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I Dont Need Tons Of Friends, Just A Few Who Really Care

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    I crave intellectual stimulation,

    a good laugh to expand my dwindling years, and an open ear to receive and honestly respond to my thoughts. That's all I want. No sex. No love. Just a good friend, and some wonderful conversations.
    LovesDeceit LovesDeceit 18-21, F Feb 1

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    I forced myself into seclusion my first 2 years

    of high school, and this past year was spent trying to fit into a group I didn't belong, for the sake of someone else. Who just graduated. The last two weeks of school were spent trying to rekindle relations with other classmates. Of my various options, I have little in common...
    ZoriyaN7 ZoriyaN7 16-17, F Jun 18

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    Curious.

    Why is it so hard to find just a few that actually really care & easy to find ones that are just around? I want a friend that I actually find interesting & can share things with. I never feel that the friends I have will take the things I have to say seriously. I always feel that...
    Novalina Novalina 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 30, 2012

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    It's like you get these people

    who brag because they have like 97,451 Farsebook friends... Big freakin whoop. At least I actually know all of my Farsebook friends.
    OzarksTrucker OzarksTrucker 36-40, M Aug 18

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    New on Here today love to chat to somebody I

    am married and living a sexless marriage we are more like brother and sister when she was going through the menopause their sex dried up. It has been five years now. So would love to chat with somebody. Xx
    sky1960 sky1960 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    I've lost all of my best friends,

    I'm moving to someplace I've only ever visited, and I'm having to start all over again. I have nobody. True, I do have some friends on EP, but none of them seem to genuinely understand what I'm going through and what I've been through. I don't need a ton of friends, just a few...
    EchoOfNamara EchoOfNamara 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Same here :(.. I'm looking

    for a life time friend. Someone I can chill with and laugh have a nice time and go to concerts shows plays dance.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Jul 31

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    sara1238 sara1238 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    So I have moved around quite a bit

    and during my high school year I went to four high schools in four years . I never really had a chance to make any life friends. Lately it's just been me and my boyfriend and while he is great it's got me down knowing that I don't have a circle of friends or even a friend that...
    sezza96 sezza96 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    I just got rid of a whole lot of "friends" in

    the last year. Some I've been " friends" with for nearly 36 years. It seems friendship is as rare as diamonds.
    JediKlover JediKlover 41-45, M Aug 18

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    At Least Just One

    okay so all my life i have had lots of friends... but they never cared. all along they were just making fun of me. all i ask for is someone who i can talk to about everything and they wont judge me. someone who will stay around for a while. is that too much to ask for...
    SkinnyJeansAndSnakeBites SkinnyJeansAndSnakeBites 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    Tons of friends today wont happen.

    Not tons pf real friends anyway. So be happy with four.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Well i have my few.. Ive got 4 people on this

    planet that i love and care about very deeply and the feeling is mutual. <3 they are the best things that have ever happend to me
    Karmalama Karmalama 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Please do not add me

    if your over 18
    mysterygurl123456789 mysterygurl123456789 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've chosen to live in a different reality.

    I didn't have anything myself or plans, moreover I have No one. I wish I had someone to love and care about me. Now I'm giving up. I don't have the motivation to actually do the things I set out to do, life doesn't work as much as I imagine it does. I messed up my life, and...
    FreakTurtle FreakTurtle 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    But I'm not good at making friends.

    Like I have two friends I can count on and my brother. Every one else disappoints me in the end. Like it sucks, it really sucks because I'm always ready to sacrifice myself and no one appreciates anything.
    Lala311 Lala311 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I have my two brothers and my mum. I really really want real friends.... I'm so lonely and am a poor excuse for a human. I always end up getting used and hated... People only like...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I have two rather close friends and sometimes I feel like when I talk to them about how I feel ..they don't understand or want to for that matter especially my one friend in...
    lostinfire lostinfire 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    so i want friends who the play ps3 gta5:) i have like 5 friends i need more :) i don't want to have girlfriend i want friends :) so can u be my friend plz :)
    hmkspain hmkspain 16-17, M Sep 3

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    I am a big chick and I honestly would love to be happy with that but people can be cruel. Especially people that you should be able to rely on for support and maybe a few...
    dazikame79 dazikame79 26-30, F 12 Responses Sep 5

