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I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 39 People

    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain 18-21, F Apr 15, 2010

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    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F Aug 13, 2013

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    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022 22-25 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I desperately want to trust him

    but every year (we've been together 6 years), almost like clockwork, he'll have some kind of emotional or physical relationship outside of our engagement. He is always remorseful when I find out, and our relationship even feels stronger after overcoming them, but one day I'm...
    wolftoken wolftoken 26-30, F 3 Responses May 30

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    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly 26-30, F 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    It's so weird how the actions of people before you ripple outwards and impact your life. I can't stand the thought of just "trusting" someone. People have never given me a reason...
    ThatSenpaiWithTheHat ThatSenpaiWithTheHat 18-21, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Who are we suppose to trust the most? Our parents, they are suppose to be the ones, who are suppose to protect from people, who could hurt you, not be the ones who are hurting you...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    His mother is the type of person that says anything thats on her mind . I really cant stand that about her it's a horribe trait .so she insults my hair color and tells me that I...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    to be more precise i find it hard to re-trust people that have betrayed my trust on them, like i think twice before giving work to people who can't fulfill their deadline i know...
    aspin aspin 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I was blindsided one day when my husband called me out of the blue crying and told me that he had messed around and got another woman pregnant. He was away from me training in...
    forty6and2 forty6and2 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's funny when a complete stranger, who you've only spoken to for many 20 minutes, tells you that you can trust them. It's funny when you feel as though you can trust someone, and...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have wished for many years that I could become a feminized husband / wife, I want to be that perfect stay at home wife that takes care of the home and husband or female husband...
    louannatg louannatg 51-55, T 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well I can trust people just no totally or very few people totally. Sadly it feels like my family members are people I can"t trust totally.
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have serious trust issues. Once someone lies to me I literally never recover. I feel like I'm always being lied to. Especially in relationships. I hate it because I feel like I...
    aquarius2383 aquarius2383 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    And I finally think Im right to dont trust people easily. Cause when I finally give them my confidence, thats the moment that they choose to stab me in the back. And I got so much...
    Mirii Mirii 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've always been like this. I have always had a hard time trusting people. It's not easy for me but what worries me is that if I trust someone completely they'll betray me or hurt...
    bookaholic14 bookaholic14 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I wish I didn't, but I constantly put up walls, and can never fully let people in you know? I have this mindset that if I am able to prevent heartbreak, depression, and everything...
    elanarenay elanarenay 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Honestly it's a GOOD thing to not trust anyone. This day and age no one is trustworthy. (Well barely anyone but there are still some rare gems) Everyone is out for themselves and...
    FightingForHappiness FightingForHappiness 31-35, F 49 Responses 5 days ago

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    and once again I know why. You took one month and 5 days to build up trust , to paint a picture of a future, to make me fall for you . To make me feel involved in your life...
    Tonia248 Tonia248 51-55, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    many many MANY people I am around and have met and such, you end up trusting people you shouldn't, maybe family members or people you thought were your friends. but is it natural...
    LoveLessOne97 LoveLessOne97 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I was so lucky he came into my life. He is so solid, trustworthy and he is the person you would turn to in a crisis. He is kind and loving and I can always turn to him with no fear...
    rushdoggie rushdoggie 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was raped years ago and having been living with the pain since. I recently saw my rapist and now I can't stop thinking about him. I want to find him to try and seduce him. Why...
    julieannkolesarerikson julieannkolesarerikson 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have serious trust issues. I know people who just trust immediately. For me, trust is earned. And if you violate it, even tougher to get it back. If you tell me a reason for...
    drooniedat drooniedat 36-40, M a week ago

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    when I was in my summer going into 8th grade I told my dark life story to a girl who was going into her junior year in high school. I have emotionally abusive parents and have had...
    Wildeagleflying Wildeagleflying 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    And it makes me a terrible friend because no matter how close I get to someone I can't trust them. I think way before we go our separate ways and I think that if I tell them my...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I was just thinking of something that's annoyed me (on and off) over the years--my husbands ex-wife and her behavior. When she was married to husband (over 16 years ago), she was...
    BetweenStates BetweenStates 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    “The only way to know if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” ~Ernest Hemmingway The world is tough. We often hear about and see how one person betrayed another and...
    mindstruggle mindstruggle 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 24

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    Absolutely! My husband and I are used to distance since we're both active duty military and he's currently deployed. If we didn't have respect and trust for each other I'm sure we...
    SunnyRaye SunnyRaye 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    Ok I need some help as my boyfriend is about 30 minutes away and will be here soon and I am in sooo much trouble!! We have be practicing DD for about 6 months now and it has been...
    nicole2109 nicole2109 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I thought he was my best friend and he trusts me as much as I trust him. Turns out I was wrong and feeling betrayed is a whole new zone. It's anger first before any other feeling...
    Venosha Venosha 18-21, F Jun 22

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    It's almost 1 am....I have to get up at 4 am for work. My jerk husband always teased the dog at bedtime because it's his idea of fun. So the dog sleeps in our bed. And is crowding...
    Karj Karj 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I've been married for almost 19 years. We have two sons. One is severely mentally and physically handicapped and will always need 24 hour care. My husband is the most amazing...
    sadangel75 sadangel75 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    It may be true that you cannot learn to trust and relinquish control that you simply have to have faith and push yourself to take risk and learn from observing your own behavior...
    4myinnerchild 4myinnerchild 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 20

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    I do,but id rather be cautious than naive any day and if someone can't understand that,that's there problem.This is why i don't like getting close to anyone or getting my hopes up...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    Like he looses everything. He's lost his wallet, social security card, bank card, and our last 10 dollars for the next 2 weeks. Like it's irritating and I want to stop trusting him...
    Ppwincess1901 Ppwincess1901 18-21, F Jun 19

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