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I Don't Understand Mean Spirited People

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    My Jaw Always Drops

    Every time I personally experience meanness or see it being done to someone else, I just can't believe what that mean person has said or done to the other person for what seems usually to be no apparent reason. When self service gas was a new thing, yeah, I was there, I was...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F Apr 1, 2012

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    Gready Family Members

    i still am not able to handle speaking to 2 family members who share cottage property with me. my father settled his estate and gave his 3 children their assests before he died, he wanted to see them happy the youngest son, wife and only child moved in with his father to look...
    maureen78 maureen78 51-55 3 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    I would like to say I usually try to treat

    others how I would like to be treated. This being said if you're going to message me to be vulgar or say you think I'm a fatty,etc. please save your negative energy and try to use it to turn your nasty thoughts around and say a kind word or two to someone. It doesn't have to be...
    sami345 sami345 41-45, F Feb 1, 2014

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    Because Of All The Meanness In The World I Have An Offer

    If you are tired of feeling unimportant, unaccepted, unloved, or any of a number of things along that line, I would just like to throw it out there to you that I love and accept you just as you are right now this very minute and if you need someone to make you feel ok about...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    One Bad Apple, Don't Spoil the Whole Bunch...but, They Sure Try

     I answered the question of the day, not at all expecting someone to comment on it, let alone leave a very Mean Spirited comment. I was pissed to say the least, but, was also dumbfounded to find that just because this site allows you to be unknown, that it also in some...
    latisha latisha 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Reality; What A Concept

         Adolf Hitler, once said "A lie herd often enough, becomes a fact".  Lies never become facts; but when people beleive them, the battle is lost.  Our country is in a sad state of affairs.  Obama, is bringing this country down, with the help...
    DianeInNova DianeInNova 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    My Jaw Always Drops

    Every time I personally experience meanness or see it being done to someone else, I just can't believe what that mean person has said or done to the other person for what seems usually to be no apparent reason. When self service gas was a new thing, yeah, I was there, I was...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    So a friend of mine keeps treating me like a true romance is coming from us and she then turns around and goes on about her 'one true love' and how she has already found it, but it...
    SorceressSupreme2 SorceressSupreme2 22-25, F 1 Response May 8

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    Is that all there was to me? To you? I have been left wondering this for some time now… I actually don't understand but I guess now I'll never get the chance to get to know...
    AutumnBliss AutumnBliss 46-50, F May 9

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    All the days I spend thinking about something so...unexplainable. Why? Why do I want to die? Why do I shed so many tears when things could be worse? I should just be grateful and...
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    I'm a 20 year old girl who has experienced some really strange things and can't keep it all to myself anymore. I'm hoping that coming here and letting these things out will...
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    Why are people so money hungry they want to win the lottery they cant think about anything in life all they talk about is nag about other people they never think about getting...
    AnnonymousNum3 AnnonymousNum3 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    If you are unhappy and in a relationship or married, fix it or get the F out. Don't be a cheating *****, man or woman. If you are unhappy and single, have some morals and don't...
    kkkkgroupyo kkkkgroupyo 26-30, F May 4

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    Why is it that men have to lie? Why do they question you? to shift the truth of who they are? Why don't they come clean? I hope all the women on this forum to look out for men who...
    GOATSDOROAM GOATSDOROAM 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    I just don't get why someone would intentionally do this :( I was inboxed yesterday by a man older than my own dad inviting me to 'poop my panties' :( sorry but my mum trained me...
    kellyloveslife kellyloveslife 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Quantum computing! NOVA is a great program but I still can't understand quantum computing. I know they are breaking down the info so simple so simple minds like mine get it, but...
    ranabp ranabp 41-45 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My fiance is a conspiracy theorist and I just can't understand her. Has anyone heard of Nibiru or Planet X? She's convinced that we are going to have Nibiru pass us by soon...
    KSPerson KSPerson 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I never considered that something wonderful, something joyous could ever leave me feeling so empty. Just thinking it over I'm reminded of its absurdity but I can't help but relive...
    Batgirl4lyf Batgirl4lyf 22-25, M Apr 28

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    I really don't get it. It seems to have potential, but so far...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 28

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    A thousand words could not express this energy in my veins, the life of the insane. The foggy brain that can't formulate, there's a disconnect. The voice inside so quiet, words...
    Yourbaaaby Yourbaaaby 18-21, F 1 Response May 2

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    i don't get why ep censors some things but not others, why is it that they censor something that i write that isn't even dirty, but someone else can have a dirty pic for their...
    AwesomeGuy18 AwesomeGuy18 18-21, M May 9

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    I noticed this isn't a popular topic but thought I'd post here again anyway. I've always been a peace keeper in the family. I dislike arguing unless I feel I not allowed to voice...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F May 3

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    I wish dating were simpler, like if we could just write resumés about ourselves and hand them out to perspective people. You know people would lie about themselves on that resum...
    slimmmerman slimmmerman 41-45, M 1 Response May 4

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    How is spam allowed to get through, sex advertisements and people who send penis pics but I can't even say a word such as twi*?
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Apr 28

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    Okay, if you decide to message someone cuz they're asking people to do so, and you ask the person to describe themselves to you, why do you feel the need to block them after words...
    ksnowman ksnowman 18-21, M 1 Response May 12

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    Experience removed because I said t***. Not twa* but twi* Seriously??? Is that even a swear word? It annoys me it censors for little words but I've seen worse and it allows these...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Apr 28

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    ******* crazy ******* Tennessee redneck why the hell did I ever get attached to him or think he was cool. ******* bible loving redneck. My god why did I spend so much time pining...
    cocoagirl95 cocoagirl95 18-21, F May 7

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    Specially when you have to do your homework and the only place you can do it is in the library. Now I know how it feels like to be near parrots (loud people) and now I know I...
    SingingHeaven47 SingingHeaven47 18-21, F May 5

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    When people hurl insults at you,ignore them, people say things to get attention, ignoring them let's them know you're strong.
    Brandnewhim2015 Brandnewhim2015 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I HATE waking up early on Saturday mornings!!!!
    Arclilsis101 Arclilsis101 13-15, F May 9

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    So...I found out my ex boyfriend was cheating on me when we were together. That's why he ignored me for 2 weeks, I'm absolutely devastated & I've self harmed. Why am I not good...
    Claricalle10 Claricalle10 22-25, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Kanye think of anything worse than a train wreck? - Kim Car Crashian
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 1 Response May 3

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    'We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.' I think, therefore I am. I think of others, therefore...
    fortisvir fortisvir 31-35, M 1 Response May 7

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    I'm pretty sure my substitute teacher might have encouraged all of us to drink and "try things" o.O He told us that if you're in high school and have not tried alcohol then you...
    PhantomPower PhantomPower 18-21, F 3 Responses May 12

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    This might have something to do with the favt that most of my life, i taught myself to block out most emotions, pain, crying, sadness etc. So when i meet someone i get along with...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M May 13

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    How come my posts or experiences are denied for being "arousing" when the very topic is about being aroused? how does this double standard make any sense? Will this post be denied...
    LilLoLo44 LilLoLo44 26-30, F a week ago

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