I Don't Talk to My Dad

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    i dont talk to my dad

    or even no my dad he just up and walked out after he found out i was going to be a girl its always been just me and my mom
    Rebecca1402 Rebecca1402
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2015

    My dad abandoned me as a child.

    Years later, I found out I had a brother who wanted my dad and I to talk to each other. My dad refused to admit his mistakes or apologize, so I refused to associate with him. I figure this late in the game, there's really no reason.
    allshadesofgrey allshadesofgrey
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

    talk? to my dad i don't

    even know my dad well of course i seen pictures of him but i never got to met him , and no he didn't die he just wasn't a good father too me and I'm honestly happy without him cause shoes me ll my life i don't need no man in my life to make me happy.
    ggabbyr ggabbyr
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 3

    For years I wondered what he was like.

    I knew he loved to fish & so did I. I wondered what it'd be like to go fishing with my dad. Hang out with him on the weekends, the kind of things my friends did with their dads. I was angry my mom never let him come around.. As I got older, it seemed as though I always chose to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    Bad Dad

    When I was younger my dad abused us physically and mentally. My mom had to call the cops to get him out of the house when I was 7. Untill 9-6-13 I still saw him, he yelled at me to the point I cried. He gave me the guilt trip, which was how he controlled us before, so it hit me...
    Missy3210 Missy3210
    16-17, F
    Nov 17, 2013

    Whenever I think of connecting with my father,

    I make sure to make myself see how much he doesn’t deserve it, because you know what? My life is already empty of any love and I should not be entering cold irresponsible people in it, but rather I should be eliminating them from my life, those who already exist in it. Many...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Aug 29, 2015

    He left me for dead with my mom.

    He can bugger off with his new family. Good thing my mom was a strong person.
    LemStark LemStark
    18-21, M
    Jun 21, 2015

    My parents got divorced

    when I wad 13 after a year of seperation. My dad got a new family and now the only times he calls me is a butt dial. I don't answer anymore because it just gets my hopes up. I miss him, but it's also easier this way; less complicated. I don't know what I want. Sometimes it...
    Cierrad151 Cierrad151
    18-21, F
    Jul 16, 2015

    i used to think my dad was perfect,

    he's so clever, he's a teacher in an university, he does chemistry maths and stuff, but I moved to Spain and haven't seen him in 5 years :/ I've never lived with him my mum has done all for me she even works cleaning bathrooms and floors :'( I love her she's so strong, she has 3...
    TheBelovedMan TheBelovedMan
    22-25, M
    Dec 15, 2014

    It is always funny when your dad threatens to

    strangle you and then ship you off to your home country to get married to a forty year old *********. Little does that naive old man know that this worthless piece of s**t is going to get a law degree and land his *** in jail :))
    ayeshaketchum ayeshaketchum
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 20, 2014

    ...

    ...and my father almost murdered me...Don't think I forgot that **** it still burdens me...Don't you want me dadDon't you love me dadWhat the ****...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 28, 2013

    My father and mother divorced

    when I was a year old. He won full custody and never allowed her to see me. We had an amazing relationship up until I was about 10 and he started dating my step mother. After that he tossed me to the side for her kids. Years of fighting and battling for his love and affection...
    breezeinthewind breezeinthewind
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 14, 2015

    He has been gone since I was 6

    but he tried to stay in our lives. He moved back to Alberta while we were in Manitoba. After about a year or two he just stopped talking to us. We became Facebook friends and we talked again but one day I posted a status about something to do with my mom, kind of joking around...
    JustThat6irl JustThat6irl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 22, 2014

    My father used to be my hero years ago.

    Even though I grew up with my grandma, he would come to visit in a monthly basis, which meant the world to me. He would take us out to play, ride bikes and camping. For any kid that's great and enough to forget other issues like getting spanked or grounded. He used to make me go...
    Y1984a Y1984a
    26-30, F
    Jul 6, 2015

    I am glad I do not talk to my father,

    he is a terrible person. I would rather say he is dead than tell you what he has done.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 26, 2014

    I have a complicated relationship with my

    father (and mother, but this post only talks about fathers). My parents aren't divorced, but that doesn't mean that they have a happy marriage. When I was young, he would spend most of his life working so I never really got the time to know him and when he returns home, he just...
    Daredevil101 Daredevil101
    18-21
    1 Response Dec 14, 2015

    So when my parents were in high-school,

    my mother met this guy. He was the cool guy all the girls wanted to be with. This guy was the cool guy with the truck, and my mom fell for him. He was her first everything. My mom was a good teen, she really never had money, her mom always got beat, and she had many siblings...
    beautifulsoul8 beautifulsoul8
    18-21, F
    Apr 27, 2014

    I Miss You Dad..

