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I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 32 People

    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly 26-30, F 9 Responses May 14, 2009

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    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F Aug 13, 2013

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    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022 22-25 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I am overwhelmed. I am a compulsive cheater and have been with my husband for six years. There have only been small stints when I haven't had someone else on the side. I'm a...
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    Three weeks ago I walked into a room and saw my husband almost kiss a friend of the family. It broke my heart in a million pieces. We have been together for 20 years, married for...
    Nancy73 Nancy73 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I do believe that women should obey their husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been married for 15 years and inherited monies. My husband wanted his own business so I provided it. After he worked in it for 2 years he felt it was too much work and made...
    Marleerh99 Marleerh99 41-45, F Oct 2

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    I love being able to lay in bed with my husband and just joke around and watch t.v till we fall asleep....i'm so glad i found someone i can just talk with and be wrapped up in...
    JayysForever JayysForever 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    It's been over two years ago since my husband had this affair. I still can't get over it. To be honest I don't think I ever will. Still can't trust him 100%. I've been trying to...
    mysticangel40 mysticangel40 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    I have been with my husband for a total of 10 years, 4 years of marriage, we have 1 child together, a 3 year old. About 6 months into our marriage I should have divorced him. He...
    1standlast 1standlast 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    I have always had this issue. I been hurt since the day i was born. Awarded to the state as a teen after being abused and cheated on over and over again as a young Mother of my...
    wickedone72 wickedone72 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    Me and my sister are close in age and have always been very close. We had 5 older brothers and so we always shared a bedroom. After her marriage we still remained close but of...
    chaiginger chaiginger 46-50, F Oct 16

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    I found out a few days ago that my husband had an affair last year. It knocked me on my ***. I couldn't breathe, think, eat, sleep.. Nothing at all.. I confronted him a few days...
    Tina2249 Tina2249 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    The word trust has haunted my mind every now and then. The word trust has a meaning, but now I'm unsure what to feel. I use to trust people too easily, but now I become careless...
    msunique1989 msunique1989 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I remember ending a relationship mutually with an ex. I was moving to a different country, and he wasn't sure whether he could manage a long distance relationship. He said e...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    I am a very giving man when it comes to the woman i choose to be with and give all my trust and benefit of the doubt right from the start but when you break that trust especial...
    dom8869 dom8869 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    He's all territorial & stuff for no reason. He tried to tell me dad ge can't pick us up or drop us off frm the our house like who is you?? My parents have joint custody & my sister...
    EbbsBreaux EbbsBreaux 16-17, F Sep 27

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    We've been together for 10 years. I've pulled him through everything. I've worked my fingers to the bone. He's spent all of our money. He's dug us into deep debt. He yells at me...
    ecrocker ecrocker 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    Probably cause he's a big guy. Thats him. Trust me. 5'8, about 270s. He didn't start out this way. I blame call centers for 20+ years.
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    Yes I have major trust issues. I have been burned too many times in the past to trust any friend or boyfriend. Boys they lie and cheat and are very secretive. A friend they tend...
    Dsanders13 Dsanders13 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    If I trust a person and they betray my trust they just might as well be dead to me. With that being said there are few people in this world that I actually trust and if you have my...
    SuckMyAwesome SuckMyAwesome 16-17, F Oct 13

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    It's how I've always been since I could remember, even as a little girl I never really had that instant trust and close cuddly nature. But when I do trust someone I really do trust...
    13Selene13 13Selene13 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    The hardest part about getting into a serious relationship is trusting that person. I used to think the ultimate form of trust, at least for myself, was sexual vulnerability. I was...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I need someone I can just let loose everything. Someone who will just listen, someone I can utterly trust not to spill a single one of my secrets without my permission, someone who...
    AkiliRose AkiliRose 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Trust: Whom do you trust? Is there a person in your life with whom you would trust your very life, if necessary? A spouse...a parent…a sibling…a very good friend? Think...
    dsardes dsardes 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Without trust the soul cannot prosper. Trust is so hard to earn but yet so quick to lose. What would you do if that someone lost trust in you. :(
    Roses18 Roses18 18-21, F Sep 25

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    Well... I only have one person in my circle. That's my friend cloudycarnage he's helped me out in sooo many ways. I actually trust him with personal information. He's the only...
    lexrae lexrae 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    Now that I have been hurt by my first love... And betrayed... Not only in relationships but with friends as well.. I now have major trust issues with starting another possible...
    mayks3 mayks3 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    I'll struggle my entire life to trust people with blue eyes. People with Blue eyes still scare me to this day. Well not scare, but I'd never trust or be comfortable around someone...
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 12

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    I have extreme and crippling trust issues because of my parents. They are extremely emotionally abusive and they put me down every chance they get. They'll call me worthless, good...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 13

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    Double-edge sword.... That's what trust is to me. When I trust someone, something, I am all in. I trust totally, blindly, selflessly. 90 percent of the time, I get hurt...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 5 Responses Oct 15

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    As days go on , year after year , I lose my hope with people . I find it harder to trust close one anymore. I use to trust a lot but no it seems like I have nothing but distrust...
    Santi425 Santi425 22-25, M Oct 15

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    I've been dating this guy for over a year. He had just ended things in his previous relationship but the girl wasn't taking it well and he being kind tried to help her with her...
    seesaw69 seesaw69 26-30 12 Responses a week ago

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    A relationship is definitely built on trust and respect. My last two relationships were not that great. In my first relationship the guy I was with was never really there for me. I...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So, in learning to trust again I have learned that I have become someone that isn't trustworthy. It seems like and easy fix...just start being honest, but it isn't. When you're...
    seesaw69 seesaw69 26-30 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been on and off in a relationship for 4 years now with my boyfriend due to his gambling problem. We love each other very much and love playing soccer together, eating...
    griffingirl3 griffingirl3 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    . I can only trust myself in this world . You can't even trust the ones you love . Once that trust is broken it's almost impossible to gain it back with someone.
    gucci78 gucci78 36-40, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My husband of 27 years has not been speaking to me for the past three days. He speaks to my daughter lovingly, and he speaks to my sons (2) casually. A couple of days ago, my...
    neglected08 neglected08 46-50 Oct 17

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    My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. The whole time even when we dated has been full of abusive ways. I am so lost by the fact that he doesn't exactly...
    Anyonehome Anyonehome 26-30, F 3 days ago

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