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I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 35 People

    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F Aug 13, 2013

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    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly 26-30, F 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022 22-25 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain 18-21, F Apr 15, 2010

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    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    This maybe a bit lengthy so I'll apologize in advance.. My husband and I married in October 2013, found out I was pregnant in February 2014, "separated" due to his drug addiction...
    southernstylist southernstylist 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    Now let's be honest dont u IMAGNE a great loving husband and amazing kids. And that U are not gAnna fight. Well your Wrong sure U can say BUT WE LOVE EACH OTHER. Look at UR parents...
    stelliester stelliester 13-15, F Feb 13

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    My ex-boyfriend and I were a long-distance relationship. My late husband and I started as a LDR, so I knew I could handle it. I'm implicitly very trusting and I believe honesty...
    Mollywobbles225 Mollywobbles225 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I do everything I can to make my husband pleased with me, and proud of me, and I respect and honor him as my husband and as head of our home. It is a choice I freely make, every...
    candichest candichest 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    Underststement of the century! I'm ******* livid with my husband! Why? Because every time I start to trust him around alcohol he shows me that I can't trust him at all. I stupidly...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    so glad that I found this site,it feels like at least now I can connect with people who have been through what I went through,its been a month since I lost my husband but even to...
    Sthalicious Sthalicious 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Basically, I don't trust anybody, outside of my mother and father. Even though I put up a relatively naive and silly facade, and usually act the role of the overly kind clown, I...
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    There must be a hundred reasons why I left. The biggest one was him wanting to know why I didn't trust him enough to obey him. That was the reason that got me shoving stuff in bin...
    grommit3 grommit3 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 9

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    It's hard for me to trust people enough to be myself around them. Once I can get to that point it's fine, but getting there is very much. This is stopping me from making new...
    ElaineLovesSmiles ElaineLovesSmiles 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    My mother always said never live with friends because it will destroy the relationship and she also said you never know people until you live with them I learned this the hard way...
    OleSkoolChick OleSkoolChick 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    Saying i have "trust issues", is probably a massive understatement. Because while i do in fact find it hard to trust people on the most basic level, it goes much deeper than that...
    DropsofJupiter1 DropsofJupiter1 18-21, F 17 Responses Feb 9

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    First, was 17 and there was just this one jerk. He hurt me, but not too bad. I didnt trust him much in the begining. Then my closest friend in one place used me for his own...
    ThinkingCat ThinkingCat 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    This is a story about 2 best friends that became One. Love is agape, unconditional. Imagine 2 straight guys falling in love. That's what happened to us. At our first meeting we...
    EmotionalPhilosopher EmotionalPhilosopher 26-30, M Feb 13

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    every single person in my life today has betrayed my trust and lied to me countless times. I cut off all my friends but I still talk to my parents out of pity, although I don't...
    everythingisfallingapart everythingisfallingapart 22-25, F Feb 19

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    I've been bawling for two days, I've had another panic attack, and I broke my knuckle again all because I can't trust someone. I feel like I'm suffocating. I want to stop being...
    jbnichole jbnichole 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years now. We have no kids together, and he has 1 son from a previous marriage. When I moved in to my husbands house (8 years ago...
    bbstorm bbstorm 26-30, F Feb 13

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    A German poet wrote a wise poem: "Einem trauen ist genug; Keinem trauen ist nicht klug; Doch ist's besser keinem trauen; Als auf gar zu viele bauen." "To trust one is enough; To...
    Brokenshadowwings Brokenshadowwings 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    I just got thru a rocky relationship with my ex who had been together for about a year and a half. Things ended terribly, she left and I was devastated. I've been alone for most of...
    jayc408 jayc408 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    My fiance of 2 years was texting other women while we were at the hospital saying our last goodbyes to our 2 day old premature daughter. If I cant trust you to be loyal at our...
    FixItJesus FixItJesus 22-25, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have trust issues. I trust easily but once lied to its hard for me to trust anymore. I hate lying so i expect others to be truthful with me. It seems lying is a part of every...
    happysha17 happysha17 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My trust issues are so large I can't even trust myself. oh how the mental hospitals are beckoning me with their paddedwalls....
    thebladeisbae0718 thebladeisbae0718 13-15, F 12 Responses Feb 5

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    Believe in yourself and your feeling. Trust yourself to do what your heart is guiding you to do. Your intuition is powerful. Trust it.
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F Feb 6

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    I'm honestly having a hard time trusting people on this site. I don't trust people in general usually but on here where its complete strangers.. idk. I feel a little wigged out.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I can't help it. My entire life, I was betrayed by my family and family friends. I guess you could say I'm a wounded dog, I bite at the hand that feeds, because well.. I can't...
    GuuIsAwesome GuuIsAwesome 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 9

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    Dear World, Dear God, Dear Buddha, Dear whoever or whatever you are out there, I am listening as of now. I applied for a fast food job and got an interview - and hired. That was...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M Feb 11

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    Leaving your spouse once you have children together. Once you've been a stay at home Mom even with a degree working part time but taking care of all my expenses and my daughters...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F Feb 18

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    i Have no idea why but i trust nobody not even my family like I've never had someone seriously break my trust but i just have trouble being in a relationship without not believing...
    jace0929 jace0929 13-15, M 4 Responses Feb 19

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    Trust is not given to others when they are elected to public office. Trust MUST be earned by public officials. They must have integrity, honesty, morale, and the guts to tell the...
    jessicabeth jessicabeth 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    Trust is hard. No one I've trusted deserved it
    kirsty56 kirsty56 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    I'm not sure if it's the lack of trusting myself or trusting others. God only knows I've made my fair share of mistakes. I will own my mistakes and vow to do better. Open my...
    HotMessExpress101 HotMessExpress101 31-35, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yes it'll always be. How can two people talk and understand each other? How can a couple who has diverse thinking and beliefs be at peace and at one with each other? Simple...
    thelittlemonster thelittlemonster 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    it's not my fault that I have trust issues. I can't have faith in people when they let me down time after time. if you can't understand that then why are you still here? it's not...
    KitCatBar14 KitCatBar14 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago