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I Dont Need Tons Of Friends, Just A Few Who Really Care

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    i have rarely gone out in the last few months.

    tonight i met with my real friends and had a great time. we drank and talked for hours and it made me feel human again , just to get out.
    xkmb xkmb 51-55 Jan 25

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    Just like it says in the title,

    I don't need to be one of these people who has to have over 200+ friends just to make myself look popular to others, all I need is just a close family of good and honest friends who understand me and see me for who I am and those who give me support and advice and I will do the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    I forced myself into seclusion my first 2 years

    of high school, and this past year was spent trying to fit into a group I didn't belong, for the sake of someone else. Who just graduated. The last two weeks of school were spent trying to rekindle relations with other classmates. Of my various options, I have little in common...
    ZoriyaN7 ZoriyaN7 18-21, F Jun 18, 2014

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    So I have moved around quite a bit

    and during my high school year I went to four high schools in four years . I never really had a chance to make any life friends. Lately it's just been me and my boyfriend and while he is great it's got me down knowing that I don't have a circle of friends or even a friend that...
    sezza96 sezza96 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2014

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    It's like you get these people

    who brag because they have like 97,451 Farsebook friends... Big freakin whoop. At least I actually know all of my Farsebook friends.
    OzarksTrucker OzarksTrucker 36-40, M Aug 18, 2014

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    The only ones who do care seem to be dropping

    like flies lately and I am returning to a place of isolation that I swore never to enter into again. Not really sure what to do about it.
    singsinshower singsinshower 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2014

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    sure no need of tons of friend

    who wl just stress u up, i better have one who will always be there for me when everybody has left someone who i can irritate and still smile back at me someone who when i cry she/he can give me a shoulder to lean on thats what true friendship is all about
    sly15 sly15 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2014

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    It's not going to matter how many friends you

    have if they're fake. They won't be there when you really need them.
    ALostSiren ALostSiren 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    Same here :(.. I'm looking

    for a life time friend. Someone I can chill with and laugh have a nice time and go to concerts shows plays dance.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Jul 31, 2014

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    I just need a true friend.

    Someone who wouldn't leave me behind. Someone I can always depend on. Someone who is always there for me.
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    Please do not add me

    if your over 18
    mysterygurl123456789 mysterygurl123456789 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2014

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    I've lost all of my best friends,

    I'm moving to someplace I've only ever visited, and I'm having to start all over again. I have nobody. True, I do have some friends on EP, but none of them seem to genuinely understand what I'm going through and what I've been through. I don't need a ton of friends, just a few...
    EchoOfNamara EchoOfNamara 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2014

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    I crave intellectual stimulation,

    a good laugh to expand my dwindling years, and an open ear to receive and honestly respond to my thoughts. That's all I want. No sex. No love. Just a good friend, and some wonderful conversations.
    LovesDeceit LovesDeceit 18-21, F Feb 1, 2014

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    Converted Converted 46-50, M Apr 28

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    Yes, I don't want tons of friends

    but I want few friends that really care for me, loyal and real friends.
    someoneyoulove143 someoneyoulove143 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2014

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    Curious.

    Why is it so hard to find just a few that actually really care & easy to find ones that are just around? I want a friend that I actually find interesting & can share things with. I never feel that the friends I have will take the things I have to say seriously. I always feel that...
    Novalina Novalina 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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    I just got rid of a whole lot of "friends" in

    the last year. Some I've been " friends" with for nearly 36 years. It seems friendship is as rare as diamonds.
    JediKlover JediKlover 41-45, M Aug 18, 2014

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    ZacharyGray19 ZacharyGray19 18-21, M Jun 9

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    At Least Just One

    okay so all my life i have had lots of friends... but they never cared. all along they were just making fun of me. all i ask for is someone who i can talk to about everything and they wont judge me. someone who will stay around for a while. is that too much to ask for...
    SkinnyJeansAndSnakeBites SkinnyJeansAndSnakeBites 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    i didnt beg you to be my friend .

    .your the one who approach me first so please stop acting like im begging you to stay at my side
    KrissiaGeramie KrissiaGeramie 18-21, F May 22

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    sara1238 sara1238 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2014

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    It's not on how many friends you have.

    So what if you always have fun with them or spend the best times with them if they don't give a damn **** about you? Learn to open your eyes and see those who really are there for you and don't be stupid like me. You know she's your best friend if she posts your embarrassing...
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    xcrownlessx xcrownlessx 16-17, F Jun 8

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    I've chosen to live in a different reality.

    I didn't have anything myself or plans, moreover I have No one. I wish I had someone to love and care about me. Now I'm giving up. I don't have the motivation to actually do the things I set out to do, life doesn't work as much as I imagine it does. I messed up my life, and...
    SpicyChicken SpicyChicken 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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