. I still love to touch...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M Apr 14, 2009

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    Its Not A Nessesity - Its is a craving that our flesh has, not my mind. I have never had sex. If i met a realy nice girl and she never wanted to have sex then I wouldnt not be with...
    Krie Krie 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    Not Completely!! -  i mean i suppose we all need some amount of sex to a certain extent, but for me, sex just isnt all that important than it would be to some people!!! im not...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    I've Come This Far... - I've gone 19+ years without it.  Yes, urges come and go and I take care of them as they come, but sometimes it would probably nice to have sex, but I...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F Feb 25, 2009

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    Why I Do Not Need Sex - I was 45 when I started dating again. I met many men. One of them was a 60 year old well-educated, very attractive and very fit, tall man. He told me a lot...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2011

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    I Just Don't Care About It - It's not something I think about, or crave like most people seem to. I know I could live my life to the end perfectly happy and fulfilled without it...
    LoneWolfWanderer LoneWolfWanderer 18-21, F Oct 14, 2011

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    But I Do "Need" Love - I need the intimacy to sex that love can bring. I need the cuddling, soft pillow talk. I want the total mindblowing sex too..........But I could live without...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 13, 2009

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    Look At That - ropin texan you're the only member of this group. thats proof enough for me, clearly you need sex, or atleast everyone but you does......
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    No Need For Sex. - SEX? Never had it. Don't miss it. Don't want it. Don't get it. I'm perfectly fine the way that I am. I like myself and I wouldn't want to change...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    Same here. Never enough for me. I have a high sex drive.
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    Wolves13 Wolves13 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    vilgaxabhi129 vilgaxabhi129 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    have sex with someone... it's really not that hard to say no. Don't just say yes to **** them over later.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 24

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    Women are human beings. Women are not just for sex. Women have brains. Women are not just faithless ho's who cheat on every man that's around them. Stop generalizing. I am so sick...
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