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I Don't Understand Men

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    I wish I could get in his head

    and truly know what he is thinking and feeling.
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    I Am Never Looking For A Relationship Ever Again

    I swear to god I will never look for a relationship ever again... I think I have learnt lessons I never needed to learn... over and above what most people would tolerate. but I don't understand men at all ... I think they are all stupid... and have no idea what women want...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2011

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    So I met this guy for the first time on

    Wednesday after we have been texting and talking for two months... So we hung out and talked and it was nice.., so before parting ways he tells me that he is off all weekend and would love to take me out Friday(which is today) and pretty much all weekend. So I said sure and we...
    Mstruebeauty91 Mstruebeauty91 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2014

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    My Odd Love Affair With Men

    I am not a traditional beauty, I am older, curvy (the amounts of curves have varied over time), black (well mostly chocolate), and attractive but I don't think I am drop dead gorgeous. Men have always behaved rather oddly around me and I have never quite figured out why. They...
    nevenera1 nevenera1 41-45, F 8 Responses Nov 7, 2010

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    Why is it that men like the chase

    if a woman so much? Then when they land the woman and she would do anything for them they lose interest?
    Liberaldaisy Liberaldaisy 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    Sorry Can Not Answer As Blocked

    we are no different them many women there are god bad users and non users there are those that talk with you and those that talk at you the eord love and marrage no longer have a meaning in the world they are just terms used to get to what yopu want with manys so sorry you...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 29, 2011

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    I Dont Really Understand Men ...

    I couldn't understand my last BF (my ex now), i give everything to him but he still leave me and keep me hanging. He knows how much i love him, he knows that i would rather choose him than any foreign guy chasing on me but still he keep avoiding me just because of his dreams. I...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2008

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    Can Someone Please Help Me Understand

    Okay heres the thing: When you say I love a guy are they supposed to get mad? I didn't think caring too much was a bad thing. Am I wrong though? I have known him 5 years and recently told him I loved him and he completley blew up on me. I don't understand what I did to screw up...
    kthimm12 kthimm12 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2011

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    Is My Boyfriend Crazy??

    So... I started dating this guy i met like 10 months ago, he was super shy and quiet but i liked that, then we became boyfriend and grilfriend and he started opening up to me (he doesnt do this with anyone)  there are still some things he doesnt even mention like his father or...
    rataolvidada rataolvidada 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2011

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    Their sweet on one hand,

    Yet such a mean *** hole on the other!!!!!!!! (Not ALL men, but I have my go to hell list!!!)😊😊😊
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Asking For Your Number...

    Why do men ask for your number and then not call?  I would rather they didn't ask because then I wouldn't get my hopes up!
    myfathersdaughter myfathersdaughter 22-25 3 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    Why do men ignore women

    that don't give them what they want. Why do they have to be such jerks?
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    Men can't figure out Men

    so how are we supposed too understand Men?
    Jungle46 Jungle46 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    I Know What Freud Would Say

    Freud, were he still alive, would tell me that I don't understand men because I lived with my mother as a teenager and had almost all female friends.  Mind you, I think Freud was usually full of sh*t. However, I do think being surrounded by women had an impact on my ability...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    Perfect Date..then Poof!

    So I ask the perfectly suitable, nice guy in the band I've just joined to come to see Herb Albert and Lani Hall with me if he'd like to buy the extra ticket I have. He thinks about it a few days and does buy the ticket. All is plutonic and that's fine with me, although I think...
    strawberrystar strawberrystar 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    It's Uncanny.

    LADIESHave you ever noticed how.... If a guy thinks you have/had a crush on him, he continues to believe that you do, FOREVER?I run into a guy every so often, who knew I had a crush on him... 8 years ago. I swear, this guy still thinks I have a thing for him. I'm like, "DUDE! I...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2011

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    Can Someone Please Help Me Understand

    Okay heres the thing: When you say I love a guy are they supposed to get mad? I didn't think caring too much was a bad thing. Am I wrong though? I have known him 5 years and recently told him I loved him and he completley blew up on me. I don't understand what I did to screw up...
    kthimm12 kthimm12 18-21, F Mar 17, 2011

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    Men Are Like Bananas

    They are only ripe enough to be enjoyed for such a short amount of time. First, when they are bright and fresh, you can just take them as they are. They travel easily, get along well with others - see one banana and there's never one too far away, and they don't require too...
    serendipityg1rl serendipityg1rl 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    I Don't Get Them Either

    Men  a confused bunch . They don't know what they want, when they want it and how important it is to them. I'm married but cannot, will not live with any man. I guess I'm very independant and strong willed. I've known of only one that I could reside with, he was my ONE AND...
    cristinalemoing cristinalemoing 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    i hate it when my husband snores!

    i want to push his a## off my bed! (just a thought. lol)
    Jeannie3636 Jeannie3636 36-40, F Nov 30, 2014

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    I Can't Read Your Mind..!

