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I Dont Need Tons Of Friends, Just A Few Who Really Care

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    I've chosen to live in a different reality.

    I didn't have anything myself or plans, moreover I have No one. I wish I had someone to love and care about me. Now I'm giving up. I don't have the motivation to actually do the things I set out to do, life doesn't work as much as I imagine it does. I messed up my life, and...
    FreakTurtle FreakTurtle 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    sara1238 sara1238 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I forced myself into seclusion my first 2 years

    of high school, and this past year was spent trying to fit into a group I didn't belong, for the sake of someone else. Who just graduated. The last two weeks of school were spent trying to rekindle relations with other classmates. Of my various options, I have little in common...
    ZoriyaN7 ZoriyaN7 16-17, F Jun 18

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    At Least Just One

    okay so all my life i have had lots of friends... but they never cared. all along they were just making fun of me. all i ask for is someone who i can talk to about everything and they wont judge me. someone who will stay around for a while. is that too much to ask for...
    SkinnyJeansAndSnakeBites SkinnyJeansAndSnakeBites 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    Curious.

    Why is it so hard to find just a few that actually really care & easy to find ones that are just around? I want a friend that I actually find interesting & can share things with. I never feel that the friends I have will take the things I have to say seriously. I always feel that...
    Novalina Novalina 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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    New on Here today love to chat to somebody I

    am married and living a sexless marriage we are more like brother and sister when she was going through the menopause their sex dried up. It has been five years now. So would love to chat with somebody. Xx
    sky1960 sky1960 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    56slowride 56slowride 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 14

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    So I have moved around quite a bit

    and during my high school year I went to four high schools in four years . I never really had a chance to make any life friends. Lately it's just been me and my boyfriend and while he is great it's got me down knowing that I don't have a circle of friends or even a friend that...
    sezza96 sezza96 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    I crave intellectual stimulation,

    a good laugh to expand my dwindling years, and an open ear to receive and honestly respond to my thoughts. That's all I want. No sex. No love. Just a good friend, and some wonderful conversations.
    LovesDeceit LovesDeceit 18-21, F Feb 1

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    mohawkmom mohawkmom 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I seriously need to make better friends. I really only have 2 and their both in a different province, I've known one since I was 11 and the other for 3-4 years now. The "best...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F Jul 16

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    I think that there is not such thing as fake friends it's eathier u is real or nothing real friends care about u not make u think they is your real friend I've had a lot of people...
    Singleton34 Singleton34 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    skyesie80 skyesie80 31-35, F Jul 3

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    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    peetboy peetboy 51-55, M Jul 19

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