I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 50 People

    Where are the happy endings?

    How do marriages get through infidelity?. No one talks about this in real life . And seems like when they do its just bad. I want a happy ending for me. I forgave him many times, but now ... I'm just hurt and every time he says something negative I want to run. I want what...
    sp7799 sp7799
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2014

    I desperately want to trust him

    but every year (we've been together 6 years), almost like clockwork, he'll have some kind of emotional or physical relationship outside of our engagement. He is always remorseful when I find out, and our relationship even feels stronger after overcoming them, but one day I'm...
    wolftoken wolftoken
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 30, 2015

    My husband is addicted to ****.

    I feel betrayed. He has been watching **** at every opportunity. While in the bathroom, while I am putting our baby to bed, in the bathroom at his parents house! The list goes on! Basically if I'm not in the room for five minutes, he's watching ****. This has been going on for...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 1

    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly
    26-30, F
    8 Responses May 14, 2009

    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326
    41-45
    1 Response Aug 25, 2011

    We are trying to qualify

    for a mortgage and he was suppose to get tax returns for his company. He keeps telling me and the bank that he is trying to locate them. Yesterday I found them in an envelop from his CPA dated two weeks ago. I took them, scanned them, sent them to the bank and returned them to...
    PurpleDancer PurpleDancer
    41-45, F
    Mar 29

    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout
    31-35, F
    Aug 13, 2013

    So i was cleaning up the house today.

    I was putting away stuff in my husband's closet. Suddenly my eyes caught on a JC penny plastic bag that was stashed on the shelves. Hmm....curious whats inside, i got hold of it and found couple ties and new dress shirts. Well he just got a seasonal job with macy's so i can...
    msian1980 msian1980
    31-35, F
    Dec 17, 2015

    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022
    22-25
    2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain
    18-21, F
    Apr 15, 2010

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