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I Don't Think Anyone Deserves To Be Abused

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    Cypress

    Back when the mental and sexual abuse was on a shelf back in the farthest, deepest and darkest hidden corner of my soul, and I felt I was living a somewhat normal existance, I composed this poem. It's directed at my mother, if she even deserves the title.... Cypress Standing...
    cajunsunshine cajunsunshine 26-30, F Sep 20, 2010

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    No One

    No one,Deserves to be abused,Not in my view,Don't matter,What color,Race or creed,Everyone has their rights,Let's treat everyone,With the respect,They deserve.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Abuse The Child Of God

    I realize at this time 32 years I am a serious victim of abuse still til this day. I am also aware of the purpose of it that doesn't sit well with me either. How I have scars from trauma physical ,mental, psychological and sexual this kitten. I am suppose to accept it not fight...
    atsweet atsweet 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2011

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    Nobody Deserves To Be Abused In Anyway For Any Reason

    I have seen many questions and comments on domestic violence against women.I really think that it's pathetic and out of ignorance that one would say that another human being deserves it because they stay and put up with it. First of all..nobody deserves it just as nobody...
    ayankee ayankee 46-50, F 14 Responses Feb 20, 2010

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    The Open Hands

    Hi my name is sabine im just turn 18 year old i have no kids but here is my story i was 7 when i started school i was  Kindergarten i had to do that class twice my mom was mad so she started to call me name that was hurtful i didn't know wat to do then i was the tallest kid in...
    kissly01 kissly01 18-21 2 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Why?

    Why are people abusive? What gives them the right? Nobody deserves abuse. We are all human, therefore all have our flaws.This fact alone should be the biggest reason to not abuse our fellow human beings. We should respect  others unless they do something to lose that. This...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 27, 2010

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    In Any Form

    Being called names At first not that bad But slowly worse everyday Trying not to be bothered by them Trying to ignore them Not that hard in the beginning But harder as the days go by Now they hurt The words bring you down You aren't that confident anymore Self-esteem goes...
    InmemoryofLifelessStar InmemoryofLifelessStar 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    Where To Go From Here

    So yesterday I shared my story in black and white for all to see and felt liberated to have done so. Last night, as we always do, my fiance and I sat on our patio talking. I shared with him the timeline of abuse and when I was done I realized several things: 1. I have told my...
    cajunsunshine cajunsunshine 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2010

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    Abused

    NO ONE EMOTIONALLY MENTALLY PHYSICALLY
    reluctantrampant reluctantrampant 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    This Is Short...

    No one deserves to be hurt in such way. I don't care what background they come from etc, abuse is NEVER acceptable. The pain inflicted is often unable to be reversed..how fucke[d] up is that?! People have to LIVE with those flashbacks. And I can't imagine what is it is like for I...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 27, 2010

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    Why?

    Honestly I don't understand peoples need to abuse others.  I don't know who possible could think they have the right to hurt someone, and someone would deserve to be hurt.  It's terrible, if something is wrong or doing something bad abuse won't help anything.  There are better...
    meyouandus meyouandus 18-21, F 1 Response May 27, 2011

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    Abuse. It Is Never Their Fault

    No one, no one no matter how much you hate them or how horrible they are desearves to be abused. It wrecks your life. Really screws you up, you cant trust anyone, you have no control over your emotions, you have to lie to your friends, your family, everyone. It is emotional...
    Cuitadella Cuitadella 18-21, F 3 Responses May 1, 2011

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    Please Stop The Cycle

    In my opinion, many of the people that abuse others have experienced some type of abuse personally. I know it sucks, it' effin horrifying to get beaten or touched inappropriately, i know because i have lived it and survived some things that have put seemingly stronger people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    Disagree

    I think others that hurts children need to be open targets to others and should not be protectec in jail of prison they need to be placed in stocks during the day for 1 year and lots of rotten food to throw at them provied
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 1 Response May 31, 2011

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    They To It Lite On Me?

    The extent of my abuse I never really told anyone I just now after 32 years I tell my children so they understand the chain of events thats occurring with me being gang stalked. Homeless ,fired ,bullied, lied on, in debt setup talked about threaten teased even my children see it...
    atsweet atsweet 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Never.

    i don't care if someone had said something mean to u or if u are 'angry cuz ur going through a rough time'... Any type of abuse should never happen. whether it be physical, mental, verbal, or any other kind. Some people have gone through enough in their lives, and do not...
    LittleFerrett LittleFerrett 22-25, F 9 Responses Feb 20, 2010

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    Toomuch

    Fear goes away eventually. I wonder what i'll do when I'm not scared of  anything anymore.... Sleep is an escape.... I get angry and I vent, my anger flows and is drowning my partner. My healing is too much to handle. Looking for a really huge rock to hide under...
    cajunsunshine cajunsunshine 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    In Real Life Hell No!

