I Don't Think I Will Ever Get Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 443 People

    Sometimes

    I  always think about getting married, what i would wear, what my "groom" would look  like and even what song would play. I can  imagine it happening and do imgine it a lot... just doubt anyone would want to marry me.
    lonelygal lonelygal
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2009

    Doesn't Bother Me

    Marriage, no marriage, whatever. As an asexual I do not require sex, and beyond that marriage would bring companionship, and I am independent enough not to require that either.
    Natnie Natnie
    22-25, T
    13 Responses Jul 10, 2008

    34 and Still Single

    i am 34 and still single never dated have wanted too no one asked i am ugly i hate the religious spin "god called uto be single " well he didnt but has provided no one for me have been told i don't need a man to make happy i aam sadly single cry alot someone out there for...
    kam75 kam75
    31-35
    3 Responses Jul 29, 2009

    I Highly Doubt It...

    that I will ever get married. Today, one of my friends got married. She was beautiful, but I couldn't help but think that I wanted to be where she is. I want someone to love me as much as her husband loves her. I want to wear a wedding dress and be the center of attention for one...
    justlittleoldme justlittleoldme
    22-25
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2009

    I Don't Believe It In Anymore...

    I want to wake up everyday knowing that the man I am sharing my life with, sincerely wants to be with me. I don't want a piece of paper or vows that we exchanged shackling him to me. I was married before.  The piece of paper and our vows meant nothing to him...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

    And why do I think that?

    Because I have no desire to. I know a few couples who are utterly miserable in their marriage and I don't want to take the chance of that happening to me.
    uhhke uhhke
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 1, 2014

    I Don't Want to Get Married...

    because I really don't see the point.  Even when a relationship is going well, marriage doesn't seem to make it better - usually it's the opposite!  Plus I see very view of examples of people who stay HAPPILY married for long periods of time.  I'd rather be in an...
    HeavnsGirl HeavnsGirl
    36-40
    5 Responses Jul 23, 2008

    I Just

     dont. for a better lack of words. i dont know why? maybe b/c as of right now is still keep my distance from guys and im still afraid of falling in love again. i almost think its better to just forget about love all together. but then again love is awesome. so im not sure...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 18, 2009

    I'm 36 and I missed the love train.

    I'll never be married and I'll never have the kind of love that is young and exciting again. it's a negative way to feel but it's my truth. my eyes will never be as innocent as they once we're bc they've seen too much.it sucks but it's true.
    shadyshadow shadyshadow
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Sep 1, 2015

    In My Culture The Marriages Are Arranged.

    If I find a guy I like within my culture then I can marry him, but if I don't then I will most likely get married but the marriage will be arranged. I don't want to get married because of this. I'll be miserable. I just have a real negative mentality when it comes to love. I'm...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 2, 2011

    I feel this way because I've been engaged

    for almost 3 years.I felt like he just wanted me around just to have me.it's different between us now because he says he's ready but I don't if it's because of the space we took or it's because he's actually ready. we already live together so it shouldn't be such a big issue...
    FantasyProject FantasyProject
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    Doubt It

    I don't know I just doubt that I ever will... Maybe it's just because I'm young. My mum always told me "you marry your father" = Her dad was an alcoholic and she married one after she promised herself she never would. Maybe that's why. But if I fall...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 7, 2009

    I Am Married But...

    I was checking one of the stories one of my circle friends wrote here and went to the title page...there it was every one of the authors on this page has a cat as a icon. I just thought it was funny because of the "old cat lady" and the forum is I dont think I will ever...
    PrettyFlowerbythesea PrettyFlowerbythesea
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 11, 2008

    I haven't got a boyfriend

    since 3 years ago. It's not because I haven't moved on because trust me, my life has nothing to do with him anymore. It's not that I never find anyone attractive either. But I guess it has something to do with that as well. I mean, I get attracted easily but then I easily back...
    PieceOfSummer PieceOfSummer
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2014

    NO Way Unless It's With Him

    I WOULD LOVE TO GET MARRIED BUT UNLESS IT'S WITH THE BOY I AM INLOVE WITH NOW THERES NO WAY IM GETTING MARRIED
    sleepingangel sleepingangel
    18-21, F
    Jul 29, 2009
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 30, 2015

    It Just Won't Happen.

    I am 43 years old.  Whether I look actively for someone, or sit back and don't look, or feel sad, or happy, or go to places where singles are, or stay at home...it's always the same.  I never have found a wife and it's obvious that I never will.  I get so tired of...
    Steveincolumbus Steveincolumbus
    41-45
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2009

    Why ....

    I am 38 years old!  That is why ... why change now?
    motochaos motochaos
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jul 19, 2009

    Why?