    Sometimes I feel like men just expect us to know what they're thinking. Like they expect us to know what they want, and how they feel. Well, I don't know about you, but I am not superwoman! I have no idea what's going on in guys' heads. I get so many mixed messages and I'm not...
    sincerelymetes sincerelymetes 16-17, F Jan 20, 2013

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    Why Does It Work This Way?

    So, there's a guy that I've been off and on with for about five years. When I say off and on I mean that we dated for a few months, have a history, and in between relationships have hooked up now and again. He's a great guy and can be really sweet and considerate, etc. However...
    pocketm pocketm 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    ...but I Can!

    This article helped me: http://www.helium.com/items/1142686-understanding-how-men-think
    chuchupa chuchupa 18-21 Jan 17, 2009

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    Been seeing the same dude

    since August, and at the end of October, we made it clear we were 'exclusive'. Since then, I've seen things and felt things that have led me to believe he isn't being honest with me. On one of our dates in the middle of November, I saw him using Tinder (where we met). He wasn...
    MorticiaAddams MorticiaAddams 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Idk

    i don't get why my husband has such a hard time understanding my feelings.  i know that he is able to gauge other women's emotions and needs (for example, his mom), but when it comes to me -- he just is insensitive.  even if i am brought to tears by him, he treats...
    personaje personaje 31-35 3 Responses Sep 6, 2009

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    I just don't understand when a person says I am complicated. I am simple, but deep. I am a thinker, I think. I want to be loved, i want the world run to it's natural order...
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    Back when we first started dating he told me that I was the first women he dated since his marriage fell apart, it may seem weird that I thought it was kinda sweet. He had told...
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    Does anyone else start to have feelings for someone, get to know that person, and want to be in a relationship with them---but when they finally say they have feelings for you too...
    summershields summershields 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    What is everyone's fascination with some dress? All freaking day I've heard this gabber about some ******* dress! What is so interesting about this dress? Everyone keeps asking...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 1 Response 25 mins ago

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    Don’t waste your time… you will not understand women.. Because women do not understand themselves
    KA1977 KA1977 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    Listen. I know I am old and pretty much used up. You are right I don't deserve love or happiness. I need to live in the mess I have made of my life. Great. Now leave me alone. It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 13

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    People look at professional help as if it was the secret ingredient to make things better. I've been getting this so called help for a while and nothing seems to make things better...
    nuttyduck nuttyduck 18-21, F Jan 27

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    I can't stand MLG especially the one for CoD. Some hard working immigrant is great at what he does but is under paid but some kid who dropped out and has no job is paid to play...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M a week ago

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    Why do people dramatize the art of you and a knife by yourself? Why do you care? Why do you look at my skin and you see my stories, why do you try to help when I so obviously don't...
    Xaxus193 Xaxus193 18-21, M Feb 8

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    I find it harder and harder to want to have friends. I go out people have their nasty attitudes. All I see in the world is a bunch of anger. A world that I don't want much to do...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 26-30, F Feb 13

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    Feel so insecure about small things that guys don't even pay attention to. Come here shawty let me love all ya flaws lol
    diandre diandre 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    love women who prefer to be touched by women. I worship them and don't want to be allowed to touch them. Hope to be taunted and humiliated by them.
    Hermeister Hermeister 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Men say it's so hard to understand women. Is it?Most likely, women rant when they are mad or they eitherignore you if the pain is really excruciating, for if a man really cares, he...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 14 Responses a week ago

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    I met someone on here , who I thought cared for me , we chatted every night for hours , till I was ready to sleep... I then found out this person was backstabbing me telling...
    LornaDunes LornaDunes 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 28

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    The narcissist sociopath chose you because you are brilliant, bright, compassionate and caring. He chose you because of all the qualities he lacks and expected you would prop...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 19

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    how are we supposed to get to class on time when the hallways are too crowded to get through? i cant fly. sheesh!!!!! they dont understand that my classes aren't in the same...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I DONT UNDERSTAND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    monatonie monatonie 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    I have depression and when I tell people about it they take it like a joke. When somebody says there suicidal people shouldn't take that as a joke but, they do.
    Minecrafterchick Minecrafterchick 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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