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I Don't Trust Anyone, So I Can't Have Relationships

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    Dog Eat Dog

    I feel everyone wants something from me, not that they like me for me. I dont trust peopke can be good and have good intentions and just like me. I have to buy friends or support and its caused me to be paranoid and bitter. Its a dog eat dog world.
    peachbrand peachbrand 36-40 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    Looking Into Her Past

    Looking into her past, I see pain. I see a young lady who's been hurt so much, and have yet to try to escape. Sometimes I see this young lady who has goals. Deeply she knows what she wants, but because of the pain those have caused, she's trapped, inside a dark hole. She wants to...
    Jandres Jandres 18-21, F Jul 9, 2012

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    I'm in a relationship

    and although I can't find any "proof" of cheating. I don't trust her. Honestly, I feel like she's faithful. I'm 90% sure but my past has gotten me so paranoid that I can't see what a good woman I have in front of me. I love her but she can do better
    FriendlyPoet FriendlyPoet 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    I can't even enjoy the somewhat of a

    relationship I'm in because of trust issues, and I can't even talk to the person I like about it. Time to go single again?
    MephXV MephXV 18-21, M Jan 7, 2015

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    chriscc11 chriscc11 26-30, F Jul 21, 2015

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    After my divorce more

    than 4 years ago I still cannot Trust anyone with my heart. I meet ppl easily and have met a few great women but the minute I am able to have a personnel moment and they try and look me in the eyes. ..I make all effort to run. The eyes are the window to the soul and I am afraid...
    stabilitycore stabilitycore 36-40, M May 3, 2014

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    All Alone

    I suffer from anxiety, depression, ya know, the works :/ I've never felt like I've been able to trust anyone in my family, I get uncomfortablewhen the mention just the slightest thing personal. Nearly every night I fight with my parents or sister about something, wether it be...
    Jan 7, 2013

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    I always end up being hurt,

    so I know better than to try that anymore. I would probably be an idiot if I did. I only want friendships from here on out, and I wish for people to respect that.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2015

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    I Dont Trust Anyone And Trust Everyone.

    I don't trust anyone anymore too. Unlike animals I prefer to view people having different characteristics and different skills. All of which are subject to change, some short term like the weather, others more wisely change for the better over time. Since nobody is perfect nobody...
    Beyondadream Beyondadream 41-45, M Sep 13, 2013

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    I Have No Friends

    I don’t have friends or girlfriends but my issue may be a little more complex than just not trusting others. I don’t trust myself to interpret the actions of others. There are times I think people are trying to be nice to me but then I start second guessing myself. I...
    socialmoron socialmoron 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 29, 2010

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    Don't Trust A Mofo

    I have spent a lot of my life dealing with so many duplicitious, two-faced, backstabbing, lying people, that relaying one experience wouldn't begin to describe it.  I do not go out much, I don't date, I keep my communication with others limited and not filled with...
    kaycallie kaycallie 41-45 4 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    And that's the problem

    that can't be fixed.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 20, 2015

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    If this is not the most truthful statement.

    I've never really had my heart broken by a significant other and I don't want to experience that . When you let people in, they get comfortable.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2015

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    the reason why I don't trust no relationship my

    ex husband cheated on me so I divorced him and then I remarried my wife and now she cheated on me and I want her back but she left me for someone else and I'm trying to get her back because we have a5 year old daughter and I have three older kids that love her very much
    wonderwoman562 wonderwoman562 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2015

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    I have a very hard time forming healthy

    relationships with people because of my past and I am so socially isolated that it's driving me crazy. I didn't realize how much of a problem it was becoming until I was having hallucinations last night. If I hung out with people my mind wouldn't get the best of me anymore. It's...
    kayelani kayelani 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24, 2014

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    My trust issues have made me paranoid

    that the person is messing me about. But judging by my past experiences, it's fully justified, but it stops me from having relationships.
    theotherusernamesweretaken theotherusernamesweretaken 26-30, M Jul 21, 2015

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    amymayoral01 amymayoral01 51-55, F Jul 22, 2015

