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I Don't Trust Anyone

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    Do you see the scars!

    Up and down their arms. Do you see the tears that fall for their eyes! No! But inside they're terrified. Terrified of never being good enough never meeting this perfect person created by social media. Telling them self night after night you shoulda done this better you shouldn't...
    Pogopanda Pogopanda 13-15, F Jan 13

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    Nobody In My Life Was Who I Thought He Is ..

    There are 2 exceptions - my mum and my best friend .. But there were so many people who dissapointed me , who betrayed me .. I trust them all , including my dad and rest of my familly .. I wrote about my life before .. so you can read it , if you want , but I'm so...
    Martinecka Martinecka 18-21, F Mar 15, 2010

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    Maybe I Should Add This As A Goal

    Problem is, I do trust people, and it always ends up being the wrong people. I get hurt, swear I'm never going to give anyone the power to hurt me again, and build a barrier for a little while. Then, I allow the barrier to be broken, and it's the same thing, over and over. I do...
    missmisunderstood missmisunderstood 31-35, F 15 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    Betrayed Too Many Times

    I don’t trust anyone anymore because I have betrayed too many times by people I believed I could trust. I’ve told them personal things in strictest confidence and told them not to mention anything to anyone. What do they go and do? Go round and tell everyone what I told them...
    Amsterdamed Amsterdamed 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Old Patterns

    I generally still have a pattern going on of "Keep away from people, it's safer/happier to be alone' I am a strong person, mentally, emotionally and constantly looking at 'positive thinking' type literature and being responsible for my own reality etc etc - I am a survivor of...
    GardenFaery GardenFaery 41-45 3 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I hate everone in my life ;

    even the one i used to love ; its like i'm looking for an oportunity to just leave everyone ! I feel so lonely ; my bf always hangs out with his friends after midnight ! And im alone at home ! Sleep at 12 ! He says he is with his guy friends !! But i dont believe that at all...
    Nazanin93 Nazanin93 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    What Is Trust?

    ....I should say first that I trust people to behave in the way I have so far observed them to behave. I do not trust people to understand what I say, and as a consequence what they say becomes irrelevant as it is a response to a fictional character, not the actual me.  ..I try...
    username11111 username11111 22-25 2 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    I Really Trust No One

    I think it more wise to be this way.  Humans will always fail one another.  I'd trust a dog or cat more so than any human, but even a beloved pet can turn on ya. I am sure the trust issue stems from my own upbringing.  I was raised in an unpredictable violent home.  Maybe it...
    gurucarcar gurucarcar 41-45 1 Response Jan 20, 2012

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    I Dont Trust My Coworkers

    I don't really trust anyone except my family, bff and bf. I am very careful. A lot of times I know what people are thinking and what their motives are. I especially don't trust my coworkers even the ones I consider my buddy. You never know when they might turn on you. They might...
    Deseraye1 Deseraye1 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    Trust Issue

    No i don't trust nobody, but it's not me it's you your the reason why i'm feeling like i can't trust you. See i done trust too freely an it got me feeling used an angry. I told myself i will never trust a mutherfuck again. I done with trusting all of ya'll. I dont need to trust...
    Shy024 Shy024 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28, 2013

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    Nor Myself So they say you can't love another

    unless you learn to love yourself. Huh.... Guess that applies to trusting others. I have messed-up so much in my life.... I don't trust myself.
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Dissapointed [again?]

    Because people keep making me dissapointed. No, i didn't hope my friends to be very extraordinary in splendid way. I just... thought i have pretty good friends finally, but today it turned out to be a false thought. I know i might have no right to feel this way when people are...
    shinjiranai shinjiranai 18-21 Apr 24, 2012

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    GOD - If I Could Just Trust One Person ....

    It's just so funny.   People who do trust must think that we are crazy.  But I can honestly say that I trust no one - and I HATE this feeling.  I am so scared to trust anyone, that I just can't bring my walls down. I have...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 19 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    I've been let down by my fiancé.

    He's betrayed my trust by cheating on me, lying to me, lying to others about me and now he's gone and told someone the reasons I had the termination. I can't trust him or anyone else. Self realisation... I am completely alone.
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Everyone Can Be A Backstabber

    Half my problem is, I'm always nice to people. That's my downfall. I've thought that because people are being seemingly nice, they must be genuine, and my efforts to be nice to them will surely work. I've been stabbed in the back before, too many times to count. But this time...
    delaneybyron delaneybyron 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    Friendship Hurts.......

