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I Don't Understand Mean Spirited People

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    My Jaw Always Drops

    Every time I personally experience meanness or see it being done to someone else, I just can't believe what that mean person has said or done to the other person for what seems usually to be no apparent reason. When self service gas was a new thing, yeah, I was there, I was...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F Apr 1, 2012

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    One Bad Apple, Don't Spoil the Whole Bunch...but, They Sure Try

     I answered the question of the day, not at all expecting someone to comment on it, let alone leave a very Mean Spirited comment. I was pissed to say the least, but, was also dumbfounded to find that just because this site allows you to be unknown, that it also in some...
    latisha latisha 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Gready Family Members

    i still am not able to handle speaking to 2 family members who share cottage property with me. my father settled his estate and gave his 3 children their assests before he died, he wanted to see them happy the youngest son, wife and only child moved in with his father to look...
    maureen78 maureen78 51-55 3 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    Reality; What A Concept

         Adolf Hitler, once said "A lie herd often enough, becomes a fact".  Lies never become facts; but when people beleive them, the battle is lost.  Our country is in a sad state of affairs.  Obama, is bringing this country down, with the help...
    DianeInNova DianeInNova 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    I would like to say I usually try to treat

    others how I would like to be treated. This being said if you're going to message me to be vulgar or say you think I'm a fatty,etc. please save your negative energy and try to use it to turn your nasty thoughts around and say a kind word or two to someone. It doesn't have to be...
    sami345 sami345 41-45, F Feb 1

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    Because Of All The Meanness In The World I Have An Offer

    If you are tired of feeling unimportant, unaccepted, unloved, or any of a number of things along that line, I would just like to throw it out there to you that I love and accept you just as you are right now this very minute and if you need someone to make you feel ok about...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    My Jaw Always Drops

    Every time I personally experience meanness or see it being done to someone else, I just can't believe what that mean person has said or done to the other person for what seems usually to be no apparent reason. When self service gas was a new thing, yeah, I was there, I was...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    I waited almost an entire month to contact him. I finally send him a positive message, asking if we could talk, and he read it on the app we talked on that night. I waited 6 days...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    I sometimes think god, if there is one, is really sadistic X( I mean why do I gotta be sick?! Tomorrow's Thanksgiving man! My friends and I 'suppose to be goin out to watch a movie...
    TransmutedHeart TransmutedHeart 18-21, F Nov 26

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    I don't get it when people post the same exact story in several places. I was looking at someone's writings tonight and they had posted the same thing in about five areas. Not...
    Longrun Longrun 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Her stupid friends are hacked into his sites also.....we know you bimbos we just don't understand who the **** you think you are Your blocked from hundreds of people ladies.....
    awake1235 awake1235 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I don't understand what's wrong with me...why is it that I'm just not lovable? Why do I always have to be the one who gets hurt? I don't want to love anymore. What's the point of...
    LoveandLoss17 LoveandLoss17 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I got rid of her and so did most of my friends...I don't understand why he can speak outside with out 3 morons watching........
    awake1235 awake1235 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    Now, before I get into this, no one start flipping out on me. I asked something similar on a different site and all I got was insults and no answers. Now, could someone explain to...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I don't understand life or how to be happy in it.
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    I guess you could say it's a defense mechanism... My mind repressed everytime my ex fought with me and emotionally abused me. So it's only fair to think my brain would repress my...
    AlysonBlack AlysonBlack 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    How come when women on EP say they need someone to talk to, they don't care which gender. But when men write the same thing it means I'm Looking For A Woman. Often tagged Dating...
    talkinaftermidnight talkinaftermidnight 36-40, M 6 days ago

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    I literally met this guy on this app and he chatted me first. At first it was okay until he started being mean. He mad me feel terrible on the inside and I just wanted to meet new...
    quarioj quarioj 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 1

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    And I don't think anyone else does either. So many people have such strong opinions on their beliefs but there is so much divergence in them that it is hard to believe that any...
    tastyfrzz tastyfrzz 46-50 1 Response Nov 23

