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I Don't Understand The Games Some People Play

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    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Dec 23, 2009

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    I Don't Do Games

    I am just myself... I don't play hide-and-seek with who I am. In romantic relationship it seems everyone plays mind games... try make their partner jealous... we're told we shouldn't call a guy first, not be too nice or too keen, do this, don't do that.... And I'm left wondering...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2011

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    Stay The F Out Of Our Lives!

    So....a little back ground..  My oldest son's father hasn't been in contact with him for either 4 or 5 years now...this Christmas...  So I get a call on my son's cell phone the other night and it's from his half sister who had found him on facebook....and she is calling...
    tks tks 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 22, 2009

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    Ack!!!

    I have a stalker now... :-( I love my hair salon, as my hair-dresser is cool! But she has a friend who has a major crush on me. He's such a BOY. :-/ Anyhoo, I've made it clear that I wasn't interested... maybe not clear enough, because I didn't come right out and say, "...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    Mind Games.

    I don't understand mind games at all. I've had people try it on me & it never makes sense. I don't understand why people would want to waste their time on things like this. I know it arises from people having low self-esteem, feeling inadequate, & just plain hating themselves...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F Apr 5, 2010

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