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I Dont Trust My Husband

Having problems with trusting my man 32 People

    Missing Work

    He keeps saying he's sick. He keeps coming home from work early and saying he's too sick to continue. He then sits on the couch on his iPod and sleeps (which is the same thing he does while healthy). I dunno what he's sick with but his sister got sick at the same time and I...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F Aug 13, 2013

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    I Don't Trust My Husband

    I am pregnant with my first child with my husband.  He is mostly a great guy.  I am difficult to get along with, very head strong and I like to talk... a lot.  I love him because he's mastered the fine art of knowing how to deal with me, or put up...
    JerBerific JerBerific 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Scared to Trust

    My husband and I have been married for 3 months now..we have dated for 2 years, and been friends since High School. I love him so much but I have one problem that has been persistent for most of the relationship now..I don't know how to trust and I'm scared to trust him because...
    LenayaMarie LenayaMarie 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Trust....Where Are You?

    Hello, I am not sure where to start? I guess by sharing my story. This is my first time on Experience Project and I am excited to hopefully find people who understand me. I grew up with cheating all around me and also have been cheated on in past relationships. I wasn't raised...
    preciouslove1022 preciouslove1022 22-25 2 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I Love Him

    But I can't trust him as far as I could throw him and he's twice my size. I have no proof hes doing it now but I have caught him in the past. I left him for a few months and out of the blue he was back in my life a month later we were living together again and I now have no...
    trinarose trinarose 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2008

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    Well he's really my bf.

    but anyways we had the greatest relationship. It was so perf. He' was the best bf a girl could ask for. Then one day I went through his phone and caught him flirting with a coworker. I know it was just flirting but still. When I first approached him with it he just started to...
    krissylampley krissylampley 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Trust? Whatever!

    My husband is a compulsive liar. Nothing that comes out of his mouth is the truth. He lies even when he doesn't know he's lying. He tells me all the time before we head out somewhere what to say in case someone asks me a question. I mean, why not tell the truth? Especially if it...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    I Have Lost All Faith In My Husband

    my husband had an emotional affair almost 2 years ago and i still wont let myself trust him.  I have sacrificed my whole life for him and my kids and i have let him cut me down so small.  I just want to be happy now and find happiness.  i dont know if i could ever...
    jenyonly jenyonly 26-30, F 8 Responses May 14, 2009

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    I Dont Trut Nothing About Him

    iv been married for ten years now me and my husband wear very close but something changed iv notice alot of things that was not right now iv lerned alot my husband has had a child out side my marrige but he will not own up to it even now three years down the line but i still dont...
    blondie326 blondie326 41-45 1 Response Aug 25, 2011

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    Is He Telling The Truth?

    When people think of mistrusting a spouse, often it's a matter of fear that they are having affairs.  My lack of trust is completely different.  I know he would never cheat on me. What I don't trust is the fact that he is a sex-driven creature and tries to push it...
    hidingagain hidingagain 18-21, F Apr 15, 2010

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    He Had To Work Late

    I don't know what he's really doing, but I believe he is lying about something. Every day.
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    I see my ex-husband everywhere. His face appears in my dreams, I see him in the check-out line at the Bay, or while waiting for the subway. I am constantly thinking about him...
    chatonenamour chatonenamour 31-35, F Dec 10

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    I see my ex-husband everywhere. His face appears in my dreams, I see him in the check-out line at the Bay, or while waiting for the subway. I am constantly thinking about him...
    chatonenamour chatonenamour 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    How do you work past having no trust in your marriage? It's coming up to a year since my husband told me that he doesn't trust me with other men (based on the fact that I had an...
    BeckstaOnSquidoo BeckstaOnSquidoo 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My husband often comes off friendly, often far too friendly that it appears flirtatious. He has so many other girls as friends and all who I've seen have no boundaries with him...
    Neverbackaway Neverbackaway 16-17, F 7 Responses Dec 2

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    So I have this problem. I don't believe anyone, ever. I automatically assume they are lying to me, and I can't figure out why I'm this way. I trust some people, but majority of...
    MissListless MissListless 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    He refuses to give me the password to his company laptop. After much financial infidelity, including cashing in our retirement & hiding tax notices re payment for that, you would...
    Jublue Jublue 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    Do you know what baffles me, I'm from the UK, I'm young 22. And I look into this because I'm so open minded, I find that I look at every single angle. I tell you as a young man - I...
    Interestedinsubject Interestedinsubject 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Lately I am feeling really fed up of people in general. Feeling fed up of loud mouthed, gossiping, jealous, two faced people with sad, pathetic lives who gang up on someone they...
    galaxy3 galaxy3 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband put anything and everything before me. He would rather talk to anyone else but me. I repeatedly tell him how I feel and he doesn't make any changes. I feel like he just...
    Tcallen Tcallen 31-35 Nov 22

