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I Don't Understand Life Sometimes

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    I Don't Understand Life Sometimes

           I don't understand life. Not even a little bit. Being an abused child I feel open to talk about my experiences NOT to make people face their demons, but to make people know that they are not alone. I always thought I was creating awareness and...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2009

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    The Is a Reason Behind Not Understanding Life

    When I said I didn't understand Life, I Was at a Stand Point in my Life, Now I Opened My Eye's and realized Life isn't meant to understand it's on of those Things With Living you understand it. With Experience you Grow. With Learning Lessons Piece by piece you Start to understand...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F Jul 31, 2008

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    WTH????

    You know I really don't understand life sometimes. Several things come to my mind that aren't right: You spend your life trying to be good to people and doing everything in your power to make people feel special and build them up and then they turn around and stomp all over...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 11 Responses Jun 12, 2008

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    Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last, Or Just Come In First With Someone Else?

    I always attract guys that I am in no way attracted to. And can I say that it sucks?! A lot! And it's not that I'm being 'picky' (or maybe it is), I just feel that I deserve to be in a relationship with someone I am physically and emotionally attracted to; not just physically and...
    PseudoNymph PseudoNymph 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2011

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    What'S The Point of Cursing In Public?

    I don't understand the point in cursing out in public. I don't do it in public because i still want people to feel comfortable around me. I only curse in private and at my video games or the computer (lol). Nothing good ever comes from cursing, it'll only make your life worse in...
    Codeman320 Codeman320 22-25, M May 17, 2013

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    sharing with the unknown

    It  is  amazing  out life is , looking back at  those time  when you felt that  you were on tp of the world or  time that you belive  you could not be broke.  Now has i sit  down writing  this i  believe i  could be a  better  person . a person whose future  would...
    messyjesy23 messyjesy23 18-21 1 Response Feb 3, 2011

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    Not Sure Your Meant To

    Life is not always what you want it to be and sometimes you wonder why. Lots of things in my life make no sense at all but in the end either what ever it is will stop or it will continue and you learn to live with it. My life now has nice highs and then deep lows but one thing...
    shall13 shall13 36-40, F Apr 28, 2012

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    Got Lost A While Ago.

    I can say, life is a game and a gamble. I get lost because as I think of a decision, it quickly counteracts itself with a problem. Life makes me lost because there is always a negative to a positive. One decision can affect your life and cause a complete turn of events. 
    SomeRandude SomeRandude 18-21, M Jun 23, 2011

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    Everyday Is A New Adventure But Some Of These Adventures, I'd Rather Not Take.

    I don't understand why some days are so gr8 and i have so much energy that i feel like i can do anything. Like Saturday, i got up, had a wonderful but brief chat with my friend and the whole day just flew by. I wasn't worried about a thing and i was humming a song the whole day...
    misternobrain misternobrain 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    What Has My Life Become

    Its like i went to bed one day as daddy's little princess without a single care in the world and now i wake up to this? Since when did this hell become my life. damn. confusion. **** the world.
    Nic00l Nic00l 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 16, 2013

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    I Don't Understand It Sometimes.

    What i find hard to understand is the way people think. I don't understand how the generations before can criticize the generations after, after all who was it who raised them. How do they think they were born. You stick a young child with animals to live, he won't function the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 18, 2011

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    Meaning of Life

       So last night I was with some friends, you could say it was our last summer hang-out before school. Anyways, we were talking and the conversation turned into a deep one. We started to talk about the meaning of life, and why our society is the way it is.   ...
    sorrowshadow sorrowshadow 18-21 1 Response Aug 21, 2008

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    Life Is So Complicated

    I'm a girl. Surely, I don't look like the other girls, but I am one! The only difference (maybe) is: I don't follow the fashion trends. I don't spend my time gossiping on others. I don't really follow all these Star People. I'm not interested to be in a relationship (for now). I...
    Nilime Nilime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Really!!

    I mean if Life made any sense at all, would there be a cross bar on men's bicycles!?!?!
    chickenguy chickenguy 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 5, 2008

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    I really don't think we are supposed to

    understand it all the time. We are powerful spiritual beings here for the experience and to learn from a human incarnation. If we understood everything than what works be the point of living a human experience? Each one of us is a tiny aspect of Source/God each experiencing...
    Jericho7 Jericho7 36-40, M 2 Responses May 24

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    When did I go from outgoing and fun loving to an introverted shut in? I just sort of realized that I have systematically become a boring homebody. I used to be a social butterfly...
    Therealabbeyroad Therealabbeyroad 22-25, F Aug 21

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    There's this guy. We hung out the other day and he was really nice to me and all. I had tons of fun and he was such a gentleman. But then he tried to kiss me. Being the blonde I am...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    More like most of the times. Idk either im happy or not. Idk why sometimes i cry and get sad with no reasons. Its not like im not being grateful with my life but i really really...
    saffaismail saffaismail 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    What's with all the anger and hate?
    SLdale SLdale 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I asked her calmly and politely if she could please not leave a bunch of clutter on the kitchen counters. Usually I just ignore it and end up cleaning it all up myself, but I'm...
    noodleloaf noodleloaf 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    People add me and the friends are like woman with pictures of their bo00ody. And they just add me out of nowhere and I don't even know where did they find me from. And I don't...
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Why is it when a woman who was in an abusive relationship gets out and gets with a new guy it's such a struggle. Why has everybody collectively decided I need to go into a nunnery...
    sheloveshim57 sheloveshim57 22-25, F Aug 20

