I Don't Think I'm Girlfriend Material

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    I Don't Think That I Would Make A Good Mate.

    I am an average guy in some ways. I have a so so paying job, and have a so so home, a half finished education, and I am getting older. The problem is that I am getting older. I only think that girls and guys between the ages of 18-35 look attractive if they don't have any kids. I...
    sisypwimp sisypwimp
    41-45, M
    Jul 18, 2010

    I desire too much for most guys my age.

    They are still getting their ideas together. I'm too demanding for them, I think.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2014

    I Hate Admitting This...

    but right now, at this point in my life, I just don't think I would be great girlfriend material.   I know myself better t han ever.  I have come out of my shell.  I realize how important sex has become to me.  I know what I like in bed.  I know what I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 15, 2010

    Who Me?

    Yes, sometimes I doubt that I am female at all. I'll list most of the reasons why I'm not gf material: I'm a loner I'm a cynic I'm not financially secure I'm not emotionally open I don't like kids I don't like PDA I don't like sex I don't like cleaning I don't care about getting...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    22-25
    12 Responses Dec 26, 2010

    I Think I Will Most Probably Never Experience Love

    I am soooooooooo not girlfriend material because I am ugly
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Feb 4, 2011

    ...

    I think I would be a boring girlfriend.. My life is quite monotonous.. I live with my mah, I have no car, I still don't even know how to drive and I'm 20! I don't have a hobby, or a talent (unless I havent figured it out?), and I don't feel like doing anything (I want to but I...
    EiramZaid EiramZaid
    18-21, F
    Feb 22, 2012

    Never Been

    I've never been in relationship, but I think I would suck at it. I can't even make honest friendships, so clearly dating is out of the question. The truth is I wouldn't know how to be a girlfriend; the amount of PDA, how often to call or text. I wouldn't know how to be close with...
    roguecitiz roguecitiz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2012

    Paradox

    I'm not sure if I would agree to date a person who would choose to date somebody like me. The person in question must be at least a bit suspicious. Seriosuly speaking, I can't picture a person who would find his or her life satisfying with me. In real life I'm overly private...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2010

    They Look At Me As Their "bro"

    So let me truthfully sum my personality up.I am not stupid, actually, I almost got a scholarship for having high grades.I am not ugly, actually, I joined a modeling pageant before and I know how to fix my face.I am not anti social, actually, I love to party and make friends...
    mhel0w8 mhel0w8
    22-25, F
    Feb 20, 2012

    Let Me Be Honest.

    I am not girlfriend material.    I quite obviously fail at even the simplest acts of human contact lately...what I want to convey never breaking through the defenses I've built around myself. While thinking of what I was going to say in this story I asked...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 11, 2010

    Not So Much

    I don't have a jobDon't have a carLicence got taken away/ owe lots o' money for thatLive at home with my parentsHave alot of baggageI'm brokenBroken but trying to fix my sad little soul so i can be open to a loving relationship.
    UnderTheBridge UnderTheBridge
    22-25, F
    Jan 14, 2011

    I Suppose He Was Right All Along

    When my ex and i broke up, he said that i would never find another, because i was so "damaged". I suppose hes right.
    Artemis17 Artemis17
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 1, 2010

    "Hey, Red, want to go out to dinner

    or something?" "Hold up, I'm trying to beat the Elite Four here!" XD But seriously. I'm much too immature to be anyone's girlfriend just yet. I'd probably be a great best friend (that is, if you don't mind terrible video game jokes and my general nerdiness) but I'm not...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed
    13-15
    4 Responses Nov 27, 2014
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