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I Don't Understand Men

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    Their sweet on one hand,

    Yet such a mean *** hole on the other!!!!!!!! (Not ALL men, but I have my go to hell list!!!)๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    I wish I could get in his head

    and truly know what he is thinking and feeling.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    Been seeing the same dude

    since August, and at the end of October, we made it clear we were 'exclusive'. Since then, I've seen things and felt things that have led me to believe he isn't being honest with me. On one of our dates in the middle of November, I saw him using Tinder (where we met). He wasn...
    MorticiaAddams MorticiaAddams 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2015

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    Men Are Like Bananas

    They are only ripe enough to be enjoyed for such a short amount of time. First, when they are bright and fresh, you can just take them as they are. They travel easily, get along well with others - see one banana and there's never one too far away, and they don't require too...
    serendipityg1rl serendipityg1rl 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    It's Uncanny.

    LADIESHave you ever noticed how.... If a guy thinks you have/had a crush on him, he continues to believe that you do, FOREVER?I run into a guy every so often, who knew I had a crush on him... 8 years ago. I swear, this guyย still thinks I have a thing for him. I'm like, "DUDE! I...
    Infinite9 Infinite9 66-70, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2011

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    I don't always understand women either,

    haha. I have a love or should I say like- hate relationship with men. Men are fun to hang around. Don't get me wrong, I've met a handful of respectfulI, nice men and I admit a lot of times I'd rather be in the company of men then woman. To me almost all men are just like...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F Mar 12, 2015

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    Sorry Can Not Answer As Blocked

    we are no different them many women there are god bad users and non users there are those that talk with you and those that talk at you the eord love and marrage no longer have a meaning in the world they are just terms used to get to what yopu want with manys so sorry you...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 29, 2011

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    My Odd Love Affair With Men

    I am not a traditional beauty, I am older, curvy (the amounts of curves have varied over time), black (well mostly chocolate), and attractive but I don't think I am drop dead gorgeous. Men have always behaved rather oddly around me and I have never quite figured out why. They...
    nevenera1 nevenera1 41-45, F 8 Responses Nov 7, 2010

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    ...but I Can!

    This article helped me: http://www.helium.com/items/1142686-understanding-how-men-think
    chuchupa chuchupa 18-21 Jan 17, 2009

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    Can Someone Please Help Me Understand

    Okay heres the thing: When you say I love a guy are they supposed to get mad? I didn't think caring too much was a bad thing. Am I wrong though? I have known him 5 years and recently told him I loved him and he completley blew up on me. I don't understand what I did to screw up...
    kthimm12 kthimm12 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2011

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    Perfect Date..then Poof!

    So I ask the perfectly suitable, nice guy in the band I've just joined to come to see Herb Albert and Lani Hall with me if he'd like to buy the extra ticket I have. He thinks about it a few days and does buy the ticket. All is plutonic and that's fine with me, although I think...
    strawberrystar strawberrystar 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    I Dont Really Understand Men ...

    I couldn't understand my last BF (my ex now), i give everything to him but he still leave me and keep me hanging. He knows how much i love him, he knows that i would rather choose him than any foreign guy chasing on me but still he keep avoiding me just because of his dreams. I...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2008

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    Why is it that men like the chase

    if a woman so much? Then when they land the woman and she would do anything for them they lose interest?
    Liberaldaisy Liberaldaisy 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    Why Does It Work This Way?

    So, there's a guy that I've been off and on with for about five years. When I say off and on I mean that we dated for a few months, have a history, and in between relationships have hooked up now and again. He's a great guy and can be really sweet and considerate, etc. However...
    pocketm pocketm 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2014

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    Is My Boyfriend Crazy??

    So... I started dating this guy i met like 10 months ago, he was super shy and quiet but i liked that, then we became boyfriend and grilfriend and he started opening up to me (he doesnt do this with anyone)ย  there are still some things he doesnt even mention like his father or...
    rataolvidada rataolvidada 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2011

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    I Can't Read Your Mind..!

    Sometimes I feel like men just expect us to know what they're thinking. Like they expect us to know what they want, and how they feel. Well, I don't know about you, but I am not superwoman! I have no idea what's going on in guys' heads. I get so many mixed messages and I'm not...
    sincerelymetes sincerelymetes 16-17, F Jan 20, 2013

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    So I met this guy for the first time on

    Wednesday after we have been texting and talking for two months... So we hung out and talked and it was nice.., so before parting ways he tells me that he is off all weekend and would love to take me out Friday(which is today) and pretty much all weekend. So I said sure and we...
    Mstruebeauty91 Mstruebeauty91 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2014

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    Men can't figure out Men

    so how are we supposed too understand Men?
    Jungle46 Jungle46 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    I Know What Freud Would Say

