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I Dont Think Looks Are That Imporant

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    Looks

    I don't care what other people look like. I am mostly attracted to personality anyway, but i would be lying if i said i wasn't curious as to what some of my ep friends looked like. I am damn curious sometimes.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 37 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    I Know What I Like

    I don't notice physical attibutes of a man first. I tend to notice intelligence, humor, his moral fiber, and compassion first.  If I am going to fall in love with him he has to have all of that.  Now if I am looking at a man physically that has these chracteristics I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Mar 6, 2010

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    Heavens No!

    I don't care what you look like, it's all about personality. Nothing, to me, is more appealing than a good heart with good intentions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    I Try To See People For What They Are, Not What They Look Like

    Looks are not important when you really like someone. When you like someone, you will only see what's on their heart and not which cloths they wear or their physical features. I won't lie. Nowadays, attraction plays a big role when you meet someone. And it's usually over...
    kady4e kady4e 22-25, F Feb 27, 2013

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    Looks

    i dont think looks matter cause its what is in the heart that matters. if they are nice and sweet to u then that is the best thang that can happen to u?
    ladonna14 ladonna14 13-15, F Aug 16, 2009

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    I will never be a size 0

    and I'm okay with that. I am simply average. I don't get told I'm beautiful very often but when I do it makes me smile. I have learned that you really do have to take your time to get to know people of all walks of life. Be open to hear those experiences. I do believe that...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2014

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    Agree

    it is was makes up the person to me and has nothing to do with looks and so many people only look at certain thinags any way and that never made sense to me i know the girl i fell in love with at that time was a very plan child even more boyish looking but given time to grow...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jul 1, 2011

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    Looks Arent Everything!!

    i mean yes, obviously you have to have some sort of physical attraction to your partner, but as i say "looks arent everything"!! ive met plenty of people in my life that i didnt have much of an attraction to at first, but once i got to know them, i actually began...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I'm Certainly Not Pretty

    Okay , so I'm not into " beautiful people "  or celebreties . I don't go out of my way to enhance what little comliness I do have . Too many people have judged me on my appearence and it has left me outside of  social groups ; except for the others who , like me , don...
    Tanengreen Tanengreen 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2010

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    Why It Should Be?

    You know.... my believes is that we are just ball of lights inside.... we are a little ball of light and that thing is our soul..... our soul is what really contents what we really are.... so it doesn't have a face... it doesn't have gender.... it doens't have anything but...
    TheX TheX 18-21, M Nov 14, 2011

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    Everyone Else Does Though

    I like who a person is not what they look like.  I find that once I get to know a person no matter what the look like I'm attracted to them.  Too many others only care about what you look like.  All the superficial people think that sexual appeal is based on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6, 2010

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    Gimme Brains And Wit

    Honestly, intellect and a real, laid-back, and witty personality trumps everything else.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 5, 2010

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    It's Not The Way You Look, It's The Way You Look At Me!

    mmmm yeah! and the way he smells and his hands.. can't forget mens' hands the sound of his heart beating when my head is on his chest. oh yeah and that thing collecting dust between his ears. ^.^
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F Mar 21, 2010

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    Thought On Looks

    Looks are like a flower. It looks pretty, however, it doesn't do anything else. Character is like a cherry tree, it bears fruit, it gives back, you can live off it's food if times get rough and you have no other source of food... understand? Character is what makes people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27, 2010

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    It Is True After All!!

    So I am in Barcelona at the moment on work and I went out with a bunch of colleagues to a night club .. great music .. pretty nice crowd .. some really cute girls/women!I am not really shallow but I must say I normally am attracted to very good looking women .. I am not a bad...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 22, 2013

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    ~ and Here's Why ~

                                       Now you know. I don't believe more is needed....
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    When you are physically attractive men make it

    there personal goal to shower you with attention and take interest in anything you say .But when you lose it (which you will) that attention will greatly decrease and you will likely adopt new creative ways to try to gain the same attention you once did .This is the life waiting...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M Jan 13

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    I Dont Think Looks Are As Imporant

    I think that a personality has so much worth than perfect looks. I mean sure if I'm people watching I will point out 'hot' ones in my opinion. But it's just not something I look for when I think of compatibility. Or if I'm looking for someone to date, I'll look for those that...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F Aug 7, 2010

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