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I Dont Trust Many People Because Ive Been Used

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    Lord, please protect me from my "friends". My "enemies" I can take care of myself.
    billtkatt billtkatt 46-50 Jan 4, 2012

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    I had been talking to this guy

    for about three weeks. Last night, he came over and we hung out and drank some. We started kissing, and I was really into him, so I gave him oral. He finished, and then said he had to go to the bathroom. I waited in the bedroom, but got up to look for him after he didn't come...
    kcgirl16 kcgirl16 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    Yeah, Me Too.

    I really liked this guy...he was too old for me. Like 21. He acted like he was into me. Like he wanted me for me....and i feel for it.....calling me pretty..saying he wanted me....we had sex. After that, he didnt talk to me again....like at all.and all he wanted was that....from...
    McSnuggles95 McSnuggles95 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2012

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    Girls Are B*itches

    I don't care if you are female, I don't care if you're male, nearly everyone on earth knows that Girls are b*itches. I'm not going to say that I'm not a b*itch because I am, there's no doubt in my mind that I have come across to someone as a complete and total b*itch, but at...
    Aydasha5 Aydasha5 18-21, F 35 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    Im Sad

    im watching earthlings and they a abusing dogs in gas chambers, crushing them ,shooting them, giving them drugs,it all sad now stand with me to end this
    Acira Acira 13-15, M Jan 27, 2012

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    I don't trust anyone.

    No one has ever been there for me consistently.
    happytobefreee happytobefreee 31-35 Dec 28, 2013

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    Used By 'friends'

    i dont like to trust people easily anymore, cos there have been so many times when ive learnt to trust people and then all theyve been doing is using me, or keeping me around cos they feel sorry for me. i find it very difficult to trust the group of friends im with now, cos i...
    sezy sezy 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    My Best Friend & The Teacher That I'm In Love With Used Me...

    I have had many people use me mostly to be with my sister because she is older, prettier, and is more outgoing than me. These people where very close to me. My best friend since preschool, people i hate who only talk to me because she is my sister, and my teacher, who i was madly...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Apr 6, 2012

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    Every Buddy Used Me

    From the day i start growing every buddy used me even my family also use me, when ever i try to trust any buddy every time people used me that's is why i am never trust any buddy, i don't have any friends. because it is very pain full when you are trusting any buddy but he is...
    ash23win ash23win 31-35, M Sep 17, 2012

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    Trust is just a word

    for suckers I am to smart never gullible
    Juggalooking Juggalooking 70+, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Someone Can Only Be Used So Many Times, Before Their Trust Is Broken....

    ....and that is what has happened to me. I was used over and over again, for different things. For drugs, for a free ride, for a house to party in. I was used to hurt others. And I have been used so many times, that I am finally at the point where its next to impossible for me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Urgh just learnt my lesson again.

    .. A plate of emotions has been served with a glass of numbness and a side of **** all... I just couldn't care anymore... I was finally starting to feel a little happy again... Now that hope has been lost... I just learnt I was the rebound for a so called "best friend" who doesn...
    catho catho 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I Try To Trust, But...

    I am doing the best I can, but every time I make any progress, it seems like something happens and I am forced to start all over again. After this latest thing with my offline "friends" it's going to be a long long time if ever, before I trust anyone on any level again, man.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 7, 2011

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    In My Job

    I work as a PA to my male 40 year old boss who seems like a great man. Nevertheless, my job involve lots of social activities and entertainment with other directors and boss from other companies. All thanks to this 40 year old baldy who never failed to leave all the "dirty jobs...
    Angelababy88 Angelababy88 22-25, F 13 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    Im Telling Ya

    i almost changed it was so freaky i was in my bed and went comleaty numb and then i saw myself in human form and it stoped
    Acira Acira 13-15, M Feb 5, 2012

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    At work, personally, by family.

    Who can you trust? I knkw this may sound hypocritical, but yes, I had an affair, I am married snd she was single. She chased me, professed her feelings for me, I slept with her and then she dumped me. Then came back to me three times and each time, pulled back and then...
    midliferevelation midliferevelation 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    Hard to Rust Anyone Or Anythig

    i feel people just want to use me coz im so nice esp. men. i give and give and am there for anything but get nothing in return.not even a shoulder to cry on.dont understand why. i dont trust my family either.i feel like im there to listen and be there but when im going through...
    starly starly 21-25, F Aug 13, 2007

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    its a terrible feeling.

