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I Don't Trust Easily

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    My Past, Present and Wondering About My Future - My past has made me so untrusting. I always keep an eye out. Always wonder what he is doing. This is hurting my relationship. He...
    MiseducatedChik MiseducatedChik 26-30, F Jun 25, 2008

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    Oh But When I Do...I Trust Hard - If you have earned my trust friend, you have earned it from someone who has the physical and emotional scars to back up his play. I am not saying...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 26, 2011

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    I Don't Have Anything To Hide. - No I do not trust easily, ha....or at all    :PAnd that's my biggest downfall.
    complexitykills complexitykills 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11, 2011

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    Too Many Mistakes. - I used to trust everyone with everything. I believed that people deserved to be trusted unless they proved otherwise. Clearly, I was very naive. I got screwed...
    alibrookex alibrookex 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2011

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    My Double-standard. -  I don't Trust easily at all. I always assume most people I know will end up betraying me one way or another. I've been back stabbed by so many friends...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 16, 2009

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    A Clever Man Once Said... - To trust in anyone completely, is to be a fool!!!
    wishing1well wishing1well 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 14, 2008

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    Getting Better - Im getting better at letting people in and trusting them. It was a big issue coz of the hurt i experienced in my past but now i can do it more freely.
    NiRiada NiRiada 22-25, F Mar 25, 2008

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    I Don't Trust Easily - Growing up, I've seen nothing but negativity, pain, and betrayal. In response, I have closed myself off to the world while being open to the dwindling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 15, 2012

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    I Have Never Trusted People Easily Since I Was A Young Child - I have never trusted very well and it goes back to abuse from a very young child or toddler... the night I signed up...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F May 31, 2011

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    Hesitant - The first love of my life, ended up shattering my heart into a million or more pieces... He told all of his friends when we lost our virginity together, then continued...
    behindthesmile behindthesmile 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2009

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    I Use to - People will lie to get what they want. They will tell you whatever you what ever you want to hear. So now I always second guess what ever anyone tells me until they have...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 17 Responses Jul 20, 2008

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    I Can't - I haven't ever been hurt by anyone *not badly enough to give up on trust* but I think I'm afraid to let someone in and connect with them out of fear that they will damage...
    dailyangel88 dailyangel88 16-17 2 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    I realized some people don't want to listen to you to help,but cause they are sadists....
    SparklyRain SparklyRain 18-21, F Mar 18

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    It's a Privilege - In my mind, trust is something that must be earned. I don't trust easily although I do have a lot of trust in those who are close to me who have proved...
    usafsweetheart usafsweetheart 18-21 2 Responses Mar 6, 2009

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    I Wish I Could Trust - I have a hard time trusting people.  I have a harder time taking people seriously, I tend to see people as idiots.  When I meet someone, I never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 9, 2008

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    I Don't Have To. - For a long time, I thought that I didn't trust people because they were unreliable at best; malicious at worst.  I felt that in order to feel safe and...
    RascallyRabbit RascallyRabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    I Don't Trust Easily - I just don't. Not a single one of my friends (or family) know more than the most general things about me. I come off as very open and honest, since I'm a bit...
    petohtel petohtel 22-25 Nov 24, 2013

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    People Trust Me, Before I Trust Them - I never tell too much about myself. Even with my close friends, they know enough about me to put on either an index card or 1 sheet of paper...
    RitaRee RitaRee 22-25, F 2 Responses May 1, 2012

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    You don't know what I have been through regardless of who the person was, It wasn't a bad experience, never that. Peroooo I learned from it. You can always have that one friend who...
    DDanaaax3 DDanaaax3 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    To people who read my posts they are probably used to the fact that I never send out any negative vibes, but there's a first time for all. I have learnt that trust is a very...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M a week ago

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    In the past I was so easy with trust! Like if you were meant to catch me when I fall and you don't, I would fall again trusting and believing that you would catch me and I would...
    Jahhh Jahhh 16-17, F Mar 17

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    I trust no one sad but true i have had my fair share of people breaking my trust, and making a fool out of me, so now i call the shots, i protect myself by building up walls, i get...
    TrueBlueyes TrueBlueyes 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    It's very difficult to trust people now bc of a prior situation. That being a girl pretending being a boy I really liked! Writing love cards while she laughed at the side. Another...
    Bananaboat12 Bananaboat12 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    After taking a week off from school and work, which I really couldn't afford, to spend time with an ex boyfriend of mine who resides in a different state I have come to the...
    pinkjag pinkjag 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 21

