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I Dont Talk To My Dad

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    My mom died when i was six due to cancer. Since i was an only child with a very sick mother, i became a daddys girl. I dont have much memories of her except those of her last days. I was always with my father. When my mom finally bid goodbye to us, my father changed. He went away...
    Decembertwentytwo Decembertwentytwo 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2012

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    He Lives With Me, But I Don't Care

    I refuse to talk to him. I have no reason to ever forgive him for the things he has said and done to my entire family, not only put us through stress beyond belief, but all the pain my mom has gone through because of him. He is the worst human being I have ever met. A waste of...
    123IMissYou321 123IMissYou321 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    I don't know my father.

    He has been incarcerated since I was born. I sucks because it's difficult to ask about him without bringing up unwanted issues from the past.
    kico4 kico4 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I honestly could say I hate my dad he doesn't

    understand all the hurt and pain he put my through for the past 19 years with all his lies and just unfaithfulness. All I wanted is for my dad to be in my life or some type of father figure but yet you where never there for me when I needed you the most. I asked him today over...
    jsabree18 jsabree18 18-21, F Apr 3

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    I Feel...

    Conflicted, I don't want to talk to him but I am scared of losing my grandmother who sees her son as the perfect angel who never does anything wrong. I know in an instant she would chose him over me in a heart beat and thinking about that makes my heart hurt. I hate how my dad...
    unknownuser2663 unknownuser2663 16-17 Jul 11, 2013

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    I honestly just don't respect

    and have to desire to talk to him
    Kasney Kasney 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Ihaveanabsentdad

    I hope I can help some one out there that is having a hard time with there dad, and at the same time I hope to find help for me. I'm sixteen years old and my parents got divorced when I was five. I don't remember much of when they were married but the things I do remember haunt...
    taylorell taylorell 16-17 1 Response Apr 30, 2012

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    My mothers ***** donor is ****.

    However, the man that raised me, who I will always consider my dad, is awesome!
    thelatintwist thelatintwist 31-35, F Feb 20

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    So my mom had me at 18

    and my father tried multiple times to kill me when I was in her womb. He told her that if it was a boy he would stay but if it was a girl he wouldn't be part of her life. I am a girl. His name isn't on my birth certificate and I just found out his name last year and Well I haven...
    larrissa18 larrissa18 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    The barren and the wondering soul loses his

    state of mind. He walks far away from any sign of human kind. He reaches for a leading role but grasps empty air. This pain inside is beyond compare Oh father where are you now Did you fall When I left did you drown In alcohol
    L0nelyWanderer L0nelyWanderer 16-17, M Mar 23

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    Because He Won'T Talk To Me

    My father didn't raise me. I had a step father before I was 5. I didn't really know much about my dad just that I wasn't my step dad's kid I was 5 and I can remember just knowing. Eventually I found my real dad if you can call him that. He doesn't want me he said he did but he...
    lovejunkie2 lovejunkie2 26-30, F Jul 28, 2013

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    He's a ******* who i hate

    and a demanding hypocrite
    BabyGirlAtHeart BabyGirlAtHeart 13-15, F Dec 1, 2013

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    My parents recently divorced,

    as my mum found my dad to be cheating on her, that night she attemped suicide and from that night on I've tried still talking but it hurts to much. He used to be my idol
    Rocknrolllstarrr Rocknrolllstarrr 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I love my dad so much.

    He cries I cry, he's happy I'm happy. But we don't talk? I've never said happy birthday to him or happy Father's Day because it's awkward and he's never done the same to me. When we're alone in the lounge or kitchen or whatever it's really awkward. Only time I talk to him is...
    Jahhh Jahhh 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I really don't talk to me dad.

    He makes me feel down and I hear the stuff he says about me, how he always finds a way to compare me to my perfect step sister. I don't even try to talk to him so a can't pick out my speech flaws
    Frozensilence Frozensilence 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    Two Worlds

    I love my daddy to death. I am a daddy's girl. He loves me more than anything. I'm his only child. But we don't have a relationship. If that makes sense. It's awkward to be the only one in the room with my dad. We don't talk about anything. How do I get closer to him?
    ratchray ratchray 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I don't hate me dad, there is no hatred

    but sometimes distance is the best solution . I will continue to pray for him to get his life together . He doesn't understand his wrong towards people hisself and family. I will not stop having faith in him . I know he can change.
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    My parents are divorced,

    my dad moved away. When I was a kid, I had a great relationship with him but it slowly disappeared. Now, I can't be alone in a room with him because it's awkward. I want to have a great father-daughter relationship but I can't. He just nver worries about me, only him and his...
    JulietA93 JulietA93 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    Haha. Just what I was thinking.

    My father consistently calls my phone, don't know how he got my number, then iOS 7 came along I blocked him completely. I just can't forgive him for abandoning his child (me) and not being in my life for important events. Yet I'm the only one of his kids that are actually...
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Jan 16

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    Why Would I when he put himself

    before his family thousands of times. I'm done with him and any other selfish person. You can go through life treating people like the dirt in the bottom of your shoe and expected to be treated like a king.
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Daddy Why?

    I was only 8 years old when my dad left us..my father was always stuck on the computer talking to a women.i thought she was a friend but i was wrong.my dad ask her to marry him while being married to my mother..why? Why would he do that? I was confuse..7 years has pass and now he...
    Angle321 Angle321 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    Why bother? I mean if he ignored my

    until my senior year of high school, you have issues. Then once I'm in college you still try. If you can't let me go, how do you expect me to move on?!
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Mar 26

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