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    I Think Making Fun Of Others Is Not True Self Esteme - I used to hang out with people like Keith smith and Kate Robinson and bec kirk and rick szwackowski and joyce poorter I...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses May 12, 2011

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    Jealousy - I think girls or boys who make fun of other people usually have problems with themselves. Like when someone talks about me but I don't automatically respond because...
    CrayCrayisMe CrayCrayisMe 22-25, F Jul 23, 2011

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    Self Esteem Comes From Within - Self esteem comes from inside of yourself, it is knowing and feeling that what you do, what you think and what you feel are truly a reflection of...
    308shooter 308shooter 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2012

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    ....just...no. - I've never felt the need to stand on the backs of others I've knocked down in order to lift myself up. Self-esteem is something I've always struggled with....more...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F Feb 22, 2011

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    The Nerve - i was at walmart and i was listening to some people talk about this poorelderly woman at the pharmacy.they were so cruel.i could tell the woman herd them.i finally got...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 2 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    It Is A Sad World We Live In - when making fun of others builds your self-esteem and self-confidence. It is disturbing if knocking others down builds you up. I was told before by...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    No I Don't.... - I will admit that I have extremely low self-esstem...but that does not mean, that I make fun of others. I know a Lot of people with low self-esttem will do this...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 5, 2010

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    I Wonder - Having fun is different from bullying or making fun with someone. Some people might find it amusing to be sarcastic just to elevate their so called "ego". It is sad to...
    0fairytalePrincess 0fairytalePrincess 36-40, F Apr 27, 2011

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    Just A Snapshot Of The Last 12 Hours... - I think someone from a backwards part of the world made just fun of me this morning but isn't always easy to "prove" of course.  ...
    ILoveMarie ILoveMarie 36-40 4 Responses May 13, 2010

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    It's Not My Right To Down Others - Who am I to want to make someone feel bad about themselves. At the end of the day we are different people and it's going to stay that way...
    idreamdaily idreamdaily 18-21, F Apr 28, 2012

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    Except... - ....when they deserve it. And it's the truth.
    Stahl Stahl 31-35, M 4 Responses May 14, 2010

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    My Mother Is One Of Those People - She likes to gossip behind people's back about what she thinks people are to her, their flaws she thinks they have. If she's mad at you, she will...
    InspiredButterflyPrincess InspiredButterflyPrincess 26-30, F Oct 2, 2012

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    No Need Whatsoever - My self-esteem (although up and down at times) is doing perfectly well. I will never lower myself to the point where my self esteem comes at the expense of...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F Mar 26, 2011

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    Shut Up. - I don't need to make fun of other people. Even when I had no self-esteem, I didn't (OK, just this one person, but there were other reasons.). But still, I do feel the...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Nov 10, 2010

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    I Hate Bullying But I Don't Really Hate Bullies - i feel bad for them. to be so unhappy with yourself or your life that you feel the need to try and make others feel bad about...
    justjoni justjoni 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    Why Does Anyone Do That Anyway? - It seems pointless and I want no part of it, but making fun of others to make me feel better is like dumping raw sewage on a perfectly good grape...
    himgaki himgaki 18-21, M May 2, 2012

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    I Don't Get People That Do....... - I understand that some people need to vent about other people sometimes to feel better, but I don't understand why putting someone else down by...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F Aug 7, 2011

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    No Need To Make Fun Of Others To Get Self-esteem - I don't have to make fun of anyone. I am who i am. I have been made fun of when i was a child growing up. It is no picnic...
    ZarekDH ZarekDH 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 4, 2010

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    In Fact... - I have so much self esteem that if you are a little punk azz ***** and you need to make fun of someone to feel better, well then you can make fun of me. Hey, tell...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2010

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    Too Shy For My Own Good - I enjoy helping others. My greatest satisfaction comes from making other people feel good about myself. Is there anyone out there that would help others...
    maggie7777777 maggie7777777 56-60, M Mar 2, 2013

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    Ex-friend - I used to be friends with a girl who did this... Sadly, she did it to her husband and even her kids. I hated it and would always basically tell her to not be so mean...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 5, 2012

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    Self-esteem - Not my style.  I wouldn't do it to anyone.  I know, not everybody is the same as me and many would do it.  Lot's of people do it, cause they lack in something and...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 4 Responses May 12, 2011

