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I Dont Trust Many People Because Ive Been Used

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    Yeah, Me Too.

    I really liked this guy...he was too old for me. Like 21. He acted like he was into me. Like he wanted me for me....and i feel for it.....calling me pretty..saying he wanted me....we had sex. After that, he didnt talk to me again....like at all.and all he wanted was that....from...
    McSnuggles95 McSnuggles95 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2012

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    Used By 'friends'

    i dont like to trust people easily anymore, cos there have been so many times when ive learnt to trust people and then all theyve been doing is using me, or keeping me around cos they feel sorry for me. i find it very difficult to trust the group of friends im with now, cos i...
    sezy sezy 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    At work, personally, by family.

    Who can you trust? I knkw this may sound hypocritical, but yes, I had an affair, I am married snd she was single. She chased me, professed her feelings for me, I slept with her and then she dumped me. Then came back to me three times and each time, pulled back and then...
    midliferevelation midliferevelation 46-50, M Jul 4

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    Someone Can Only Be Used So Many Times, Before Their Trust Is Broken....

    ....and that is what has happened to me. I was used over and over again, for different things. For drugs, for a free ride, for a house to party in. I was used to hurt others. And I have been used so many times, that I am finally at the point where its next to impossible for me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Every Buddy Used Me

    From the day i start growing every buddy used me even my family also use me, when ever i try to trust any buddy every time people used me that's is why i am never trust any buddy, i don't have any friends. because it is very pain full when you are trusting any buddy but he is...
    ash23win ash23win 31-35, M Sep 17, 2012

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    A Commodity

    that's what i feel like. like some kind of novelty. i'm that chick everybody wants say they know, but nobody wants to get to know me. i'm the girl that makes you laugh the loudest. i'm the one that makes you feel good just to be near me. nobody really likes me, they like the...
    juggalove juggalove 31-35, F 2 Responses May 4, 2010

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    I had been talking to this guy

    for about three weeks. Last night, he came over and we hung out and drank some. We started kissing, and I was really into him, so I gave him oral. He finished, and then said he had to go to the bathroom. I waited in the bedroom, but got up to look for him after he didn't come...
    kcgirl16 kcgirl16 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    Girls Are B*itches

    I don't care if you are female, I don't care if you're male, nearly everyone on earth knows that Girls are b*itches. I'm not going to say that I'm not a b*itch because I am, there's no doubt in my mind that I have come across to someone as a complete and total b*itch, but at...
    Aydasha5 Aydasha5 18-21, F 35 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    Im Sad

    im watching earthlings and they a abusing dogs in gas chambers, crushing them ,shooting them, giving them drugs,it all sad now stand with me to end this
    Acira Acira 13-15, M Jan 27, 2012

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    In My Job

    I work as a PA to my male 40 year old boss who seems like a great man. Nevertheless, my job involve lots of social activities and entertainment with other directors and boss from other companies. All thanks to this 40 year old baldy who never failed to leave all the "dirty jobs...
    Angelababy88 Angelababy88 22-25, F 17 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    Life Lessons

    Lord, please protect me from my "friends". My "enemies" I can take care of myself.
    billtkatt billtkatt 46-50 Jan 4, 2012

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    I don't trust anyone.

    No one has ever been there for me consistently.
    happytobefreee happytobefreee 31-35 Dec 28, 2013

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    I Try To Trust, But...

    I am doing the best I can, but every time I make any progress, it seems like something happens and I am forced to start all over again. After this latest thing with my offline "friends" it's going to be a long long time if ever, before I trust anyone on any level again, man.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 7, 2011

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    Im Telling Ya

    i almost changed it was so freaky i was in my bed and went comleaty numb and then i saw myself in human form and it stoped
    Acira Acira 13-15, M Feb 5, 2012

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    My Best Friend & The Teacher That I'm In Love With Used Me...

    I have had many people use me mostly to be with my sister because she is older, prettier, and is more outgoing than me. These people where very close to me. My best friend since preschool, people i hate who only talk to me because she is my sister, and my teacher, who i was madly...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Apr 6, 2012

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    Hard to Rust Anyone Or Anythig

    i feel people just want to use me coz im so nice esp. men. i give and give and am there for anything but get nothing in return.not even a shoulder to cry on.dont understand why. i dont trust my family either.i feel like im there to listen and be there but when im going through...
    starly starly 21-25, F Aug 13, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    Like wtf.. u can freaking reply a group chat and be like you'll text me back later. wow well i feel important **** u i hate you you are a hypocrite. i am slowly forcing myself not...
    Rascalex Rascalex 16-17, F Jul 10

