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I Dont Need Tons Of Friends, Just A Few Who Really Care

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    Yes, I don't want tons of friends

    but I want few friends that really care for me, loyal and real friends.
    someoneyoulove143 someoneyoulove143 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    Well i have my few.. Ive got 4 people on this

    planet that i love and care about very deeply and the feeling is mutual. <3 they are the best things that have ever happend to me
    pxxp pxxp 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    But I'm not good at making friends.

    Like I have two friends I can count on and my brother. Every one else disappoints me in the end. Like it sucks, it really sucks because I'm always ready to sacrifice myself and no one appreciates anything.
    Lala311 Lala311 18-21, F Aug 18

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    At Least Just One

    okay so all my life i have had lots of friends... but they never cared. all along they were just making fun of me. all i ask for is someone who i can talk to about everything and they wont judge me. someone who will stay around for a while. is that too much to ask for...
    SkinnyJeansAndSnakeBites SkinnyJeansAndSnakeBites 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    Please do not add me

    if your over 18
    mysterygurl123456789 mysterygurl123456789 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    So I have moved around quite a bit

    and during my high school year I went to four high schools in four years . I never really had a chance to make any life friends. Lately it's just been me and my boyfriend and while he is great it's got me down knowing that I don't have a circle of friends or even a friend that...
    sezza96 sezza96 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    Curious.

    Why is it so hard to find just a few that actually really care & easy to find ones that are just around? I want a friend that I actually find interesting & can share things with. I never feel that the friends I have will take the things I have to say seriously. I always feel that...
    Novalina Novalina 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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    I've chosen to live in a different reality.

    I didn't have anything myself or plans, moreover I have No one. I wish I had someone to love and care about me. Now I'm giving up. I don't have the motivation to actually do the things I set out to do, life doesn't work as much as I imagine it does. I messed up my life, and...
    FreakTurtle FreakTurtle 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    I crave intellectual stimulation,

    a good laugh to expand my dwindling years, and an open ear to receive and honestly respond to my thoughts. That's all I want. No sex. No love. Just a good friend, and some wonderful conversations.
    LovesDeceit LovesDeceit 18-21, F Feb 1

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    It's like you get these people

    who brag because they have like 97,451 Farsebook friends... Big freakin whoop. At least I actually know all of my Farsebook friends.
    OzarksTrucker OzarksTrucker 36-40, M Aug 18

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    I forced myself into seclusion my first 2 years

    of high school, and this past year was spent trying to fit into a group I didn't belong, for the sake of someone else. Who just graduated. The last two weeks of school were spent trying to rekindle relations with other classmates. Of my various options, I have little in common...
    ZoriyaN7 ZoriyaN7 16-17, F Jun 18

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    Tons of friends today wont happen.

    Not tons pf real friends anyway. So be happy with four.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Same here :(.. I'm looking

    for a life time friend. Someone I can chill with and laugh have a nice time and go to concerts shows plays dance.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Jul 31

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    sara1238 sara1238 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I've lost all of my best friends,

    I'm moving to someplace I've only ever visited, and I'm having to start all over again. I have nobody. True, I do have some friends on EP, but none of them seem to genuinely understand what I'm going through and what I've been through. I don't need a ton of friends, just a few...
    EchoOfNamara EchoOfNamara 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I just got rid of a whole lot of "friends" in

    the last year. Some I've been " friends" with for nearly 36 years. It seems friendship is as rare as diamonds.
    JediKlover JediKlover 41-45, M Aug 18

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    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 2

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    I need to talk to someone who cares around my age. Make or female doesn't matter as long as we can relate. I'm 24, woman, love animals, like anime but I'm not obsessed, like...
    WolfOfDreams WolfOfDreams 22-25, F Oct 12

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    Why am I the one who's always asking and checking if your alright, or needs someone to talk to. but then you never do that for me? ever asking if im alright or how's it going...
    stormyjones stormyjones 13-15 Oct 13

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    This is what led me to ep. I need someone to talk to and understand how I feel. To say I have no family wouldn't be true. I have a husband and five children, whom I love dearly. I...
    ktjade ktjade 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I love my husband dearly, but I need a friend or two. You know...just somebody to talk to about anything...go to have coffee with or shop. I used to have that...but I made a bad...
    catsmeow59 catsmeow59 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    be careful of who you pick as a friend, most people pretend to listen but are only gathering information to judge you with
    Crazychick123456 Crazychick123456 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    I've had far too many in my life. I have no tolerance left for them. I'd rather be bitter and lonely than surrounded by fake people who don't truly care about you.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 2