    "Best friends are like bread knives, they can help you lots but they can hurt you badly too." I am not here to ask you to open yourself to anyone or trust anyone.Cause believe me I have tried and I always end up hurting myself. This is not about a boyfriend or girlfriend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 27, 2013

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    Trusting Trust

    Talking to people is never easy for me. I am always afraid at the most sudden and abrupt second they will vanish. Not for a while, permanently. I do not trust even those I speak to on a daily occasion. Someday, they will not be in my life. I, therefore, keep people at a...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 6 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    I feel like I can't trust anyone anymore,

    even my "friends". I only have 3 close friends but I rarely open up to them, and when I do I just get the vibe that they're judging me. Maybe it's just me being paranoid but they don't seem to care or will act a bit strange. They also ***** to me a lot about other people they...
    mblo2984 mblo2984 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I just cant.

    😞😞😞😞😞😆😆😆😆
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Jan 12

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    To Trust Another Is To Betray Thyself?

     I just don't trust anyone. I can't, it tears me up. I can't trust someone's love I can't trust interest, I can't trust anything, especially anyone to stick by me the more they get to know me. People never expect my personality to my appearance, they never expect what...
    imustbecrazy imustbecrazy 18-21 2 Responses Feb 18, 2010

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    I Can'T Take Another Knife In My Back.!

    I had a miserable childhood, suffered severe physical and mental abuse from both my parents. Over the years both my mother and father have let me down. My father's just never been there for me, only interested in his life.My mother has stabbed me in the back.The first time...
    Goalady Goalady 36-40 4 Responses Feb 26, 2013

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    Trust ... Why?

    Why should I? I only get hurt and when I get hurt, I don't let it go.. I had a difficult childhood , I watched my parents lie to each other on a daily bases and I saw them hurt each other , they even hurt me ... fysically and mentally I don't trust anyone, because humans wil...
    nyammie nyammie 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2012

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    EP Book

    I am very suspicious  of this project that EP are going to embark on whereas they compile your stories and publish them in a book. If i wanted my life and my experiences published in a book for all the world to read then i would have done so and kept all the royalties for myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Pretty Mcuh

    For the most part I don't trust people. There a few people I trust and they know who they are but in general I don't trust people. Most people I meet in my life just lie. I just having enough of it between this and many broken promises. The hardest thing in life you need to...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2013

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    I Seriously Don'T Understand Anyone Who Has A Trusting Relationship,

    Hell, I don’t even trust myself half the time, how the **** could you possibly tell anyone your secrets and expect them to not ******* tell everyone?
    AnonAgent AnonAgent 22-25, M May 11, 2013

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    Which is one reason why I'm paranoid of sharing

    any of my work, especially online with strangers. I love to write poetry, stories and I always do philosophical and/or scientific theorizing on certain subjects and one of my worst fears is someone stealing it, and getting famous off of it or something, which may sound...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Past Experiences Effecting Me Now.

    Hi. I'm Jackie. I'm in my early 30's, married, I have 2 children from 2 prior relationships and 2 step children. I guess a little background to kick this off is probably the place to start. During infancy, my mother met my dad. It was unknown to me that this man wasn't my...
    Jackie1981 Jackie1981 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I Feel..

    I feel like people just tell me what I want to hear.   TELL ME THE TRUTH.
    sball123 sball123 16-18, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2007

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    I Don'T Trust Anyone

    I don't trust anyone because I was betrayed so many times by people I trusted most. I used to think that they were my friends, but at the end I realized that I can't trust them. Every person who comes into my life, ends breaking my heart. I don't know anymore who is telling me...
    acyssey92 acyssey92 18-21 Apr 6, 2013

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    -_-

    I will not trust anyone after i been betrayed so many times.The purpose i join this group is because i want to share my story to u guys and i hope that u all will post ur problems to this page so we can solve it togather.
    ArsenalChow ArsenalChow 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2012

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    NOT ANYMORE. I am not trusting my heart to

    anyone anymore. I want to play it safe. No expectations no hurt.
    tootightforyou tootightforyou 22-25 Jan 7

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    Betrayal

    My cousin ratted me out to my family about trying to make time with my cousin-in-law.  Im gonna try and keep this short.  Me and my cousin-in-law are a little closer than you should be (she is beautiful and a ****)  Well, the cousin that ratted me out was all...
    dirtdevil dirtdevil 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 3, 2007

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    How to trust when, in the past,

    your best friends become your bullies? How to trust people when you're trapped in ourselves? How can you trust when your best friend has moved and, a month later, he already gave more news? How can you trust when the only boy you loved and was your childhood friend turns you...
    WhatDontKillYou WhatDontKillYou 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    I Am Almost Ready to Leave This Group! : )

    I am feeling so much better with trusting people in my life.  I still have barriers, and things that deter my progress, but I'm not as guarded as I was when I first joined this group.  [Hey - guess all the money spent on therapists wasn't wasted...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 21, 2008