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    Truth is I don't think I've ever had any Self Esteem or Confidence. I say that only because looking back throughout my life I cannot recall a time where I was truly okay with being...
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    I'm in the middle of learning a very valuable lesson and I wanted to share it. I have been together with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now. At first he seemed this great guy...
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    Always have had low self-esteem. When people say I'm beautiful or pretty I automatically shut it down. I look in the mirror and see so many flaws and things I wish I could change...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    my self esteem is so low and I can't find out why I'm like this. I pick out every single little flaw I can find, and I'm so brainwashed that everyone else around me notices...
    megtayl0rr megtayl0rr 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Dating for some people is easy. For others, it's self esteem issues. Women get asked flirted with by 300 hundred people whether they know it or not. Women have been getting...
    socalsissi socalsissi 36-40, T Mar 25

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    Some days I can't get out of bed... Not because I'm lazy but I feel so down I don't want to see anyone. I have a boyfriend and says lovely things about me but I can't see it and i...
    nawpjh nawpjh 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    It's that usual low-self esteem caused by worries. The worries of not being able to meet expectations despite disliking expectations and preferring to go wherever I please...afraid...
    Katami Katami 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    extreme low self esteem... im pretty socially awkward because of this and i stutter a lot she i talk to people who i feel have more social status than me. also, i have extreme...
    nataliekatherine nataliekatherine 13-15 1 Response Mar 18

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    I don't know where the hell it originated from. I used to believe in myself, but I lost that. I never really had much confidence. Probably because I was emotionally abused by my...
    NeonPurple NeonPurple 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I don't even mind not having high self esteem but can I at least think good about myself
    melrose11 melrose11 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I have really low self esteem, it is reaching the point where I don't even want to go out and socialize because I don't feel good enough.
    MissMisunderstood1 MissMisunderstood1 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 28

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    I wish my crazy religious family felt the same. I was taught from infancy all of the things that god hates and I was told that being a homosexual is something he hates. This...
    ellelinkin ellelinkin 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    With my first real post I want to be honest and open up with something that has been bothering me for years. I am sure several people post similar things but this is my honest and...
    SkipperSkips SkipperSkips 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have such low self esteem, my family is constantly telling me that I don't give myself enough credit. It's hard not looking at myself and seeing a **** person. Because I AM a...
    ksnaps ksnaps 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    when I look in the mirror...... I've never been told I was pretty, over the years I've never been given a reason to think i was beautiful, pretty, or anywhere near it, but people...
    musiclover122 musiclover122 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I can't help it. When I hear people laughing, I think they're laughing at me. I always think people are talking about me when they're in groups and I usually am too shy to ask a...
    123peppy 123peppy 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know how it reached this point. I've certainly never had anyone make me feel worthless--I have a loving, supportive family and have never been bullied by my peers or...
    rlc91 rlc91 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Don't think about it too much too much.
    melrose11 melrose11 18-21, F Mar 16

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    I just really hate the way I look. I don't ever think I'll be satisfied with myself and my body.
    thelonelysoul thelonelysoul 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Yeah pretty much :/ everyone here is so nice but for some reason people (boys especially) don't see that. Plus family doesn't really help considering they pick at my flaws 24/7...
    suzannah98 suzannah98 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    When I was 15 I met my first boyfriend. He was shy, nice and attractive and also charmed everyone who met him including me. You would think that I would know better. I was a...
    mik2047 mik2047 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    It really doesn't help when the person I think I'm falling for doesn't have any romantic feelings for me. And I don't mean like he only sees me as a friend. I mean the only...
    ThisIsMordor ThisIsMordor 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I was abused horribly by my father from as for back as I can remember (my first memory was being punched in the chest) and at the same time bullied in school because of my deformed...
    dacraww dacraww 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I had never been close to my mother for as long as i can remember . We are just very different from each other. A lot comes from the fact that she never treated me well in my...
    Norajean1109 Norajean1109 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Today at lunch, my friend made a remark about thinking I was a lesbian because I have never had a boyfriend, or have expressed an interest in dating. I am 21 years old. She then...
    ayceofspades ayceofspades 18-21 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I have very low self esteem that despite of my self proclaimed achievements and my built confidence after years if years of accepting my self - I wrote here because I'm single. I...
    emikei emikei 26-30, F Apr 6

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    Here it goes... I hate myself and want to kill myself, thats the bottom line. But how did I become this disgusting person? I ask myself from time to time. I never expected...
    Abed291 Abed291 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    This is an embarrassing, difficult story to tell, but if I want to smile again, I suppose I need to tell it.I had a beautiful smile once. I was blessed with never needing braces...