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    My friends are becoming boring and I need new ones. I'd still like to keep the old ones because obviously there are reasons we're friends in the first place, but sometimes I want...
    Chantry Chantry 22-25, F a week ago

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    I'm new to EP and I guess I really suck at it lol. I could use some female friends in here.
    Ducatiluvr Ducatiluvr 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    about games, books, tv/movies, anything interesting, I am just really bored.
    kaizob2x kaizob2x 22-25, M Sep 29

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    Who wants to be my friend looking for more
    kyile kyile 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    Actually i don't need anyone to talk, i just wanna say if anyone want someone to listen to them, just msg me, i won't judge you or hate you :) you can talk about anything with me...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Sep 27

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    I have extreme curves; hour glass shape and not lacking in anything. At ten I was shaped like a woman. Adults would stare and frown. I felt very awkward sometimes at school. Some...
    Nubiannqueen Nubiannqueen 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 22

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    Jeez big time way too many curves lol 😩
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I left everything behind to be closer to friends and family, moving 3000 miles in the process. Once I reached the East Coast, the friends I thought I had here didn't have time for...
    truthfullyyours truthfullyyours 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Sometimes I just need someone who really cares about me, a shoulder to lean on, no need to say / do anything just sit right next to me in silence until I feel really calm. Somehow...
    Rinkika Rinkika 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 30

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    There was a girl I was friends with. I was 11 at the time. Let's call her friend A. A was bossy and controlling and I didn't want to be friends with her anymore. She could be mean...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 3 Responses 52 mins ago

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    Her mother, past con artist turned highly conservative pseudo christian fruitcake, recently started beating my friend which resulted in her leaving to go live with her dad who is a...
    DataDiver DataDiver 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    2 and a half years ago I was dumped by a male friend, who I would consider the best friend I’ve ever had. We connected on every level and I had never emotionally been as close to...
    iwannaLIVE iwannaLIVE 22-25, F a week ago

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    First of all. Money, to me, is only a resource that allows me to live where I live, buy food, gas, etc. I have been rich, I have not had a cent to my family name, yet money never...
    RegicideJester RegicideJester 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    Alright kids gather round. I wanna share this story just because it was on my mind. So here goes! Alright so I used to work at a gas station and of course I ran to into some...
    pinkypie5 pinkypie5 22-25, F Sep 30

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    Yes, I do and, I really care for them, This story is dedicated to a very sensitive hearted ep friend of mine... I feel so sorry for her to make her hurt over and over again, but...
    vjyr vjyr 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 13

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    i hate my loser little brother. he called me one day and said, let's start a business together, wont get into the details, but it required money. i was elated cuz ive always just...
    blue951 blue951 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 24

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    So, I know someone who is depressed. That someone is not just a someone either, it's surprisingly, a teacher. People don't notice that he has been depressed, but I actually do...
    andiminlovewithyou andiminlovewithyou 22-25 Oct 3

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    I know ive said that i only had one person i can talk to and count on but the more i think about it, its not true. I want to have a friend, just a friend, not someone that wants...
    HojaCaida HojaCaida 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    okay. this one's a long one. over the last few months, I've been talking to this girl. I really like her, and I have no idea how to progress with it. So, her name is Holly. I've...
    ArcherArt ArcherArt 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    To me seeing a man that is good with children is really sexy! If the kids are his that's even better because that means he really cares enough to put time and effort into helping...
    kristin8227 kristin8227 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    Honestly, my friends (if you could call them that) suck. When I was diagnosed with Bipolar II disorder they all said that they were here to talk if needed and that they would be...
    CEMT13101 CEMT13101 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I just need someone to talk to. I am bi but I'm liking guys more every day. I had girl friends before but never a boy friend. You can say I'm looking for a relationship lol I've...
    JRod51 JRod51 18-21, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel as if after high school (graduated in 2011) I've let myself go and became kind of a loner. Yes I still have a few friends here and there and my best friend who is always...
    hmun11 hmun11 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 29

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    I'm looking to make some new friends. I don't much care about age, gender or what not, friendship can come in all shapes and forms. I'm 28, I'm a bit of a geek or nerd...or some...
    TimeLordZ TimeLordZ 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 8

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    I wasnt a month online and surprise surprise! i only got one message from someone ive been close here as friends. The rest didnt bother to ask me anything, not even hello. Well...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    I was looking at my text messages and I noticed that about 99% of those conversations are meaningless. They're texts from friends and people I really love, but they don't mean...
    zuzeethh zuzeethh 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 10