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I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 32 People

    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly 26-30, F 9 Responses May 14, 2009

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    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F Aug 13, 2013

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    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022 22-25 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Like a quote in Italian Job, "I do trust people, its the devil inside them that i don't. " I frustrated them cause i tend to have lots of doubt.. Trust need to be earned.. No...
    geezzo geezzo 26-30, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Hello, My name is Amanda .G. and I have one daughter who is 2yrs old with my husband that I've been married to for 4yrs and together for 11yrs. It took us 7yrs to get married and...
    PraiseHimDaily PraiseHimDaily 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    I'm starting to hate my husband. He is immature and can't communicate. He spends every night glued to his laptop, TV, or cellphone internet. EVERY night. When I try to suggest us...
    trailblazr80 trailblazr80 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    About a month after I married my current husband, I discovered many emails, Facebook messages, linkedin messages, and other links to messages to other women. They were very...
    Susanrrhea Susanrrhea 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I used to be so naive. Sometimes I wish I could have that innocence back...to be able to see the world through the eyes of a girl who only knew of sheltered happiness. Of course...
    SupernovaxGirl SupernovaxGirl 26-30 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Is love to trust my husband again... Then maybe I could love him again. Some serious trust busters were done by him in the beginning and he hasn't done anything to recoup what was...
    mommahump mommahump 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I'm so tired of having to deal with my husbands alcoholism and him blaming it on any little stressor. I was an alcoholic but haven't had a drink in ten months. I can't stand this...
    byal186 byal186 26-30, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Trust is something you earn slowly over a long period of time and as soon as you loose it bam its really hard to get it back
    AristotleOnassis AristotleOnassis 22-25, M 2 Responses 58 mins ago

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    My husband and I have been in a relationship for ten years. I was 17 and he was 24. We have always been so attached to each and so much in love. We were best friends and told each...
    ramonap1990 ramonap1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    My husband's ex has caused us years of hassle - when we met they were still meeting up at her house. Every time he tried to end it with her, she harmed herself and even attempted...
    bebyvee bebyvee 26-30, F Jul 29

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    Today I showed up to work on a new crew of folks. Two of them knew a lot about my personal life and my work, especially for people who had never met me before. Turns out my best...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Call it womens intuition but lately i feel that my husband is cheating on me. He's super close to this bunch of girls at work and he might be cheating on me with one of them. I...
    mmmela mmmela 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 3 Responses Jul 29

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    I hate my husband of 20 yrs. I often wish he would just leave or even die, and then feel like a horrible person for wishing for him to die. Not because I would miss him, but...
    shazzy41498 shazzy41498 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    What I learned: Be your own hero. Reflect and apply what you’ve learned to your life, today. Work at forgiving yourself and others for being flawed human beings who must learn...
    AppleJacks10 AppleJacks10 26-30, F Jul 27

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    I'm staying up late again waiting to see what time my husband will come home. I saw him before he left again at 1 AM and now it is 2:33 AM. Last night he drank a lot and blacked...
    mesoftly mesoftly 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    Thank you all for sharing your experiences and insight into this sad, sad, stupid horrific thing we call addiction. Reading all of your stories has been eye opening and I hope...
    hightoolong hightoolong 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    People have asked me since I'm close to 30 if I want kids. I tell them I need the husband first, then I can think about having kids. And I pray that it's a marriage that will last...
    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    They leave me. If they don't leave fast enough, I make sure I wreck it so that they pack their bags and run fast! I am not someone worth loving. I cheated on my first husband. My...
    geminigirlnextdoor geminigirlnextdoor 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    my husband have cheated on me and I can't seen to move past it he has does things and shows the same behavior without fully cheating with something else would you be ok with your...
    mixedfeelings2014 mixedfeelings2014 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I used to have trust issues with guys because my whole life I have dated the biggest ********. But then I dated my best friend and he was the sweetest guy ever. However, since all...
    thequ3enpree thequ3enpree 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Im 20, im old enough to have a child. Ive been around so many kids throughout my life, stayed with them since they were juat born. Theres this one lady shes my mum's friend, she...
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    We are only together because he will not leave. He finally, after 2 years, got a job. Now he is obsessing over a "girl" at work. I have to listen to him go on and on every day...
    MarcyBanks MarcyBanks 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    I most certainly am but I can't trust him at all recently found out he's had a lot of secrets and had no intention of telling me about them I shouldn't have to go digging it's...
    missy118118 missy118118 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    There's no real way to make this long story short-but I could use some advice. My husband and I had a baby before we even started dating. One night stand. Anyway-he was a real...
    parismonkey parismonkey 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I in all honesty have no family except my child , I got engaged with my boyfriend after 2 years on Christmas Eve an since then our relationship has sucked , he's fooled around , I...
    sayumxo sayumxo 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    You have one chance to earn my trust, but if I catch you in a lie then I will never trust you again. Everyone I've ever been with has cheated on me. Not just some, all of them...
    pastelstars pastelstars 18-21, F Jul 23

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    In your life you meet people who bring much joy to your life and also people who bring much misery to it. I am very unfortunate because I've had more people who bring me misery in...
    morgan18365 morgan18365 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Sometimes I literally think my soul is exhausted from the experience of trusting people. Meaning when you first meet someone everything is new rather it's a friendship or a...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    people except me to tell my life story so easily like things didnt happen that changed me. many people have gone through what i have and are perfectly fine and are happy people. i...
    internationalinspire internationalinspire 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I am so angry for trusting my best friend. He was my best friend. The one that I thought would cover my back if someone were to hurt me, but what I found out... For the past 7...
    LynEdma LynEdma 22-25, F Jul 23

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    I have trust issues. I haven't ways had them, in my younger years I trusted without fear of pain or betrayals but I can't function like that anymore. When I was 19 I started...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F Jul 23

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    I don't know, all my life i have found it hard to trust anyone , the first time i tell someone a secret i made sure it was the smallest one i could possibly think of , and next...
    Theworldismyhell Theworldismyhell 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    Trust is like a mirror. Once you clean off the surface, you can see deeper, and with more detail than before. I trusted people, trusted them with my life, only to be betrayed. I...
    TheMusician4231 TheMusician4231 13-15, F Aug 4

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    I feel like no matter who I make friends with or who I go into a relationship, I can't trust them. This last relationship was a failure because I gave this person all of my trust...
    animepuppy03 animepuppy03 13-15, F Aug 8

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    This seems completely foreign to some people due to how society is lately. I met my partner on EP 2 years ago. We have been together 18 happy months and we now live together and...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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