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I Don't Understand When Family Members Do Things To Hurt You

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    The Last Time It Happened.

    I have mentioned before that I had an abusive brother. Well, the last time I talked to him my husband and I were looking at being homeless (Which we were for almost a whole year) I called him and was telling him the whole story. We had moved to Vegas and no matter what we were...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F Nov 23, 2012

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    Family Drama

    Family drama and family jealousy.............I have a few family members that for some odd reason have to call people that will hurt me. I don't understand why they would do that. I would do what I could to protect them.I have learned to stay away from them and I will hide when I...
    1petitegreeneyes 1petitegreeneyes 46-50, F 7 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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