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I Don't Understand Those That Have a Mean Spirit

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    And I Dont Mean Just On Here

    I dont understand the pleasure people get out of being mean, evil or whatever you want to call it. I understand in the heat of the moment it can happen, we all say bad things, but to constantly live like that must be hard!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 26, 2008

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    My impression of this site since discovering it is that most of us use it as "a support group", private theraphy, or to confim we are not alone. I feel and have received wonderful insites from many who have taken the time to read of my disfunctional life. lol  We...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2008

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    I Don't Understand

    I don't understand,Mean spirited people,How can they,Be so mean?It's so inhuman,Unkind,I don't know,How they stoop so low!
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Apr 6, 2012

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    And They Won't Go Away!

    I don't get some people. I don't understand when they are mean or when the won't go away, after they've hurt someone. Come on, even criminals flee the scene of a crime! These people will stay there and just stare at you next... before they get their second wind and continue with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29, 2008

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