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    I just had a baby, who is now 8 weeks old. It started off with the first big fight when I was under confinement at my mother's house. He tried to take me away from my mother's...
    lilithgarcia lilithgarcia 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    My experiences growing up haven't been good ones I was befriended a lot and didn't have anyone to take care of me I came from a broken family and didn't care much about myself. My...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    My husband used my debit card to go to the bars when I gave it to him to get food. He would say that he was going to go grocery shopping. Then wouldn't come home til late at night...
    wendymrtns wendymrtns 36-40, F Dec 6

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    I 'HAD' TRUST ISSUES thought I'd write a little something in here before I leave this group.. for a long time now I have had trust issues, I have been betrayed an lied to left...
    J41LBIRD93 J41LBIRD93 18-21, F Dec 1

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    It sucks but not trusting people is very much apart of me. I have notice every time I open up to someone I hear myself say "Shut up, Don't trust them! You know what happened last...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    I have trust issues, and honestly I don't think that's such a bad thing. The base instinct for humans is our impulse to protect ourselves. Think about it. Every time you lie, cheat...
    TheBlasphemousOptimist TheBlasphemousOptimist 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12

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    I'm so annoyed. My boyfriend always seems to assume I'm off with every guy imaginable, for whichever reason. There's no trust on his part which is annoying. He constantly yells and...
    qwernia qwernia 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I feel like I need to say something. Ever since a child, I've had severe trust issues. I was put through foster care, which was really hard. My approve mother was abusive and I...
    iwuvmusic iwuvmusic 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 29

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    My trust issues began when I was 13. My mom was my hero as a kid. I could talk to her about anything. Then one day she reviled a secret to me. My mom was cheating on my dad with...
    BFRM BFRM 18-21, F Dec 3

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    To me it depends on the different layers of trust you can connect with the person. The more trust I build the closer friends I become with a person.. I have some friends that I can...
    AlysonBlack AlysonBlack 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    I've been married 10 years and we have 2 kids. I'm a stay at home mom, and we've moved around a lot, so I don't have many close friends and I'm far from my family. I'm very...
    aiyahs aiyahs 26-30, F Dec 1

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    My boyfriend of the time (now husband) was the one who had done it. Whenever I have asked him about it he gets upset, and says he's sorry and can never take that back and make it...
    Neverbackaway Neverbackaway 16-17, F Dec 2

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    I don't know when it happened in my life, but I have some serious trust issues when it comes to relationships! The first time I was ever asked out was when I was little, and I...
    bluespoon bluespoon 18-21 Dec 12

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    every relationship looses its novelty if trust and honesty us missing.... it's very hurtful when a person u trusted with a blind eye breaks ur trust..... once the trust is broken...
    shaurya26 shaurya26 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 4

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    I've been in a relationship with someone I trusted, and they trusted me back. And we both broke that trust, and it's something we both regret immensely. We started over, and though...
    JakobyM27 JakobyM27 18-21, M Dec 8

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    im always leary of ppl. im always watching listening and observing to see if I can trust someone. keeping a tally of truths lies and oddities. I have never trusted anyone in my...
    wickedlilangel69 wickedlilangel69 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12

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    A few years ago when I was 10 years old I was raped by my stepfather. He was a man I loved and trusted and then one day while my mom was out of the house and the two of us were in...
    courtney21192 courtney21192 13-15, F Dec 12

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    So, I have this friend, he's my best friend, and I like to believe that he is someone I can trust. Every time I tell him something personal, that I've even hesitated to tell him...
    Skuggington Skuggington 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    When you lose my trust...I dont think that I could trust you again. I'm really guarded with my feelings and I surely trust my gut/instinct.
    fruitella06 fruitella06 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 29

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    After all this time of not truly letting myself trust anyone, I let my guard down. Made a friend so close I thought it was real. I totally got scewed over, i dont even kno why they...
    bluebell45 bluebell45 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    Trust is earned. It's like a rubber, the more it's used the less it becomes. I've completely lost my trust in people. Some people who I am so close to I still don't trust them...
    TylerOakleyIsBae TylerOakleyIsBae 13-15, F Dec 3

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    I find it hard to trust people because of some experiences I've had. At the same time, sometimes I feel like I'm punishing a good person by not trusting them. I find myself very...
    CaliginousHeart CaliginousHeart 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    All my relationships - dating, family and friends. I've been lied to and cheated it, made feel unimportant, verbally and mentally abused to the point where i have a hard time...
    bestofme85 bestofme85 26-30, F Dec 4

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    If there is no honesty & trust in a relationship, it's NOT going to work. If you worry every time your significant other goes to work, to the store, out with friends, etc. that he...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    Everyone I trust betrays me. I'm not sure if everyone is like that, or do I just suck at choosing who to trust. Either way, having no trust in anyone is really hard. I'm the kind...
    xthefallenx xthefallenx 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 9

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    I have had trust issues for a long time but I can trust all my friends now but I'm having some difficulties trusting my friends boyfriend. He smokes, he's only 10 and my friend is...