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I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 33 People

    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F Aug 13, 2013

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    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly 26-30, F 9 Responses May 14, 2009

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    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022 22-25 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    does anyone else constantly worry about how their husband is coping in prison, mine has been in for 8 mths with 8 mths to go, he seems good, healthy, tells me his fine but I still...
    mandypk mandypk 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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    TRIGGERING! ... .. . It was my brother. He came to my moms for a visit in February, 2011. My best friend spent the night and lost her v*rginity to him on February 18th, and five...
    BrittannyLynn BrittannyLynn 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    My husband booked a room to take me on a sex filled romantic getaway. When we arrived at the lodge it was really nice and very quiet. No one around. After we checked in we headed...
    glittergirl19 glittergirl19 36-40, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Look what she has done to me. While I am wrecked and piecing my broken heart together I don't know if I can share these pieces with anyone. I have been a faithful husband and now...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 9

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    My husband of 25 yrs cheated on me , I just found out for sure May. 27 an I can't think of nothing else , the girl was his sons girlfriend and she is pregnant supposed to b by my...
    hizwife25 hizwife25 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I need help and advice! My husband of six years is not the man I thought he was. I fell in love with a man who I thought was more positive than negative, but for the last few years...
    miserablecoma miserablecoma 31-35, F Aug 31

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    So my husband recently opened up to me about wanting to watch me be pleased by another man. At first I couldn't believe he was asking me this. I felt like he didn't love me of he...
    KuriousKatttt KuriousKatttt 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    Okay my husband and I have been having issues quite severely He refuses to go to therapy with me...okay He's refused to go to marriage workshops and different things I have been...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    It has been a couple of days since I left my husband. I don't regret the move and am quite happy in my new apartment. I'm hurt though because I gave my all and now that I'm gone he...
    Thundakatt Thundakatt 36-40, F Sep 11

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    This has been a very hard week for us. My husband got denied parole and found out that his cancer has returned. We love each other so much, and I wish there was more that I could...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 46-50, F 18 hrs ago

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    You ever hear the phrase "I trust people as far as I can throw them"? Well, for me, I don't even bother picking them up. In fact, I just stare at them until they go away. In fact...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    7 years 4 children (5 if you include him) and I feel anger, frustration and resentment he has put me through so much torment. And yet I still stand here before him as his wife...
    sars19 sars19 26-30, F Aug 25

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    You think you know someone. They are your best friend and you would trust them with your life. Then suddenly it all changes and you realize you may not know them at all.
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for most of 30 years. While it has always bothered me greatly it has gotten much worse the past year. For financial reasons, I can't see getting...
    beachguy1056 beachguy1056 56-60, M 7 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm sitting anxiously waiting a response that will prove either my gut or heart correct. I visited my boyfriends mom today when she mentioned she thought I was over there...
    inmysoul0505 inmysoul0505 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I am on my way to cincinatti to start a new life. My husband bonded out of jailed after beating me and i dont want him back. I have filed for divorce and he has been served. He...
    jennaveivea jennaveivea 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 13

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    Hi I am a 28year old woman married to a 50 year old man that I do not love or have sex with neither does he have any feelings for me. I was a good girl when we got married while he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    My ability to trust is dead. I have tried to trust, open my heart, be optimistic about the idea that I can trust people...but it's all useless. I just can't. Feeling this way makes...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I live by believing, not trust. There's a subtle difference that makes all the difference in the world. When you believe, you get disappointed but you move on. When you trust...
    ohmaimama ohmaimama 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Its difficult to believe and trust anyone does love truly me. Everyone thats hurt me "loved" me. Physical, Emotional and Physicological pain. I have since changed the way I allow...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    I've completely trusted guys i loved and liked, and they all ruined it. Now im not sure whether i can fully trust again. :( i think i can never say i can completely trust someone...
    LadyInFuchsia LadyInFuchsia 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    To trust oneself, one's family, one's friends, one's leaders and one's government is a key essential to living a worthwhile life. When that trust is lost or broken it can cause...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    Anyone will say anything to get you to believe them. Everyone lies . They will say anything to make themselves look good or to make they look less suspicious. So I think it is okay...
    Amerson20 Amerson20 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I have trust issues but I don't consider it a problem because I am usually safer by not trusting. Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
    laxprincess laxprincess 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I want to trust others and get close to them but I just seem to not trust them. If they start getting close I find an issue that I blow completely out of proportion and get angry...
    anchuk4 anchuk4 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Ha, what's trust? To me trust is being able to hear words fall from someone's mouth and not thinking "Lie, lie, lie" every word they say. I don't believe in the words, "I promise...
    Cassadilla1822 Cassadilla1822 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Trusting people in particular has always been a problem for me. I have been through some pretty harrowing times in my life but it used to take very little for me to trust people...
    bec413 bec413 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I have been through so much in my life from trusting people and I sometimes just get really emotional and tell people things. And it always ends up biting me in the ***. You'd...
    radisglad radisglad 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I have been in my relationship for almost 3 years, with an amzing man, that has never given me any reason to not trust him. we have two kids. we rushed in to things quickly, but we...
    ooomooo ooomooo 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 4

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    I've been hurt,betrayed,lied to,beaten,and molested. I don't even trust my mom and she's the only person i have ever had. I started to stop trusting people a couple of years back...
    Sd160268 Sd160268 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I don't know anything anymore, who to trust or who not to trust... I mean, taking some guy's word who I barely have talked to, who's basically sleeping with an engaged woman, over...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    I got out of a relationship a while back where there wasn't any trust or respect. I am the type of guy that gets invested in a relationship and will give or do anything to please...
    menke2nathan menke2nathan 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Yes ,I have trust issues,maybe every person who came to my life whom I loved hurt me one way or another.but again sometimes trust or no trust,I feel every person come in life with...
    dawnordusk dawnordusk 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I feel so hurt when someone tells me that I'm just using "I don't trust anyone" as an excuse. It's like that person just dismisses all the past grievances and pains I had to go...
    D2BA D2BA 18-21, F Aug 24

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    I've been let down, betrayed, back stabbed, whatever you want to call it, by every person I've let in for as long as I can remember. Even my own Mother. These days I really don't...
    mhenson144 mhenson144 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 26

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 26

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