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I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 33 People

    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022 22-25 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly 26-30, F 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F Aug 13, 2013

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    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain 18-21, F Apr 15, 2010

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I do believe that women should obey their husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I had the worse year but its over and I can see the light more because of someone that I been talking to on this site he became my best friend helping me deal with my soon to be x...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F Jan 2

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    I've been married for 5 years , but been with him since i was 16. we've been happy all these years ,i would let him go out with friends i trusted him he wouldn't do nothing dumb...
    armani88 armani88 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Overall it's been a good Christmas with my alcoholic husband. He has been cheery and has participated with a good spirit in all the family affairs. He was even trustworthy to...
    KatieDarling7 KatieDarling7 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    I have been in a married for three yrs and together for over ten yrs. i recently found out the my husband has been exchanging inappropriate pictures with my sister.i also found...
    nobodysfool22 nobodysfool22 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I had a horrible friend through junior high and high school, i opened up and told a lot about myself...my dreams .. my desires..my future...my fantasies. ..everything...little did...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    My husband is amazing. Handsome, generous, intelligent, strong, take-charge, loving, and so so sexy. I love those moments when you seem to just fall in love all over again...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I've just found out my husband of 4months had some sort of affair with another woman he says it was a year ago but I don't believe him,I found msgs saying that he confided in her...
    livob livob 36-40, F Jan 5

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    I will boil for this question on this specific experience page I am certain but I have a very important question. Disclaimer I know what I have done is wrong I am looking to at...
    Readytomoveon2015 Readytomoveon2015 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    it was twenty two years ago. I was newly pregnant. I was supposed to take it really easy. My grandmother died and her funeral was in our family hometown, about eight hours away...
    littlesadone littlesadone 41-45, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    when i say "anyone" i mean like it is pretty intense... i guess we can go back to my parents again and blame them but i don't feel like going down that route so this post i will...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    People always say: "Just trust me." And all I wanna do is scream that I can't just trust someone. Millions of questions and comments shoot through my mind. I always end up not...
    hxlils hxlils 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    I dont know if I should or not?..Im so guarded,I always over think everything and I do have a pretty negative view of people in general I always question peoples motives,I dont...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 17 Responses Jan 2

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    When I first started dating my boyfriend I really didn't trust him... My mind would have these wild thoughts of how he was cheating on me and I used to think I would never be able...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I do... and I don't... Like, I think my problem is that I trust people TO much. I put my complete trust into some people, tell them everything, and put faith into them, just for...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    We have been together for almost 5 years. I went on his yahoo email account and found half naked pics of some young girl. I also found emails to his female co workers saying he...
    yuna86 yuna86 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    I just found out a couple weeks ago that the man I thought was The One has been using crack and heroin. I can barely function all I do is cry. He stole from me. I am a single Mom...
    MickyMoYo MickyMoYo 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have some pretty deep rooted trust issues that come from the fact that I was molested when I was 13 by a very close friend, Im not gonna go into a ton of detail there because i...
    Sulka19 Sulka19 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    Sometimes I am all this to a fault. I place trust in people, some of whom I really shouldn't, however I want to believe the best in people. I want companionship. Someone who...
    MagickalFae MagickalFae 36-40, F Jan 14

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    My mother. My own bloody mother, who gave birth to me, brought me up and said she 'loved' me. She said she would protect me from everything. Oh she did. But I was merely being used...
    littleowlet littleowlet 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I completely agree. I'm tired of trusting people, just to get let down and hurt. I'm tired of respecting people who don't deserve it or who disrespect me. I have a policy I made...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    it seems like everytime I try N be as trusting as i can be.. I get burned. I mean back before all the hate anf dislike I was one that trusted just bout everyone. I learned the...
    Lookingupalways Lookingupalways 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I told my friend I will likely never have a significant other anyway. Friend: why? Me:Because I have trouble enough with trusting friends. Friend: How come? Me: I don't know...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I trust people I've never met before. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt. The only exception is when people have violated my trust previously. If you've ever lied to me or...
    PhilosophicalCoder13 PhilosophicalCoder13 16-17, M 19 hrs ago

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    Okay, so my boyfriend is very good to me when I am good to him(not accusing him, not being jealous and making him stressed out) he's great,caring, likes me hanging out with his mom...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F Dec 27, 2014

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    To all those who have trust issues. I understand how you feel. I have been betrayed and betrayed several of times by my own kind, the one who gave birth to me. I understand how...
    Supersoumya Supersoumya 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Honesty and trust go hand in hand. By being honest with the person your involved with, that is what builds the trust between the two. By always keeping the lines of communication...
    oldiron33 oldiron33 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I think everyone has a little bit of trust issues. I have trust issues because of my experience with people. It's very traumatizing. People lie and with lying comes power and...
    Ghostprojection Ghostprojection 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I do trust some. My dad, uncles, male family members. But I don't trust online men. They are creepy some times! I dont trust alot of men in general...
    juliettecf juliettecf 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I know how you feel, even though I don't tell you. I know what you need, even when you aren't even sure yourself. I can be there for you, but you just need to let me. Let me in...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M Jan 15

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    It's hard for me to trust other women it really is.Most women and girls ive met havent been the nicest to me,so i usually trust men more easily.The only girl i trust to a certain...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    After things that have made me learn I do not trust anyone easily. In fact I have trust issues. Because the fact is even if you trust whoever it is like your boyfriend or...
    vaashapenin vaashapenin 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help SOLVER KING render to me in my marital life. i have been married...
    sharon1234524 sharon1234524 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I don't know if this is the right group to post in but I do miss my husband very much. This is the first time I am posting about this so this is a difficult and scary post for me...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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