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I Don't Understand Lies And Gossip

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    Why Do People Love To Make Others Miserable? - I've always been a nice person, sweet, kind, keep secrets and etc. I've been betrayed by "friends" before but last year I was...
    Marie1010 Marie1010 36-40 Sep 12, 2013

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    Grow Up And Be Happy - The world is full of unsolicited opinions and selfish ideas. Closed minds that are not able to grow and think the truth lives only in their hands. But it's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 13, 2012

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    Immature And Uncaring - I can understand the concept behind the white lies that protect another feelings. I don't really know if I agree with it and I personally don't bother with...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Apr 22, 2013

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    Is There A Person Who Has Not Fell Victim And Then Held Hostage In The Spotlight Of A Malicious Lie? - Sorry I decided to delete this post,  but if you are interested in the...
    sherry123456789 sherry123456789 46-50, F 24 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    Lies & Gossip - I will never understand why people start lies and gossip.  It is very childlike and it can break someone's reputation and worse.  If anyone has a...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 23, 2010

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    Dont Understand Why People Do It!! - i have never understood why anyone would want to spread lies and gossip about other people, and yet i know so many people that do exactly that...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M Feb 22, 2011

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    Honesty - I can't be completely open with anyone. For several reasons. Mainly lies and Gossip. I've been lied to for as long as I can remember, ever since I was little. What hurts...
    Mrs1105 Mrs1105 18-21, F Oct 20, 2011

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    The Ppl I Work With, All They Do Is Gossip! - Most of the ppl I work with are so ridiculous! They sit around and talk about other ppl all day as if they were perfect-it gets on my...
    hairtostay hairtostay 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    Gossip -    I believe evryone is subject to be the topic of a rumor at one point or another, I think the trick is to not react the goosipers will eventually grow board...
    hellsangel932 hellsangel932 32, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    Dealing With The Harmful Effects Of Gossip - ♦Psalms 57:3-4 ESV He will send from heaven and save me; he will put to shame him who tramples on me...
    WilliamC WilliamC 61-65, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    The Golden Rule Of Gossip.... - If I have learnt one valuable lesson in life it is : Those who gossip to TO YOU are gossiping ABOUT YOU!!My ex boyfriends mother is a prime...
    archangelgirl archangelgirl 31-35 Jan 20, 2012

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    Signs Of Immaturity -     I know that every person has a reason for the way they are. That being said I also know that lies and gossip are signs of immaturity. When...
    aprilriver aprilriver 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2010

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    Can Be Dangerous To Others - Lies and gossiping can be dangerous. It effects somebody's life. Most of the time it is a innoscent person nearby It has been a many of persons hurt by...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2011

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    "why" - Why do you have to lie about everything. why do you have to gossip behind my backit only hurts me in the short-run but for you, it will hurt and hunts you for  a...
    needyfun needyfun 18-21, F 3 Responses May 16, 2011

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    Why We Gossip - Gossip evolved as a way of keeping track with what everyone in the tribe was doing. It began when humans gathered in large tribes, which consisted of more people...
    AllHailIsadora AllHailIsadora 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2012

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    Can't say I want to, either.
    Brangwen Brangwen 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    See The Scars?? - I think everyone has been burned by gossip and lies, and I am no different. After the past 8 months has gone by, I have seen (unfortunately) who are and are NOT...
    wilecoyote10 wilecoyote10 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 15, 2011

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    Us Against The World... Or Vice Versa - This is probably a normal experience, but it’s true. It’s a story that probably happened to every single person on that earth, or maybe...
    LittleYas LittleYas 16-17, F Feb 15, 2012

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    It Broke My Heart - I am totally against gossip it hurts innocent people. It was years ago a friend of mines and a man was found dead out on the street. It hurt me so bad because...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Apr 4, 2013

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    People Can Be So Shallow - Who doesn't hate lies and gossip, right? (Unless you're the person who makes them -_-). I'm a sort-of invisible person in school. I'm the quiet girl...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2010

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    So Elementary - What is the point of knowingly sitting around talking about someone else's business. This is especially needless for adults. Whatn annoys me is when I hear a group...
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2010

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    I Think People Who Gossip Need A Life - its ok to be crittical off others and say they have no life when you seem to find something to talk about the. . . clearly means they have...
    LittleLostQueen LittleLostQueen 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2010

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    Promises - I don't understand how my friend wants me to be honest and open with them when its consistently proven that they will not keep a secret. I don't like gossip, I can't...
    MaryAlias MaryAlias 22-25, F Jul 9, 2011

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    My colleague was mean . She said I am single because I don't compromise . She also said I am anti social just because I chose not to share a meal in a japanese restaurant. I just...
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    My cousin was cheated on by my exfriend... With 4 other guys. If you want a change then talk before you end it. It will only get worse... I don't get it
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    socalsissi socalsissi 36-40, T Mar 25

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    I really cannot comprehend how about half of my age group are in long term relationships and then there's me,who by the way I am a lesbian,and most of my friends (gay and straight...
    RidiculouslyJasmine RidiculouslyJasmine 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    CandieDiCaprio CandieDiCaprio 16-17, F Mar 30

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    This man here is very rude and I said I don't want to talk to him he said this to me
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    I have a date tonight, lucky guy I know lol, but I've really been asking myself what the point is in spending around £50 each on a night out for it to end with us arranging to do...
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    i dont understand why christina aguilara performs in spanish...that would be like nikki minaj performing in english. wait what?? she does?? who knew
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    What is a vlog, i know its a video blog in which you talk to the camera and stuff.. But i dont understand what ppl talk about in vlogs.. Is talking about a certain topic a vlog...
    Mejo0Amjad Mejo0Amjad 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    i cant express this enough. theres this idea of me that people like a lot. i would like that person too. but like no one really knows what im like. even my closest friends, its...
    bongripper1 bongripper1 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I have been with him for over three years, and his near-constant nitpicking has just kept escalating. Now, I know I'm not perfect. I'm still hanging on to the baby fat after more...
    Lovelornmother Lovelornmother 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Being nice isn't that hard. If people were nicer then this world wouldn't be so screwed up. What exactly is being mean going to get you? An empty funeral is all.
    valerycrisp valerycrisp 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    it seems like everybody's like "im different o yeah im so not normal" but then tey make fun of/beat the **** out of people who really have disorders ad are different
    mackeffingmiller mackeffingmiller 13-15, M 1 hr ago