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I Dont Really Go Out Much

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    Swept Under The Rug: The Confessions Of A Loner.

     I've pretty much been a lone wolf all of my life. Even when I had friends to hang out with I still preferred to be alone. Now that I'm older my outlook on life has changed and I'm starting to realize how much of a freaking hermit I really am.  What's worse is that I don't...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Always Been a 'homebody', But Not Really By Choice

    My shyness kicked into high gear by the time I was 10, so since then I haven't really gotten out and up to much of anything.  Other than going out to eat or to the movies with my parents, I pretty much stay home.  I'd like to get out more, but most places I feel weird...
    shygirl14 shygirl14 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2009

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    Scared

    i really choose not to go out because im so use to being in all the time if i could i paid someone to go do my outside arens for me i dont know its just my little world on the inside
    doglover140 doglover140 18-21, F Feb 22, 2011

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    I'm Kind of a Homebody

     I've just never been an actively social person. I'm by no means a quiet person, and I have friends in my classes and organizations I'm involved in, but I very rarely go out to clubs or anything like that. In the past few years, I've decided to try a bit more when it comes...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    Wish I Could...

    There were times in my life where I got out on a daily basis, but after I lost my job was when I began to stay in more. I found I would only get out when it was necessary. It has been ages since I last attended a rock concert or gone to a nightclub. And it has been months since I...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2010

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    Our ! Get Out All You Can

    LIFE IS TO SHORT! FACE YOUR DEMONS OR BE A HERMIT TILL DEATH IT IS HARD BUT YOU WILL WIN! LOL TRACHIE DAVE ENGLAND
    trachiedave trachiedave 51-55 Nov 12, 2012

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    Not a Party Girl.

    I don't care about parties, I don't care about getting out and getting wasted/drunk, whatever.  I'm content to stay at home and read, write, chat online, play some video games, cook, clean .... there's plenty to do without ever stepping foot outside the door! 
    LapisLaz LapisLaz 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2009

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    I Need to Get a Life

      I do get out quite a bit but its never for entertainment purposes. I go to school, take my son to the doctors, go shopping for the basic necessities but never for anything recreational. I don’t have much of a social life other than the one I have created online...
    depressedmommy depressedmommy 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 5, 2009

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    Not Any More

    No thrill in it. Can't be the me i need to be anyway. Same faces, same discussion, same ol' same old. It's okay occassionally but not night after night. i don't really go out much anymore ... unless it's something different and unusual. A concert, not more discussion with...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Extrovert Forced Into Introversion.

    Truly, I love people. I love places. I love things. It doesn't matter if it's a big city or a small town, I just love being out and about. I miss just walking down the street, breathing in the air and being at complete awe of the potential for love in each stranger I'd passed. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 9, 2013

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    thunder0 thunder0 22-25, M Dec 9, 2013

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    Completely Caged

    The way my parents are I never really get to go out. Not unless they are with me. So, to avoid embarassment I rarely go out at all. My friends understand but, it is frustrating to know your friends avoid asking you to hang out because of your parents. They make me feel like I am...
    PerfectRainbows PerfectRainbows 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    Ah, I Hate It Sometimes...

    The past two years I've been like this. I don't go out much anymore at all. It gets at me sometimes. Just feel like I have no life...haha. I'm not a quiet person either, it's just hard for me to make friends. Just wish I could have a circle of friend who likes things that i like...
    TheLostPoet TheLostPoet 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    No Real Friends + Being Too Quiet = No Social Life :(

    I´M SO SICK OF STAING HOME ALL DAY EVERY DAY, I ONLY WANT TO GET OUT BUT I DON´T KNOW WHERE AND I DON´T WANT TO BE ALONE, MY CELLPHONE ONLY HAVE CALLS AND TEXT MASSAGES OF MY MOM AND DAD, I USE MY CELLPHONE MORE LIKE A WATCH AND AN ALARM NO ONE EVER CALL ME TO GO OUT AND IF I...
    escorpion14 escorpion14 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    No I Don't

    At least, not with other people. I'll go to a coffee shop as early as I can on a Sunday morning to read my book, or I'll go to see a film in a cinema, preferably at a time when the screen will be empty-ish. But I don't go out to the pub for a drink with friends, or alone for...
    Ravengambitx Ravengambitx 26-30, M Dec 26, 2010

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    Not Out Of Choice Though....

    I just don't have any friends so have no social life. I spend most of my freetime with family which makes me feel ashamed and child like. I would love to be able to go out to a bar or pub for the night like I used to. I worry that will never again happen for me. It's horrible...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2011

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    17 And Never Been In A Party!

    hehe... Sounds funny I know... :D But I've never been in a party or a club.... When someone invites me (happens ones on a blue moon...) I usually say NO and randomly think of situation that I'm busy... I just don't enjoy places with a lot of drunk people... And because I don't...
    Remiko Remiko 18-21 3 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    I Have Hermit-like Tendencies.

    When given the choice during my free time between going anywhere and staying home...I generally always choose home. Its always been this way, and I'm not exactly sure why. Even when I have friends over it usually just results in us sitting on my porch or laying on my bed talking...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    Waiting For Life To Start

    ITS another November just like the last one, only this time i have a pc that i can break out a little and experience  ermmm  other  things that are not as boreing as nothing at all. So what im saying is,  i watch the years go round and nothing is changeing and...
    lafsnack lafsnack 51-55, M 7 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    I Have Everything I Need Right Here...........

