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I Don't Need Your Approval

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    I Don't Need Your Approval

    I don't need your approval. Of course, you can tell me your opinion, and I'll respect it. If you tell me you hate me, well sorry to hear that. You can curse at me, flick me off, call me names, make faces at me, but I don't care. I don't need your approval to know I'm fine the way...
    seminolewind seminolewind 18-21, F Jan 18, 2012

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