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I Don't Need You to Be Perfect

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 326 People

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    I have never been able to do anything perfectly - probably because I am human, I make mistakes. I do not require my friends, lovers, or partners to be perfect. I think that would be the most boring experience EVER --- to constantly try to live up to the...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 14 Responses Jun 3, 2009

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    Really........

    I'm not perfect, so why would I expect you to be? All I need you to be is someone with heart, someone who knows what a treasure they have in me. Someone who knows exactly how much my love means & treats my heart accordingly. That's all I need. You don't have to be perfect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 22, 2009

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    Perfection Is Overrated

     All I want from others is themselves. No pretending, no trying to be anything, there's no greater gift than yourself. And that means I don't want anyone else to have to work to be perfect, for me or for anybody either.
    BrownEyedMystery BrownEyedMystery 18-21 1 Response Apr 22, 2009

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    I Never Did

    You are human, and I as much as anyone understand the weaknesses and frailities that encompasses. I didn't need you to be perfect.  I just needed and need you to think before you speak.  To actually apply why people cannot be near you for too long without coming...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    No One Is Perfect...

    I don't need you to be perfect, I need you to be you, the amazing person that you are. I don't need you to be someone you aren't. All i need, is for you to be you. I Love you, and you don't need to be perfect. No one needs to be perfect, and I sure as hell don't need...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 9, 2009

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    I Don't Need You to Be Perfect . . .

    . . . just be yourself.  I'll love you more, appreciate, and understand you better by getting to know who you genuinely are.
    UnderEli UnderEli 46-50, M 5 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    I Just Need U to Be Honest!!!

    I AM SIMPLE AND EASY TO PLEASE. JUST KEEP IT REAL AND TELL THE TRUTH AND WE WILL END UP WHERE WE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE AND UL GET A LIFETIME OF DEVOTION FROM ME!!!
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Apr 15, 2009

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    Actually I Prefer That You're Not

    I always try to accept people just as they are and just for who they are. To me that is real and its honest. The truth of someone can be beautiful. Of course we all have our preferences, we know what we like and dont like, and we gravitate toward people who, if notalot like us...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    Just Happy

    I never did see my self as ever attaining Perfection in or at anything but then, I never would have dreamed I'd ever be happy so easily until I read the book HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE by Barry Neil Kaufman.
    jimrich jimrich 66-70, M 1 Response Feb 3, 2011

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    Or Want You to Be

    I don't believe anyone is perfect so to try to be perfect would be acting in my eyes. Which would make you a fake. I dont need you to be perfect because your not and nor am i.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 19, 2009

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    Just Be You.

    I don't need you to be perfect. I don't want you to be perfect. I just want you. You. Just as you are, flaws & all. 'Cause everything about you...your past, your flaws, your imperfections, your mistakes, your habits, your personality, your character, your love, your heart...
    staystrong11 staystrong11 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    No One Is Perfect

    Either in personality or looks.  But that is what makes people charming and different.  What is inside matters most.  I can overlook a lot if you are a kind and genuine person.  Just be yourself. Shallow, ******* type people **** me off.    
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 5, 2009

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    “We come to love not by finding a perfect

    person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” ― Sam Keen, To Love and Be Loved “This is what I know. Don't settle for 40, 50, or even 80 percent. A relationship-it shouldn't be too small or too tight or even a little scratchy. It shouldn't take up space...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 1, 2014

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    Cas......

    u r perfect for me ! now, then and always !!!!!!!
    destinyguy destinyguy 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 31, 2011

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    But You Come Damn Close

    I just need you.  Just you.  That's it, that's all I ask.  Everything you are, bring it, I'll take it.  I'll take you as you are, and I'll ____ you for everything you are and everythin' you're not.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    Not Necassary

    perfection is not needed, its overrated besides NO ONE is perfect. im perfect so im not asking you for perfection, im just asking for your love adn to hold me when its too much  to handle just like i'll do for you. i dont care if you have problems or stress that make...
    Hazuki Hazuki 18-21, F May 6, 2009

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    Change Is Here

    Earlier today, I had to stop for a minute to think about how much my life had changed. In just a blink of an eye, a month had passed me by. Surely, I had not been aware of just how fast time passes up until now. I sometimes have moments where, to my dismay, I feel uninviting and...
    Amberstories Amberstories 18-21, F Feb 15, 2011

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    I Tell That to Myself

    But still there are times that I think I should be perfect and I get obsessed over things!! I am getting better though.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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