    I have land, a house, a fridge, food, drink, EP. Yep, I'm good. I don't need to go out to entertain myself.........You all do that for me. Mahahahaha! ;]
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    I Don't Go Out Much

    I don't go out much because I don't have much money  so I spend most of my time on this computer.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Dec 27, 2011

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    Hermit

    I'm a hermit, so it should be no surprise that I hardly go out - except to buy food and stuff.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2011

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    Very Rarely

    I don't like going out. I feel too lazy, lol. Infact, I don't even know my own area well. >.< If you left me with my laptop, a book, my cell phone, DVDs and food in my room, I can stay there for weeks with no complaints. =/
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F Jul 2, 2010

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    I don't go out much. In winter. It's too cold :/
    prettyballerina prettyballerina 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    my social anxiety stops me from going out. Im online schooled so I do school from home. I have no friends and I have panic attacks every time I leave the house. so I prefer to...
    silentgirl1234 silentgirl1234 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    i always stayed in the house.dont have friends.so why should i go out??!!
    mrlonely21 mrlonely21 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    don't, not much at all. When I do, I'm really not much good at handling it. I don't like anger much at all. Sometimes it's a fury inside & then it's mixed with love and passion and...
    MillyMilly33 MillyMilly33 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Wow, this is hard to talk about. I grew up in a very abusive & homophobic environment. I was very attracted to women when I was younger and, well my parents found out and beat me...
    AlleywayGospel AlleywayGospel 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm pregnant, and haven't been going out much. I've been going on morning runs at 4, heading to school at 6, walking home after school, and meeting my boyfriend. I usually come...
    HirariHuur HirariHuur 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Everybody is so so much closer than me...when my friends and I meet new people they always relate to them better and they always hangout with them, not me. The people who I thought...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 3 hrs ago

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    Ever since i was young i've tried looking the best playing the part after time i saw that people only thought of me as fake and a wanna be, after that people started pushing me...
    Dck101 Dck101 13-15, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    my brain always finds something to worry about, even the craziest things. I don't believe in most of that paranormal stuff and I worry about it! I worry about my future, about my...
    galaxyclockwork galaxyclockwork 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm really bored right now. :/
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    The thought of just preparing for freshman year is stressing me out. - I have to buy a graphing calculator - I want to look at my friend's geometry textbook and get an idea of...
    Ashley1421 Ashley1421 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    At this point I don't care if your a gay or young or really old . Please :( help me finish
    AfterLife7 AfterLife7 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    I've lived in this town for about 9 years now, since right before high school and now I'm 23. In freshman year I met a group of guys I really liked, we have similar interests and I...
    titor5100 titor5100 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    I have been divorced for a little over a year from a man who had a destructive personality disorder and who had had an affair...and recently got the courage to start putting myself...
    hometowngirl211 hometowngirl211 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I don't even know where to start mainly because all my life I've been an outcast. When I was young my real father left me and so my mom worked a lot to keep food on the table and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I have been dealing with a lot recently, trying to get my act together and figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life. I am scared. Just got a car, have 2 jobs, and am...
    GiovanniRose GiovanniRose 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    Here are details about me: - 180 cm - 71 kg - I'm not very skinny or fat (i'm working out) - good looking guy - i love sports - I'm a meme person - not a nerd - smart - kinda guy...
    Marko22 Marko22 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Pretty interesting affair... We met here..I was pretty flirty before meeting him,He was pretty serious kind of soul.He complained about everything,why that guy wrote on my WB,why...
    AMidsummerNightsDream AMidsummerNightsDream 26-30, F Jul 9

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    I really really like my best friend. We have been friends since we were about 3, so we have been friends for about 13 years. I have always had a little crush on her but when you...
    hcaznitram hcaznitram 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I talk to myself a lot. Like a lot, and in great detail. Like I'm talking to other people but I'm the only one there. In my head I could be in a group of people making them all...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    So the past few years, I've pretty much cleaned up my act. I've basically halted recreational drug use and do immense amounts of work. My goal is get into a PhD program and get...
    tigreemodela tigreemodela 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    He left for uni. The last time I see him its maybe one or two weeks ago, on a Friday. The last time I ever see him face to face. I tried to stay in contact with him. But he seems...
    yomy1603 yomy1603 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I COULDN'T LEAVE MY MUM: It was in summer 1981, I was 12. I was at home with my three older sisters.. At about 7pm my mum came through the front door.. I still can see her in my...
    Sorrentina Sorrentina 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    And here I was thinking the guy was a sociopath. No, he's just a narcissist. Like that's supposed to be comforting or something.. Well, here's the story. When we first met, he fell...
    JourneeBlue JourneeBlue 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    ITS STRANGE BUT TRUE, I WAS ONCE IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP FOR WUITE SOME TIME SEXUALY DEPRIVED AND EQUALY ALMOST HIGHY PASSIONATE ABOUT EXPERIENCING CHEMISTRY AND FEELING...
    BIGIZBETTER BIGIZBETTER 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    I don't even know where to start,all my feelings,emotions,thoughts and heartbreak are tangled up in 34 years worth. I guess to begin my story is to go back to the very start of my...
    skyesie80 skyesie80 31-35, F Jul 3

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    I had such a bad high off some really strong Indica today. I smoked half a bowl and got super pale, then i stopped being able to stand or walk, then i passed out and was lowered to...
    AphroditeM AphroditeM 18-21, F 1 Response