    Freud, were he still alive, would tell me that I don't understand men because I lived with my mother as a teenager and had almost all female friends.  Mind you, I think Freud was usually full of sh*t. However, I do think being surrounded by women had an impact on my ability...
    lepamplemousse lepamplemousse 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2009

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    I don't understand why guys just disappear

    after they make me feel like I'm significant to them. Is there something wrong with me? ๐Ÿ˜”
    zrylism zrylism 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2015

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    Can Someone Please Help Me Understand

    Okay heres the thing: When you say I love a guy are they supposed to get mad? I didn't think caring too much was a bad thing. Am I wrong though? I have known him 5 years and recently told him I loved him and he completley blew up on me. I don't understand what I did to screw up...
    kthimm12 kthimm12 18-21, F Mar 17, 2011

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    Why do men ignore women

    that don't give them what they want. Why do they have to be such jerks?
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I Am Never Looking For A Relationship Ever Again

    I swear to god I will never look for a relationship ever again... I think I have learnt lessons I never needed to learn... over and above what most people would tolerate. but I don't understand men at all ... I think they are all stupid... and have no idea what women want...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2011

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    i hate it when my husband snores!

    i want to push his a## off my bed! (just a thought. lol)
    Jeannie3636 Jeannie3636 41-45, F Nov 30, 2014

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    Idk

    i don't get why my husband has such a hard time understanding my feelings.  i know that he is able to gauge other women's emotions and needs (for example, his mom), but when it comes to me -- he just is insensitive.  even if i am brought to tears by him, he treats...
    personaje personaje 31-35 3 Responses Sep 6, 2009

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    Sometimes I wish there was a handbook of do's

    and don'ts in a relationship. It seems like everything is going great and then from out of the blue something minor happens but it puts a huge kink in the next few events. I feel I'm old enough I should catch these things before they happen, but I don't. You would also think...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15, 2015

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    Asking For Your Number...

    Why do men ask for your number and then not call?  I would rather they didn't ask because then I wouldn't get my hopes up!
    myfathersdaughter myfathersdaughter 22-25 3 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    I Don't Get Them Either

    Men  a confused bunch . They don't know what they want, when they want it and how important it is to them. I'm married but cannot, will not live with any man. I guess I'm very independant and strong willed. I've known of only one that I could reside with, he was my ONE AND...
    cristinalemoing cristinalemoing 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    People add me to their list, don't talk to me, and then delete me after a while. I don't know what the point of that is.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I write it again: I do not want a friend adden as father or grandfather. I do not want a friend 18-30 years. I do not want a friend! Have the men finally understood it ?! Thank you...
    Emy92 Emy92 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I like all sorts of things. I could put here. And you could decide you like me. Or hate me or whatever. I feel like I'm missing the point. When I was little I like a carnival...
    bubblegumgob bubblegumgob 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Courtney I now we have not known each other for that long but since we started talking about a week ago we become really close and we understood each other. You had some stressful...
    xxxMickeyMouse22xxx xxxMickeyMouse22xxx 22-25, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Deep Thoughts:- . No one is Ever Busy in His Life, its All About Priorities. . Love Doesn't Start in Morning And Doesn't End In Evening It Starts When You Don't Need it and it Ends...
    zainshah1 zainshah1 26-30, M 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Everyone is equal and has equal value. Anything about us that can't be sensed through seeing, touching, tasting, smelling, or hearing is imaginary, a story, and not real. Qualities...
    joahola98wj joahola98wj 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    I am a weird person. Everyone says that. Particularly because I make them laugh and smile with my weird analogies. But what I never tell anyone, is that I'm hurt a lot. I don't...
    AnonymousGK AnonymousGK 18-21, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    For more reasons than one i don't trust men. There is always that lie and that deceitful behavior of which my mind, body and soul can no longer absorb and so i try my best to stay...
    deejaygirl deejaygirl 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What to do. He says he loves me. He calls me beautiful. He doesn't kiss me anymore. I love you is followed by something he wants done. no intimacy. Not a bad guy, but not a great...
    lostinthewater lostinthewater 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    5am here on this paradise of an island. I'm supposed to be sleeping but N hasnt been sleeping well.. Keep waking up every hour or so. But anyway, not why i'm making this entry...
    bellabong bellabong 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love my mom, I really do but something has been bothering. Well, I talked to her recently and the topic went to about her being molested as well as a child by a family member of...
    XcookiexbakerXx XcookiexbakerXx 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Why do people just randomly ask you if you have "Kik" or "Skype"? Why not chat on here since we both CLEARLY have an Experience Project account? I certainly don't want to go...
    adhane05 adhane05 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    My stranger for a Mother has refused to pay my bills once again. I have a $2000 bill to pay. The only reason that I ran it up was because I was working, but my stranger for a...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I am 23 years old, and I recently moved downtown into a sublet until April. Up until last week, I lived at home with my family. My family lives outside the city and moved there 5...
    blackdove3746 blackdove3746 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago