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I Don't Think I Will Ever Get Married

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    Its True.

    I think my life is so sad That i don't think i will ever have my own wedding. I feel so ugly. I don't know who in their right mind could love me. Maybe I will be some old lady with cats. Yet I see some many odd looking couples that I feel just a teensy little tiny bit...
    TheStray TheStray 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    I Really Don't Want To Either

    Perhaps it's because I haven't met the 'right person' yet. I'm in no hurry to meet him either. I like dating though, meeting and getting to know new people. It doesn't get repetitive for me because every guy is different. I'm afraid of getting bored once I get into a...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F Nov 3, 2009

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    I'd Like to Think

    that I might, but at the rate I'm going...not likely...well, I am still pretty young...
    Maxine13 Maxine13 16-18, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    NO Way Unless It's With Him

    I WOULD LOVE TO GET MARRIED BUT UNLESS IT'S WITH THE BOY I AM INLOVE WITH NOW THERES NO WAY IM GETTING MARRIED
    sleepingangel sleepingangel 18-21, F Jul 29, 2009

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    I Don't Want to Get Married...

    because I really don't see the point.  Even when a relationship is going well, marriage doesn't seem to make it better - usually it's the opposite!  Plus I see very view of examples of people who stay HAPPILY married for long periods of time.  I'd rather be in an...
    HeavnsGirl HeavnsGirl 36-40 5 Responses Jul 23, 2008

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    sometimes I Dont Think I Wi...

    sometimes i dont think i will i never seem to meet anyone, or if i do they never seem to hang around long enough for some reason something allways turns up so i end up losing contact with them
    marcus26 marcus26 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2008

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    I Just Don't Believe Anymore...

    After all my relationships, crushes and so I came to conclusion I don't want to get married. Men used me too much. Everything has to evolve around them. Loneliness is hard, but at least it's my life I'm living. Hope I'll manage to earn enough money to support myself cause it's...
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 10, 2012

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    Sometimes

    I  always think about getting married, what i would wear, what my "groom" would look  like and even what song would play. I can  imagine it happening and do imgine it a lot... just doubt anyone would want to marry me.
    lonelygal lonelygal 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8, 2009

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    Imagine Love

    Love is golden Being in and outta love Is the easy part Loving for eternity Is the hardest part Imagine being loved You glows and feel warm inside Love is your home Timing is everything Nothing stands in their way Unless they're devils Be strong enuff to withstand Their...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F Aug 30, 2013

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    I Highly Doubt It...

    that I will ever get married. Today, one of my friends got married. She was beautiful, but I couldn't help but think that I wanted to be where she is. I want someone to love me as much as her husband loves her. I want to wear a wedding dress and be the center of attention for one...
    justlittleoldme justlittleoldme 22-25 2 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Doubt It

    I don't know I just doubt that I ever will... Maybe it's just because I'm young. My mum always told me "you marry your father" = Her dad was an alcoholic and she married one after she promised herself she never would. Maybe that's why. But if I fall...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 7, 2009

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    You Get Used To Being Alone

    I've been alone for so long that I really wouldn't know how to act if I ever found someone I fell in love with. Don't get me wrong, I deeply admire married people who've stayed together through the good times and bad. My parents did it. So did both sets of my grandparents. I...
    KittenCarinosa KittenCarinosa 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2013

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    Bullocks! Stop Lying To Yourselves!

    many people on this group seem to talk about how they are okay not getting married or even saying that they are not right for marriage, **** you! even if you do not say anything there is something churning inside and there will always be that hole, trust me I have been alone most...
    Toktar Toktar 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 25, 2012

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    It Just Won't Happen.

    I am 43 years old.  Whether I look actively for someone, or sit back and don't look, or feel sad, or happy, or go to places where singles are, or stay at home...it's always the same.  I never have found a wife and it's obvious that I never will.  I get so tired of...
    Steveincolumbus Steveincolumbus 41-45 3 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    I Am Married But...

    I was checking one of the stories one of my circle friends wrote here and went to the title page...there it was every one of the authors on this page has a cat as a icon. I just thought it was funny because of the "old cat lady" and the forum is I dont think I will ever...
    PrettyFlowerbythesea PrettyFlowerbythesea 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2008

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    It's Illegal For Me to

    maybe in my children's children's lifetimes. Maybe.
    youngmiss youngmiss 18-21, F Feb 10, 2009

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    It's Just Not Going to Happen, Is It?

    It looks like it that I will never get married.  Firstly, there is no man to talk about - I have been single for the past 5 years.  Next, I am at crossroads where career/job is concerned.  It's all a blur for me right now and it really is frustrating.  I never...
    milezaway milezaway 31-35 1 Response Jul 18, 2009

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    Doesn't Bother Me

    Marriage, no marriage, whatever. As an asexual I do not require sex, and beyond that marriage would bring companionship, and I am independent enough not to require that either.
    Natnie Natnie 22-25, T 14 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    Im Tired

    Im tired of being alone. Because of my work schedule i ended up making lot of money but i couldnt get a girl in my life. I started working from 17 and now im 27. All my teenage and early 20's life got wasted in me making up my career. Now i think its out of my scope to start...
    np13134904 np13134904 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 28, 2011

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    In My Culture The Marriages Are Arranged.

    If I find a guy I like within my culture then I can marry him, but if I don't then I will most likely get married but the marriage will be arranged. I don't want to get married because of this. I'll be miserable. I just have a real negative mentality when it comes to love. I'm...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 1 Response May 2, 2011

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    And why do I think that?

    Because I have no desire to. I know a few couples who are utterly miserable in their marriage and I don't want to take the chance of that happening to me.
    uhhke uhhke 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 1

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    Why?

    I come from a broken family. I only have one memory of mum and dad actually being happy and hugging each other (something that surprised mum when I told her; she thought that I only remembered the arguements that I hadn't repressed). But, who really needs a piece of paper to...
    IdleTraveller IdleTraveller 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2009

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    34 and Still Single

    i am 34 and still single never dated have wanted too no one asked i am ugly i hate the religious spin "god called uto be single " well he didnt but has provided no one for me have been told i don't need a man to make happy i aam sadly single cry alot someone out there for...
    kam75 kam75 31-35 4 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    Its True.

    I think my life is so sad That i don't think i will ever have my own wedding. I feel so ugly. I don't know who in their right mind could love me. Maybe I will be some old lady with cats. Yet I see some many odd looking colors that I feel just a teensy little tiny bit of...
    TheStray TheStray 22-25, F Apr 12, 2008

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    I'm So Strange

    i'm so strange i don't think i will ever find someone who will have the tenacity/patience/or understanding to put up with me. i am afraid of falling in love with someone who is insincere and just goes through the motions. i think i have entered into a new period of self-loathing...
    pheinix pheinix 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2009

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    Why ....

    I am 38 years old!  That is why ... why change now?
    motochaos motochaos 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    I Just

     dont. for a better lack of words. i dont know why? maybe b/c as of right now is still keep my distance from guys and im still afraid of falling in love again. i almost think its better to just forget about love all together. but then again love is awesome. so im not sure...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 18, 2009

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    I Don't Believe It In Anymore...

    I want to wake up everyday knowing that the man I am sharing my life with, sincerely wants to be with me. I don't want a piece of paper or vows that we exchanged shackling him to me. I was married before.  The piece of paper and our vows meant nothing to him...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    Yea Lol

    Men are just much afraid of me - but the true reason is that they are not complete ENOUGH to deal with me properly. I am very gentle, tender and passionate with the right one, I am a true woman to its most inner depths, and much much more THAN most of the women, I ...
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 16 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    I Doubt It!

    I can't even picture being in love, living with someone happily, being married. I get lonely but I just don't see it ever happening for me. I don't think I am able to trust someone on that level. Maybe someday I'll be proven wrong!
    RebeccaRSR RebeccaRSR 46-50, F Mar 29, 2008

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    I mean what's the point in being in a relationship thats most likely going to fail. you just get to love someone who eventually won't love you back. Yes you have good times, but it...
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    I can understand how people romanticize marriage and build it up with words like commitment, faithfulness, loyalty, etc. A marriage in itself doesn’t actually have the power to...
    GiantKaiju GiantKaiju 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I don't think I'll ever let myself believe I'm anything more than the ugliest person on earth. It's really weird actually. I have a very good looking boyfriend and a lot of people...
    DenniseCo DenniseCo 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    I don't think there's anyone out there that would want to go through the trouble of loving me. I'm over-emotional, sensitive, I'm not pretty, I'm not funny, I'm six pounds...
    weby667 weby667 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well, my ex wanted to grow old and die alone. He made that very clear when he said he didn't want to have kids and get married. To be fair he told me that on the second date. I was...
    bittersweetsourandsalty bittersweetsourandsalty 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    It might be strange to admit this even though I have been married. I never had a real boyfriend before my husband and I know now I settled for someone because I didn't want to be...
    Free247 Free247 36-40, F Jul 11

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    Marriage is a curse. That's what it seems like now a days. As soon as you get married it seems all this fun and love just dies. You're bound by the law. I have no problem staying...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I consider myself a pretty good guy, maybe a little rough around the edges with a little attitude, but I just don't see that happy ending where I get married and have a family, no...
    WhiskeyShooter WhiskeyShooter 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    Dear you these are my thoughts this very moment, Why is it that other girls are on your mind? Am I not good enough? What'd i do wrong? I am hurt... So basically we've been...
    Sunshinebarbie Sunshinebarbie 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Most people I met don't really know how to respect others & Also don't know How to Talk to others . Because of that I spent more time Alone than with other people . Everyone...
    lordeley952 lordeley952 18-21, M Jun 25

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    I want to die . I have nothing to loose now I loose my love of 3 years my family really don't care my friends don't understand what I going tru i am just tired I just want to...
    esoj80 esoj80 31-35, M Jun 28

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    No one knows, but I'm very insecure. Looking at me you wouldn't be able to tell, I'm a cheerleader, I'm usually surrounded by people but when I'm not I'm content with being alone...
    avagrace03 avagrace03 13-15, F Jul 9

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    Today at school I overheard a conversation between two of the girls, one of them said that she thought she was fat because she was a size six, the other girl also thought of...
    Melonfriends Melonfriends 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I don't expect a lot of responses. I haven't found much on the internet, but I did find this app, so who knows. I am a middle-aged adult who wishes they were 5 years old again. So...
    LittlestFrenchie LittlestFrenchie 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    It's often just enough to be with someone. I don't need to touch them. Not even talk. A feeling passes between you both. You're not alone.-Marilyn Unfortunately she was portrayed...
    littleboxofsecrets littleboxofsecrets 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    yeah I don't.. & I'm sorry if I don't.😁 there's just SOO many people who message me & I don't have time to talk to everyone.
    ashleygrierrr ashleygrierrr 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I am so sorry if I don't respond. Sometimes I'm really busy and I see the message but I can't really have a full conversation. But when I can do that I feel too bad to reply for...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F Jul 8

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    I don't like to tell people all about me.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Nobody opens up to me so why would I open up to people who don't trust me.
    stortos stortos 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Unfortunately EP does it automatically. It shouldn't be capitalized for the same reason we don't capitalize the word bullshit.
    Badtimanonymous Badtimanonymous 31-35, M 1 day ago

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