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I Don't Need You to Be Perfect

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 325 People

    Really........

    I'm not perfect, so why would I expect you to be? All I need you to be is someone with heart, someone who knows what a treasure they have in me. Someone who knows exactly how much my love means & treats my heart accordingly. That's all I need. You don't have to be perfect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 22, 2009

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    No One Is Perfect

    Either in personality or looks.  But that is what makes people charming and different.  What is inside matters most.  I can overlook a lot if you are a kind and genuine person.  Just be yourself. Shallow, ******* type people **** me off.    
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 5, 2009

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    Wanted: a Non-perfect Person ...apply Within

    I have never been able to do anything perfectly - probably because I am human, I make mistakes. I do not require my friends, lovers, or partners to be perfect. I think that would be the most boring experience EVER --- to constantly try to live up to the...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 14 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    Or Want You to Be

    I don't believe anyone is perfect so to try to be perfect would be acting in my eyes. Which would make you a fake. I dont need you to be perfect because your not and nor am i.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 19, 2009

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    Change Is Here

    Earlier today, I had to stop for a minute to think about how much my life had changed. In just a blink of an eye, a month had passed me by. Surely, I had not been aware of just how fast time passes up until now. I sometimes have moments where, to my dismay, I feel uninviting and...
    Amberstories Amberstories 18-21, F Feb 15, 2011

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    Not Necassary

    perfection is not needed, its overrated besides NO ONE is perfect. im perfect so im not asking you for perfection, im just asking for your love adn to hold me when its too much  to handle just like i'll do for you. i dont care if you have problems or stress that make...
    Hazuki Hazuki 18-21, F May 6, 2009

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    “We come to love not by finding a perfect

    person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” ― Sam Keen, To Love and Be Loved “This is what I know. Don't settle for 40, 50, or even 80 percent. A relationship-it shouldn't be too small or too tight or even a little scratchy. It shouldn't take up space...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 1, 2014

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    Cas......

    u r perfect for me ! now, then and always !!!!!!!
    destinyguy destinyguy 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 31, 2011

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    I Never Did

    You are human, and I as much as anyone understand the weaknesses and frailities that encompasses. I didn't need you to be perfect.  I just needed and need you to think before you speak.  To actually apply why people cannot be near you for too long without coming...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    I Tell That to Myself

    But still there are times that I think I should be perfect and I get obsessed over things!! I am getting better though.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    Just Happy

    I never did see my self as ever attaining Perfection in or at anything but then, I never would have dreamed I'd ever be happy so easily until I read the book HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE by Barry Neil Kaufman.
    jimrich jimrich 66-70, M 1 Response Feb 3, 2011

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    But You Come Damn Close

    I just need you.  Just you.  That's it, that's all I ask.  Everything you are, bring it, I'll take it.  I'll take you as you are, and I'll ____ you for everything you are and everythin' you're not.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    No One Is Perfect...

    I don't need you to be perfect, I need you to be you, the amazing person that you are. I don't need you to be someone you aren't. All i need, is for you to be you. I Love you, and you don't need to be perfect. No one needs to be perfect, and I sure as hell don't need...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 9, 2009

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    Actually I Prefer That You're Not

    I always try to accept people just as they are and just for who they are. To me that is real and its honest. The truth of someone can be beautiful. Of course we all have our preferences, we know what we like and dont like, and we gravitate toward people who, if notalot like us...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    Just Be You.

    I don't need you to be perfect. I don't want you to be perfect. I just want you. You. Just as you are, flaws & all. 'Cause everything about you...your past, your flaws, your imperfections, your mistakes, your habits, your personality, your character, your love, your heart...
    staystrong11 staystrong11 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    I Don't Need You to Be Perfect . . .