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    anyone here who 1. has no romantic relationship 2 . will never have one 3. doesnt drink alcohol 4. doesnt smoke 5. has no real life friends 6. will never have real life friends...
    Hermine456 Hermine456 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    hi I'm boody and I need friends who r cool and the love ps3 gta5 and skateboard :) 🙈🙉🙊
    hmkspain hmkspain 16-17, M Aug 30

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    I've lost almost all of my friends, and the ones left are really not actually worthy of the title "friend". I'm just tired, and lonely. I want someone to have a bowl with, watch a...
    nwilla nwilla 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    To be honest, I am not here to make friends, I only need help, from people who can understand..
    Idonotcareanymore Idonotcareanymore 18-21 5 days ago

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    Haven't spoken to anyone in my family in several years. The few friends I have are spread out around the country. With a divorce, it's just a hard time right now.
    Visium13 Visium13 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    Here i am sitting next to my friend who i haven't hung out with in awhile and we aren't reconnecting as well as i thought. Its somewhat awkward? Sigh
    raynbow32 raynbow32 18-21, F Sep 6

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    Painter: I am far from a word nazi....but the word Bestie really bothers me. and BFF isnt far behind! On the other hand, If you frequent the word splendid or braggard feel free to...
    PaintedPoemCpl PaintedPoemCpl 36-40 Aug 31

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    I feel completely alone I know the one person i want to talk to wants nothing to do with me I hate crying
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I suffer from Alexithymia.
    Dreamer25196 Dreamer25196 18-21, F Sep 1

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    Looking to chat with some people on here
    MephXV MephXV 18-21, M Sep 1

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    Some people just dont listen. I hate when a person hears you but doesnt listen.
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want this to change. I bust my *** in life, i don't deserve to live like this :/
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I'm a guy and I adore big girls. :)
    thinkofonelater thinkofonelater 18-21, M Aug 25

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    Seems to me that alot of men I am around want it all A wife , a mistress , a freak , a mommy , a nurse I can only be ten things at one time I'm afraid I will never find a man...
    applesnbananas applesnbananas 51-55, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    *Names are changed* Since this summer. I started hanging out with this girl named Lindsay and I told her about Mark, who’s a really close friend of mine. She wanted to meet him...
    Jules255 Jules255 18-21, F Sep 8

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    Life's hard right now, it's dragging you down and tearing you apart. It's pulling at your heart, tearing you down, and nothing will stop the tears. High School, Work, Family, your...
    Undeserved Undeserved 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    All my friends are real, both online and off line. When I think of real friends though, I guess what I really mean is "true" friends. Those who are my true friends are always...
    MAT5629 MAT5629 41-45, F Sep 3

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    A friend of mine posted this on Facebook today, and I agree with the sentiment of the post so I'm posting it here for those EP friends I've become especially close to over the past...
    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    I think i do now but i won't know till I've actually tried it but do have a very good idea what it's like to do the career i want to do! When i was growing up, my career choice...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Friends play important role in your life. Not all but few remain forever with u . I guess i am lucky to have those few. A girl who is too innocent to this world. A girl who try to...
    iwantutoo iwantutoo 22-25, M Sep 6

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    I have always looked for friends that don't have/keep that many or any friends. This is because, while I can talk to several people at once, I like to put all my energy and focus...
    colorstone colorstone 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    hello, i hope this message will inspire my EP friends and those who read this in the future. i dont get the chance to talk to my EP friends on here much but i just want to take the...
    thehelpfulone thehelpfulone 26-30, M Aug 25

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    I am getting depressed going to college right now. I cry for even the smallest reason right now and miss my family like crazy. I try and hang with people to keep my mind off of...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Do I have someone? Yes Do I feel sad? Yes Do I want to run away? Yes I need my personal shoulder!! And I really do need that
    SwanLake78 SwanLake78 36-40, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    When I was younger, I was bullied and made fun of--even by teachers! My mom took me out of school in fourth grade and started to home school me. It was during this year that we...
    HatersGonnaHateMe HatersGonnaHateMe 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I'm going to give it to you straight. I am an artist. I've had talent since I was little, but only now am I starting to gain skill and I've found that this is something I want to...
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