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I Don't Understand Mean Spirited People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 196 People

    My Jaw Always Drops

    Every time I personally experience meanness or see it being done to someone else, I just can't believe what that mean person has said or done to the other person for what seems usually to be no apparent reason. When self service gas was a new thing, yeah, I was there, I was...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F Apr 1, 2012

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    I would like to say I usually try to treat

    others how I would like to be treated. This being said if you're going to message me to be vulgar or say you think I'm a fatty,etc. please save your negative energy and try to use it to turn your nasty thoughts around and say a kind word or two to someone. It doesn't have to be...
    sami345 sami345 41-45, F Feb 1, 2014

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    Gready Family Members

    i still am not able to handle speaking to 2 family members who share cottage property with me. my father settled his estate and gave his 3 children their assests before he died, he wanted to see them happy the youngest son, wife and only child moved in with his father to look...
    maureen78 maureen78 51-55 3 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    Because Of All The Meanness In The World I Have An Offer

    If you are tired of feeling unimportant, unaccepted, unloved, or any of a number of things along that line, I would just like to throw it out there to you that I love and accept you just as you are right now this very minute and if you need someone to make you feel ok about...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    My Jaw Always Drops

    Every time I personally experience meanness or see it being done to someone else, I just can't believe what that mean person has said or done to the other person for what seems usually to be no apparent reason. When self service gas was a new thing, yeah, I was there, I was...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    One Bad Apple, Don't Spoil the Whole Bunch...but, They Sure Try

     I answered the question of the day, not at all expecting someone to comment on it, let alone leave a very Mean Spirited comment. I was pissed to say the least, but, was also dumbfounded to find that just because this site allows you to be unknown, that it also in some...
    latisha latisha 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Reality; What A Concept

         Adolf Hitler, once said "A lie herd often enough, becomes a fact".  Lies never become facts; but when people beleive them, the battle is lost.  Our country is in a sad state of affairs.  Obama, is bringing this country down, with the help...
    DianeInNova DianeInNova 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    What I don't understand is, if you do not like someone, why do you keep trying to be around them? And when you are around them you are mean, whiney and miserable? And on top of...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 10

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    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    iwbaps iwbaps 22-25, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    TGBman TGBman 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    DiamantesAndDiamonds DiamantesAndDiamonds 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Blocking isn't the right way to tell others that you don't want em to talk to you, especially when those people where friends. I'm not saying that blocking is bad and unacceptable...
    MariKun MariKun 16-17, M Mar 31

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    With the experience of working with high school girls, I try to think if I was every like the girls I work with. Reflecting on my high school years, which was about 5 years ago...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F a week ago

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    berealistic82 berealistic82 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Sometimes I wish there was a handbook of do's and don'ts in a relationship. It seems like everything is going great and then from out of the blue something minor happens but it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15

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    Hahah no I don't. I always overanalyse and overreact and make a drama out of the smallest things and I don't know why the hell I do that. It's just dumb ??
    ifyoureabirdimabird ifyoureabirdimabird 13-15, F Mar 29

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    SimplyMeForNow SimplyMeForNow 46-50 1 Response Apr 11

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    BurningFist BurningFist 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    Want to talk about taboos and censorship? Okay read up on Issei Sagawa. Better yet, watch his video on YouTube. If you have the brains, you'll understand what I'm talking about.
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    Soccer is life, what isn't to understand
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