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I Don't "Need" Sex

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    Not Completely!!

     i mean i suppose we all need some amount of sex to a certain extent, but for me, sex just isnt all that important than it would be to some people!!! im not the type of guy that would just go out to a bar or a club, pick up some woman & go home and have sex, like lots of...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    Sex Was Perverted to Me At a Young Age

    My story is probably very familiar to some people.  I was forced to perform certain sex acts as a young child (age 7) with a fiends father. I never told anyone until I got married at 23. He knew before he married me that I hated sex and didn't care for it.   After...
    irishgurl01 irishgurl01 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2009

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    Look At That

    ropin texan you're the only member of this group. thats proof enough for me, clearly you need sex, or atleast everyone but you does......
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 23, 2008

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    Its Not A Nessesity

    Its is a craving that our flesh has, not my mind. I have never had sex. If i met a realy nice girl and she never wanted to have sex then I wouldnt not be with her because of that. I truly believe a relationship with another person means more than sex. altho, saying that gets me...
    Krie Krie 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    No Need For Sex.

    SEX? Never had it. Don't miss it. Don't want it. Don't get it. I'm perfectly fine the way that I am. I like myself and I wouldn't want to change. The joy, clarity, and peace of mind that comes from pure living is enough to fill up any emptiness in my life...
    MissDaphne05EV MissDaphne05EV 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    I Can Take It Or Leave It

    I loved it in my late teens and early twenties. Now that I'm older I would much rather relax and spend time doing other things. I still love to touch and be touched, kiss and be kissed and I'm very affectionate and romantic. But sex every day? Been there. Done with that. But hell...
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M Apr 14, 2009

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    But I Do "Need" Love

    I need the intimacy to sex that love can bring. I need the cuddling, soft pillow talk. I want the total mindblowing sex too..........But I could live without it. I can't live without the rest though. It's lonely here & I need someone to love freely & with all of me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 13, 2009

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    Not That It's Anyones Business But....i Think I've Had Too Much Sex

    Truth is I've had sex all my life.  By the time I was 15yrs old I never stopped.  I went from one relationship to the next (not the best thing to do).  The longest between any relationship was 3 months.  But that's not to say I didn't have any...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 25 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    But I Do Need

    the love of another person thatw ants to share life hand in hand and walking side by side the rest of life
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jul 5, 2011

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    Nope

    I've been a virgin for almost 20 years now...and I'm not dead am I?  I'm not sick am I?  Sex obviously isn't necessary for survival, or else I would be dead! Sure, I like to think that I'll have sex sometime in my life.  But it's not a priority.  I'm sure it...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 84 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    My Experience With Sex

    the last time i had sex was 10 years ago. since than i haven't ever really wanted to have sex. i understand the reason to have sex, and i do eventually want to have sex again. just not anytime soon.
    Michaelthesoldier Michaelthesoldier 22-25, M Nov 28, 2009

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    I Just Don't Care About It

    It's not something I think about, or crave like most people seem to. I know I could live my life to the end perfectly happy and fulfilled without it, and not even thinking twice about it. I don't feel like I need it at all. I'm not the type to see someone "attractive" and start...
    LoneWolfWanderer LoneWolfWanderer 18-21, F Oct 14, 2011

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    Why I Do Not Need Sex

    I was 45 when I started dating again. I met many men. One of them was a 60 year old well-educated, very attractive and very fit, tall man. He told me a lot what was on his mind. Mainly 22 year old pretty girls. Once he asked me: "Who would you do and who would you be in love with...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    I've Come This Far...

    I've gone 19+ years without it.  Yes, urges come and go and I take care of them as they come, but sometimes it would probably nice to have sex, but I can wait.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F Feb 25, 2009

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    Sexual Desires...

    Of which, I have none. I don't think I really ever had any so called sexual desires...I can't even find myself thinking about such a topic. I suppose, I don't have much grounds to say this on, considering my only experience with the matter wasn't exactly...pleasant, shall we say...
    Chasing4flowers Chasing4flowers 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    I'm a woman who is pretty content in life. I don't need a man to make my life "complete." I'm a woman on a mission to become more successful in life, travel more, live such a way...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I most certainly do not need that stuff to enjoy my life. I'm not against those who party, depending on there preference, some things I have a zero tolerence for.. I'm a very...
    TheBeastsPenetratingBlade TheBeastsPenetratingBlade 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I hate people who use and lie and manipulate to get sex, people like that think there are so special and the truth is there not! The only part of them that was half decent was the...
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I am a person who believes that sexuality doesn't matter and when I hear someone being disrespectful towards gays, bisexuals (homophobic) I instantly feel the need to defend the...
    MemoriesLieWithinUs MemoriesLieWithinUs 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    Don't we all? Sext plus everyday conversations is a great time. Let's have some fun!
    hotboston hotboston 31-35, M Aug 5