    But in movies to prove a point and to alert people of the seriousness of what could happen then its ok i guess
    darkangellights darkangellights 18-21, F Jul 23, 2012

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    I Don't Understand How A Mother Can Abuse Her Own Children.....

    It's a long story, but I'll tell it any ways. Maybe some one will listen to it all.  My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months now. He has been telling me his life story. and he was so abused when he was little, by the time he was 16 he couldn't take it any...
    spj1811 spj1811 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 6, 2010

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    I had a friend who was murdered by her

    ex-boyfriend. He was the father of both of her children. Her son was 5 and her daughter was 3. He shot his ex-girlfriend and his own 3yr old daughter in the head and killed both of them instantly. He shot his 5yr old son in the back of the neck, and he survived. And he then...
    LilMsUnknown LilMsUnknown 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2014

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    I have depression and I don't think it's selfish. I mean why is it selfish? I didn't ask for it! it comes and hits me and that **** feels like the whole world is crashing down on...
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    One of the worst things someone ever said to me was, "how can you be depressed when you have everything". We're told we're selfish because they believe we don't appreciate what we...
    willibemissed willibemissed 22-25, F Jan 4

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    when i say "anyone" i mean like it is pretty intense... i guess we can go back to my parents again and blame them but i don't feel like going down that route so this post i will...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    This holiday me and my friends were planning to go to the beach together. One of them who own the house didn't really invited me, but she invited everyone on the group chat so I...
    lottiemendler lottiemendler 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    So there's a girl I know with whom I have been on & off friends on Facebook. We were never close in high school so whenever I go through my friends list to delete the randos...
    KryptoniteAllergy KryptoniteAllergy 22-25, F Dec 29, 2014

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    Talking to some hoe and I can't crack the account to see whats going on and being said but I do remember the past and you met her on Craigslist I believe... And I always see you...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I honestly don't and it maybe because I like smoking every once in a while myself. I don't know and I don't really care.
    FreaKxShoW FreaKxShoW 13-15, F Jan 5

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    i don't feel like sharing everything to anybody. even my best friend doesn't know who i really am. i am very secretive. i don't blurt **** out so easily to get everyone's attention...
    absinthe79 absinthe79 22-25, M Jan 6

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    Its very hard for a guy to try to be open, i don't know why, but i want to be the real me but i guess I'm just afraid what people might say.
    LIFEGOESON805 LIFEGOESON805 16-17, M Jan 4

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    Deppresion is a plague when people got small pox you didn't say "that ***** selfish getting small pox like that." I mean it hurts like hell and nobody wants it. I have to force a...
    sadnesskillsme sadnesskillsme 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    theultimatesashacourtney theultimatesashacourtney 13-15, F Jan 4

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    Well I'm not on it anymore, but they didn't work. I was even more stressed than usual. On top of that I was tired all the time and I couldn't grasp new concepts, I was falling...
    CrimsonSkull CrimsonSkull 13-15, M Jan 8

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    This girl asked me out, but I rejected her because her personality wasn't the greatest and her looks were even worse. Now her friends say I'm mean because I don't want to lower my...
    lautrecofwinterfell lautrecofwinterfell 13-15, M Jan 10

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    Why is it so hard to accept that you don't want me as badly as I want you. :'(
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M Jan 15

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    I dont know if I should or not?..Im so guarded,I always over think everything and I do have a pretty negative view of people in general I always question peoples motives,I dont...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 17 Responses Jan 2

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    ANYONE WhO LeGit doesn't have this experience, or feels this way, go get a traumatic life and see how you feel. Go get a father who was an alcoholic who did pills then killed...
    Hiiamawhovian Hiiamawhovian 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I can already hear her voicing her vehement denials. She is the least concerned by the various manifestations of vanity that usually seem to plague most of us. And if backed into a...
    pretender2687 pretender2687 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I can't even enjoy the somewhat of a relationship I'm in because of trust issues, and I can't even talk to the person I like about it. Time to go single again?
    MephXV MephXV 18-21, M Jan 7

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    Yup, today I learnt that before saying something, I have to think carefully if what I am going to say is what I really mean. Today, I learnt that what I say can not be changed...
    iamnotbabe iamnotbabe 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Funny how you think your relationship is all well, but then find out things could never be further from the truth.
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Actually I know that no ones knows the real me!! I mean I am a 55 year old transgender woman, and on one has a clue. I think most people will be blown away, when I come out , and...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Jan 3

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    I have been in depression once when I was 5. I know its a young age but I actually had to take pills. But no I'm have never been in depression again. But I always hear people say...