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I Don't Think Anyone Deserves To Be Abused

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    Nobody Deserves To Be Abused In Anyway For Any Reason

    I have seen many questions and comments on domestic violence against women.I really think that it's pathetic and out of ignorance that one would say that another human being deserves it because they stay and put up with it. First of all..nobody deserves it just as nobody...
    ayankee ayankee 46-50, F 14 Responses Feb 20, 2010

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    Why?

    Honestly I don't understand peoples need to abuse others.  I don't know who possible could think they have the right to hurt someone, and someone would deserve to be hurt.  It's terrible, if something is wrong or doing something bad abuse won't help anything.  There are better...
    meyouandus meyouandus 18-21, F 1 Response May 27, 2011

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    Abuse The Child Of God

    I realize at this time 32 years I am a serious victim of abuse still til this day. I am also aware of the purpose of it that doesn't sit well with me either. How I have scars from trauma physical ,mental, psychological and sexual this kitten. I am suppose to accept it not fight...
    atsweet atsweet 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2011

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    Disagree

    I think others that hurts children need to be open targets to others and should not be protectec in jail of prison they need to be placed in stocks during the day for 1 year and lots of rotten food to throw at them provied
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 1 Response May 31, 2011

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    Where To Go From Here

    So yesterday I shared my story in black and white for all to see and felt liberated to have done so. Last night, as we always do, my fiance and I sat on our patio talking. I shared with him the timeline of abuse and when I was done I realized several things: 1. I have told my...
    cajunsunshine cajunsunshine 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2010

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    Abused

    NO ONE EMOTIONALLY MENTALLY PHYSICALLY
    reluctantrampant reluctantrampant 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    In Any Form

    Being called names At first not that bad But slowly worse everyday Trying not to be bothered by them Trying to ignore them Not that hard in the beginning But harder as the days go by Now they hurt The words bring you down You aren't that confident anymore Self-esteem goes...
    InmemoryofLifelessStar InmemoryofLifelessStar 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    Cypress

    Back when the mental and sexual abuse was on a shelf back in the farthest, deepest and darkest hidden corner of my soul, and I felt I was living a somewhat normal existance, I composed this poem. It's directed at my mother, if she even deserves the title.... Cypress Standing...
    cajunsunshine cajunsunshine 26-30, F Sep 20, 2010

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    In Real Life Hell No!

    But in movies to prove a point and to alert people of the seriousness of what could happen then its ok i guess
    darkangellights darkangellights 18-21, F Jul 23, 2012

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    I Don't Understand How A Mother Can Abuse Her Own Children.....

    It's a long story, but I'll tell it any ways. Maybe some one will listen to it all.  My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months now. He has been telling me his life story. and he was so abused when he was little, by the time he was 16 he couldn't take it any...
    spj1811 spj1811 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 6, 2010

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    No One

    No one,Deserves to be abused,Not in my view,Don't matter,What color,Race or creed,Everyone has their rights,Let's treat everyone,With the respect,They deserve.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Toomuch

    Fear goes away eventually. I wonder what i'll do when I'm not scared of  anything anymore.... Sleep is an escape.... I get angry and I vent, my anger flows and is drowning my partner. My healing is too much to handle. Looking for a really huge rock to hide under...
    cajunsunshine cajunsunshine 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    I had a friend who was murdered by her

    ex-boyfriend. He was the father of both of her children. Her son was 5 and her daughter was 3. He shot his ex-girlfriend and his own 3yr old daughter in the head and killed both of them instantly. He shot his 5yr old son in the back of the neck, and he survived. And he then...
    LilMsUnknown LilMsUnknown 36-40, F Aug 13

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    Abuse. It Is Never Their Fault

    No one, no one no matter how much you hate them or how horrible they are desearves to be abused. It wrecks your life. Really screws you up, you cant trust anyone, you have no control over your emotions, you have to lie to your friends, your family, everyone. It is emotional...
    Cuitadella Cuitadella 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1, 2011

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    Never.

    i don't care if someone had said something mean to u or if u are 'angry cuz ur going through a rough time'... Any type of abuse should never happen. whether it be physical, mental, verbal, or any other kind. Some people have gone through enough in their lives, and do not...
    LittleFerrett LittleFerrett 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 20, 2010

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    Please Stop The Cycle

    In my opinion, many of the people that abuse others have experienced some type of abuse personally. I know it sucks, it' effin horrifying to get beaten or touched inappropriately, i know because i have lived it and survived some things that have put seemingly stronger people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    They To It Lite On Me?

    The extent of my abuse I never really told anyone I just now after 32 years I tell my children so they understand the chain of events thats occurring with me being gang stalked. Homeless ,fired ,bullied, lied on, in debt setup talked about threaten teased even my children see it...
    atsweet atsweet 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2011

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    The Open Hands

    Hi my name is sabine im just turn 18 year old i have no kids but here is my story i was 7 when i started school i was  Kindergarten i had to do that class twice my mom was mad so she started to call me name that was hurtful i didn't know wat to do then i was the tallest kid in...
    kissly01 kissly01 18-21 2 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Why?

    Why are people abusive? What gives them the right? Nobody deserves abuse. We are all human, therefore all have our flaws.This fact alone should be the biggest reason to not abuse our fellow human beings. We should respect  others unless they do something to lose that. This...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 27, 2010

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    This Is Short...

    No one deserves to be hurt in such way. I don't care what background they come from etc, abuse is NEVER acceptable. The pain inflicted is often unable to be reversed..how fucke[d] up is that?! People have to LIVE with those flashbacks. And I can't imagine what is it is like for I...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 27, 2010

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    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Dear hurt, Why can't you leave me alone? Why is it that you always find your way to suck me in, with no fair warning? Hurt, you put me down so many times. You keep telling my...
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    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F Jul 30

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    freeyourdemons freeyourdemons 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I guess in my case the perfect world wouldn't have gender rolls and stereotypes, but we live in a world that isn't perfect. I understand and accept that fact. I find it funny most...
    KawaiiDemon KawaiiDemon 18-21 Aug 21

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    My mom has always called me fat and I'm not I'm 5ft 8 and wear a size 10 to 12 UK so I don't understand. I'm curvy I have huge boobs and sometimes can even get into a size 8. My...
    daniellaafelumo daniellaafelumo 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm pretty simple, I'm a down to earth kinda chic. People don't see what's beneath the outer layer, sure men pretend to want to get to know me but the fact is finding someone who...
    shimmersandsparkles shimmersandsparkles 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    This all started when I had someone name DAW2012 or DAW2 with a star by his name and he was a man and he thought I was lying about my house that I just bought and I forgot to...
    Stephanie128 Stephanie128 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I know it's not popular opinion and it doesn't come across as very respectful or nice, but I think people are in the wrong when they say that Robin Williams is "free" or "in heaven...
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    Never. You shouldn't either. Not your parents, not your family, not your friends. No one! Humans are traitors. One second they love you, the next they hate you without warning or...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I get her. We've been through many of the imaginable situations together. We've discussed them, we've worked together through them. It's just that recently we've begun to snap at...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I'm not bragging about myself but I've always been a good student and going to college was a big dream of mine. I was bullied in highschool (and before) and I naively thought that...
    aloysia aloysia 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    oh maybe i'm the one who get's it wrong, deep thinking happens mostly when you are taking a shower, in quiet place or when person is in his self conscious moment. some people when...
    roxanz roxanz 22-25, M a week ago