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    Majority of them just inflict emotional and physical pain towards me.They just will do anything to get what they want out of you regardless of how their selfish greedy actions will...
    kittenlover24 kittenlover24 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I've Been betrayed by so many friends, it's hard for me to trust them. Especially when i have a girl frond it's hard cause I have bad memories with gf. But I love making new...
    thetheonly thetheonly 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I just feel scared that if I let anyone see the real me... They might leave me. I don't trust people easily so when I trust someone, it's serious for me.
    MadzG MadzG 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am done with trusting people , every time I trusted someone with all my heart I got backstabbed.
    LostCauseMe LostCauseMe 26-30, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's just sucks some times when ppl brake the trust ... I don't believe any one in Ep it's just all had there sad story even tho they need help they don't give a **** about trust
    Rifkyroshan Rifkyroshan 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    one of the resosns its difficult to trust these days
    celine211 celine211 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I've been taking singing lessons for almost a year now and I perform in NYC every now and then. I've always loved singing and hoped to take it on as a career, but it seemed to...
    skylasting skylasting 13-15, F Jul 4

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    I'm not "disguising" my age. You can clearly see, I'm not 70+. I choose to be 70+ because well, I can and that's my choice. It shouldn't matter how old I am. People act like its a...
    WistfulSigh WistfulSigh 70+, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Most people in my year level at school talks behind my back just because I am heavy, yup...I am heavy, I'm 5'6" and I weigh nearly 200 pounds, already went to the doctor to see...
    MissMonica98 MissMonica98 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    When I was in 2nd year I shared and apt with a guy in the same basic course. He was a bit of a drinker and on occasion on the weekend he would indeed have far too many and on...
    gooddr gooddr 61-65 1 Response Jul 4

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    Lately I have been really upset about being alone. This guy who I thought liked me never replied to me over the summer and last week I casually hooked up with this guy I didn't...
    RubyTuesday413 RubyTuesday413 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't know what experience I joined that brought such an onslaught of circle requests....although I'm guessing it had the word naked in it.....and damn near everyone of them...
    yellowroom yellowroom 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I was sleeping in a recliner this morning because I could not get up with a bum knee I hurt real bad. Well anyway I leave the front door unlocked all the time and maybe I shouldn't...
    koltan88 koltan88 56-60 3 days ago

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    Its definitely not many, I think but I know of at least 2 but they were not good for a relationship. (one was a habitual liar and the other was way too normal for me to be...
    onisama onisama 18-21 Jun 23

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    I hate when people have a crush on me and want to date and I don't feel the same. I'm not really the type that likes hurting people but I would rather them be with someone who...
    WoundedDreamer WoundedDreamer 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    at night it just hits me harder..
    deadrosez deadrosez 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I am a distant person so don't be surprised.
    tediousjpg tediousjpg 16-17 2 Responses Jul 11

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    EP is messed up.........be careful who you let in your circle...... x
    BlackBrit38 BlackBrit38 36-40, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Same thing happens to me. I think when we are too good and kind they take us for granted.
    queenbeebella queenbeebella 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    he keeps telling me everyday we talk :) he has no idea how that affects me (in a good way) :$
    Ranessa Ranessa 16-17, F Jul 4

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    Really Not Something To Wonder About. Honestly, I don't think anyone's ever seriously had a crush on me. But who knows? Maybe I'm wrong. I'm probably right, though. :)
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    And their starting to pull at one another. Identity crisis?
    DorothyWheresOz DorothyWheresOz 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    When I was 7 years old, I lost my dog. It was very hard since he was my best friend, he was getting to old (17 years old). When I was 12 years old, I lost my great grandfather...
    HorseBeauty HorseBeauty 13-15, F Jul 8

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    Okay here's something. So during the last months of school (freshman year) this girl in my art class kept turning back around to look at me. She doesn't smile or anything but she...
    ConquistadorXL ConquistadorXL 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    more than one most likely?
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    Wait. Yep. Thinks became knows me did. No wonder me is disabled. Hearts arent made to work so hard.
    converted converted 46-50, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    trust is something to be earn, for some it takes an instant for others, weeks and some months.... I sadly am in the first category, I tend to trust to easily. I fell in the trap...
    womanonly womanonly 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Because of all the abuse I went through and am still going through, I find it hard to trust in people. Because of them, I can't trust myself even. I can't even trust in the good of...
    Katalynn17 Katalynn17 13-15, F Jul 10

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    Inspiration is what gets people to invent new things, come up with new ideas, etc.a I am inspired my many people, because of he great things that they do. Now i believe in the idea...
    Aram8361 Aram8361 18-21, M Jul 10

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    ive been through a lot. every time something happens, i feel like a can deal with more.
    bowsandarrows bowsandarrows 13-15, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I don't trust people at all, and the few people who have earned my trust know better than to break it. I have been backstabbed more times than I thought possible to withstand. Out...
    BloodMoonWolfbane BloodMoonWolfbane 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My mum was a single teenage mum that had to raise me all on her own so social services were constantly in and out of our lives. I had to call the ambulance a lot for my mum because...
    Soperslime Soperslime 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7