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I Dont Really Enjoy Birthdays

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    Still Hoping For Something Great

    I never really enjoyed my birthdays except during my 7th birthday when my parents threw me a huge party with 100 guests at a banquet hall. Other than that, my birthdays were mostly held at home and as always, my mom would always get angry. She always gets angry if it's my...
    neo7773 neo7773 22-25, M Jan 9, 2010

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    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 6 Responses Feb 4

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    Another Year Bites The Dust

    I always feel rather ambiguous about the whole birthday thing, but September 11th just keeps sneaking back every damn year. Now I'm a greedy ************, so I do love bleeding my family of their hard-earned money in the form of useless trinkets. My birthday hasn't even arrived...
    kikis2 kikis2 22-25, F Sep 7, 2012

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    Not Really

    I understand the appeal of birthday hoopla- the celebration of one's birth, giving thanks to the universe for making your existence possible, etc. I think birthdays for some people are an excuse to party hard or spend time alone and pamper themselves. Those are great ideas, and...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Jun 21, 2011

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    Blah

    I have cried every single birthday I have ever had! When I was younger it was because my brother would go out of his way to ruin it for me - just like he ruined everything else, I wasn't allowed to feel happy or special! Then as I got older I simply grew used to dreading them...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2008

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    Birthdays aren't fun

    when you have no friends :( and the only person who's there is my mom... I always ask people what they do on their Birthdays and they say they spend time with their friends and I'm just sitting there like " WOWWW I'd love to do that but it's not possible..."
    Hermine456 Hermine456 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    Its Sad

     This was the 2nd year that I had to work to really enjoy my birthday. I mean I had to constantly remind myself to smile and be happy with what was going on around me, instead of staring off into space and letting sadness take hold of me. Yeah I had fun sometimes but, I don...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 9, 2009

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    Why Should I

    I don't like my own birthdays, cos i don't really want to be celebrated for ageing, i'd rather be celebrated for something i tried to do, if at all. I try and enjoy other peoples birthdays, and usually do a pretty nice job too, but i'm happy that the attention is focused there...
    thesamwebb thesamwebb 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    Technically, I Loathe Them

    I have no idea why people celebrate a purely physiological process like the birth of a child.A male and female Homo sapien mate, and produce a young Homo sapien. So what? Thousands of other mammals do that all the time. What's there to celebrate? Of all creatures, we, the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 31, 2012

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    I've never celebrated my birthdays.

    There may be times when my parents did when I was younger but I can't remember it anyway. I don't feel like I've got anything good to celebrate about my birth. It's also hard when none of your friend really bothers about it. Usually, they'll only say "Happy Birthday" to me, and...
    nirvsemp nirvsemp 16-17, F May 5

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    My birthdays have always been the day of family

    feuds. somehow. every year. so when my birthday comes around I kind of dread it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 6

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    This Year's Was a Let-down...

    Yeah, it's my 16th birthday today-woo hoo. Go Sam, right? I really didn't care. I hate drawing attention to myself in that sense of the word, so I just woke up and attended to life as usual. But still, an itsy-bitsy, absolutely miniscule part of me still wanted a good day. Bad...
    Yellowrhapsody Yellowrhapsody 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    i never like birthdays they always scared me i

    never knew if anyone wanted to actually spend time with me and the impulse of them forgeting just hurts me i cant stand them i must sound pretty pathetic right now ha ha
    connorcbc1 connorcbc1 16-17, M May 6

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    I never really enjoy my birthday

    because I never have money to do what I really want. My birthday is in about a week and I'm honestly thinking of committing suicide. I have a feeling I will be alone on my birthday. I've been so depressed that I don't even want to celebrate my birth.
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

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    Actually I do enjoy birthdays.

    . Happy Birthday to my favourite folks on January 29th... 19 is a wonder birthday..I remember it well..my date's best friend Carl Baur drank Champagne out of my high heel shoe.. I ordered Steak Au Poise for dinner and went dancing afterwards.. That was a great birthday..my date...
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Im Getting Old!

    I really used to enjoy me birthday each one was so exciting now it seems the more i have the more i lothe them lol i mean im only 24 but it seems like an age lol dont u ever get the feeling ur best years are behind u?
    sammy120 sammy120 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    Never Enjoyed Them

    I really never enjoyed birthdays, or let me say I stop that long time ago... what am I supposed to celebrate?? That I am one year older!!?? I just wish that my coming years ahead will be prosperous, beneficial and joyfull
    meemo70 meemo70 41-45, M Jul 9, 2013

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    I hope they could remember my birthday

    and whenever they ask me celebrate birthday for them it always remind me of that day when they don't even really care. And I really treasure them as my friends and I always wonder how important or significant I am to them.
    jiassica jiassica 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2014

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    Annual Disaster

    My birthday always coencides with a disaster or event bigger then me of some sort Someone has a heart attack, someone fell off the roof, someone had a baby, someone had surgery, someone went to the hospital,someone forgot to pick me up for my birthday party, someone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 18, 2008

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    I have never had significant birthday

    celebrations of any kind, due to the fact that a) as a child my parents didn't see the use in parties for a child who wouldn't remember them and b) I hate spending money. I just don't see the point, and perhaps you could say that my parents views have rubbed off on me, which is...
    Amzypamzy Amzypamzy 18-21, F May 6

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    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 2 Responses May 5

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    ITS Your Birthday Oh Joy

    I just enjoy the fact that I can tell people I am a year older than last time. This year my birthday was so crap I was depressed. Oh well I'm 14 now! :)
    Keelie Keelie 66-70, F Aug 10, 2009

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    24 Today.

