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I Dont Talk To My Dad

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    I honestly could say I hate my dad he doesn't

    understand all the hurt and pain he put my through for the past 19 years with all his lies and just unfaithfulness. All I wanted is for my dad to be in my life or some type of father figure but yet you where never there for me when I needed you the most. I asked him today over...
    jsabree18 jsabree18 18-21, F Apr 3

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    He left a little over ten years ago

    and it took him that long to realize what he missed out and he doesn't even know me. When he visits me now it's weird cause he is like a complete stranger to me now
    BabyDuchanne BabyDuchanne 16-17, F May 5

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    My dad has turned his back on all four of his

    children & has now claimed hi girlfriends children are his.
    graeff120 graeff120 36-40, F May 20

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    I don't want to talk to my father.

    He beat me and did nasty rotten things to me. He can take his apologies and sit on them because his words mean nothing now that his actions have spoken the truth. He is a disgusting man. He is cruel and heartless. He pretended to love me all those years, and my mom left me with...
    BeautifulBianca666 BeautifulBianca666 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    Because He Won'T Talk To Me

    My father didn't raise me. I had a step father before I was 5. I didn't really know much about my dad just that I wasn't my step dad's kid I was 5 and I can remember just knowing. Eventually I found my real dad if you can call him that. He doesn't want me he said he did but he...
    lovejunkie2 lovejunkie2 31-35, F Jul 28, 2013

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    My mothers ***** donor is ****.

    However, the man that raised me, who I will always consider my dad, is awesome!
    thelatintwist thelatintwist 36-40, F Feb 20

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    Ihaveanabsentdad

    I hope I can help some one out there that is having a hard time with there dad, and at the same time I hope to find help for me. I'm sixteen years old and my parents got divorced when I was five. I don't remember much of when they were married but the things I do remember haunt...
    taylorell taylorell 16-17 1 Response Apr 30, 2012

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    Dad. The word that brings my anger from 0 to

    100 in seconds. A man that said he always loved me but only loved to put me down and make me feel low. Most dads love their little girl and treat them like princesses. Well not me i got the rough, cold hearted treatment. I would expect that treatment from a guy or a friend but...
    verox3 verox3 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Why bother? I mean if he ignored my

    until my senior year of high school, you have issues. Then once I'm in college you still try. If you can't let me go, how do you expect me to move on?!
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Mar 26

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    I don't know my father.

    He has been incarcerated since I was born. I sucks because it's difficult to ask about him without bringing up unwanted issues from the past.
    kico4 kico4 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    My parents are divorced,

    my dad moved away. When I was a kid, I had a great relationship with him but it slowly disappeared. Now, I can't be alone in a room with him because it's awkward. I want to have a great father-daughter relationship but I can't. He just nver worries about me, only him and his...
    JulietA93 JulietA93 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    My parents recently divorced,

    as my mum found my dad to be cheating on her, that night she attemped suicide and from that night on I've tried still talking but it hurts to much. He used to be my idol
    Rocknrolllstarrr Rocknrolllstarrr 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    So my mom had me at 18

    and my father tried multiple times to kill me when I was in her womb. He told her that if it was a boy he would stay but if it was a girl he wouldn't be part of her life. I am a girl. His name isn't on my birth certificate and I just found out his name last year and Well I haven...
    larrissa18 larrissa18 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I Feel...

    Conflicted, I don't want to talk to him but I am scared of losing my grandmother who sees her son as the perfect angel who never does anything wrong. I know in an instant she would chose him over me in a heart beat and thinking about that makes my heart hurt. I hate how my dad...
    unknownuser2663 unknownuser2663 18-21 Jul 11, 2013

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    Two Worlds

    I love my daddy to death. I am a daddy's girl. He loves me more than anything. I'm his only child. But we don't have a relationship. If that makes sense. It's awkward to be the only one in the room with my dad. We don't talk about anything. How do I get closer to him?
    ratchray ratchray 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I love my dad so much.

    He cries I cry, he's happy I'm happy. But we don't talk? I've never said happy birthday to him or happy Father's Day because it's awkward and he's never done the same to me. When we're alone in the lounge or kitchen or whatever it's really awkward. Only time I talk to him is...
    Jahhh Jahhh 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I honestly just don't respect

    and have to desire to talk to him
    Kasney Kasney 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    The barren and the wondering soul loses his

    state of mind. He walks far away from any sign of human kind. He reaches for a leading role but grasps empty air. This pain inside is beyond compare Oh father where are you now Did you fall When I left did you drown In alcohol
    L0nelyWanderer L0nelyWanderer 16-17, M Mar 23

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    I don't hate me dad, there is no hatred

    but sometimes distance is the best solution . I will continue to pray for him to get his life together . He doesn't understand his wrong towards people hisself and family. I will not stop having faith in him . I know he can change.
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I've stopped talking to my dad

    when he began to yell at me for having my own opinions. I feel unappreciative whenever I decide to not talk to my dad because I know so many people who come from broken homes and live without fathers. I am blessed with a mom and a dad, but my dad and I do not get along. He likes...
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F 3 Responses May 26

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    Man I wish I had a dad.

    ..yet I'm grateful because I would never be where I am. Why did he turn crazy? They blame the army. How can the people who swore to keep my dad safe turned him into a test dummy for your medications? Anyone ever seen Max Payne....his life story. Dad a whack head smh
    sharonwatson1210 sharonwatson1210 18-21, F May 20

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    I really don't talk to me dad.