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    I can't click "me too" because i'm so stupid that i still trust people easily, like an idiot.
    YElRashidy YElRashidy 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I find it is pointless to trust anyone after my past I learned to trust no one.
    WolfForLife WolfForLife 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    As much as I want to trust the good in people, I never trust anyone completely anymore, but again I try not to depend on anyone to begin with, I guess it just makes things easier...
    Joungar Joungar 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    So I dated this girl I was cool with back in school recently. Didn't really go well and lasted just 2 months. Only wanted to date because I had money while she just sat home. What...
    HottRoddTX HottRoddTX 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I trust myself, all others...please pay cash..
    SweetNancy SweetNancy 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Why won't he fight for me the way I fight for him? Why does he put me in the dark? Why did I fall for such a damaged man?
    Shaw137 Shaw137 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    They always be smiling and nice I don't trust these folks
    ILoveBearGryllz55 ILoveBearGryllz55 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    simply because I don't want to get disappointed anymore. If I don't get close to you, if I don't get my hopes up...if I don't Care as much, I will be ok. I won't get hurt. I know...
    imprintedme imprintedme 22-25, F Mar 17

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    I really, really, don't like people touching or taking food from my plate. It's something that drives me insane, it's not a hygiene problem, it's just....that's my food, why are...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    And thats the best thing I ever promised myself to do. because no one deserves the trust and no one deserves to have their trust betrayed.
    Mei95 Mei95 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    HAVING to believe in things; trusting what the heart tells; believing to someone because they show you that they also into it and you fall for it; trusting that in time things...
    tootightforyou tootightforyou 22-25 1 Response Apr 5

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    I do not trust this government of ours at all and have not in the past several years.
    momwithcleavage momwithcleavage 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    I had never been close to my mother for as long as i can remember . We are just very different from each other. A lot comes from the fact that she never treated me well in my...
    Norajean1109 Norajean1109 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Insurance companies like to blame Obama Care for what they do. Under Obama Care you get to keep your insurance so long as your policy does not change by significantly raising cost...
    Splake Splake 61-65, M Mar 19

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    Like for example if a person won 1 Trillion dollars. 1,000,000,000,000, You add all the money into your bank account 1 year later the bank closes then only the FDIC promises $250k...
    napninjanx napninjanx 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    That make me really nervous
    ttremain ttremain 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Unfortunately, I don't trust people. My trust spectrum slowly get smaller every day. Someone always has something to say that isn't true. I can tell when you're lying to me too; I...
    karmadarling77 karmadarling77 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I don't cry... who said that I do? I honestly don't even when I am feeling very bad, even when I am at my worst.. It is not something I am bragging about .. it is just that my...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I do but I don't...it takes a lot for me to really trust you, but that's not even the peak of my trust wall. You know I trust you if you're in my heart. If you're in my heart then...
    JEJ22 JEJ22 22-25, M a week ago

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    ....tell me what I should do. Please please please is there a way to fix this?.....Is there a way.....to keep from ending everything?..... .....I hurt you if I stay, I hurt you if...
    BlackRosesTurnBlue BlackRosesTurnBlue 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    She's consuming me again. It's funny how somebody, who you haven't seen or talked to in months, can have such a profound effect on you. They don’t have to do a single thing and...
    MrTimothyMcNeil MrTimothyMcNeil 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I am still upset about the guy who was kind to me almost 30 years ago, who I feel saved my life by being a nice person in the midst of jerks and misery, and who recently rejected...
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F Mar 26

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    SUMMARY We were best friends for a while, but then he started traveling a lot. Every other week he was gone and that's when we stopped getting along. Now, he is always going out...
    Marvilles Marvilles 13-15, F 20 hrs ago

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    Hi. I'm not sure what I'm doing here - but I do know I'm tired of I don't know. That's been the answer since I was a kid. Seriously. My mother is a professional cook - and is...
    BariSag BariSag 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    what is friendship worth? my so-called friend,best friend she lied. she still is. i found out that she went behind my back . i trusted her with everything. but she was telling...
    secretwriterx secretwriterx 16-17, F Mar 22

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    My mother is awful. I can't even explain how much she's tortured my sisters and I over the years. She makes us think that she will actually be a mother. And when she's gained our...
    agirltoremember agirltoremember 13-15, F Apr 1

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    Omg my ankle hurts I would walk on it then it will start hurting I hope it doesn't hurt tomorrow I have to work I don't wanna call in n whatever
    lovesmakeup lovesmakeup 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    I can't even take pictures of myself. I hate the way I look now. I've gained 60 lbs in the last year. I don't like who I am anymore. ( I know this is a bad pic but its the most...
    DestructionAmistOthers DestructionAmistOthers 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago