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I Don't Understand Mean Spirited People

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    My Jaw Always Drops

    Every time I personally experience meanness or see it being done to someone else, I just can't believe what that mean person has said or done to the other person for what seems usually to be no apparent reason. When self service gas was a new thing, yeah, I was there, I was...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    One Bad Apple, Don't Spoil the Whole Bunch...but, They Sure Try

     I answered the question of the day, not at all expecting someone to comment on it, let alone leave a very Mean Spirited comment. I was pissed to say the least, but, was also dumbfounded to find that just because this site allows you to be unknown, that it also in some...
    latisha latisha 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Gready Family Members

    i still am not able to handle speaking to 2 family members who share cottage property with me. my father settled his estate and gave his 3 children their assests before he died, he wanted to see them happy the youngest son, wife and only child moved in with his father to look...
    maureen78 maureen78 51-55 3 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    Reality; What A Concept

         Adolf Hitler, once said "A lie herd often enough, becomes a fact".  Lies never become facts; but when people beleive them, the battle is lost.  Our country is in a sad state of affairs.  Obama, is bringing this country down, with the help...
    DianeInNova DianeInNova 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    Because Of All The Meanness In The World I Have An Offer

    If you are tired of feeling unimportant, unaccepted, unloved, or any of a number of things along that line, I would just like to throw it out there to you that I love and accept you just as you are right now this very minute and if you need someone to make you feel ok about...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    My Jaw Always Drops

    Every time I personally experience meanness or see it being done to someone else, I just can't believe what that mean person has said or done to the other person for what seems usually to be no apparent reason. When self service gas was a new thing, yeah, I was there, I was...
    anitag anitag 51-55, F Apr 1, 2012

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    I would like to say I usually try to treat

    others how I would like to be treated. This being said if you're going to message me to be vulgar or say you think I'm a fatty,etc. please save your negative energy and try to use it to turn your nasty thoughts around and say a kind word or two to someone. It doesn't have to be...
    sami345 sami345 41-45, F Feb 1

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    I asked her calmly and politely if she could please not leave a bunch of clutter on the kitchen counters. Usually I just ignore it and end up cleaning it all up myself, but I'm...
    noodleloaf noodleloaf 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    People add me and the friends are like woman with pictures of their bo00ody. And they just add me out of nowhere and I don't even know where did they find me from. And I don't...
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Why is it when a woman who was in an abusive relationship gets out and gets with a new guy it's such a struggle. Why has everybody collectively decided I need to go into a nunnery...
    sheloveshim57 sheloveshim57 22-25, F Aug 20

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    Is it a defense mechanism? I really don't care for most people my age. They are so selfish and rude. Infact I'm a rarity I find myself caring a lot for people and going out of...
    bettygingham bettygingham 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I think it's childish and often collusive "My fren blocked you so im blocking you too 'cos my fren says im not her fren if i don't do what she does and she's my fren so i...
    mickyisback mickyisback 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 23

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    I don't understand why when I talk everyone is quite like when they talk everyone talks and I think I don't fit. Why? And when I am sitting without talking everyone walks away. I...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I know I'm heard. That I've never questioned. What I don't understand is why my nightly prayer never is answered. Someday it will be answered, though. With each passing day, it...
    Jpeavey Jpeavey 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I don't think that when people grow up, they will become morebroad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's aselecting process, knowing what's the most important...
    QearlLee QearlLee 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I don't think I detest these people. I pity them more than anything because their behavior prevents them from living life to the fullest.
    indigo286 indigo286 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    Sometimes it bewilders me, how people intentionally want to make you feel stupid or mock you, despite asking a legit question. I understand there is an entertainment factor, but...
    EstuaryRivers EstuaryRivers 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    This is only my opinion, I don't mean to offend anyone. I feel like the Bible is simply a guideline. A very outdated guideline. The Bible says so many things that don't apply to...
    LadyFranco LadyFranco 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I HAVE NEVER hated indian accent since i moved to middle east. I used to love bollywoods. But just working with this indian at work makes me want to bang my head on the wall. they...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 4 days ago

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    Okay I understand it I just don't get the same call to arms to defend it. Perhaps if I was truly a Christian I would. By any means today I have youth group......and someone pointed...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I want to have self-control and self-discipline but it's something that I lack. I have so many wonderful ideas and plans but it seems like motivation fades when it comes time to...
    TheDiscardedImage TheDiscardedImage 36-40, F Sep 11

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    I don't believe entirely that sufferment and pain bring teach us much. I believe they do other thing way better: they hurt us, they kill our spirit. They hurt so much that we can...
    Fernandotavares Fernandotavares 22-25, M Sep 4

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    There's this guy. We hung out the other day and he was really nice to me and all. I had tons of fun and he was such a gentleman. But then he tried to kiss me. Being the blonde I am...
    JustAskAnything JustAskAnything 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I'm a crossdresser (you could even possibly say "gender queer") I dress like a woman because I love women: I admire their form and their beauty. I like men, but I don't like the...
    necxo necxo 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    When did I go from outgoing and fun loving to an introverted shut in? I just sort of realized that I have systematically become a boring homebody. I used to be a social butterfly...
    Therealabbeyroad Therealabbeyroad 22-25, F Aug 21

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    Just a ransoms thought since I met some random Jacka$$ today. What's the point of being rude to someone you don't even know? I'm sensitive, I can't deal with that. I ended up...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 1 Response Sep 8

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     Sometimes i feel like i just don't belong here , like i came from Mars and they forgot to kick me out . On Earth i learnt so much , i learnt that you might crack and you...
    AdventureHunter AdventureHunter 13-15, F Aug 27

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    I can't understand why too many guys have a crush on me and they find me soo attractive, cute or whatever because tbh sometimes I just hate myself >.> why why why xD
    XxxxMemoriesXxxx XxxxMemoriesXxxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    My laptop isn't new (I've had it since August 2011) and I'm not the kind of person who treats her things with love and care. It's been verrry slow for as long as I can remember, so...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    They don't see me. I'm a good student and i'm trying very hard to be one of the excellent students, but they just don't give me the chance. They have their favorites and there is...
    vailetking vailetking 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Any men want to message me and help me with a certain situation?? The guy I'm in love with, don't get him at all..
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F Aug 21

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    I have observed this from time to time - that on the internet - many gals would chat with guys - what makes a guy sounds exciting in the first introduction? or contact? if he ask...
    stephenrko stephenrko 31-35, M Aug 23

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    Best way to know if someone is lying to you?...Let him/her talk away...don´t interrupt...and you´ll see.
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    It's sooo creepy but I don't know why and why do people do that? haha I can't eat while people do that... Just Stop!!!! lol.
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    It's because I believe in forgiveness. But if things get out of hand, and you continually harass or perv on me, I will block you. But that will take something serious for me to...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I really don't. Especially if we used to be in good terms in the past. That's why I try my best not to argue or be rude to people so that I can always have good memories with each...
    iAteYourCrayon iAteYourCrayon 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I hate it when people stab you in the back and when you do the same they be like ' how could you do that and s**t ' and act like they never did it . Like c'mon be real and honest...
    annagab16 annagab16 13-15, F Sep 11

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    I really feel that ppl come here because they have their own problems. .they want to share their feelings with others. .or try to forget their pain for some items. ..sometimes they...
    Smunai Smunai 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Lately (meaning in the last few years) I have been seeing young people (meaning children in their early and mid teens) seemingly in horrible angst about whether they are gay or...
    cornbreadandsorghum cornbreadandsorghum 70+, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Why go such great lengths and money just to buy a shirt or accessories when you can buy something better and cheaper from another store with no names? Or at the end of the month...
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Seems basically all people when they hit their 40s become lazy and let themselves go, its sad to see and they just end up with their wife/husband without being in love, not livin...
    bruhbrian bruhbrian 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    The people im trying to get away from wont leave me alone. I need to distance myself from these people which only get me doing the wrong things
    tinieTempah tinieTempah 16-17, M Sep 7

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    One thing that has always mystified me is why people line up in front of a store, sometimes days or even weeks in advance, to purchase some electronic gadget that’s about to...
    Rutterman Rutterman 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    You barely hear me speak and if you try to talk to me, you would make out a small 'Hello..' If you tried hard enough. I really am the opposite online though, text me a 'Hi' and I...
    baconOtaku baconOtaku 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    If someone doesn't know how to love correctly can they end up hurting you?
    takiaa takiaa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Why do people tend to make relationships a center of their life? There are a lot of things going in our life, we can't just evolve our lives in a single person.
    ImNoPrincess ImNoPrincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Do you ever experience , something you know what really happened , something that you understand why it happened , but something that when your mind try's to really grasp it , it...
    DrackenP DrackenP 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    It has never happened to me- I have never fallen in love. I have been attracted to some girls and they turned out be minor crushes, but I never pursued those interests. I always...