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I Don't Understand Men

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    It's Uncanny.

    LADIESHave you ever noticed how.... If a guy thinks you have/had a crush on him, he continues to believe that you do, FOREVER?I run into a guy every so often, who knew I had a crush on him... 8 years ago. I swear, this guy still thinks I have a thing for him. I'm like, "DUDE! I...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 66-70, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2011

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    Sorry Can Not Answer As Blocked

    we are no different them many women there are god bad users and non users there are those that talk with you and those that talk at you the eord love and marrage no longer have a meaning in the world they are just terms used to get to what yopu want with manys so sorry you...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 29, 2011

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    i hate it when my husband snores!

    i want to push his a## off my bed! (just a thought. lol)
    Jeannie3636 Jeannie3636 41-45, F Nov 30, 2014

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    Can Someone Please Help Me Understand

    Okay heres the thing: When you say I love a guy are they supposed to get mad? I didn't think caring too much was a bad thing. Am I wrong though? I have known him 5 years and recently told him I loved him and he completley blew up on me. I don't understand what I did to screw up...
    kthimm12 kthimm12 18-21, F Mar 17, 2011

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    Why is it that men like the chase

    if a woman so much? Then when they land the woman and she would do anything for them they lose interest?
    Liberaldaisy Liberaldaisy 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    ******* crazy ******* Tennessee redneck

    why the hell did I ever get attached to him or think he was cool. ******* bible loving redneck. My god why did I spend so much time pining if he's just gonna marry a ***** with piercings that looks like all the rest of the girls there who he didn't even know that long. Used to...
    cocoagirl95 cocoagirl95 18-21, F May 7

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    Asking For Your Number...

    Why do men ask for your number and then not call?  I would rather they didn't ask because then I wouldn't get my hopes up!
    myfathersdaughter myfathersdaughter 22-25 3 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    I Don't Get Them Either

    Men  a confused bunch . They don't know what they want, when they want it and how important it is to them. I'm married but cannot, will not live with any man. I guess I'm very independant and strong willed. I've known of only one that I could reside with, he was my ONE AND...
    cristinalemoing cristinalemoing 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    I wish I could get in his head

    and truly know what he is thinking and feeling.
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    Is My Boyfriend Crazy??

    So... I started dating this guy i met like 10 months ago, he was super shy and quiet but i liked that, then we became boyfriend and grilfriend and he started opening up to me (he doesnt do this with anyone)  there are still some things he doesnt even mention like his father or...
    rataolvidada rataolvidada 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2011

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    I Am Never Looking For A Relationship Ever Again

    I swear to god I will never look for a relationship ever again... I think I have learnt lessons I never needed to learn... over and above what most people would tolerate. but I don't understand men at all ... I think they are all stupid... and have no idea what women want...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2011

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    Can Someone Please Help Me Understand

    Okay heres the thing: When you say I love a guy are they supposed to get mad? I didn't think caring too much was a bad thing. Am I wrong though? I have known him 5 years and recently told him I loved him and he completley blew up on me. I don't understand what I did to screw up...
    kthimm12 kthimm12 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2011

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    Men can't figure out Men

    so how are we supposed too understand Men?
    Jungle46 Jungle46 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    Sometimes I wish there was a handbook of do's

    and don'ts in a relationship. It seems like everything is going great and then from out of the blue something minor happens but it puts a huge kink in the next few events. I feel I'm old enough I should catch these things before they happen, but I don't. You would also think...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15

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    Idk

    i don't get why my husband has such a hard time understanding my feelings.  i know that he is able to gauge other women's emotions and needs (for example, his mom), but when it comes to me -- he just is insensitive.  even if i am brought to tears by him, he treats...
    personaje personaje 31-35 3 Responses Sep 6, 2009

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    Been seeing the same dude

    since August, and at the end of October, we made it clear we were 'exclusive'. Since then, I've seen things and felt things that have led me to believe he isn't being honest with me. On one of our dates in the middle of November, I saw him using Tinder (where we met). He wasn...
    MorticiaAddams MorticiaAddams 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Perfect Date..then Poof!

    So I ask the perfectly suitable, nice guy in the band I've just joined to come to see Herb Albert and Lani Hall with me if he'd like to buy the extra ticket I have. He thinks about it a few days and does buy the ticket. All is plutonic and that's fine with me, although I think...
    strawberrystar strawberrystar 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    I Dont Really Understand Men ...