    I come from a broken family. I only have one memory of mum and dad actually being happy and hugging each other (something that surprised mum when I told her; she thought that I only remembered the arguements that I hadn't repressed). But, who really needs a piece of paper to...
    IdleTraveller IdleTraveller
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2009

    This isn't because I'm ugly

    or bad with girls (I am pretty bad with girls though) Its a conscious decision I've made. I want to live a certain way and I'm afraid it might be hard or dangerous for someone I love, as well as being a distraction. This may change as I get older, but I'm happy to stay a...
    Jshorty96 Jshorty96
    18-21, M
    Jul 27, 2015

    It's Just Not Going to Happen, Is It?

    It looks like it that I will never get married.  Firstly, there is no man to talk about - I have been single for the past 5 years.  Next, I am at crossroads where career/job is concerned.  It's all a blur for me right now and it really is frustrating.  I never...
    milezaway milezaway
    31-35
    1 Response Jul 18, 2009

    I'd Like to Think

    that I might, but at the rate I'm going...not likely...well, I am still pretty young...
    Maxine13 Maxine13
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2009

    I'm So Strange

    i'm so strange i don't think i will ever find someone who will have the tenacity/patience/or understanding to put up with me. i am afraid of falling in love with someone who is insincere and just goes through the motions. i think i have entered into a new period of self-loathing...
    pheinix pheinix
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 12, 2009

    I Really Don't Want To Either

    Perhaps it's because I haven't met the 'right person' yet. I'm in no hurry to meet him either. I like dating though, meeting and getting to know new people. It doesn't get repetitive for me because every guy is different. I'm afraid of getting bored once I get into a...
    wack1985 wack1985
    31-35, F
    Nov 3, 2009

    Im Tired

    Im tired of being alone. Because of my work schedule i ended up making lot of money but i couldnt get a girl in my life. I started working from 17 and now im 27. All my teenage and early 20's life got wasted in me making up my career. Now i think its out of my scope to start...
    np13134904 np13134904
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2011

    Twice engaged, then poof the guys vanished into

    thin air. Lol. What a lame attempt at making those memories light! But seriously though, exes are exes for a reason. I learned the truth about them the hard may and no matter how hard I try to accept and love them as they are, the exes pushed me away or did something stupid...
    Qtrelle Qtrelle
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Aug 29, 2015

    Its True.

    I think my life is so sad That i don't think i will ever have my own wedding. I feel so ugly. I don't know who in their right mind could love me. Maybe I will be some old lady with cats. Yet I see some many odd looking colors that I feel just a teensy little tiny bit of...
    TheStray TheStray
    22-25, F
    Apr 12, 2008
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 16, 2015

    I want to, but I doubt it will ever happen

    for me. People lose interest in me quickly and find someone less boring and more attractive. I must be a complete loser if I can't ever keep anyone in my life.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    Bullocks! Stop Lying To Yourselves!

    many people on this group seem to talk about how they are okay not getting married or even saying that they are not right for marriage, **** you! even if you do not say anything there is something churning inside and there will always be that hole, trust me I have been alone most...
    Toktar Toktar
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 25, 2012

    I Doubt It!

    I can't even picture being in love, living with someone happily, being married. I get lonely but I just don't see it ever happening for me. I don't think I am able to trust someone on that level. Maybe someday I'll be proven wrong!
    RebeccaRSR RebeccaRSR
    46-50, F
    Mar 29, 2008

    Its True.

    I think my life is so sad That i don't think i will ever have my own wedding. I feel so ugly. I don't know who in their right mind could love me. Maybe I will be some old lady with cats. Yet I see some many odd looking couples that I feel just a teensy little tiny bit...
    TheStray TheStray
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 12, 2008

    Yea Lol

    Men are just much afraid of me - but the true reason is that they are not complete ENOUGH to deal with me properly. I am very gentle, tender and passionate with the right one, I am a true woman to its most inner depths, and much much more THAN most of the women, I ...
    Thought1 Thought1
    22-25
    15 Responses Jun 21, 2009

    there are times when i wish i am thinking wrong.

    .. this is one of those times. lol
    elysium9527 elysium9527
    22-25, F
    Dec 3, 2015

    I Just Don't Believe Anymore...

    After all my relationships, crushes and so I came to conclusion I don't want to get married. Men used me too much. Everything has to evolve around them. Loneliness is hard, but at least it's my life I'm living. Hope I'll manage to earn enough money to support myself cause it's...
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2012

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11 kimcc11
    26-30, F
    Sep 1, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 17, 2015

    Well for starters I haven't had my first kiss,

    first date, or a boyfriend. Let's not forget that in grade school I was never asked to a school dance so yeah, I don't think I will ever get married. I also think I will either end up a lonely cat lady or nevermind.
    Juliette20 Juliette20
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 13, 2015

    sometimes I Dont Think I Wi...

    sometimes i dont think i will i never seem to meet anyone, or if i do they never seem to hang around long enough for some reason something allways turns up so i end up losing contact with them
    marcus26 marcus26
    31-35, M
    1 Response Dec 29, 2008
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