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I Don't Really Understand Human Behaviour

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    I am baffled by human behavior.

    Not all human behavior of course, but a lot of mundane stuff that people do commonly. I have trouble understanding why people join groups or why so many seem to enjoy being in a group. Religious activities, sports activities, parties, and other things that involve interacting...
    LuminousMotes LuminousMotes 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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