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I Don't Take Sides In Wars

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 16 People

    If People In My Circle Are Fighting...

    I comfort them ALL! I don't expect people to take my side in arguments with their friends either.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    Anyway I was in one 1991

    and than I was just 11 years old, I didn't know what was going on and in my childish mind wouldn't even think someone was onto us to kill us over nite!!! But mom and dad had to stay with other people in the area, while they found some buses somewhere to pack as much as possible...
    Mamalove163 Mamalove163 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2014

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    You Just Can't Take Sides When They Are Both In Your Circle

    Sorry you two, and if I were to take sides I think there would be a very grumpy old man mad at me... smiles
    ELFINSONG ELFINSONG 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 26, 2009

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