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I Dont Think Looks Are That Imporant

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    Looks

    I don't care what other people look like. I am mostly attracted to personality anyway, but i would be lying if i said i wasn't curious as to what some of my ep friends looked like. I am damn curious sometimes.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 37 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    Agree

    it is was makes up the person to me and has nothing to do with looks and so many people only look at certain thinags any way and that never made sense to me i know the girl i fell in love with at that time was a very plan child even more boyish looking but given time to grow...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jul 1, 2011

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    Heavens No!

    I don't care what you look like, it's all about personality. Nothing, to me, is more appealing than a good heart with good intentions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 16, 2010

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    It's Not The Way You Look, It's The Way You Look At Me!

    mmmm yeah! and the way he smells and his hands.. can't forget mens' hands the sound of his heart beating when my head is on his chest. oh yeah and that thing collecting dust between his ears. ^.^
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F Mar 21, 2010

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    Thought On Looks

    Looks are like a flower. It looks pretty, however, it doesn't do anything else. Character is like a cherry tree, it bears fruit, it gives back, you can live off it's food if times get rough and you have no other source of food... understand? Character is what makes people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27, 2010

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    ~ and Here's Why ~

                                       Now you know. I don't believe more is needed....
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    I Dont Think Looks Are As Imporant

    I think that a personality has so much worth than perfect looks. I mean sure if I'm people watching I will point out 'hot' ones in my opinion. But it's just not something I look for when I think of compatibility. Or if I'm looking for someone to date, I'll look for those that...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F Aug 7, 2010

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    Gimme Brains And Wit

    Honestly, intellect and a real, laid-back, and witty personality trumps everything else.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 5, 2010

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    I'm Certainly Not Pretty

    Okay , so I'm not into " beautiful people "  or celebreties . I don't go out of my way to enhance what little comliness I do have . Too many people have judged me on my appearence and it has left me outside of  social groups ; except for the others who , like me , don...
    Tanengreen Tanengreen 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2010

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    When you are physically attractive men make it

    there personal goal to shower you with attention and take interest in anything you say .But when you lose it (which you will) that attention will greatly decrease and you will likely adopt new creative ways to try to gain the same attention you once did .This is the life waiting...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M Jan 13

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    It Is True After All!!

    So I am in Barcelona at the moment on work and I went out with a bunch of colleagues to a night club .. great music .. pretty nice crowd .. some really cute girls/women!I am not really shallow but I must say I normally am attracted to very good looking women .. I am not a bad...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 22, 2013

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    I Try To See People For What They Are, Not What They Look Like

    Looks are not important when you really like someone. When you like someone, you will only see what's on their heart and not which cloths they wear or their physical features. I won't lie. Nowadays, attraction plays a big role when you meet someone. And it's usually over...
    kady4e kady4e 22-25, F Feb 27, 2013

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    Everyone Else Does Though

    I like who a person is not what they look like.  I find that once I get to know a person no matter what the look like I'm attracted to them.  Too many others only care about what you look like.  All the superficial people think that sexual appeal is based on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6, 2010

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    I Know What I Like

    I don't notice physical attibutes of a man first. I tend to notice intelligence, humor, his moral fiber, and compassion first.  If I am going to fall in love with him he has to have all of that.  Now if I am looking at a man physically that has these chracteristics I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Mar 6, 2010

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    Looks Arent Everything!!

    i mean yes, obviously you have to have some sort of physical attraction to your partner, but as i say "looks arent everything"!! ive met plenty of people in my life that i didnt have much of an attraction to at first, but once i got to know them, i actually began...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Why It Should Be?

    You know.... my believes is that we are just ball of lights inside.... we are a little ball of light and that thing is our soul..... our soul is what really contents what we really are.... so it doesn't have a face... it doesn't have gender.... it doens't have anything but...
    TheX TheX 18-21, M Nov 14, 2011

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    I will never be a size 0

    and I'm okay with that. I am simply average. I don't get told I'm beautiful very often but when I do it makes me smile. I have learned that you really do have to take your time to get to know people of all walks of life. Be open to hear those experiences. I do believe that...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Looks

    i dont think looks matter cause its what is in the heart that matters. if they are nice and sweet to u then that is the best thang that can happen to u?
    ladonna14 ladonna14 13-15, F Aug 16, 2009

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    Farmerwork Farmerwork 22-25, F May 10

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    I have a very close friend that has a very low opinion of herself. She is the most beautiful woman I have ever met. She is beautiful inside and out. Now to her, when she looks at...
    davideo1952 davideo1952 61-65, M 3 Responses May 5

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    True. Not just I think, but I believe and I know, as I experience, and as I experienced.
    Pianist1090 Pianist1090 18-21, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Witches are without a doubt sexy what can I say they put a spell on me........
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    I recently had a guy called arizv11 send me numerous death threats, threaten to kill my whole family among other things, some people on here are really creepy
    eatthekids1stplease eatthekids1stplease 18-21, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I believe each woman is beautiful in their own way. Some from pure looks...some their humor...their joy...passion...motherly. I have been going down a path recently that I am sorry...
    wesleyjones wesleyjones 31-35, M Apr 30

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    I find it funny that they talk about gay sex a lot more then homosexuals. Have a bromance which to me just looks as if they are in the closet. They just look so gay it is...
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616 18-21 1 Response May 14

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    It’s all exciting, but yet frightening when trying to date someone new. When you are used to one person for about five years, it’s definitely a new thing going out and dating...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F May 3

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    I do think that men can be jerks at time. However, I think for some they don't realise that they are being a jerk and don't mean to be. It is upsetting though because it hurts when...
    internationalkoala internationalkoala 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    Yes! Just because I don't shave...does not make me lesbian or a guy. It means I have eczema and shaving is painful! Just because ask 'are you the guy or am I?' Does not make...
    teadiva teadiva 31-35, F May 7

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    I met a guy on the street one day while I was coming back home with a friend, from a wedding. He was the hottest guy I've ever seen. He asked for rolling paper and stayed with us...
    eachlone eachlone 31-35, F May 12

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    1. I'm a pretty open person, when things are anonymous. But, I would never talk about most of the stuff that I'm willing to share on here with people IRL.... I guess I'm shy about...
    thisisarandomusername thisisarandomusername 22-25, M May 14

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    In my experience, men are all over you when they first meet you, attentive, flattering, etc but after a while, when they think they're in a safe relationship with you (usually...
    AngelSuze AngelSuze 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    with America becoming an oligarchy and all I think we need as little big money enablers as possible. conservatives are, well, tricked into backing these policies that only benefit...
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 26

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    That's so true.. Just look at nature.. Every species is centered around the female. Women are the sole purpose we men even work. Women are so beautiful and calm. They have the...
    Bonker2Bandar Bonker2Bandar 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 30

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    Over the last 10 months the children have blossomed after a bitter senseless custody battle was resolved. They are so much happier having their father in their lives, My step...
    stormmistress stormmistress 31-35, F May 3

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    We are not stupid...... we have come a long way....we are intelligent, strong...we are not inferior...we do not belong in the kitchen garbage any more....we do not need to stay...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 4 Responses May 3

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    yeah i think they really are
    itsPuma itsPuma 18-21, M May 6

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    So first I'll play you a song to listen to that might make up for my poor writing skills because the right music can cover lots of sins.. and a wrong sort with a bad ear can be...
    NotHooray NotHooray 56-60, M May 8

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    How best can you explain love? How do you feel when you're in love? How can you translate love and show it? The best person to ask is your mom. They cry when you are sad, they can...
    senamraymond senamraymond 22-25, M May 10

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    Lol I found this poem when I was going through old stuff..... I thought it was so cute I had to share it XD It's called Bats, Bats, Bats, Bats, bats, bats, Black bats Brown...
    drama16queen1997 drama16queen1997 16-17 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Especially all the males running female profiles. These jerks are so easy to spot! And then you gotta get a kick out of the ones posing as a gay female! I think they all add each...
    fearlessseventyfour fearlessseventyfour 36-40, M 1 day ago

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