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I Dont Trust Many People Because Ive Been Used

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    Used By 'friends'

    i dont like to trust people easily anymore, cos there have been so many times when ive learnt to trust people and then all theyve been doing is using me, or keeping me around cos they feel sorry for me. i find it very difficult to trust the group of friends im with now, cos i...
    sezy sezy 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    Every Buddy Used Me

    From the day i start growing every buddy used me even my family also use me, when ever i try to trust any buddy every time people used me that's is why i am never trust any buddy, i don't have any friends. because it is very pain full when you are trusting any buddy but he is...
    ash23win ash23win 31-35, M Sep 17, 2012

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    Yeah, Me Too.

    I really liked this guy...he was too old for me. Like 21. He acted like he was into me. Like he wanted me for me....and i feel for it.....calling me pretty..saying he wanted me....we had sex. After that, he didnt talk to me again....like at all.and all he wanted was that....from...
    McSnuggles95 McSnuggles95 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2012

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    I Try To Trust, But...

    I am doing the best I can, but every time I make any progress, it seems like something happens and I am forced to start all over again. After this latest thing with my offline "friends" it's going to be a long long time if ever, before I trust anyone on any level again, man.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 7, 2011

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    I had been talking to this guy

    for about three weeks. Last night, he came over and we hung out and drank some. We started kissing, and I was really into him, so I gave him oral. He finished, and then said he had to go to the bathroom. I waited in the bedroom, but got up to look for him after he didn't come...
    kcgirl16 kcgirl16 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    Im Sad

    im watching earthlings and they a abusing dogs in gas chambers, crushing them ,shooting them, giving them drugs,it all sad now stand with me to end this
    Acira Acira 13-15, M Jan 27, 2012

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    I don't trust anyone.

    No one has ever been there for me consistently.
    happytobefreee happytobefreee 31-35 Dec 28, 2013

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    A Commodity

    that's what i feel like. like some kind of novelty. i'm that chick everybody wants say they know, but nobody wants to get to know me. i'm the girl that makes you laugh the loudest. i'm the one that makes you feel good just to be near me. nobody really likes me, they like the...
    juggalove juggalove 31-35, F 2 Responses May 4, 2010

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    In My Job

    I work as a PA to my male 40 year old boss who seems like a great man. Nevertheless, my job involve lots of social activities and entertainment with other directors and boss from other companies. All thanks to this 40 year old baldy who never failed to leave all the "dirty jobs...
    Angelababy88 Angelababy88 22-25, F 17 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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    Life Lessons

    Lord, please protect me from my "friends". My "enemies" I can take care of myself.
    billtkatt billtkatt 46-50 Jan 4, 2012

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    Im Telling Ya

    i almost changed it was so freaky i was in my bed and went comleaty numb and then i saw myself in human form and it stoped
    Acira Acira 13-15, M Feb 5, 2012

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    Hard to Rust Anyone Or Anythig

    i feel people just want to use me coz im so nice esp. men. i give and give and am there for anything but get nothing in return.not even a shoulder to cry on.dont understand why. i dont trust my family either.i feel like im there to listen and be there but when im going through...
    starly starly 21-25, F Aug 13, 2007

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    Someone Can Only Be Used So Many Times, Before Their Trust Is Broken....

    ....and that is what has happened to me. I was used over and over again, for different things. For drugs, for a free ride, for a house to party in. I was used to hurt others. And I have been used so many times, that I am finally at the point where its next to impossible for me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    Girls Are B*itches

    I don't care if you are female, I don't care if you're male, nearly everyone on earth knows that Girls are b*itches. I'm not going to say that I'm not a b*itch because I am, there's no doubt in my mind that I have come across to someone as a complete and total b*itch, but at...
    Aydasha5 Aydasha5 18-21, F 35 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    At work, personally, by family.

    Who can you trust? I knkw this may sound hypocritical, but yes, I had an affair, I am married snd she was single. She chased me, professed her feelings for me, I slept with her and then she dumped me. Then came back to me three times and each time, pulled back and then...
    midliferevelation midliferevelation 46-50, M Jul 4

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    My Best Friend & The Teacher That I'm In Love With Used Me...

