I Dont Trust Many People Because Ive Been Used

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    I wanna add to this Today my fiend told me my

    boyfriend never loved me he just wanted money (I never gave him any tho)I just can't believe some ones life is so sad that they Have to do that
    dareingggirl dareingggirl
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 22, 2015

    A Commodity

    that's what i feel like. like some kind of novelty. i'm that chick everybody wants say they know, but nobody wants to get to know me. i'm the girl that makes you laugh the loudest. i'm the one that makes you feel good just to be near me. nobody really likes me, they like the...
    juggalove juggalove
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2010

    Sometimes I wish I was a white crayon

    so nobody would use me. </3
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2015

    In My Job

    I work as a PA to my male 40 year old boss who seems like a great man. Nevertheless, my job involve lots of social activities and entertainment with other directors and boss from other companies. All thanks to this 40 year old baldy who never failed to leave all the "dirty jobs...
    Angelababy88 Angelababy88
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Jul 6, 2011

    Im Sad

    im watching earthlings and they a abusing dogs in gas chambers, crushing them ,shooting them, giving them drugs,it all sad now stand with me to end this
    Acira Acira
    13-15, M
    Jan 27, 2012

    Yeah, Me Too.

    I really liked this guy...he was too old for me. Like 21. He acted like he was into me. Like he wanted me for me....and i feel for it.....calling me pretty..saying he wanted me....we had sex. After that, he didnt talk to me again....like at all.and all he wanted was that....from...
    McSnuggles95 McSnuggles95
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2012

    I feel like I use to be too nice

    and naive and that's what would kill me in the end,and of course choosing the wrong people.I mean im still nice,but Now I'm just really cautious who I put my feelings into ,I don't always believe what they say till i see it or I go with my gut as well.I do hope one day I can...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 17, 2015

    I Try To Trust, But...

    I am doing the best I can, but every time I make any progress, it seems like something happens and I am forced to start all over again. After this latest thing with my offline "friends" it's going to be a long long time if ever, before I trust anyone on any level again, man.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 7, 2011

    At work, personally, by family.

    Who can you trust? I knkw this may sound hypocritical, but yes, I had an affair, I am married snd she was single. She chased me, professed her feelings for me, I slept with her and then she dumped me. Then came back to me three times and each time, pulled back and then...
    midliferevelation midliferevelation
    46-50, M
    Jul 4, 2014

    Life Lessons

    Lord, please protect me from my "friends". My "enemies" I can take care of myself.
    billtkatt billtkatt
    46-50
    Jan 4, 2012

    Girls Are B*itches

    I don't care if you are female, I don't care if you're male, nearly everyone on earth knows that Girls are b*itches. I'm not going to say that I'm not a b*itch because I am, there's no doubt in my mind that I have come across to someone as a complete and total b*itch, but at...
    Aydasha5 Aydasha5
    18-21, F
    35 Responses Jul 26, 2010

    Every Buddy Used Me

    From the day i start growing every buddy used me even my family also use me, when ever i try to trust any buddy every time people used me that's is why i am never trust any buddy, i don't have any friends. because it is very pain full when you are trusting any buddy but he is...
    ash23win ash23win
    31-35, M
    Sep 17, 2012

    I don't trust anyone.

    No one has ever been there for me consistently.
    happytobefreee happytobefreee
    31-35
    Dec 28, 2013

    or they have tried to.

    ..did not end well for them.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 2

    How can you trust anyone

    when everyone is always trying to satisfy their own desires ?
    soarabove soarabove
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 16, 2015

    I went through severe depression

    and self harm after being used by my last two boyfriends. I recently went out with this amazing guy but its so hard to just put trust in someone after being broken down so many times
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 19, 2015

    My Best Friend & The Teacher That I'm In Love With Used Me...

    I have had many people use me mostly to be with my sister because she is older, prettier, and is more outgoing than me. These people where very close to me. My best friend since preschool, people i hate who only talk to me because she is my sister, and my teacher, who i was madly...
    bec193 bec193
    16-17, F
    Apr 6, 2012

    I don't want to be close to you

    because of all the things people have put me though. To open up and have friends is to suffer criticism again and again. Slash me open with your sarcastic polite ways. Alone is how I prefer to spend my days. Stab me in the back as you pretend to be my friend. I know how it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 19, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2015

    Hard to Rust Anyone Or Anythig

    i feel people just want to use me coz im so nice esp. men. i give and give and am there for anything but get nothing in return.not even a shoulder to cry on.dont understand why. i dont trust my family either.i feel like im there to listen and be there but when im going through...
    starly starly
    22-25, F
    Aug 13, 2007

    The group title says it all.

    unfortunately i cant air all the ways and times ive been used. lets just say im pretty intuitive and guarded. in other words, i see it coming and i try not to be vulnerable to the possibility of it happening. for me, this isnt just with love. its with life in general.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    My life has come down to 4 letters: I.

    D.T.A. I Don't Trust Anybody!!!
    NG725324 NG725324
    41-45, M
    Jan 23, 2015

    And dumped and had my heart crushed too many

    times. I spend so much time wanting to be loved like I love.
    1frankles 1frankles
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 2

    I don't trust my ex anymore.

    He won't even talk to me. At all. Likes to just speak to everyone else but me.
    kezzaaap kezzaaap
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 11

    you controlled me for years I wanted to be

    free now I am nothings changed I work for her now dear brother my mother control unfortunately is all I ever known I still try to fight though
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 3

    Funny how you met someone you guys talk

    and text everyday then one day everything changed they don't wanna talk to you anymore kinda makes me feel like I have been replaced by someone better then my I guess
    rosegigi rosegigi
    22-25, F
    Nov 11, 2015

    I had been talking to this guy

    for about three weeks. Last night, he came over and we hung out and drank some. We started kissing, and I was really into him, so I gave him oral. He finished, and then said he had to go to the bathroom. I waited in the bedroom, but got up to look for him after he didn't come...
    kcgirl16 kcgirl16
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2014

    Used By 'friends'

    i dont like to trust people easily anymore, cos there have been so many times when ive learnt to trust people and then all theyve been doing is using me, or keeping me around cos they feel sorry for me. i find it very difficult to trust the group of friends im with now, cos i...
    sezy sezy
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Aug 19, 2007

    Im Telling Ya

    i almost changed it was so freaky i was in my bed and went comleaty numb and then i saw myself in human form and it stoped
    Acira Acira
    13-15, M
    Feb 5, 2012

    Urgh just learnt my lesson again.

    .. A plate of emotions has been served with a glass of numbness and a side of **** all... I just couldn't care anymore... I was finally starting to feel a little happy again... Now that hope has been lost... I just learnt I was the rebound for a so called "best friend" who doesn...
    Catho Catho
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2014

    Trust is just a word

    for suckers I am to smart never gullible
    Juggalooking Juggalooking
    70+, M
    1 Response Dec 20, 2014

    Someone Can Only Be Used So Many Times, Before Their Trust Is Broken....

    ....and that is what has happened to me. I was used over and over again, for different things. For drugs, for a free ride, for a house to party in. I was used to hurt others. And I have been used so many times, that I am finally at the point where its next to impossible for me to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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