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I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 45 People

    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain 18-21, F Apr 15, 2010

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    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022 22-25 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I desperately want to trust him

    but every year (we've been together 6 years), almost like clockwork, he'll have some kind of emotional or physical relationship outside of our engagement. He is always remorseful when I find out, and our relationship even feels stronger after overcoming them, but one day I'm...
    wolftoken wolftoken 26-30, F 3 Responses May 30

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    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Where are the happy endings?

    How do marriages get through infidelity?. No one talks about this in real life . And seems like when they do its just bad. I want a happy ending for me. I forgave him many times, but now ... I'm just hurt and every time he says something negative I want to run. I want what...
    sp7799 sp7799 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F Aug 13, 2013

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    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly 26-30, F 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    I have messed things up pretty badly. Last weekend I cheated on my husband with my boss. He recently became part owner of the company and so has been working in the office the...
    naomig79 naomig79 31-35, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    In the year 2010 I got a message from my Mother-in-Law in which she felt I was being distant with her and she knew that wasn't like me. I've always respected her so I responded...
    rarelyfree rarelyfree 41-45, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    It's hard to trust people - I don't even take my chances with people anymore. I learnt my lesson, and to never trust anyone outside of my own circle. I'm rarely friendly and...
    Draves700 Draves700 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Im gonna show somebody that they can trust again cuz i want to learn to trust again. lead by example! life hurts when u open up and get hurt so bad but i have to try to trust again...
    JennaRee JennaRee 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    my husband cheated on me with a woman whom he had been thinking about since we met her. she was my friend, supposed to be my best friend. I thought she was like a sister to me. we...
    nickie1989 nickie1989 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I no longer feel that I can trust easily. I have been hurt too many times to count by people that swear they would never. The fact is if someone is lonely enough and fearful...
    Angeldark87 Angeldark87 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I HATE my husband's ex...I finally said it! My husband dated this woman for a few months when he realized she was wrong for him and told her he didn't see this having a future bc...
    LAE1005 LAE1005 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I'm huge on trust. If I no longer trust you or you give me the slightest reason not to trust you, you're pretty much dead to me. It'll be hard to gain my friendship, trust and...
    moonlight1989 moonlight1989 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I Have Trust Issues Because My Family Talks To Me And Then Tell My Business I Try To Tell Everyone That I Think I Can Trust Whats Going On And They Just Think Im A Liar They Hate...
    Clarial Clarial 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    ...and sometimes I trust too easily! The trick is finding out who is worth trusting. I normally have pretty good instincts but sometimes I can be misled. I am thankful for my...
    00FlyingHome 00FlyingHome 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    GOD BLESS THE DAY HOW I GET MY EX HUSBAND BACK Hello my name is Babarah from CANADA. i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my...
    babarah babarah 22-25, F a week ago

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    I really wish this wasn't an issue for me! I used to be so naive- when people would tell me about hard times in their lives- I would be so thankful that I was so blessed and didn't...
    trying2hard trying2hard 36-40, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    My ex and I got a divorce last year finally. After years of emotional abuse, drunken rages, and other woman I thought i was finally free. If anything it got worse. During the...
    maria1973h maria1973h 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am the most realistic person you could ever meet. For instance, I don't allow myself to dream. I instead make myself see the reality of things in almost every situation. Yet...
    dulcivoluptas dulcivoluptas 26-30, F Jul 26

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    I'm trusting some one special in my life whom I met two days back. Wish our relationship goes on without any disturbance and trust issues. I believe everything about her with my...
    nawinxyz nawinxyz 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 25

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    I have been lied to and let down by many people, so to trust, is to be hurt. Do I think everyone is untrustworthy? No! However, I do believe that some of us either attract or...
    LonesumnTx LonesumnTx 51-55, F Jul 25

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    Never in my life did I have to think whether I can or cannot trust someone. Three weeks ago, my life changed. With that change, it lead me to not trust anyone. Today, I only...
    CandyCrushers CandyCrushers 36-40, F Jul 24

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    I found out my husband had been cheating on me for 5 months and then found out a couples weeks later I was pregnant. I love my husband so much and was beyond crushed when I found...
    momma2one momma2one 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    I find it so hard to trust my husband even though he shows me and tells me regularly that he loves me. I still think he's going to go out and cheat or leave me for another woman at...
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    Is everyone perfect or not? I have NEVER met a person who confess their faults up front. I believe this is why the world is in this terrible condition today. A woman can meet a man...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Jul 24

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    The real focus of this story is my amazing husband. I cannot believe how blessed i am to have him as my partner all these years. He has remained steadfast and true, while i have...
    goodbnbad goodbnbad 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 23

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    this should not be a surprise because how the world is now. You cannot trust anyone really. It all depends on what you are trusting them for. As far as my experiences most really...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Jul 23

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    my trust issues aren't just paranoia, my trust issues are because so many people have proven time and time again that they can't be trusted.
    SilverSpiritWolf32 SilverSpiritWolf32 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    I read on here about someone having trust issues. And thought I would write to see if anyone could offer me some advice. I have fallen deeply in love with my best friend whom I...
    Jacqualiner Jacqualiner 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    I trusted you. You asked me to trust you. In the end.... I wished -- I never did.
    LEXUS46 LEXUS46 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    the reason why I don't trust no relationship my ex husband cheated on me so I divorced him and then I remarried my wife and now she cheated on me and I want her back but she left...
    wonderwoman562 wonderwoman562 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    **Possible Trigger Warning** Every single time I was abused in some way, it was a result of that. I'm disgusted with myself. I always am so stupid, and I trust people all the...
    Whobody Whobody 16-17, M Jul 20

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    My husband Had an affair with a girl while working in Mexico. I found out last November and it had been going on periodically for one and a half years. I can't even explain the...
    ginger2227 ginger2227 41-45, F Jul 19

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    I am trying to trust someone. It's extremely difficult. I play out all the scenarios in my head of ways he could be lying to me. It's put me into a ball of anxiety. I realize this...
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    I am gloriously 40 next month, genuinely looking forward to it. I also have a 23 year old daughter from a previous (read, teenage fling) relationship. I love my daughter...
    milotank milotank 36-40, F 4 Responses