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I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 27 People

    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022 22-25 3 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly 26-30, F 9 Responses May 14, 2009

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    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F Aug 13, 2013

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    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2013

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    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I trusted him completely last year. I trusted him with everything I had. This time being back together I'm having problems trusting him. I've been trying to keep them to myself...
    simplyrissy simplyrissy 26-30, F 14 hrs ago

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    My husband has been battling depression for our entire 10-year relationship. It's become a third member of our marriage; a wedge pushing us apart. And I don't know what to do. I...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    Women (in general) seem to think that their views/drive with regards to physicality are correct and, if the husband wants more/different, their husband's are wrong. Almost like it...
    rblaine333 rblaine333 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    My husband has been drinking every single day for the last 17 years. I can count on one hand the number of days he has gone without drinking in the last 10 years. Two months ago I...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I love having 2 men in my life. I have a husband and a boyfriend. They don't know about each other. I will always have 2 men in my life.
    wetnwilds wetnwilds 26-30 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    ok, am so relieved i have a space where i can share my story without any fear. i haven't shared any bit of it ever since the beginning. we have been married for 8 yrs and have a 2...
    deceivedmultipletimes deceivedmultipletimes 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I have a question to ask. I do not have a cheating husband. But for all the wives on here I have to ask. Do you wish someone would have told you sooner? If a friend, co-worker, one...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I have been married for almost 4 yrs and I have hated almost every day of it. I wasn't overly in love anyway. The one thing that I did love was that I felt I could trust him...
    onlynmiami onlynmiami 46-50 1 Response Apr 9

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    I am a stay at home mom that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 1

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    Hello... I just joined the group and feel so glad to find a group where I can feel safe being honest about my marriage. My husband hates me. We were happy at one point and I think...
    MissyCA MissyCA 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    so many times i have fallen pray to people.. I am a good person and would like to trust others but sadly i have been disappointed more than enough becoming Cialis and frayed, I...
    Nichalas Nichalas 22-25, M 22 hrs ago

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    My husband just deployed recently. I'm worried sick and miss him so much. I have so many fears like what if he doesn't want me when he comes back? What if something happens to him...
    SGibsonx SGibsonx 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    After being berated for months about this attention I was giving my coworker...my emotional affair... I just learned my husband had his own affair seven years ago... He says I need...
    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    My story is that I can't trust anyone even if they tell me the truth. I told my husband that he is dating but he actually didn't..it was just an illusion...that thing happens with...
    bran1232012 bran1232012 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    My husband and I argue all the time because he won't stop lying about STUPID things! He lies about everything to prove points, ect. He will get paid, and not save his check stub...
    lauradl1117 lauradl1117 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    My ex husband cheated on me and we divorced almost 5 years ago. He married her and I was crushed. I tried to have relationships and nothing felt right. I have had almost no...
    phoenix924 phoenix924 36-40 a week ago

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    So today I finally hired a PI. My instinct should be proof enough.. But I need real proof. Feel like I'm having déjà vu. He is such a douche bag! For over a year had to...
    Hamnamatata Hamnamatata 41-45 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I really don't know why I have trust issues. It doesn't make sense why I do. I mean, I don't think I had them before I met my friend Isaac. But I can't be sure. Isaac has been my...
    DeJeKlu DeJeKlu 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I trusted before, of course! but not that fully wholly trust that makes you pour your soul out to the one you trust! and I guess I'll never fine someone like that.. not ever. In...
    00Wieme00 00Wieme00 16-17, F Mar 30

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    My nephew's wedding! Growing up my nephew and I were close. He always privately said I was his favorite Aunt. I babysat him, attended all his functions, gave gifts etc. I...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    You don't know what I have been through regardless of who the person was, It wasn't a bad experience, never that. Peroooo I learned from it. You can always have that one friend who...
    DDanaaax3 DDanaaax3 13-15, F Apr 14

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    I always have a hard time trusting people. I've been staved in the back so many times before, that I'm always scared it will happen again and usually, it does. I have trust issues...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    Who Can I Trust? I only wanted a small gift for my graduation. I know it sounds petty. Maybe it is. But, all these promise makers only did one thing. Break their promise towards...
    TheHumanIntersect TheHumanIntersect 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I want a divorce, because I don't have any trust in my marriage.
    reedusgirl reedusgirl 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Just so frustrating fighting a loosing battle with a partner who won't talk, won't answer and won't commit, just keeps you hanging on with the same promises she's made before...
    havensuppy havensuppy 41-45, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    being cheated on wasn't the part that pissed me off the most though. it's more of my attitude towards people & finding it hard to trust anyone afterwards. after being cheated on...
    corona135 corona135 22-25 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    They say never trust anybody. I barely do, I've actively taught myself not to trust people. It's kinda helped me positively and negatively. It's hard to form actual love...
    trippyprincess trippyprincess 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    We met because I started working at a university in a new city and he was my supervisor. After two weeks there we slept together and I became pregnant with twins. When I told him...
    valkyriebird valkyriebird 36-40 Apr 3

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    Trust issues are a serious thing. It angers me when people just expect me to trust them right off the bat. Not just me, but no one should do that. It's like the person doesn't...
    JustCammy JustCammy 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    My ex always said I could trust him. Then he started to hurt me. Said he had the trust issues when I never said anything about him but he started rumors. So now I have trust issues...
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F Mar 29

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    I have huge trust issues. 1: my dad, ever since he came home drunk when I was 12 and had to call the cops on him. He spent a few months away from the family. He even missed my...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I do but I don't...it takes a lot for me to really trust you, but that's not even the peak of my trust wall. You know I trust you if you're in my heart. If you're in my heart then...
    JEJ22 JEJ22 22-25, M Apr 10

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    To people who read my posts they are probably used to the fact that I never send out any negative vibes, but there's a first time for all. I have learnt that trust is a very...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M Apr 10

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    If you find someone like this don't you dare let them go-I have a couple friends who I would do absolutely anything for and the thing is we know each other inside and out, but I...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    It is so hard now a days to trust people. It's hard for me to trust people so much easier to just shut everyone out. Now I'm a loner in the world and sometimes think that I do not...
    believe201427 believe201427 26-30, F Apr 12

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    The Rabbit Once there was a rabbit. She was curious to meet new friends. She was surrounded by many other animals but she didn't know how to connect with them. She met a few and...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F Apr 12

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    Today, I turned down a new client that would have made me money but driven me bananas. Later today, someone I was trying to help decided not to work with my firm because he didn't...
    lostworlds lostworlds 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband. An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    As usual I don't know where to start this, but I have to find relief somehow and writing always seems like the best solution. My husband and I have been married for 7 years (it'll...
    factsarefacts factsarefacts 26-30 2 Responses Mar 30