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    What more lies will unravel? Why couldn't he just tell me to my face? I bet he wasn't working all of those weekends. I bet he wasn't falling asleep on me at 9 and even 8:30 at...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    As I'm sitting this house wondering what going to happen in my later life. As right now I do not understand myself because there so much stuff that I wanted to do. Well I can't do...
    colonaileen colonaileen 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's not productive, and I don't see it as interesting or entertaining. I just take part in it to satisfy other people's weird needs.
    Arekkusu12 Arekkusu12 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    You just can't. I think of myself dying more often then graduating high school. I care too much. I'm unsatisfied. I hurt so badly. I have so many hallucinations. I'm always in pain...
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Dec 2

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    Throughout my entire life I have always noticed how hard it is for me to form genuine connections with people. I am generally quite different from most people. The things that I...
    chelsieshay2626 chelsieshay2626 18-21, F Dec 4

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    My boyfriend invited me to a family event where his co-workers brought all their children. A day before that he asked me how many kids I want. I said one, but he said two. He also...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 13

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    Parents just fought again. Some days I enjoy their fighting and other days like today I just wish they would stop. I'm not sure why I enjoy their fighting. I think part of it may...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F Dec 13

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    I have 3 moods 1. Helpful and Loving to others 2. Quiet and isolated from everyone 3. Pissed off at everyone who leads normal lives whereas I don't
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! Somethings seem to be from another planet, I just don't get them. Why do we keep putting ourselves in situations that hurt us?
    Nyah27 Nyah27 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    honestly can't stand these other people who claim to be Christian and like throwing their opinion down other people's throats. Or people like some of the people I know on Facebook...
    Rebelscorpio Rebelscorpio 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    Want to chat? Don't have names like bigslickdick lovemybbc tittiemaster forurpleasure or just have pics of ur **** for ur display picture. Trust me I giggle and ignore. Just saying...
    Ownedforaprice Ownedforaprice 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I do not understand why everyone sees my existence as some kind of offense. I mean really, what exactly am I doing wrong. Here is my only crime, living the life I want to live...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M Nov 23

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    10yeargap.com focuses on younger women dating older men and it encourages age gap marriage. 10YearGap.com is not a sugar daddy site. Single women are attracted to older single men...
    JessieFay JessieFay 31-35, F Dec 2

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    I haven't slept well for the past 3 days. I'm moody, depressed and exhausted. telling myself to hang on.. forcing my body to adapt the new changes. I even struggle to express...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 13

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    Why i have to work a half day this week til wednesday...I mean they should've just give me a whole week off since it's Thanksgiving lol Well I can't complain it's only half day for...
    jonnygoode74 jonnygoode74 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    Some guy contacted me today with a long long long message introducing himself and saying what he was here looking for, and did I want to be his friend. It was all clean and above...
    Littlemissshy7 Littlemissshy7 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I think it burns my since of truth to hear me shouting in my youth I need a way to sort it out. After I die I rewake redefine what was at stake from the hot side of a god. I see...
    lexinwonderland lexinwonderland 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Do allllllll people from California think they're cooooooler than ice cold. ?!! Bahaha
    Anngeleyes Anngeleyes 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Not all the time, but often enough. Seeing as I still live in the general area I grew up in as a child, it’s really inevitable I’m going to bump into people I knew from the...
    morea morea 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I had such a ****** day today so i decided to swim. i was lucky i didnt head right to the beach but i chose pool instead. I was swimming back and forth continuously for 45mins lap...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 25

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    I have learned that silence is a huge strength. it's easy to just let go everything but hard to restraint yrself from expressing yr anger. Hmm I heard that certain people felt...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 29

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    So here I am minding my own business, and as most people do, I read experiences from my homepage, and one lead me to a girl, FindingEmily . She has an experience which asks for...
    EinBibliotheker EinBibliotheker 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    But some people leave me no choice...
    silverfeather9321 silverfeather9321 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    I have been attracted to girls for as long as i can remember. a girl was my first crush, first kiss and first time i had sex and orgasmed. For me there is nothing better than the...
    drachenReiter drachenReiter 31-35, F 19 hrs ago

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    Stay in your lane douchebag!!!
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    Why am I looking for happiness in the same place I lost it? (scratches head)
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 22

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    Why is she and the friends hacked into a 44 year old man's social sites
    awake1235 awake1235 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 25

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