    I have had many people use me mostly to be with my sister because she is older, prettier, and is more outgoing than me. These people where very close to me. My best friend since preschool, people i hate who only talk to me because she is my sister, and my teacher, who i was madly...
    bec193 bec193 16-17, F Apr 6, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Okay so know were playing catch up, because i havent been on here in a while, so i have recently broke up with my ex boyfriend of 4 and a 1/2 years, had two different jobs and...
    Elijah4020Raye Elijah4020Raye 18-21, F Jul 24

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    I believe finding who you are and what you want to be a the hardest part about being an adult. You have responsibilities and more I could name off but let me get to my point. The...
    Supershoes24 Supershoes24 22-25, M Jul 29

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    I do wonder. How many people have had a crush on me? And why?
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Trust is something you earn slowly over a long period of time and as soon as you loose it bam its really hard to get it back
    AristotleOnassis AristotleOnassis 22-25, M 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I'm Savannah & I'm being bullied by a large group of girls. We used to be friends but when I got tired of hanging out with one girl because she was really mean..she turned her...
    DisneyGirl390 DisneyGirl390 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Not just friends, but family. Hell my brother is back in California, I may be moving soon too, ive lost both my parents, lost all contact with family from my dads side, and the...
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M Jul 26

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    I Can't Say I Trust Like I Used To . . . .
    misQueen misQueen 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I tend to not trust people, always second guessing or questioning what they say! I've had a great family life and have been surrounded by great friends but still! Men seem to...
    Devotedmom77 Devotedmom77 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 2

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    The people I trust always let me down. I'm tired of hurting, I can't do it anymore. I feel like one more push and I'm over the edge and falling. I'm hurting and no one knows...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F Jul 23

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    It's really hard to trust people when you've been let down time after time again
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    It's massively difficult to if you've been let down by them time and time again. I think the only people I truly trust are my family. Oh, and my cat too.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 28

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    Everyone I put my trust in hurts me so No, I don't trust anyone until they give me a reason too. Blood doesn't really mean much either. I may be young but I know a little somethin...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 2

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    All it took for me for me to loose trust in everyone was one person to do me wrong.
    JustBeingMe572 JustBeingMe572 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    If you want my trust you have to earn it.
    Bee2014 Bee2014 51-55, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    I learned this the hard way. Can't trust my friends - not even my own family. It sucks.
    SomethingGrimm SomethingGrimm 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Trust only yo self fackk i needed 25 charetersss
    StaticMajor StaticMajor 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    :) on the outside but :( in the inside!I've been through a lot of pain physically as well as psychologically so i've been through hell and been through a lot more than a average 21...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Interesting story.. I got a guy to like me by blasting a trumpet at him. He made a comment that I didn't sound very good. (I played flute; someone was trying to teach me to play...
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F Aug 7

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    I always want travelled around the word and have a nice life, a calm one. But bad things happened to me and i had to move from my home early and start working. I am 22 and all my...
    mayelin929 mayelin929 22-25, F Jul 31

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    Yer like totally, I mean now I know not to waste a breath on people who are always looking to be smiled at and return the response with a fake smile.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Aug 1

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    I've always been a very private person. Now that I'm older and more responsible to have a job and go to college I'm forced to put myself in many social situations. I'm good in...
    linkingold linkingold 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I survived a breakup. I came out of it with a clear vision of what I want to do with myself and my life. I have a better understand of who I am and what I stand for. I grew a lot...
    wanderingheart237 wanderingheart237 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    She used me for years and I let her
    ebah22 ebah22 22-25, M Aug 11

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    I recently got back in touch with an old childhood friend. He told me he had/has the biggest crush on me but he was always to shy to tell me. I find myself wondering how things...
    LF87 LF87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Most of the time I am on my own. I usually stay home or am at school for class or tutoring. I see my family and my co-workers often. I don't really have an entourage. It makes me a...
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 Aug 9

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    Hubby and I started having sex the year before we were married. We have now been married 45 years and sex is still an important part of our relationship. When in bed with hubby, it...
    louiselloyd louiselloyd 66-70, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I spoke to a former lover yesterday who recently married his long time partner. He kept reminding me that married people don't have sex. And then laughing about it. On the other...
    Katertoten Katertoten 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    304 million people live in the U.S. One in 25 people will have the disorders associated with 'no conscience' which include antisocial personality disorder, sociopath, and...
    TygerLylly TygerLylly 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I hate to sound like an attention ***** but I can't hold it in I just wanna break down and cry... I found out today that... My brother is going back to live wit my dad. ( who I...
    werebentnotbroken werebentnotbroken 16-17, F 13 hrs ago

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    I'd rather not type my sob story twice (: it's on my profile(:
    quirkyme quirkyme 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    And this scares me cause I'm still young.
    HiTaylorHi HiTaylorHi 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Someone I truly cared about blocked me I'm done with everything right nia
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F Aug 11

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