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I Dont Think We Should Use Kids As Weapons

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    Its Not Right.

    to many people use kids as a weapon and it isnt right. kids have a right to see both there parents and a right to make there own judgements of there parents too. and its not right. i had to endure hours of listening to both my parents slagging off each other to me and my...
    jossiemarie jossiemarie 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    I Know

    I know a man who is miserable with his crazy wife but he's terrified of her, she uses their son as a weapon, and now she is pregnant with a daughter, and everytime they have a fight she tells him the baby is not his. Poor confused guy.
    justjudyblue2 justjudyblue2 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2008

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    Someone Will Get Hurt!

     Swinging your child around through the air may seem like fun to them but when they strike someone else and you intended to do that, it's not cool!  Or, filing their heads with lies so that they are turned against someone is just as bad.  Stop that!! NOW!
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M Oct 24, 2008

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    Weak

    I believe using someone else, not just kids, as weapons is weak and speaks volumes of a person's character. Fight your own battles by yourself, sheesh!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2011

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    However...

    I do reserve the right to open up a can of my daughter's fiery Leo temper on your *** if you **** me off.  I wield her well.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 24, 2008

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    Why Would Anyone Use A Child As A Threat To Its Parent

    I cannot for the life of me understand how any parent could use their child as a threat against the other parent. I understand people get angry,frustrated,against an ex but to use their child..what love is that ?My youngest son became a father at 17, he and his ex tried...
    thenunn thenunn 51-55 May 4, 2012

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