    I couldn't understand my last BF (my ex now), i give everything to him but he still leave me and keep me hanging. He knows how much i love him, he knows that i would rather choose him than any foreign guy chasing on me but still he keep avoiding me just because of his dreams. I...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2008

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    Their sweet on one hand,

    Yet such a mean *** hole on the other!!!!!!!! (Not ALL men, but I have my go to hell list!!!)😊😊😊
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    I don't always understand women either,

    haha. I have a love or should I say like- hate relationship with men. Men are fun to hang around. Don't get me wrong, I've met a handful of respectfulI, nice men and I admit a lot of times I'd rather be in the company of men then woman. To me almost all men are just like...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F Mar 12

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2014

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    I Know What Freud Would Say

    Freud, were he still alive, would tell me that I don't understand men because I lived with my mother as a teenager and had almost all female friends.  Mind you, I think Freud was usually full of sh*t. However, I do think being surrounded by women had an impact on my ability...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    ...but I Can!

    This article helped me: http://www.helium.com/items/1142686-understanding-how-men-think
    chuchupa chuchupa 18-21 Jan 17, 2009

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    So I met this guy for the first time on

    Wednesday after we have been texting and talking for two months... So we hung out and talked and it was nice.., so before parting ways he tells me that he is off all weekend and would love to take me out Friday(which is today) and pretty much all weekend. So I said sure and we...
    Mstruebeauty91 Mstruebeauty91 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2014

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    Why Does It Work This Way?

    So, there's a guy that I've been off and on with for about five years. When I say off and on I mean that we dated for a few months, have a history, and in between relationships have hooked up now and again. He's a great guy and can be really sweet and considerate, etc. However...
    pocketm pocketm 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    My Odd Love Affair With Men

    I am not a traditional beauty, I am older, curvy (the amounts of curves have varied over time), black (well mostly chocolate), and attractive but I don't think I am drop dead gorgeous. Men have always behaved rather oddly around me and I have never quite figured out why. They...
    nevenera1 nevenera1 41-45, F 8 Responses Nov 7, 2010

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    Why do men ignore women

    that don't give them what they want. Why do they have to be such jerks?
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I Can't Read Your Mind..!

    Sometimes I feel like men just expect us to know what they're thinking. Like they expect us to know what they want, and how they feel. Well, I don't know about you, but I am not superwoman! I have no idea what's going on in guys' heads. I get so many mixed messages and I'm not...
    sincerelymetes sincerelymetes 16-17, F Jan 20, 2013

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    Men Are Like Bananas

    They are only ripe enough to be enjoyed for such a short amount of time. First, when they are bright and fresh, you can just take them as they are. They travel easily, get along well with others - see one banana and there's never one too far away, and they don't require too...
    serendipityg1rl serendipityg1rl 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    I hold my breath instinctively around people who I know drink or smoke, even if they aren't drinking or smoking at the moment, because unfortunately the smells of alcohol and...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend 36-40, F 3 hrs ago

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    We can live in this world harmoniously and I wouldn’t care less if you don’t like me. We have different views, opinions, upbringing and beliefs, but we can be civil and respect...
    CallmeCamille CallmeCamille 66-70 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    The word love is just thrown around way too much these days. I tend to think it stems largely from the younger generation being way too eager to get into 'serious' relationships at...
    Kakakarotcake Kakakarotcake 18-21, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Seriously, can't talk to ANYONE about it. It's so much to explain. I moved last year, lost most of my communication with friends. My family loves him. I love him, so I don't...
    amflynn amflynn 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    If we ever chat or interact in any way here on EP or anywhere else, know that I don't mean to offend you or disrespect you in any way shape or form. I personally don't think that I...
    ItsHIStory ItsHIStory 18-21, M 10 hrs ago

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    I just don't understand why my mind wants the unacceptable
    joe33800 joe33800 41-45, M 14 hrs ago

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    Its one thing for idiot youngsters its a different thing when grown mn argue and debate over things online and go back-7-forth like elementary schoolers just agree to disagree don...
    BurningFist BurningFist 22-25, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I Don't Get It. I really don't get it at all. It's just too weird and confusing for me, the premise alone sounds like a rejected Saturday morning cartoon and the trollspeak and...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I notice myself gradually isolating myself from my family. I love them all, but I feel like a guest in my own home. The lack of everything from my wife has put a considerable dent...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Nobody understands what I go through on a daily bases and nobody really cares. Everybody wants to be heard. I see people online who seem to have the same problems I do. They want...
    bfsd150 bfsd150 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    Over-censorship and the defying of freedom of speech...might as well read the comments.
    ZADoubleMesser ZADoubleMesser 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why do people in America always say that people in the armed forces have died for my freedom and rights? What does them dying in war have to do with rights and freedom? Also why do...
    ThereIsNoName3 ThereIsNoName3 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Why can't most guys just love with there heart and not there ****... it bothers me so much like my boyfriend is amazing and love me with all his heart but there has been many...
    dezsredhead dezsredhead 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Guys are normally intimidated by my beauty and intellect. I hate it.
    gorgeouswit gorgeouswit 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've been going through a lot and things are looking up. nut it's like the littlest thing can take you back to square one. I've been out of work for about two months now and feel...