    knowing you've been used be someone. knowing that they don't really care, they never did, you were just around. a pawn in their little game. anyone else could of been around or been there and the same thing would have happened. its an interesting feeling.. being used and...
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M Dec 3

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    A Commodity

    that's what i feel like. like some kind of novelty. i'm that chick everybody wants say they know, but nobody wants to get to know me. i'm the girl that makes you laugh the loudest. i'm the one that makes you feel good just to be near me. nobody really likes me, they like the...
    juggalove juggalove 31-35, F 2 Responses May 4, 2010

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    Throughout my entire life I have always noticed how hard it is for me to form genuine connections with people. I am generally quite different from most people. The things that I...
    chelsieshay2626 chelsieshay2626 18-21, F Dec 4

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for just over 16 years. In that time I've been through the counseling sessions, countless fights, nights on the couch, online trysts, real life near...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I find it very difficult to trust people, and I don't even trust myself very much. It is a legacy of my marriage, but I hope I will learn how to trust again.
    00flyaway 00flyaway 41-45, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    It is telling when I see that a girl blocks me just because she did not like to see that she is wrong. Feel free to check out her post (burnout96 - random thoughts post) about a...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 10

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    And someone I thought I could trust has just fallen off the list of people I trust.
    RedMarcher RedMarcher 16-17, M Dec 10

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    Trust can make you powerful. Betrayal can break you. I was betrayed by someone, and now I only trust about 4 of my best friends in the world.
    RedMarcher RedMarcher 16-17, M Nov 28

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    That moment when you can't trust anyone, not even a person whom you've known all your life. All you have is a teddy bear that you can hug.
    Julietxxx Julietxxx 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 22

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    My friend dumped me so many times I feel like a used knickers recently it was for my boyfriends aunt no more after this
    mebar mebar 31-35 2 days ago

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    dear: person I am angry at. I looked up to you. You didn't notice because you were busy looking at yourself in the mirror. I did everything you said to please you, to not get on...
    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I can't believe that after being in a abusive relationship for 14 yrs... I go and get myself into another one and it's been 14 yrs that I've been in the second abusive relationship...
    neydi1972 neydi1972 41-45, F Dec 2

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    In bed next to my wife. Wide awake on my phone staring at the ceiling. I tried to initiate, which as usual ended in a series of excuses capped off by her snoring. So I'm laying...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 6

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    I have been on ep since I was around 10-12 years old and today I am 17 I am still growing and maturing and everyone I've spoke to on ep taught me something whether it was simply to...
    germany100 germany100 16-17, F Dec 7

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    reading experiences on how so many husbands and wives cheated on their significant other scares the hell out of me. i bet they were madly in love when they said their vow. but yes...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    It seems more and more men, especially, live in sexless marriages. I wonder why? Is it because they can't look at their wives in the same way as they once did. She's had the...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 26

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    I think humans are funny: when you meet a new gal/guy and fall in love, you want to meet his/her parents. The longer they leave it the more you think he/she's not taking your...
    Roz2014 Roz2014 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I want to know how people feel about me,are they really wanting to know me deeper and better?
    spicycook spicycook 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 1

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    Some people get offended off nudity. I love being naked. I cant stand when some people tell me to change my profile pic.. I wont.. Why get offended off my nude photo?? So what my...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    So this is great news. http://talkingpointsmemo.com/news/scarecrows-outnumber-people-nagoro-japan
    wombat456 wombat456 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    thinking the number of people is very small
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yep, yep, yep, and yep. Enough said.
    trayomis trayomis 31-35, F Dec 4

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    Sometimes I just want to scream so loud the earth will shake...
    amyj65 amyj65 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 2

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    1 or 2, at most. I'm not lying either
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    they are racial against Jesus!
    jojom543 jojom543 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    I know the power of a song when the song hits you right and the singer voice cuts thru the noise and stirs up a memory with the sound of a million dreams.
    gamma87 gamma87 46-50, M Nov 22

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    My ego says more than a few, but I'd imagine they'd lose interest once they actually sat down and spoke to me *shrug* C'est la vie.
    EdgeOfSanity EdgeOfSanity 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 1

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    I miss her. The rules that govern social convention say I shouldn't. I never met her in person, but I know her. I know her in ways her husband doesn't (or doesn't care to know...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 2

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    He wouldn't even watch me undress last night. Why do I bother with the push-up bra and the sexy undies?
    andie2007 andie2007 41-45, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Wonder if anyone can help. Ive been in a relationship with a Romanian man for just over 7 months now. I myself am british and although at first there were language barriers its...
    beckalem beckalem 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 21

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