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I Dont Trust Many People Because Ive Been Used

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    I don't trust anyone.

    No one has ever been there for me consistently.
    happytobefreee happytobefreee 31-35 Dec 28, 2013

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    Girls Are B*itches

    I don't care if you are female, I don't care if you're male, nearly everyone on earth knows that Girls are b*itches. I'm not going to say that I'm not a b*itch because I am, there's no doubt in my mind that I have come across to someone as a complete and total b*itch, but at...
    Aydasha5 Aydasha5 18-21, F 35 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    I Try To Trust, But...

    I am doing the best I can, but every time I make any progress, it seems like something happens and I am forced to start all over again. After this latest thing with my offline "friends" it's going to be a long long time if ever, before I trust anyone on any level again, man.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 7, 2011

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    Yeah, Me Too.

    I really liked this guy...he was too old for me. Like 21. He acted like he was into me. Like he wanted me for me....and i feel for it.....calling me pretty..saying he wanted me....we had sex. After that, he didnt talk to me again....like at all.and all he wanted was that....from...
    McSnuggles95 McSnuggles95 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2012

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    Im Sad

    im watching earthlings and they a abusing dogs in gas chambers, crushing them ,shooting them, giving them drugs,it all sad now stand with me to end this
    Acira Acira 13-15, M Jan 27, 2012

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    A Commodity

    that's what i feel like. like some kind of novelty. i'm that chick everybody wants say they know, but nobody wants to get to know me. i'm the girl that makes you laugh the loudest. i'm the one that makes you feel good just to be near me. nobody really likes me, they like the...
    juggalove juggalove 31-35, F 2 Responses May 4, 2010

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    My Best Friend & The Teacher That I'm In Love With Used Me...

    I have had many people use me mostly to be with my sister because she is older, prettier, and is more outgoing than me. These people where very close to me. My best friend since preschool, people i hate who only talk to me because she is my sister, and my teacher, who i was madly...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Apr 6, 2012

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    Im Telling Ya

    i almost changed it was so freaky i was in my bed and went comleaty numb and then i saw myself in human form and it stoped
    Acira Acira 13-15, M Feb 5, 2012

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    Hard to Rust Anyone Or Anythig

    i feel people just want to use me coz im so nice esp. men. i give and give and am there for anything but get nothing in return.not even a shoulder to cry on.dont understand why. i dont trust my family either.i feel like im there to listen and be there but when im going through...
    starly starly 21-25, F Aug 13, 2007

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    Life Lessons

    Lord, please protect me from my "friends". My "enemies" I can take care of myself.
    billtkatt billtkatt 46-50 Jan 4, 2012

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    At work, personally, by family.

    Who can you trust? I knkw this may sound hypocritical, but yes, I had an affair, I am married snd she was single. She chased me, professed her feelings for me, I slept with her and then she dumped me. Then came back to me three times and each time, pulled back and then...
    midliferevelation midliferevelation 46-50, M Jul 4

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    Every Buddy Used Me

    From the day i start growing every buddy used me even my family also use me, when ever i try to trust any buddy every time people used me that's is why i am never trust any buddy, i don't have any friends. because it is very pain full when you are trusting any buddy but he is...
    ash23win ash23win 31-35, M Sep 17, 2012

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    Used By 'friends'

    i dont like to trust people easily anymore, cos there have been so many times when ive learnt to trust people and then all theyve been doing is using me, or keeping me around cos they feel sorry for me. i find it very difficult to trust the group of friends im with now, cos i...
    sezy sezy 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    I had been talking to this guy

    for about three weeks. Last night, he came over and we hung out and drank some. We started kissing, and I was really into him, so I gave him oral. He finished, and then said he had to go to the bathroom. I waited in the bedroom, but got up to look for him after he didn't come...
    kcgirl16 kcgirl16 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    Someone Can Only Be Used So Many Times, Before Their Trust Is Broken....

    ....and that is what has happened to me. I was used over and over again, for different things. For drugs, for a free ride, for a house to party in. I was used to hurt others. And I have been used so many times, that I am finally at the point where its next to impossible for me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    In My Job

    I work as a PA to my male 40 year old boss who seems like a great man. Nevertheless, my job involve lots of social activities and entertainment with other directors and boss from other companies. All thanks to this 40 year old baldy who never failed to leave all the "dirty jobs...
    Angelababy88 Angelababy88 22-25, F 17 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I've been used, loved, hated, dropped, spent, hit, hurt, lied to and left high and dry! This is why i've learnt to not trust anyone but myself! Now this has become a issue with new...
    lollypop61 lollypop61 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 7

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    Because sometimes when too many people loose your trust it runs out,
    cicizzle cicizzle 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Every time I get close to people, I start over-scrutinizing their faults, sort of like a defense mechanism. My brain's like "oh you don't want to be with that person, he texts...
    janeastin janeastin 22-25 Sep 5

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    Everyone was always after my twin sister. I just wanted to be wanted you know? She was the girl you date, I was the girl you marry. Wonder how many people had crushes on me in high...
    BlueEyedFaye BlueEyedFaye 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't trust anyone not even the one I've always looked up to, my mom. She's only concerned about herself.
    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F 1 Response 13 mins ago

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    I live by believing, not trust. There's a subtle difference that makes all the difference in the world. When you believe, you get disappointed but you move on. When you trust...
    ohmaimama ohmaimama 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Too many ******* people take advantage of the trust they're given.
    BrutallyHonest316 BrutallyHonest316 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    why get married when passion is not part of your agreement I don't get these people who marry for the wrong reasons, and think it is the norm and perfectly normal, when they are...
    Futuete Futuete 46-50, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I don't trust ppl at all b cuz there's freaking creepy *** weirdos in there 60 and they send me pics of them selfes JUST FLAT OUT GROSS!
    hayhaytaytay hayhaytaytay 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    My trust is earned, not given.
    justsuzy justsuzy 56-60, F 6 days ago

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    Someone please explain to me why i could've been so blind to the fact that love doesn't exist!they say u are supposed to feel love! welll im not sure if i ever have or will! maybe...
    tomas01041977 tomas01041977 36-40 Sep 10

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    It sucks missing somebody. When you used to be so close to them and now you ignore and avoid each other. There are people I used to stay up until 4 am talking to, and now...
    loveandstuff8 loveandstuff8 16-17, F Sep 5

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    I live in a city that is very expensive and only work in a fairly low paid industry. long story short I cant live with family and I am a Christian who believes it is better for me...
    funkykristi funkykristi 31-35, F Sep 10

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    I LOVE when people come up to me and say, "I had a dream, and you were in it." It always makes me smile and feel special, plus I like hearing how weird it was. I also like...
    youtubeninja youtubeninja 18-21, F Sep 10

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    Up to this day I have only known about two people that have ever had a crush on me. The first one was in middle school. It was the first time I heard that so I didn't know how to...
    Culinaryman23 Culinaryman23 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    Just curious because I have been hit on in public and some women I believe have flirted with me lol.
    COD101 COD101 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    A kind stranger might give you there time and ask you what's wrong and talk to you about your problems, but did you ever think maybe they have it worse and there helping you just...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F Sep 1

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    Well what I've learned while being on EP is that my own opinion of myself in which is determined on how i see myself and how i feel others see me, greatly differs from how others...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    There have been a few that had their friends tell me in the past, but I always wondered who else had a crush on me.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    yeaah so amazzing and nearly as many women as men so women and men have similar desires neithe being more or less is proved by this..
    romell romell 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I felt like posting this after reading a friends post .My marriage may not be perfect after 27 years .But I am not alone responsible for it.Why can't my spouse also invest in it...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I am truly curious how many have dreamt about me.
    marchdan marchdan 16-17, M Sep 10

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    Probably 0 people. Even my dog doesn't like me!
    EmmaBirchall EmmaBirchall 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Do old people still have crushes ?? lol
    Verano93 Verano93 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    But I don't know why 😰😢😰😢😰😢
    whatdreammaycome whatdreammaycome 56-60, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    I am sick of being there for everyone else and noone ever returns the favor when im in need of someone
    Heyababe Heyababe 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I hate to sound like an attention ***** but I can't hold it in I just wanna break down and cry... I found out today that... My brother is going back to live wit my dad. ( who I...
    werebentnotbroken werebentnotbroken 16-17, F Aug 22

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    Several times. And have blocked several too. Some like pain and hate advice. Me i like learning how to feel better. And who can be helped by my advice.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 24

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    Why cant i have a guy who will treat me like a princess and appreciate me And love me for who i am.seems everyguy i get i am a piece of **** to and get taken advantage of...
    Heyababe Heyababe 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    Now the only thing I want from her is her heart in a jar of embalming fluid next to my bed so I can finally have the peace of my soul that she stole
    malakaixanoctu malakaixanoctu 18-21, M Aug 27

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    When I think back to that time, I can't help but wonder how I could have let her use me like that. I bailed her out of her financial troubles and other problems over and over again...
    teenotes teenotes 22-25, M Sep 3

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    But they like tax breaks. Or whining. Or teaching kids wrong reasons to be. Or devoted to a cripple. The last type i admire.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 26

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