I Don't Speak to My Sister

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    My sister and I have never been close.

    We fought when we were younger and it even got worse when we both moved out of our parents house and tried to live together. 7 months ago she stopped talking to me completely. Blocked any form of contact we could have. My family pretends nothing happened, but they too have...
    littleliongirl littleliongirl
    22-25, F
    Dec 2, 2013

    Stubburn

    It's been over a year since I last saw my sister. She's had a child in that time, but that wasn't why we weren't speaking. We actually haven't spoken in about 2 years... maybe longer now. There's a lot of blame to go around, but in the end it comes down to the fact that we're...
    winkitaway winkitaway
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2007

    Betrayed By a Loved One

    Hi, thought i would share my story as well but I'll have to go back a few years..My father passed away from cancer when I was 7 so I grew up with my mom and younger sister. My sister and I grew up very close because I had promised my dad on his deathbed that I would look out for...
    rebelsailor89 rebelsailor89
    18-21
    3 Responses May 21, 2009

    I'm Done

    My sister and I no longer speak. All our lives she has taken every chance to hurt my feeling with inapproripate comments. Now, she has told me she doesn't want me around when she visits my grandchildren. We live near by but we never invite each other to our home uless there is...
    hinda928 hinda928
    61-65
    1 Response Aug 4, 2011

    We Are Separated

    ...by distance and her own choosing. Since she and her family have moved to Cherokee, North Carolina, I have not heard from her. Not since my mom died...and that will be 3O years this coming May. I wondered what has happened to her, with her family. I know she is still alive,via...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine
    61-65, F
    Jun 11, 2013

    I Don't Talk To My Sister Either

    One day she started talking about things that didnt concern her, like my weight (which is not high), cholesterol (which i have no problems with), and questioning what I do with my money. I told her to mind her business and she started yelling at me. From then, I never spoke to...
    hello0 hello0
    13-15
    Jul 13, 2010

    So Sad

    Me and my sister were so close growing up, until about when I was 14 and she was 17. She met a boy, and about a year later he was living with us. No job, no education, just living off of my sister and my mom, who was already struggling. She's now five months pregnant with his...
    JustHowImFeeling JustHowImFeeling
    18-21, F
    Aug 5, 2012

    NO Love For Sister

    I SENT LETTER TO MY SISTER ASKING HER TO MOVE IN WITH MY PARENTS. MY DAD HAS ALSZHAIMERS AND MOM WORKS 2 JOBS AND TAKES CARE OF HIM. SIS LIVES IN SAME TOWN. I'M 1.5 HOURS AWAY. SIS NOT MARRIED AND HAS 1 15YR OLD. I'M MARRIED 2 KIDS 9 AND 16. IN LETTER I TOLD HER I HAD NO $. I USE...
    RD RD
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Apr 23, 2007

    Sister....

    So my sister and I are 16 years apart and she is so jealous of me....I don't even understand it, she has hurt the trust of our family, last time I spoke to her was when my mom and I drove her to her house, she have the nerve to say that I was a B$&@h for ignoring her, in reality...
    Confusedsister123 Confusedsister123
    16-17, F
    Sep 19, 2012

    Not My Sister

    I'm not sure she really qualifies as my sister. She is my birth sister, and I never knew her. Then she called and started e-mailing me, wanting to get to know me. I feel nothing for her. I almost feel guilty because I just don't care to talk to her. The situation is way to...
    eyes eyes
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 7, 2007

    My Sister Is Selfish and Self-centered

    Recently, after purchasing a house together and going into debt, mys sister moved out leaving me with all the debt.  My family thinks I'm being mean for not talking to her, but I also found out she's been doing quite a lot of underhanded things behind my back.  I'm...
    Zvezda Zvezda
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2007

    I'm on this website to figure out my sister.

    She stopped speaking to me about a year ago and most other members of my family including my mom. At first she was mad at my dad. Then she became more mad at my mom. I think she feels my mom favors the oldest sister. I don't know, I don't really care. I mean being a "favorite...
    sophiasure sophiasure
    41-45, F
    Mar 6, 2014

    Feeling Sad

    Throughout my entire life my sister and mom have dumped on me. My sister is so incredibly cold an mean to me. I don't really talk to her, just every once in a while and I am always terrified when I talk to her. I'm afraid of saying anything because somehow I always say something...
    artichokeheart artichokeheart
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 2, 2008

    ???

    Me and my sister were really close when we were little. but then i moved away about a year and some months ago. then everything when down hill. at first we kept on talking even though we lived in different states. i moved away cause me and my mom just didnt get along. my sister...
    Desanater Desanater
    16-17, F
    Dec 23, 2010

    She Doesn't Understand

    My sister and I have been fighting for the past year....with 7 months of it going without speaking. She is four years older and has two kids now. She is very intrusive and thoughtless when she asks questions about my life and makes judgements without really thinking...
    underblackenedskies underblackenedskies
    22-25, F
    Apr 7, 2009

    I Think Its Just Puberty

    she's really arrogant with me.. aloof to the point of inhuman.. so when I want to speak to someone, and I saw her, I have to find some sort of queue that I'm allowed to speak.. or she'll just ignore me with that I think you're weird look.. even an injury didn't bring her down to...
    amejad amejad
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2010

    I Miss Her Sometimes But Then I Remembered What She Said

    So my little sister and I don't talk. It's been about thirteen months since we got into a huge fight over religion. Pretty much someone at work quoted something from the bible wrong and it was funny. K put a status up on fb and my little sis took offense. It started this huge...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 25, 2012

    We Always Seem To Hurt Each Other...

    My oldest sis and I are 13 years apart. By the time I was 5, she was married and moved out of country. She started a family, and her visits were infrequent as I was growing up. When I was about 17, she came home for the holidays with her now large family. The stress was too much...
    youngestgirl youngestgirl
    51-55, F
    3 Responses May 20, 2013
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