    He makes me feel down and I hear the stuff he says about me, how he always finds a way to compare me to my perfect step sister. I don't even try to talk to him so a can't pick out my speech flaws
    Frozensilence Frozensilence 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    My father was in prison from the day I was born

    until I was about 6. Even when he got out he was never there, too busy hanging with his friends and girlfriends. Never bothered to take me places or do anything at all. Then when I turned 14 he started trying to be involved in my life but it was too late. I've developed 0...
    Destiny623 Destiny623 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I didn't talk to him

    for five years leading up to his death at age 57. He was in a coma and I saw him and said my last words to him. Probably the most raw, emotional moment in my life. I don't know how aware a person can be in that state. But there was a tear in his eye and many more in mine. I like...
    ItMayBeShort ItMayBeShort 46-50, M 3 Responses Jun 12

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    My biological father has been in

    and out of my life for as long as I can remember, usually going YEARS without any contact whatsoever. At 20, I finally made the decision to completely cut him off, and I am much happier, however I feel bad for giving up on him sometimes. :/ My mother's boyfriend has been more of...
    JaidIsAWildflower JaidIsAWildflower 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    My dad lives in California

    while I live in Idaho. I can't stand him...he is super religious and I'm atheist/pagan. He forces me to go to church!!
    KoolKandon KoolKandon 13-15, M 5 Responses Jun 21

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    me and my dad were super close growing up

    until he divorced my stepmom. I think he kinda changed like he had a couple of gf's lately and there all ugly and fat but he is just using them for there money. we used to call eachother all the time but not be barely speak
    TaylorsierraWilson TaylorsierraWilson 16-17, F Jul 3

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    Father

    My mom died when i was six due to cancer. Since i was an only child with a very sick mother, i became a daddys girl. I dont have much memories of her except those of her last days. I was always with my father. When my mom finally bid goodbye to us, my father changed. He went away...
    Decembertwentytwo Decembertwentytwo 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2012

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    I'm not a good daughter!

    🙍 Father I love u very much And now I really need to hug u 💙💚💛
    kimi97 kimi97 16-17, F 2 Responses May 26

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    Why Would I when he put himself

    before his family thousands of times. I'm done with him and any other selfish person. You can go through life treating people like the dirt in the bottom of your shoe and expected to be treated like a king.
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 1 Response Mar 26

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    He's a ******* who i hate

    and a demanding hypocrite
    BabyGirlAtHeart BabyGirlAtHeart 13-15, F Dec 1, 2013

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    My father abandoned me

    before I was born to go raise another woman's kids. He was a real classy dude.
    kat990 kat990 13-15 1 Response Jun 28

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    Haha. Just what I was thinking.

    My father consistently calls my phone, don't know how he got my number, then iOS 7 came along I blocked him completely. I just can't forgive him for abandoning his child (me) and not being in my life for important events. Yet I'm the only one of his kids that are actually...
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Jan 16

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    Daddy Why?

    I was only 8 years old when my dad left us..my father was always stuck on the computer talking to a women.i thought she was a friend but i was wrong.my dad ask her to marry him while being married to my mother..why? Why would he do that? I was confuse..7 years has pass and now he...
    Angle321 Angle321 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    I try but he doesn't talk to me.

    He said he gives up on me but my sister wanted him in our life so he came back but then he left with some girl again. The other day I tried to text him he read it but didn't text back. I cried when he didn't say happy birthday to me. I tried everything I even tried texting his...
    Girlmahomie Girlmahomie 16-17, F 2 Responses May 26

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    He Lives With Me, But I Don't Care

    I refuse to talk to him. I have no reason to ever forgive him for the things he has said and done to my entire family, not only put us through stress beyond belief, but all the pain my mom has gone through because of him. He is the worst human being I have ever met. A waste of...
    123IMissYou321 123IMissYou321 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    Over 2 years ago I lost my mum. I was 10 at the time and it was the worst pain I had ever felt. Once she passed it was just me, my dad and my younger sister. I have a few aunts but...
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    So I'm looking for a nice daddy who will give me what I need. I'm 16 but I'm willing to wait until I'm older if necessary. I've been with older men before but none were into daddy...
    PrincessPayton PrincessPayton 18-21, F 9 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Missing him quite a bit at the min. Sisters wedding was good at the weekend, felt sad for my mum and I'm proud of my sister giving a speech instead of him. Talked about the...
    LFCno1 LFCno1 22-25, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I go around saying things are fine to others and they are not. My stress is causing me not to eat, i can't talk to many people. I would love to talk to my sis, it's our dad who not...
    Luckycharm17 Luckycharm17 36-40, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Today me and my girlfriend moved out and of course her dad came to check out the new place. My gf put on a one piece short little dress with no bra or panties. She began unpacking...
    MrSecretGuy MrSecretGuy 31-35, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    It's fun I love getting off with sexy girls they rub there tight ****** for daddy mmm
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M 7 hrs ago

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    I have been broken so many times in my life. And each time been left to struggle and nearly die. I turned to my master at the time to keep me sane. To keep me breathing. But in the...
    NothingSpecialJustMe421 NothingSpecialJustMe421 16-17, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    My whole life i have always had a close relationship with ALL of my family members. But ever since my dad has passed away my family doesn't seem close anymore. Like when we have...
    armchairlama9 armchairlama9 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    i think we should understand the meaning of our dad and mom before we have lost them :(
    berealistic811 berealistic811 26-30, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    i am a strict daddy .i will really punish u for being bad, i ll spank you, will do things to punish u so bad that u ll learn all ur lessons
    mrnetcafe mrnetcafe 36-40, M 16 hrs ago

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    I truly enjoy being a Daddy Dom. I have been missing out on the 24/7 lifestyle but getting back to that regular "routine" has so many benefits to myself and my lil one.
    chocolatemaster27 chocolatemaster27 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    Where's my daddy dom? I need one (:
    halfpace halfpace 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I wish I had a daddy. Im a good girl I promise
    kittykat101436 kittykat101436 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I need a daddy who wants me
    kittykat101436 kittykat101436 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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