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    I trusted the wrong people

    and i thought i could turn to someone but when i did and i explained my feelings they told me to stop being so pathetic and that its all bollocks. I need to sort everything out, put my head straight and try to make things better for myself because i personally agree i am...
    GoToHellForHeavensSake GoToHellForHeavensSake 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I think your right this site is nothing

    but trouble. And i think its people taking advantage of other week minded people.
    pros1con pros1con 22-25, F Dec 7, 2013

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    And thats the best thing I ever promised myself

    to do. because no one deserves the trust and no one deserves to have their trust betrayed.
    Mei95 Mei95 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    badbacteria badbacteria 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    I don't trust people especially religious

    people due to notoriety and being very judgmental also I am very selective about who I socialize and be friends with now. I can't stand fake people and disloyalty. I barely have friends, and I like to keep my life private.
    walt79 walt79 31-35, M Dec 29, 2013

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    You May Not Trust Anyone But You Want To Believe

    Hi everyone I am sorry but I am am nearly 50 years old and all my life i have tried to do good for many people believing that what goes around comes around, however i have to report that nearly after half a century of life I can honestly say I have given more than taken and...
    cyeye07 cyeye07 46-50, F 1 Response May 11, 2010

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    I Hear Ya.

    I've been wondering why it is so darn hard to forgive some people in my life for some pretty minor offenses. Then this morning I woke up with some insight.My trust level (measured on a scale of 0-10), on any given day, is about 0-.000001. To let my guard down even an inch takes...
    3 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Good Idea

    i have never trusted anyone, you let people get too close, you tell them all about you. Theres all was something they dont like about you or what happens more often is that they turn into compelete ******** and use it against you..doesn't happen all the time but it is sometimes...
    kingimpulsive kingimpulsive 18-21, M Jan 23, 2010

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    HAVING to believe in things; trusting what the

    heart tells; believing to someone because they show you that they also into it and you fall for it; trusting that in time things happen and putting your faith in it. Screw that. Sometimes we have to let the mind-over-heart rule. Its extremely disappointing to have put all your...
    tootightforyou tootightforyou 22-25 1 Response Apr 5

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    I Left My Old Town

    Almost a year ago I left my town, I came to the capital because I wanted to left behind the people who hurt me so many times. I just want to forget, but I always remember all the things that they done. Frequently I go to my town, I feel happy seeing my family but at the same...
    acyssey92 acyssey92 18-21 2 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    I Dont Trust And I Dont Regret It

    i dont trust anyone including my family ,siblings ,everybody .and i dont really regret this,ppl dont deserve trust. noone does u cant trust stranger because they will abuse ur trust u cant trust family because u wont be able to deal with the **** they do and how they will be...
    dead6 dead6 22-25 8 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Not Fully At Least.....

    I let myself trust someone to a certain degree. . but I will never let my guard completely down with anyone. being that vulnerable is not a good thing. Over the last few months, i've tried trusting people completely. But then I stopped. They either didn't trust me. Or they lied...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    Trust One Person And You'd End Up Risking Your Life Into It

    seriously. i'm used to believe honest people do exist in the world. it's just people usually refuse to acknowledge them and treat them as idiots instead. i still believe it even now. the problem is... i don't know if they actually exist in my environment. maybe my expectations...
    shinjiranai shinjiranai 18-21 Dec 26, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    You don't know what I have been through regardless of who the person was, It wasn't a bad experience, never that. Peroooo I learned from it. You can always have that one friend who...
    DDanaaax3 DDanaaax3 13-15, F Apr 14

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    They always be smiling and nice I don't trust these folks
    ILoveBearGryllz55 ILoveBearGryllz55 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    As much as I want to trust the good in people, I never trust anyone completely anymore, but again I try not to depend on anyone to begin with, I guess it just makes things easier...
    Joungar Joungar 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    To people who read my posts they are probably used to the fact that I never send out any negative vibes, but there's a first time for all. I have learnt that trust is a very...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M Apr 10

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I really, really, don't like people touching or taking food from my plate. It's something that drives me insane, it's not a hygiene problem, it's just....that's my food, why are...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I used to be really close to two of my friends last year, and I could tell them everything. I told one of them that I was lesbian and she completely accepted me for who I was. But...
    Randomcityify Randomcityify 13-15, F Mar 27

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    People mistake how open I am about myself for trusting them. Just because I'm willing to tell you about myself and my past doesn't mean I trust you.
    AnInfamousDerka AnInfamousDerka 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I do not trust this government of ours at all and have not in the past several years.
    momwithcleavage momwithcleavage 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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