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    You notice I never gave up on you

    even though all you care about is yourself. I know it’s all about you, other people's thoughts and emotions don’t matter to you, right? Why would you care?  You got what you wanted someone to worship you then cut the rope and watch them sink into nothing like they never...
    johnng8230 johnng8230 22-25, M 5 Responses Feb 2, 2015

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    One bitten twice shy?Rose tinted glasses?Who knows I let people in too quickly and easily.. Become attached and hurt ..ill add you if I think you will have a positive effect on my...
    RolexRush RolexRush 31-35, F 18 hrs ago

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    Not only do I know what depression can do to the person who has it but I know exactly how it can destroy a marriage. Having had unresolved depression for many years, my husband...
    Alleygirltoo Alleygirltoo 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Over protective people will make their kids fail in life for sure.Many of them might think that the world is so harsh ect. But If you really want to protect your kids then protect...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I find the happier my days are the harder and lonlier my nights are. The highs are wonderful but the lows are awful. No matter how hard I try I can't even out! I just want to feel...
    sleepingwaitingformydream sleepingwaitingformydream 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Right people. I penned this little diatribe in the hope of getting through to some people who are having a tough time with legitimate incontinence and need a bit of light at the...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Hillary let it go. you are a sneak, and i can read your body language when asked about your crimes, you're a felon, phony, and a liar. The American people are tired of hearing your...
    ambull1 ambull1 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    Yep. The cross I must bear. I was born with a slight defect to my spine that caused a number of not so slight functions to, shall we say not work properly. Unfortunately my...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    I really don't want to care about anyone anymore, but it's so hard to not get attached to someone. I had Ryan for 9 1/2 months before he died near my birthday I had Gavin then he...
    Atljjay Atljjay 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am basically a happy person and I will not allow anyone to influence me in a negative way. No matter how much people may try to bring my spirits down I won't allow them to...
    samantha468 samantha468 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    If I'm not sarcastic. But otherwise I think the truth is amazing and should be "used more" people throw around "small lies" all the time and that is abuse of the truth in my...
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    But it can most certainly help hahahahahahahahahahaha sorry I couldn't help myself
    CallMePonyTail CallMePonyTail 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I believe a degree is only a tool you can use to make getting a job easier... it's not really a measure of your intelligence.. yes most people with degrees are intelligent, but...
    Darasi Darasi 22-25, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm avoiding going downstairs because it's exhausting pretending that I love my family and enjoy their company. I haven't seen or talked to them in a year and I don't miss them...
    Lyric8 Lyric8 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My best friend doesn't see that her boyfriend is only with her for her money. He doesn't care about her the whole 6-year relationship he never worked and she phones me crying all...
    LilyMae1995 LilyMae1995 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I work as a hvac service technician often. In this profession i work alone but with a support staff. Ok several "bosses" who might send me here or there to fix something. In part i...
    Thethought Thethought 46-50, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Give me a good, long game, some junk food, a few sodas and I can have all the fun I want
    Tatiana163 Tatiana163 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I can get hyper enough at times anyways lol xD
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000 13-15, M Jan 30

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    It's hard. Loving someone so much, with all your heart. Loving them so much that it physically hurts you when they are away. Loving them so much that they never leave your mind...
    Thelostsoulslasthope Thelostsoulslasthope 13-15, F Jan 30

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    My husband and I have had a terribly rocky last three years together. He's cycled, going from adoring me to blaming me; he's begged me to stay and he's insisted I leave. He's...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F Jan 29

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    And I can feel myself becoming jaded about love. Never in my life had I thought I'd be in this ridiculous situation. I've never felt this pathetic or this much anger towards anyone...
    SweetDreamsRubi SweetDreamsRubi 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    this group of people seems to trust Bernie "candyman" Sanders. you can tell by their facial expressions.
    MadShadows MadShadows 41-45 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I don't get it... Why do guys that look like pigs get the hot girls? But guys like me who try to improve my looks get the fat ugly chicks?
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    I am all for being naked, I am right now, and am as often as I can be, but I do not feel the need to show everyone on EP my body. I toyed briefly with the idea but then decided...
    DanteAsiir DanteAsiir 13-15, M Jan 26

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