    I haven't spoken to my father in about a year now. I feel as if Ive completely lost him, and well - I've become numb to the feeling. Throughout my life he has battled with alcohol, and that has always put a factor into my parents' marriage, causing separation...
    smkox smkox
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Jun 22, 2009

    I only talk to my dad

    when I have to. My parents have been separated since my dad left us when I was 10. I've never forgiven him for leaving, and since he left, he's done a lot of other things that has made me not want anything to do with him. Because he left my family without any warning, my...
    BlueLass BlueLass
    18-21, F
    Sep 18, 2015

    I Don't Hate Him

    I don't hate him , but I can see crystal clear through his eyes, deep inside, there is only hate there for me, only envy and malice in his soul. I am 16, I haven't talk to him for about 6 months now and I can tell that I feel much better from then, although it's quite...
    sparkydream sparkydream
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 25, 2013

    Before i was born he left

    because he didn't want me. I don't know what he looks like or his name
    felicitydunlap felicitydunlap
    16-17, F
    Jul 6, 2015

    We live in the same house

    and I haven't had a normal convo with him in ages all he ever does is give me orders and scream and fight with me and it gets annoying. He's never happy with anything I do no matter how hard I try he never lets me go out anywhere cause he says he doesn't trust me and he just...
    LauraMcgee LauraMcgee
    18-21, F
    Jul 9, 2015

    I don't pretend, I genuinely feel

    for most of the time that I don't care about my lost relationship with my father. However, I am often so moved when I watch any father related things, I feel like an idiot.
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 12

    I used to like my dad,

    but later it became clear that he loves my sister a lot more than me. Even my mom noticed it, but my dad keeps denying it and gets angry if i tell him how I feel about it. He starts throwing things and yell at me. But he is trying to talk to...
    Tiffjoy Tiffjoy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 8, 2015

    He still lives with me,

    he still socializes with me, but he's not really my "dad" anymore. It really hurts me inside when I see posts of girls my age, saying how much they "love their daddy" whilst posting pictures of them and their dad, it reminds me of how much I'll never have that. When I was 6...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 26, 2015

    I love my dad so much

    and so does he but the problem is he get excited for small things and starts to become nasty. Then after being nasty, he starts smiling, have a calm voice and be apologetic (depends on the situation though). Mum says that i shouldn't mind what he says when he gives out because...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 5, 2014

    Who Are You?

    Dear Dad: I don't know you! You were gone most of my life, and I realized you knew where I was you just didn't decide to visit.  You blame my grandmother, but if you really wanted to be part of my life, you would've overcome any obstacles to get to me. ...
    Th3D0ct0r Th3D0ct0r
    26-30
    9 Responses Nov 10, 2008

    I hate this day. Father's Day - it's a joke!

    There's a reason why Mother's Day is the most celebrated holiday - they are usually the parent that gives a damn! I'm not saying all mothers are great, nor are all men who truly deserve the title of "Father" bad, but a majority are! I despise today, but in my anger and hurt...
    honestcloud honestcloud
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    I haven't properly spoken with my father

    for about three months now and frankly, as a 17 year old girl, I am not very bothered by the situation. Despite this, my mother in particular really wants me to make an effort and apologise to him for causing him to shut down. Apparently this occurred because he is sick of my...
    Zaroha134 Zaroha134
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    I love my dad to pieces.

    I admire him and respect him for the qualities he has that I'm kind of lacking in. It's kind of flattering to see how strangers respond to him, even men. So impressed and in awe of his accomplishments. He had this movie star like public persona with my friends, co-workers and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 21, 2015

    so I have a decision to make

    and I don't know which way to go. my dad and I don't talk and have a damaged relationship. he is having a 60th birthday party this weekend and I was invited. I don't know if I want to go. my sister is going and taking my nieces so I can hang with them but I feel like why...
    disneygal81 disneygal81
    31-35, F
    Nov 14, 2015
    Vswagger Vswagger
    13-15, M
    Jun 24, 2015

    We don't speak, I remember the last time I

    called him the conversation was so awkward. I was 20 and still felt empty from his abandonment, but after that call I knew I wasn't missing out on nothing. He was missing more than anything...he doesn't even know he has a grandson. I'll never understand how you can walk away...
    therealher1 therealher1
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 27, 2015
    tinygirlz tinygirlz
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 8

    I Never Had The Chance

    Thank you dad Eventhough u weren't around to watch me grow , I find alot of my traits come from you.. I turned out great I wish u could see the little bit of you there is in me. I will never understand why you abandoned me  Or y I wasn't important enough to pursue, I will never...
    Cerxx Cerxx
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2012

    Whenever I'm In public

    and I see a dad with his little girl, treating her like a princess I just really want to cry, because that's really all I ever wanted.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    My dad isn't a big part of my life anymore,

    he departed from my life while growing up from a young age. As I get older I do start to miss him more than I ever did as a child. The last time I heard his voice it was over the phone, we was in the hospital for CHF. I tried hard not to cry when I heard him, he told me he was...
    mentallyhigh mentallyhigh
    18-21, F
    Aug 14, 2015

    My father. Now he is behaving like an *** now.