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    I know I'm heard. That I've never questioned. What I don't understand is why my nightly prayer never is answered. Someday it will be answered, though. With each passing day, it...
    Jpeavey Jpeavey 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I don't understand why when I talk everyone is quite like when they talk everyone talks and I think I don't fit. Why? And when I am sitting without talking everyone walks away. I...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    They don't see me. I'm a good student and i'm trying very hard to be one of the excellent students, but they just don't give me the chance. They have their favorites and there is...
    vailetking vailetking 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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     Sometimes i feel like i just don't belong here , like i came from Mars and they forgot to kick me out . On Earth i learnt so much , i learnt that you might crack and you...
    AdventureHunter AdventureHunter 13-15, F Aug 27

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    I can't understand why too many guys have a crush on me and they find me soo attractive, cute or whatever because tbh sometimes I just hate myself >.> why why why xD
    XxxxMemoriesXxxx XxxxMemoriesXxxx 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't believe entirely that sufferment and pain bring teach us much. I believe they do other thing way better: they hurt us, they kill our spirit. They hurt so much that we can...
    Fernandotavares Fernandotavares 22-25, M Sep 4

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    I have observed this from time to time - that on the internet - many gals would chat with guys - what makes a guy sounds exciting in the first introduction? or contact? if he ask...
    stephenrko stephenrko 31-35, M Aug 23

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    I want to have self-control and self-discipline but it's something that I lack. I have so many wonderful ideas and plans but it seems like motivation fades when it comes time to...
    TheDiscardedImage TheDiscardedImage 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    Okay I understand it I just don't get the same call to arms to defend it. Perhaps if I was truly a Christian I would. By any means today I have youth group......and someone pointed...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Is it a defense mechanism? I really don't care for most people my age. They are so selfish and rude. Infact I'm a rarity I find myself caring a lot for people and going out of...
    bettygingham bettygingham 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    This is only my opinion, I don't mean to offend anyone. I feel like the Bible is simply a guideline. A very outdated guideline. The Bible says so many things that don't apply to...
    LadyFranco LadyFranco 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    When I bring food to school to share, I have answers like these: "No thanks, I'm full." "It's okay, you can have it." "Nah, I don't really like that." When someone else brings the...
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, M Aug 17

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    Any men want to message me and help me with a certain situation?? The guy I'm in love with, don't get him at all..
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F Aug 21

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    My laptop isn't new (I've had it since August 2011) and I'm not the kind of person who treats her things with love and care. It's been verrry slow for as long as I can remember, so...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Best way to know if someone is lying to you?...Let him/her talk away...don´t interrupt...and you´ll see.
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Just a ransoms thought since I met some random Jacka$$ today. What's the point of being rude to someone you don't even know? I'm sensitive, I can't deal with that. I ended up...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Why do some men go overboard really fast with a woman, making future plans (without her saying a thing), treating her like gold, and behaving as if he wants to have a relationship...
    JaneG8 JaneG8 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Sometimes it bewilders me, how people intentionally want to make you feel stupid or mock you, despite asking a legit question. I understand there is an entertainment factor, but...
    EstuaryRivers EstuaryRivers 26-30, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    He's here and sometimes not. I understand we all have jobs. But of course pls remember somebody's thinking of you. Adddddddmmmmmm
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    They are soo uncomfortable and for them to be in anyway bearable you literally have wear them to a point where your foot is shaped differently to other human beings. They make you...
    ChloeMaay ChloeMaay 18-21, F Aug 31

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    One thing that has always mystified me is why people line up in front of a store, sometimes days or even weeks in advance, to purchase some electronic gadget that’s about to...
    Rutterman Rutterman 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    Why do people tend to make relationships a center of their life? There are a lot of things going in our life, we can't just evolve our lives in a single person.
    ImNoPrincess ImNoPrincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    A good friend of mine has a early 20- something daughter and I recently had a conversation with her . I found it to be a bit disturbing . She was hyper-critical of herself. This...
    bugaboo2001 bugaboo2001 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Seems basically all people when they hit their 40s become lazy and let themselves go, its sad to see and they just end up with their wife/husband without being in love, not livin...
    bruhbrian bruhbrian 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Do you ever experience , something you know what really happened , something that you understand why it happened , but something that when your mind try's to really grasp it , it...
    DrackenP DrackenP 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    It has never happened to me- I have never fallen in love. I have been attracted to some girls and they turned out be minor crushes, but I never pursued those interests. I always...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M Aug 23

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    You can never understand a girl. Its really very complicated. Its the universal law. If you ask a girl for something they think we are Despo and If we didn't ask anything they...