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I Don't Understand The Games Some People Play

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 161 People

    Stay The F Out Of Our Lives!

    So....a little back ground..  My oldest son's father hasn't been in contact with him for either 4 or 5 years now...this Christmas...  So I get a call on my son's cell phone the other night and it's from his half sister who had found him on facebook....and she is calling...
    tks tks 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 22, 2009

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    I Don't Do Games

    I am just myself... I don't play hide-and-seek with who I am. In romantic relationship it seems everyone plays mind games... try make their partner jealous... we're told we shouldn't call a guy first, not be too nice or too keen, do this, don't do that.... And I'm left wondering...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2011

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    Ack!!!

    I have a stalker now... :-( I love my hair salon, as my hair-dresser is cool! But she has a friend who has a major crush on me. He's such a BOY. :-/ Anyhoo, I've made it clear that I wasn't interested... maybe not clear enough, because I didn't come right out and say, "...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    Mind Games.

    I don't understand mind games at all. I've had people try it on me & it never makes sense. I don't understand why people would want to waste their time on things like this. I know it arises from people having low self-esteem, feeling inadequate, & just plain hating themselves...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F Apr 5, 2010

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    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Dec 23, 2009

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    NATIVEGODDESS2U NATIVEGODDESS2U 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 3 days ago

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    I just don't understand why he keeps coming back and I allow him to. I can tell him anything, even that i have a crush on someone else, and he'll tell me that he sees me as his...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    countryboyhyde countryboyhyde 18-21, M Oct 11

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    Some things I do, some things I don't. Things like pondering a text that says, "You're definitely growing on me." I guess I just need to take it easy and relax.
    Marbo12 Marbo12 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    sockfeet sockfeet 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    some elder men sent me bad messages.so now i don't read any message in my inbox from strangers.i don't know why the hell they message me like that.i ask a question "why elder men...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 27

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    Like wtf? I don't get it...
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    Some people block too much. WA-A-A-Y-Y too much. I think the block exists to protect us from creeps and the worst kind of trolls. I happily use it on them. Plus anyone I find out...
    talkinaftermidnight talkinaftermidnight 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    FierrrrceNadia FierrrrceNadia 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    Rutterman Rutterman 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F Oct 1

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    When people find out I believe in God, they automatically assume I'm a Christian. I spoke to a person, who I assume is an Atheist, and they tried to prove how God can't exist or is...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    ConfusedWifeNJ ConfusedWifeNJ 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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    xsignorinax is fake, she's been catfished, I'm so sick of fake people. if you google zoella you will find the picture she's has for her profile pic.
    animallover39 animallover39 13-15, F Sep 29

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    Why do people value syntax over semantics?
    rsgalindo01 rsgalindo01 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 6

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    TtotheD TtotheD 56-60, M Oct 13

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    KellyDiane77 KellyDiane77 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    Sometimes it's hard to tell if someone is fake until you finally catch them >.> who else dealt with fake people? Oh and the places where you find most fakes people and friends are...
    Fetish4life Fetish4life 18-21, T 1 Response Sep 28

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    I guess it's because she was young. Pretty. Influenced older men, who ran the world at the time. She also spans the divide between '50's buttoned down conservatism and '60's teen...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Oct 2

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    jmontoya50913 jmontoya50913 18-21, M Oct 13

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    Yeah.. Especially when people bring up the time i was a frikkin drama queen when i was 7 to 10 years old... But i'm very very glad that i've changed to a better person, so that is...
    eph01 eph01 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    I apparently cannot write about my past. When I was a child I was a slave used in sexual ways. If I try to write about it they delete it.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Sep 28

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