    I work i earn but he thinks im spending too much and he has taken my credit card and keeping a tap on my account. I dont know what should I do. ;( . I have stopped talking to him.
    paulhou0 paulhou0
    22-25, M
    Nov 28, 2015

    I don't even know where he is.

    Last time I heard from him he was off to Paris. That was like 10 years ago.
    izzycg izzycg
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    Father's Day tomorrow,

    and he may not even show up... Plus the last conversation we had on the phone a week ago was him screaming at me... If I do see him, I'm not looking forward to it.... He'll just criticize me and yell at me some more... On the other hand, I feel bad for my 4yr old brother because...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 20, 2015

    My dad makes me feel like I'm worthless.

    We don't have a relationship although we live under the same roof. I never felt love from him and I stopped showing him love after he started abusing me physically and mentally. Always bringing me down and making me feel like a mistake. He's always angry and in a bitter mood. He...
    dreamerxo186 dreamerxo186
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 18

    Guess what tomorrow is?

    "avoid-social-media" day!
    SammiSakura SammiSakura
    16-17, F
    Jun 20, 2015

    always had a tenous relationship with him.

    .something happened in my childhood with him and although i do not wish him ill (at times i have but i strongly believe in karma so try not to wish ill on anyway and i don't i make a rule of it) so i maintain have never wished ill on him ..only not wanted to be associated with...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer
    36-40
    1 Response Mar 13

    my parents understands me now

    for being cold hearted..and im starting to talk with them now..
    jiwonhan612 jiwonhan612
    13-15
    Jun 23, 2015

    My mom and dad got divorced right

    before I entered kindergarten, but lived together until I was in 5th grade. It was very unstable: lots of yelling, fighting, late nights driving looking for them, begging for him to come home. I remember crying most nights waiting for him to come home. I remember going to the...
    anoncat7 anoncat7
    22-25, F
    Nov 13, 2015

    I Even Call Him David

    Some times i feel like wearing a huge "TALK TO ME" sign like the one in this group's profile pic only that mine would also have "CANT U SEE ME U FOOL!!"  It is very frustrating to talk to someone who barely notices ur presence trust me i have tried. He doesn't live with us...
    ufutaa ufutaa
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2012

    My father wasn't around often,

    but even when he was, it was like he was a ghost. Most of the time he spent either on his computer or in the game room watching TV and drinking. I knew he could be an awful person, but I never really knew the full extent until I got older. He would get drunk and be...
    Grant0306 Grant0306
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Apr 2, 2014

    This really should say my dad doesn't talk to

    me. He is a dummy. I'm sorry but he is. A real dodo. All my life he has never attempted bonding with me or my brother. He drinks. He's super emotional. He guilt trips everyone. He victimizes himself. He drank while driving my brother and I in the car when we were kids. As a kid...
    dapper18234 dapper18234
    26-30, F
    Jan 10

    I think my dad wants to try

    and connect with me, he just doesn't know how anymore.
    biscuitstiq biscuitstiq
    26-30, T
    Jun 21, 2015

    Well it was a couple of months ago

    and I went to go stay with my dad cause I got introuble at school so anyway while I was there my dad got drunk and he came in the house and like came up stairs and told me to get up and I guess I got up to slowly so he grabbed me by the shirt and said do you think thus is a game...
    notheonlyone notheonlyone
    13-15, M
    5 Responses Jul 5, 2015

    So today I was at work

    and it was pretty steady, not busy but not slow. I saw someone in my line and realised it was my dad... Preparing for a reunion of sorts with him when I noticed him (because I hadn't seen him in years) he finally got to the front of the line and I just said "hello" very nervous...
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2014
    MevsLife MevsLife
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 13

    And you wouldn't either

    if you were me!- He was literally the bane of my childhood! My mother left him when I was very young about 4 with my little sister and signed affidavit granting permission for us to take up habitual residence within the United States. 4 years later his lies would lead to a...
    VillaVuka VillaVuka
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2014
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