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    Lol, latley ive noticed how some guys have been labelling girls as "vvhores" or "*******" to the point its rather absurd. Just because a girl shares something thats related to a...
    WhereWeBegin WhereWeBegin 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I literally get it if you don't agree with lgbt etcs but do you really need to like shove your hatred in everyone's face then you use the "sin" excuse i mean why?? there's a lot...
    rsddhj rsddhj 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I once had a boyfriend, but I broke up with him after I saw it was obviously not working. I used to hate being single, but now I don't mind. My boyfriend didn't understand that to...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F Aug 10

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    I've been crushing on her for a year. She's this strong, independent 21, almost 22 year old girl that caught my attention the second I walked into my college class I had with her...
    Taylor1993 Taylor1993 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    I don't wear panties most of the time, unless I had a skirt on I'm not to that level. It feels sexy and usually my panties seem to have extra material ( must need better brands).
    ElleFarah ElleFarah 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I don't have anyone I could talk to, but I am dying for sex. I was sex deprived as a kid, because my parents controlled my life too much. They consider sex as a kid of sin. In the...
    pblack pblack 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring...
    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I'm not here to talk about sex. I'm here to make friends and talk to new people. If all you want to talk about is sex, don't bother messaging me. I think it's gross to talk about...
    Kaytee120 Kaytee120 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    My life is hell and horrible : read if you dare I'm in my forties lonely depressed and don't have many friends I relocated to try and better my life most of the friends that I had...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    This are different types of bullying. I was bullied by other kids before I even started school. Mostly after I started school. I never knew why. I assumed they just "saw" something...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I like Dylan so much. It's like were so compatible and I think he's cute and has a fun personality. I told him how I felt about him, about some previous relationships I have had...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Like this morning. I received a request for a daddy daughter roleplay with a strict daddy. It was going well until there was a hint of something inappropriate and we had an...
    roleplayerjust4fun roleplayerjust4fun 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    Pleeeeeeeease don't message me with **** stuff . I'm here just to write about my feelings , I'm not here for cyber sex or sex chat or any of that crap . Good friends are always...
    Selma40 Selma40 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I'm not into sexual conversations with nasty immature men. I came to EP to find people with similar ideas, concerns, interests, and etc. So please don't waste my time or yours! Not...
    Misspurple Misspurple 31-35, F Aug 9

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    I was introduced to this guy at a town street fair the other night. We chatted and had fun. I don't know many people in the area, but the ones I do know are twice my age and this...
    WiredCritter WiredCritter 22-25 1 Response Jul 28

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    I've been really down on myself. I just don't feel pretty anymore. I don't think I'm sexy or cute, or attractive. I don't dress like a normal girl. tshirts and jeans are my...
    helreb helreb 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I am under the impression that all men are the same or at least most of them are..They say and do things that **** you off to the point that you want to literally slap them for...
    prettyface1 prettyface1 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    Hmmm there are so many things I really feel inadequate to deal with. stupidity being at the top of the list. I can't. I don't know how to. It's that simple. My passive aggressive...
    Lovinu0429 Lovinu0429 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    It seems that another profound theory is wheedling to come to life on paper. I have done a lot of thinking about relationships lately, and have reached several conclusions that...
    bbcfolyfe1771 bbcfolyfe1771 18-21, M Aug 2

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    (using google translate) Okay, I use to have a google account but someone i trusted a lot lied to me and he pretend to be my friend and told me he don't care how old I am so we...
    Blazingdragon Blazingdragon 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 5

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    Two things: One being that the "squeakiest wheel gets the grease", keep this in mind when you read the second thing. Two, is there is a difference. The kind of feminism you see in...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I use to at least believe in the feeling of love. While it lasts, it is a wonderful feeling. I have written love poems for girls and confessed my bare soul to those I fell for. Not...
    xavis xavis 26-30, M Aug 12

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    But....what's with the influx of "not checking profiles" or blocking someone if they don't answer your perverse questions or answer it with sarcasm. I don't mind chatting with...
    thesilentchef thesilentchef 26-30, F Aug 15

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    I know I like guys (not that I have ever kissed/been with one before). It gets to the point where I just let myself like whoever I like and not question it. The thing is, I don't...
    sofychan sofychan 16-17 6 days ago

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    I just recently found out that my husband is talking to several women online....in a very sexual way. He apologized and regrets it.... We talked it out and want to grow from that...
    Brownie27 Brownie27 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    My mom had me at 16, story of HER life growing up around her was difficult and I do realize she was a young single mom of 3 by age 21, unfortunately as the oldest I was the one to...
    lilzee225 lilzee225 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    My husband & I have been together for 8 years, married for 3 & have a near four year old daughter. Since I got pregnant with her we have had sex about 5-8 times and due to his...
    Leesha01 Leesha01 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    My first boyfriend ever (I was already 20: a late bloomer, lol) & I started dating about 7 months ago. He always tells me how much he cares about me, he's told me he loves me, that...
    brunettebarbie14 brunettebarbie14 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    The man who sexually assaulted my ex fiance when he was a young boy gave me a hug today. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO FEEL ABOUT THAT.