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I Dont Trust Too Many People

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    They say that 'keep your friends close

    and your enemies closer' and that is my main reason for not being able to trust. Feelings fade and people change, trust doesn't last forever.
    thisisanick thisisanick 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Had to learn it the hard way

    but I yet to find that worthy person to share my deep secretes or trust completely, and honestly I doubt such a person exist in this world.....
    Joungar Joungar 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Loveuloveme Loveuloveme 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    Change With Time

    I used to tell all of my "friends" (who were actually just acquaintances) everything, because I was sure they were going to keep it to themselves and not stab me in the back. Surprise, surprise! I was so naive... Today, being hurt and betrayed so many times, I don't...
    Proserpina Proserpina 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2008

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 2

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    I don't understand myself

    because I have very close friends but I still cant seem to trust them, it's not just them it's also lots of other people.
    MidNightSight MidNightSight 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    Trust is a big thing to earn by others

    and yourself. Trust isn't something you can just pick up you have to earn it. For me I don't trust too many people, I don't think I can even trust one of my closest friends and sometimes u feel I can't even trust my family. You could just say I have major trust issues but I'm...
    felfel felfel 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    Therefore I'm here where no one will know

    who i am, sharing my experiences and speaking to others about theirs.
    RandomExistence RandomExistence 13-15, M Mar 25

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    No one Everyone I know has betrayed me

    or disappointed me. Everyone. From my lovers, parents, friends, co-workers.....everyone. Even my most trusted therapist called the police for a wellness check because I didn't answer my cell phone one Sunday, because I was sick with a sinus infection, ruptured ear drum, and...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    What I experienced is

    that not to trust ppl around me coz they are one who always cheat u...
    Googly9 Googly9 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    For good cause! Danger Requires thinking!

    TBC... This is in regard to the practice of totally wiping out members when they leave, including, gifts from your area, private an public messages everything that had to do with them ! It pissed me off and this was born, then modified ! I'm embarassed to say this contained a...
    Mountainman923518 Mountainman923518 56-60, M 10 Responses Jun 7, 2007

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    i know that you will left me

    but i love you........
    isabelarao isabelarao 18-21, F Mar 14

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    I don't let very many people get very close to

    me. I've had to many disappointments in my past to truly trust too many people.
    reverandron01 reverandron01 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I agree, when people backstab you

    and use you to the point of no return, you stop trusting people.. Originally, my problem was trusting people too much.. That quickly changed as I began to realize PEOPLE SUCK BIG TIME
    Crymyselftodeath Crymyselftodeath 18-21, F Mar 11

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    Courage The Cowardly Dog

    I was shy since I was a child but before it was okay, since I earned a few friends. Then 3 years ago, I told some of my friends about my crush and before i knew it, him and his friends knew about my stupid crush on him. Then 2 years ago, my bestfriend transferred to a different...
    missinvisiblegirl missinvisiblegirl 22-25, F Nov 8, 2013

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    Especialy online. Do i rly know whos typing on

    the other side? R u a nice sweet teen girl or an 81 yr old creep? Idk anymore.
    Matthew224 Matthew224 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 30

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    Trust

      I miss my care free way, live life as it is, enjoy just being me, the big lover of life never had to question trust, love every one just because they were apart of my life, meeting people just filled my heart and made every day feel like a holiday, and it was tooking away. My...
    streets718 streets718 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2013

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    And yet here I am slowly building up a list of

    experiences I want to tell a bunch of strangers. I've found the veil of anonymity can help clear your soul a bit when online. In person I trust two people completely with anything I want to say. Everyone else I can't trust as far as I could throw them. I wish I had a more...
    CaptainCalculus CaptainCalculus 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Lessons Are Always Learned the Hard Way.

       I used to trust people very quickly. Hell at one time I even trusted myself! Not anymore.    I don't believe certain words. Words I hear far to often.....but they always stab me in the back. Sorry is at the top of that list. Love is in there as well...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 5 Responses Sep 26, 2009

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    This Is Why...

    So I'm watching Dr. Phil...he's covering the story of Sandra Cantu. She's the little girl who was raped and murdered by her sunday school teacher. This why I can't trust anyone around my kids. I'm as protective as I can be without hidering my kids quality of life. I can't...
    Queen82 Queen82 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2009

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    Normal

    Is it weird that I assume that people carry around a vile of poison in their upper pocket? I really think they do....
    MyNameIsHurl MyNameIsHurl 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2012

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    So many people have broken their trust with me.

    People don't know how to be honest anymore. They fail in this area. It takes me a while to trust just one person. And trust has to be earned. And proven to me that they want me to trust them and show me they can be trusted. many people have failed to prove to me they can be...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T 1 Response Jan 25

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    Intution Only Takes You So Far

    I trust nobody with my feelings ! Even family members,it seems as if people feel better about themselves talking about others. Taking the focus of there own lives away.A tell tale sign that you are not spared or special . I would much rather take a bus and talk to a stranger...
    Jewelzee Jewelzee 41-45, F Jan 15, 2010

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    Shy Around Most

    I started a new school for 8th grade. It was a small school. I was, of course, very shy around the people there. I didn't talk much to them at all. I did start talking to two people who were excluded from the "main" group, and became friends with them. I don't know why, but I...
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F Nov 8, 2013

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    I have faith on people

    but i don't have trust to people and probably never would I trust people, down the road of trust is not the road I'm going to ever take for the next couple or more years.
    Acesha16 Acesha16 18-21, F Jan 4

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    wellthatwasweird wellthatwasweird 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Trust has to be earned.

    In my case, I've been burned a lot so you have to earn it before I give any at all. Sorry.
    Heidi75 Heidi75 36-40 1 Response Jan 25

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    I know who to trust and I know

    who not to trust.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I Can't. . .

    I used to trust people too easily, at least when I was little I did. But, then, when I was seven. My first stepdad, the guy I pretty much considered my father, cheated on my mom. We moved out after two months. We left in the middle of the night when he was gone, out working. We...
    boklenHolley7 boklenHolley7 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    People took advantage of the fact

    that I still had an inner child who wanted to trust who had a need to trust and be comforted people saw my inner child balled up in a corner afraid of the world but she is gone I am a grown women and I will never trust anyone because its always taken advantage of so **** trust I...
    inconcievablyunequivocal inconcievablyunequivocal 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I've had many people break my trust but,

    I'm still willing to trust others. Let's see how far I get with that. :)
    thatonegirlsam89 thatonegirlsam89 22-25, F Feb 17

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    It All Adds Up...

    I've never trusted people easily. Infact in can take years before I even give a person a chance. I think it all comes with the life I've had. Everyone in my life has betrayed me or let me down or just hurt me severely my whole life. My mom is a master manipulator...you can't...
    pepsi21addict pepsi21addict 21-25, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2007

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    I Fear Getting Hurt

    So, I build an invisible wall that keeps others at a distance.  When I let someone in I go all the way, which is scary.  I don't know how to retreat then.  It's lonely inside all by myself.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 21 Responses May 21, 2008

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    Trusting Is Not Easy

      i dont trust too many people because i have been hurt too many times. my first husband cheated on me so often, after we separated i could not trust any man for a long time. My so called best friend stole from me, so even to make friends it was hard to trust. now after...
    dolphins dolphins 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2006

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    Trust is a big thing to have in your life with

    people you love or care for,I always test my friendship with people I meet,especially when they want to continue the friendship,and what is their interest to continue a friendship,and when your sick, they call you or text you,that's a really good friend,so trusting someone you...
    dimples62 dimples62 51-55 3 Responses Apr 8

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    In the Dictionary

    I looked the word "trust" up in the dictionary today. The definition was: To place confidence or hope in, to do something without fear or misgiving, to rely on the truthfulness or accuracy of. Some believe trust can only be earned. Through constant validation and tests...
    emptyheart emptyheart 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2008

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    Trust And Friends

    The last four days have been hell for me. I was seriously ill. I have so many friends. They visited me and the strangest thing is, I could not let them assist me in washing dishes or cooking. I did not think they would clean them as thoroughly as I do, or whether the food would...
    tessin tessin 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    I can't trust people,

    only people that are actually close to me i can trust which is my family and my close friend. No offense to any of my EP friends but it's the truth. Ill call you a friend but you're more of an acquaintance. We small talk and that it. Trust is hard to come b especially when you...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F Mar 17

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    i dont have a attitude i just have a

    personality THAT YOU CAN NOT HANDLE...........
    isabelarao isabelarao 18-21, F Feb 25

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    When you been hurt as many times

    as I have, you wouldn't either.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    genuine123 genuine123 36-40, F Jan 12

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    My cousins went through my backpack

    and assume i smoke weed. They left me these notes," i know your secret." Because of that i have trust issues with my family. By the way i wasn't home when this happened.
    chillynights024 chillynights024 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Why I Do Not Trust People

    im just wanna say it all now.....was given **** by my dad when i was 17 for doing an art course and , my brother who is in his 30s...was giving me trouble when he was drunk as he had to move back in with us,..after things did not go well with his girlfriend and would ask me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    I Trust A Lot, I Love A Lot, I Give A Lot So I Expect A Lot...

    Trust is often times a difficult thing to gain. Not for me. I tend to trust people far too easily. I am a man of my word, I dont mince my words, I do not flatter. If I say I will do something you can bet your bottom dollar that I will do it. It might take me some time but I will...
    Scorpio1987 Scorpio1987 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    Here are the people I trust Tina (awesomest

    person ever ) Skyler ( awesome to the max) also known as ILoveLuke @-@ Grawr is kne awesome girl ( awesome person ) Daniel (one heck of a guy) Sammy( my best bud)( awesome :) Keven( my smexy boyfriend love Hume forever...
    KhalidNeko KhalidNeko 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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    It really does amaze me how many people are in a sexless marriage. I guess maybe because I'm an extremely sexual person, and my partner matches that, that I could never see myself...
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    My husband is a hard worker, he works 70 hour weeks in order for me to stay home and care for our baby. I know he is tired when he gets home, and he would like to do some thing to...
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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