    . . . just be yourself.  I'll love you more, appreciate, and understand you better by getting to know who you genuinely are.
    UnderEli UnderEli 46-50, M 5 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    Perfection Is Overrated

     All I want from others is themselves. No pretending, no trying to be anything, there's no greater gift than yourself. And that means I don't want anyone else to have to work to be perfect, for me or for anybody either.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 1 Response Apr 22, 2009

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    With very good cause, I would never touch, or go near any drugs and I know the bad things that they can do to someone. I cherish my life and enjoy playing outside rather than as...
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    All I need is books, movies, Games, and at least season 1-2 of OUAT(on DVD) and I'm set....or we could just go to the park..that works too😂
    aprisonerofazkaban aprisonerofazkaban 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    my relationship has hit an all time rock hard bottom - at this rate we will most likely go underground and say hi to hades before the month is over
    confusednormalness confusednormalness 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    I've always been the one to make sure people get home never had time for drinking or any other stuff. I've never saw the appeal and getting so wasted that you can't remember where...
    rnwytrain85 rnwytrain85 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been to one party. And to be honest I didn't even enjoy myself. I enjoy myself when I'm in the car with my family, singing our hearts out to our favorite songs, or jumping on...
    megem4054 megem4054 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Just pops are I'll I need to have fun and family too even when they get out of hand with alcohol
    bandit5320 bandit5320 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    Not sure if you will ! But if you put up with me! I'll put up with you. Accept my crap and accept yours lol=^.^=
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I dont need a fix to be happy and I dont associate with those who do. I just need wide open spaces and like minded company.
    armand3439 armand3439 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I wish some of the girls of my age should stop engaging in sexual activity cause i can see that some of them would end up pregnant or being HIV positive All i just want to say is...
    yayatee12 yayatee12 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Emphasis of the 'feel'. I'm not saying they actually don't. I had to move back home after finishing an art degree so I could build up my career to go freelance. It's been hard...
    EleanorPainting EleanorPainting 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm not allowed to drink due to medication. I never used to drink a lot anyway.
    Hellsinger Hellsinger 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Most of my friends do drugs and drink and they're always like "Come on you'll like it just try it" -.- Like I'd ever do that I prefer to be sober so I can actually have fun than be...
    SxuccessfuI SxuccessfuI 13-15, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    i think this treu. i am that person that is always happy. ALWAYS! so why should i need that sh*t if its more healty and better without? :)
    xchrisanne xchrisanne 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't need Drugs and Alcohol to have fun. True!! But still alcohol can make the day a little more fun and relaxing.
    LegendaryJimMorrison LegendaryJimMorrison 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I need to talk to someone about alcohol detox and alcohol withdrawals. I really need facts
    Bubblerguy Bubblerguy 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Alcohol can be fun, but it's not necessary, all you need is a willing participant!
    kid222 kid222 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Many people give-up on themselves rather than step-back and evaluate the bigger picture. It's never too late to start over, regardless of the circumstances. It amazes me how many...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 51-55, F Jun 22

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    Sex is a physical act between two (or more) people. All that you can do here is read and type naughty words. What you do with those "naughty" words is up to you. You can feel...
    knightedone1 knightedone1 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 22

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    People that think that they can only have fun if alcohol and drugs are involved must be really boring people. Imagine how insecure someone would have to be to think that the only...
    Tshoraga1 Tshoraga1 16-17, F 10 Responses Jun 21

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    As dull as it sounds to most people, I'd much rather be lost in the world of a book than out wrecking myself. (As Gerard Way says, "Bullies drink loserjuice. Tell them you're high...
    Lunasnight Lunasnight 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 21

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    once you know you can never go back. after comes a split life isolation and self hate.
    David14085 David14085 22-25, M Jun 21

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    Everyone always asked if I'm drunk or on drugs when I'm having fun ? Never been drunk, never done drugs. Lmao
    alicebelle alicebelle 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    I used to be friends with this female. We had our fun as we were still in our teens but I was young, naive, and innocent. I let her walk all over me. So when I grew up and grew a...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F Jun 21

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    How do you deal with a loved one who gets stoned 3-5 days a week???
    kmanm kmanm 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I don't need drugs or alcohol to have fun. We had to take a class on D.A.R.E. This class tells us to never take drugs and be against violence. All that drugs and alcohol does it...
    Muskan7253 Muskan7253 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 21

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    I get most of my fun from being a self-righteous pain in the backside instead.
    vicjustvic vicjustvic 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 21

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