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I Dont Think Looks Are That Imporant

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    I'm Certainly Not Pretty

    Okay , so I'm not into " beautiful people "  or celebreties . I don't go out of my way to enhance what little comliness I do have . Too many people have judged me on my appearence and it has left me outside of  social groups ; except for the others who , like me , don...
    Tanengreen Tanengreen 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    I Know What I Like

    I don't notice physical attibutes of a man first. I tend to notice intelligence, humor, his moral fiber, and compassion first.  If I am going to fall in love with him he has to have all of that.  Now if I am looking at a man physically that has these chracteristics I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Mar 6, 2010

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    Looks

    I don't care what other people look like. I am mostly attracted to personality anyway, but i would be lying if i said i wasn't curious as to what some of my ep friends looked like. I am damn curious sometimes.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 37 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    Thought On Looks

    Looks are like a flower. It looks pretty, however, it doesn't do anything else. Character is like a cherry tree, it bears fruit, it gives back, you can live off it's food if times get rough and you have no other source of food... understand? Character is what makes people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27, 2010

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    It Is True After All!!

    So I am in Barcelona at the moment on work and I went out with a bunch of colleagues to a night club .. great music .. pretty nice crowd .. some really cute girls/women!I am not really shallow but I must say I normally am attracted to very good looking women .. I am not a bad...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 22, 2013

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    I Dont Think Looks Are As Imporant

    I think that a personality has so much worth than perfect looks. I mean sure if I'm people watching I will point out 'hot' ones in my opinion. But it's just not something I look for when I think of compatibility. Or if I'm looking for someone to date, I'll look for those that...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F Aug 7, 2010

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    Gimme Brains And Wit

    Honestly, intellect and a real, laid-back, and witty personality trumps everything else.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 5, 2010

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    Looks

    i dont think looks matter cause its what is in the heart that matters. if they are nice and sweet to u then that is the best thang that can happen to u?
    ladonna14 ladonna14 13-15, F Aug 16, 2009

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    I Try To See People For What They Are, Not What They Look Like

    Looks are not important when you really like someone. When you like someone, you will only see what's on their heart and not which cloths they wear or their physical features. I won't lie. Nowadays, attraction plays a big role when you meet someone. And it's usually over...
    kady4e kady4e 22-25, F Feb 27, 2013

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    Looks Arent Everything!!

    i mean yes, obviously you have to have some sort of physical attraction to your partner, but as i say "looks arent everything"!! ive met plenty of people in my life that i didnt have much of an attraction to at first, but once i got to know them, i actually began...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Everyone Else Does Though

    I like who a person is not what they look like.  I find that once I get to know a person no matter what the look like I'm attracted to them.  Too many others only care about what you look like.  All the superficial people think that sexual appeal is based on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6, 2010

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    ~ and Here's Why ~

                                       Now you know. I don't believe more is needed....
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    It's Not The Way You Look, It's The Way You Look At Me!

    mmmm yeah! and the way he smells and his hands.. can't forget mens' hands the sound of his heart beating when my head is on his chest. oh yeah and that thing collecting dust between his ears. ^.^
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F Mar 21, 2010

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    I will never be a size 0

    and I'm okay with that. I am simply average. I don't get told I'm beautiful very often but when I do it makes me smile. I have learned that you really do have to take your time to get to know people of all walks of life. Be open to hear those experiences. I do believe that...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    Agree

    it is was makes up the person to me and has nothing to do with looks and so many people only look at certain thinags any way and that never made sense to me i know the girl i fell in love with at that time was a very plan child even more boyish looking but given time to grow...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jul 1, 2011

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    Why It Should Be?

    You know.... my believes is that we are just ball of lights inside.... we are a little ball of light and that thing is our soul..... our soul is what really contents what we really are.... so it doesn't have a face... it doesn't have gender.... it doens't have anything but...
    TheX TheX 18-21, M Nov 14, 2011

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    Heavens No!

    I don't care what you look like, it's all about personality. Nothing, to me, is more appealing than a good heart with good intentions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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    Tho looks arent everything, its 60% important to me. plus personality and the others are important to. Only attractive people attract me. David Beckham is kinda ugly to me. Anime...
    michiko michiko 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I AM a redhead, so yes I'm a little biased, but I DEFINITELY think redheads are sexy. Everyone these days seems to have a fetish for ginger gals, so much so that blondes and...
    hottiewithabody94 hottiewithabody94 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Yes I do think they are quite funny. But not when you're at a sleepover and your friend is farting in his sleep. I have at least another 7 hours of that. Great.
    backupmojo backupmojo 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    If I hear about one more idiot leaving their child in the car. The sad thing about it, is it's my generation, and younger generations. I think the parent should be sent to the...
    Blackstallion76 Blackstallion76 36-40, M 1 Response 29 mins ago

