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I Don't Think You Know What You've Done

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    I Know You Don't.....

    And that's what really frustrates me and makes me cry. I hate you for this and I hate myself for it. You encouraged me to bond with your son not really thinking about the future. You were just as quick to remove him when it suited and yes, I do still see him now and then but you...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I Think I May Know Why...

    Most people are subconsciously influenced by majority consensus right? They can sense the general tone of people around them. They are consciously unaware of it but are nevertheless highly influenced by it (highly suggestible). They become meshed together to form a sort of social...
    julienstaheli julienstaheli 26-30, M Dec 22, 2012

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    Unwittingly And Ignorantly

    Words that are spoken without thoughtof the consequencesthat they can have on otherscan cause a ripple of reactionthat has the ability to destroysomething that is good.  I have seen it happen, and have had that happen. And unfortunately sometimes truth is clouded by how those...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2011

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    He Doesn't Know

    How bad I feel when we don't talk. I try to explain, but people see things differently. Men and women see differently...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 3, 2010

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