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I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 34 People

    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly 26-30, F 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain 18-21, F Apr 15, 2010

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    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022 22-25 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F Aug 13, 2013

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    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    For years I would constantly hear the digs from his mother and all the other bashing and put downs about my family from my husbands family and believe me I had enough of there bull...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    This is pretty long, so bear with me, I just don't know what to make of what I just found out. Also, my punctuation and grammar kind of suck... About 4 years ago, my childhood...
    LitoWatts LitoWatts 26-30, F 1 Response May 5

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    2NDP-----Well, it's been a minute or two. My husband and I are still together and trying to make things work. It is still super-duper hard. Right now, my husband is out of state...
    Aworkingprogression Aworkingprogression 36-40, F Apr 27

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    Hi I go by Fruitypunch15 on here.I would like to share my personal experience.I have had a lot of ex friends and family members betray me over the years.But by far the worst is...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 3 Responses Apr 29

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    well on January 14 2015 I decided to take my lil brother (who I was very close to at this time) to eat with me at a local restaurant and the plan was to have a couple margaritas...
    hurtingandbetrayed hurtingandbetrayed 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I stopped trusting my husband before we even got married. We were on a trip at a beach with some friends and everyone was having a good time, but then we were at the pool. I had...
    Mystery08 Mystery08 22-25, F 1 Response May 2

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    So, 2 years ago my boss was federally indicted - but wait! I was my employer's confidant - at least I thought I was - I knew the most intimate details of my boss's life...
    omaLostinatl omaLostinatl 46-50, F Apr 24

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    My husband says he knows I only love him and I do. But he always get jealous when any guy talk to me even if is about anything (all the time is about nothing important). Is he...
    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F May 6

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    Last July I had 1 foot out the door! Pro Bono lawyer, stuff moved out (having too much crap and never throwing anything away due to emotional issues and loosing everything to a...
    teadiva teadiva 31-35, F May 7

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    My sister abruptly stopped talking to me after 20 years of a really close friendship. I was 40 at the time and I asked her to tell me why. She said I was self righteous and...
    bubblesfloat bubblesfloat 51-55, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Since we first got together 15 years ago I have struggled with my husband's irresponsible and selfish financial behaviour. He only works on projects that he wants to do and for the...
    Christina6581 Christina6581 46-50, F May 14

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    After 12 years of abuse that kind if trust or relationship was ruined. It's not black white, there is lots of grey. My husband tends to get 'well in theory that is how it...
    teadiva teadiva 31-35, F May 7

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    This is simple; my history from a young age was not good. Lots of circles going back to that. My husband found me....literally. Against more odds then can be imagined. He loved me...
    happycampersfanNfran happycampersfanNfran 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    I was cheated on by my husband. He wants to come back home after having an affair and proposing to the girl. Just Recently, Josh Duggar resigned from his job amid him...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi I go by fruity punch on here.I thought I would share a personal experience.I use to be able trust people.But because of some bad experience and some bad friendships with friends...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 May 8

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    I don't think a higher compliment can be paid.  No matter what accolades one accumulates or for what deeds...trust is the highest compliment that one can receive.  Trust...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 8 Responses May 10

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    Hi I go by Fruity punch on here.I would like to share a personal story and experience about me.Lately I am finding I cant trust anyone anymore.Here is an example of what has happen...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 2 days ago

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    Hi I go by fruity punch on here.I thought I would share a personal experience.I recently cant seem to trust anyone anymore with anything I tell them.I cant trust my ex family ever...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 1 day ago

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    Today my husband and I talked about him joining the military, and I am very uncomfortable with it because I was raped by my brothers best friend in his blues. I just hate the...
    kbarber kbarber 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    i have days where i can't take it. i hate him. all he cares about is himself. he's a selfish narssasistic jerk. i wish my baby and i never saw him again. i just want him far far...
    silentmommy silentmommy 22-25 1 Response Apr 30

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    But I am trying, and it is damn hard!! Life and the people in it can definitely speed you along in developing some pretty stellar trust issues over the years. In the past year, I...
    Chrye Chrye 51-55, F 6 Responses May 6

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    No one at all. I used to trust nearly everyone. Then because of bad experiences I started to trust only certain people like teachers, mother, friends and I had bad experiences so...
    taytay1401 taytay1401 13-15, F May 15

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    I had a role model to whom I have trusted blindly to have our best interest at heart, only to have seen the ugly truth of who they truly are unfold chapter after the another. At...
    RestlessFlame RestlessFlame 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    It's been going on many times. I had bad experience with someone I loved before.I trusted him that he loved me and I trusted him in every ways.But I realized I wasn't the only one...
    des3low des3low 31-35, F 3 Responses May 3

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    Trust is a virtue that only birds have in their wings, tigers have in their claws, and gators have in their jaws. The trust they have in their self. There is no one on this planet...
    tornsin tornsin 31-35, M 1 Response May 5

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    i would not want it any other way!!! i recently found this on-line a few years ago. It is a great list of ideas on ways to submit to your Husabnd. i found this list giving me new...
    goodgirl456 goodgirl456 31-35, F 5 Responses May 7

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    I keep tightly their secrets, to protect their pride and dignity.. even on the day where they chose to be bltches/jerks betraying the trust I hve given them.. how could you ask...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 3 Responses May 5

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    I would trust my family and friends with my life, but not my pain. My pain is mine; mine to keep, mine to solve. I trust my friends, but I wouldn't tell them things that could be...
    tearfilledocean tearfilledocean 16-17, F May 9

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    My whole life I had have trust issues. It seemed like I was always told something and then it would change. I never knew what to believe? I have a very hard time trusting people. I...
    ButterflyPrincess876 ButterflyPrincess876 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Its lonely trusting no one...its hard to love someone and not trust them...its even harder when they have given you reasons to distrust them...and the worst is when you aren't...
    bellamommy77 bellamommy77 36-40, F Apr 25

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    I get along with my husband, but something happened yesterday that kind of made me feel bad about maybe giving him less credit than he deserves. I'm 6 months pregnant as of...
    JaxyBaine JaxyBaine 26-30, F 2 Responses May 3

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