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    I think women get judge on how they look, which I don't think it's ok. There is this page on facebook, that all they do is judge girls. Like WTF? Ain't nobody perfect.. What the...
    1kz3l 1kz3l 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Just looks like trailer trash.. Everyone doesn't need to know u have a boyfriend. Have some respect for your self!
    Lotusgirlred Lotusgirlred 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Lies. Lies. Lies. The worse form of lying is lying to yourself. It is so poising, yet we resort to it. I've been thinking about this today.. Why do we resort to lies? Especially...
    nadsxo2 nadsxo2 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I have come to realize that feminism and new age go together like peanut butter and jelly. There are no rules, no shaming, no responsibility for your actions in the new age sector...
    MrCouture MrCouture 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 4

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    I am a teenager, and I don't think I have grown up too fast, rather going through appropriate milestones and learning what I should. But my family knows another family whose kids...
    ICanTotallySurvive ICanTotallySurvive 13-15, F Jul 13

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    These kids are 10 - 13 talking about sex, having babies, and jobs, and I'm thinking "Excuse me? Where are your parents?" 😑
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    My kids are probably not going to like me for this, but they will not have their own tv or computer in their room at least until age 16, most likely. Depends on the kid. They won't...
    brittanys13 brittanys13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    The job I do for a living, gives me a chance to talk in interact with a lot of women. 99 percent of the time I'm professional, but there is always that 1 percent where I just think...
    Jrwill8701 Jrwill8701 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    It makes me sad that the majority (I think all if them) of the pervs/creeps are men. Now other guys like myself get judge wrongly just because I'm a guy 😓 so disappointed by all...
    KristianNathan KristianNathan 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    Apparently my husband thinks it's necessary to storm out of the house with a **** you attitude just because I won't consistently and instantaneously drop everything I'm doing to...
    neveragoodusername neveragoodusername 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Honestly, there are some people who don't give a **** on her size. Wearing what you have with pride is better than thinking they're too fat or too skinny. Wear your body with pride...
    NickleDollar NickleDollar 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Clothes serve no purpose I think unless you are performing a task that you need protection.
    EastTNNudist EastTNNudist 18-21, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    They see me riting like this they strait away think im stuppid. Im not. A im dislexic. B if I culd spend a long time riting i culd rite proply, but ppl can undrstnd me like ths so...
    pippadwight pippadwight 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    The great majority of people I seem to know have Horrible manners. They talk incessantly, interrupt others in even the simplest of conversations, talk negatively about others and...
    MamaAbby MamaAbby 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Some dudes be putting women down based on stretch marks thick girls are where it's at 😏
    dre07 dre07 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    There are times, they look really tough..determination, courage and bold..then there are times they become so fragile like beach sands,even a single breath could change them..its...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    Just as you can not trust IRL, the internet hides even more deception. People can be anything. Anyone. Have hidden agendas. I've known this for a long time. Trouble has become...
    littleboxofsecrets littleboxofsecrets 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    It's respectful!I think manners says a lot about a person!Opening doors for each other, eating with mouth closed and not talking while eating, saying please/thank you, pulling out...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Gingers are awesome! Their hair color is just so unique and beautiful... 'nough said, :D
    JoyMungai JoyMungai 18-21, F Jul 8

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    I hate when creeps use this site to post their sexual fantasies involving minors. for example, I've seen stories where an EP user will pose as a teenage girl and then practically...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F Jul 9

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    I also know that at least one if not many of the pantheonic systems are corrupt.
    macabrEnigma macabrEnigma 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 10

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    Idk😔 I try to be nice but ppl play with my feelings. Yes I get pissed easily. I'm also kinda crazy. But over the years I've gained so much control. I'm proud of myself. Cause if...
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I can remember when I was in elementary school, my dad would joke around and say to me "you don't need to tell anyone you're Muslim; it's our secret" and I would listen. I thought...
    awesomedude347 awesomedude347 18-21, M Jul 13

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    OMG I love brown eyes and brown floppy hair boys! They are just so adorable and handsome I could just marry them...
    tiashepherdx tiashepherdx 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Because they are.............
    LovelyLadyJ LovelyLadyJ 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I live right next to a school so I often see little kids going to school and going home. A few weeks ago I saw what looked like a 7 year old girl with an iPhone 5. I could just...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    And let me tell you. Girl if you know your beautiful and feel beautiful don't ask guys to rate how you look on here, what you're going to do instead is get up, dress amazingly and...
    SoulWriter17 SoulWriter17 16-17, M Jul 14

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