    Today I realized that I no longer look forward birthdays. Now believe me, im not whining here. I'm just pointing out why birthdays always leave a bad taste in your mouth after a while (aside from the fact that you are one year closer to death/ not being able to care for yourself...
    THX1133 THX1133 22-25, M Oct 31, 2012

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    So it's my 19th Birthday today

    but I feel like nobody cares. I'm trying to make everyone have a good day.
    GeorgiaMaroulis GeorgiaMaroulis 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11

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    the reason I don't enjoy birthdays is

    because when I was 6 the clown of the party told me he had a secret present for me in the basement....he fuc*** me in two hours in a row...my butt still hurts ;)
    Yaird Yaird 16-17, M 2 Responses May 5

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    My Birthday Is My Gift To Myself

    Although, I don't enjoy my own birthday in the traditional sense. I love spoiling others on their birthday. I enjoy giving presents and making them feel special on their birthday. I prefer taking a few days leave around my birthday and spoiling myself with a roadtrip on my own...
    Easy2bwith Easy2bwith 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    I Am Actuallt Looking Forward to This One.

    In a scence i am happy cuase then it will only be two years till i will be able to move out. happy for that but its just one less year that i will be able to be a kid. I like growing up but i would like to be a kid all my life. Even if im 40 i want to be a kid... have fun ya know...
    tomtombear tomtombear 18-21, M Jan 10, 2009

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    Today is my birthday

    and I'm spending it mostly in bed.
    versushugo versushugo 26-30, M Apr 27, 2014

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    Whats the point of it

    when i am always alone. The only way i receive just a happy birthday is on facebook or as a text message. Only my family gives me a call
    Potchii Potchii 22-25, M 2 Responses May 6

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    Birthdays Suck

    i hate birthdays and usually avoid them if i can. The day always feels so insignificant and pointless and it never feels good to know that you are now a year older
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Jul 13, 2008

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    A Reminder I Just Wasted A Whole Year Doing Sod All

    Now other people's birthday's, of course they're fun, but not my own.
    rachelx86 rachelx86 22-25, F Jul 6, 2012

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    Do Not Want

    As an assignment in high school I was asked to write my own obituary. I wrote that I died on my 21st or 22nd birthday. Obviously I didn't die but I have to believe that it has seriously hindered my ability to enjoy my birthday(s). I also don't feel like my birthday should be...
    joekamal joekamal 31-35, M Jan 20, 2011

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    Whoop Di Doo

    I've never had a terribly exciting or fun birthday. I don't know why. They've just always been boring. And more often than not, i find myself crying on my birthday, for one reason or another. Next year is 2-0 so maybe i can make that one a better one!?!
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 10, 2009

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    Bye Bye

    I used to enjoy my birthday! When it was celebrated that is. The truth is I haven't had a birthday party since I was 13, my dad won't let me have birthday parties anymore because my grades aren't spectacular. I miss my birthday, since I hardly ever get to hang out with my friends...
    DreamlessDesire DreamlessDesire 18-21, F Sep 23, 2012

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    Tbh I don't even want my birthday to come.

    . Idek it's like meh.. There's really no point in it .-.
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn 13-15, F May 4

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    Birthdays Are Depressing

    Tomorrow is my birthday and I'm feeling depressed. I hate birthdays. Who wants to be reminded that they are getting old. With every birthday I am reminded about how close I am getting to the big 3-0. I can't believe I am this old. Where did time go. One day I was attending my...
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F Aug 5, 2008

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    Hate Birthdays

    1. as a child it was because i was given stuff in front of others after then left it was taken away again 2. my wife was born one day after i was i was on the forth she was born aon the 6th at almost the same time she was born at 4:06 in the morning i was born at 4:10 so we...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Oct 23, 2011

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    people only see me on my birthday

    because its an excuse to go out. not because they like me and want to spend time with me.
    Luliana Luliana 18-21, F May 6

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    I'm not really looking forward to my birthday

    which is next week and everyone wants me to make a small party like what for? Most of my friends would ask can I bring my girl as I bring bae, they're going to be stuck to that person the whole time probably making out knowing my friends try probably will! Smh next week is...
    kayboo44 kayboo44 16-17, F Jul 8, 2014

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    one year closer to death,

    ohh and organ failure. ..amazing...
    omss omss 18-21, M 3 Responses May 5

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    Wishing my birthday will arrive

    so It can just pass and be done with! Everyone's so excited except me...to be honest I wish I could be alone on my birthday and not see anyone! It's only gonna be one of those days you wish away!
    Ray1889 Ray1889 26-30, F May 13, 2014

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    Happens every year and I'm sure it'll happen again tomorrow. I guess I set myself up for it. For once I'd like to just really enjoy it, instead of feeling guilty about money or...
    HannahSavannah HannahSavannah 18-21, F 9 Responses May 7

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