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I Don't Understand When Family Members Do Things To Hurt You

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    The Last Time It Happened.

    I have mentioned before that I had an abusive brother. Well, the last time I talked to him my husband and I were looking at being homeless (Which we were for almost a whole year) I called him and was telling him the whole story. We had moved to Vegas and no matter what we were...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F Nov 23, 2012

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    Family Drama

    Family drama and family jealousy.............I have a few family members that for some odd reason have to call people that will hurt me. I don't understand why they would do that. I would do what I could to protect them.I have learned to stay away from them and I will hide when I...
    1petitegreeneyes 1petitegreeneyes 46-50, F 7 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    I really, REALLY don't! Sure we all have our problems and struggles. I would think people would want to be better instead of horrible to others considering what they've been...
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I don't understand how people can say they love someone and cheat on them. I mean I read so many stories about these OW and their MM and how upset they are in their relationships...
    Willowtree78 Willowtree78 36-40, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    There are many things I don't understand. I red some experiences on here and it made me sit down and think. To start to write again and just to get to think generally, about...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I don't always understand women either, haha. I have a love or should I say like- hate relationship with men. Men are fun to hang around. Don't get me wrong, I've met a handful...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F Mar 12

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    I really can't understand religion. As a person who wants to understand everything and wants to understand why other people think and act the way they do, I have done a fair bit...
    pixieowl pixieowl 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I don't understand how you can be hurt by someone so bad, have made it known. Yet they continue to live their lives on as normal like you never existed. No conscience, no apology.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Mar 12

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    I don't understand how someone being happy and loving someone hurts them so much
    shannonsjourney shannonsjourney 18-21, F Mar 18

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    Why do people pick and choose who they can "judge"? I really can't stand some people that think that it's okay to judge a rapist, a theif etc but when it comes to other issues like...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My boss at work (only 28 I'm 26) made it obvious he fancied me, and I liked him very much too. He flirted relentlessly with me for months then it became too awkward that I...
    bervie89 bervie89 22-25, F Mar 8

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    A couple weeks ago I approached her on the topic of sexuality and she told me it was okay to think girls are beautiful but not engage with them sexually. Basically: any kind of...
    MyNameMeansLight MyNameMeansLight 16-17, F Mar 1

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    I don't understand why anyone would want more than one pic of me. I can understand asking for a more clear pic because this one is cut off and kinda discreet on purpose because I'm...
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 16

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    Some people I just don't understand whatsoever. Sounds like everyone on this plant.
    trismason trismason 13-15, F Mar 3

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    Is That All There Is To You? I have to wonder. The people who post only and wholly about s*x and the size of their bits, is that the sum total of who you are? Does nothing else...
    abrokenlittlegirl abrokenlittlegirl 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I don't understand dudes on EP. More than most suddenly have this confidence they don't have in their real lives. Trying to hit on women on this site in the public comments are SO...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M Mar 19

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    I don't understand this girl shows me her thong while going up the stairs. Some times it's accidental but for the past week this girl has been waiting for me to start going...
    Hereforlols Hereforlols 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Why? Why do I still love this girl after I told her to **** off and to never talk to me again in such burning rage? Why, after all the pain she's put me through, why do I still...
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Hahah no I don't. I always overanalyse and overreact and make a drama out of the smallest things and I don't know why the hell I do that. It's just dumb ??
    ifyoureabirdimabird ifyoureabirdimabird 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    So I'm going to come off as spoiled kid but I don't care because I need to know if what happened was normal. My day started normal as usual and I had no troubles at all except for...
    A20s A20s 22-25, F 8 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I think there is a cycle of judgement. Those that fear judgement are judgemental themselves. Lately I've come to accept the term judgemental. I honestly don't feel that I am I...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Mar 19

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    aaaaargh!!! roller coaster of emotions again. probably my 'daddy issues' rearing their ugly heads. long story short: I'm happy being alone. i love being single. And Yes, I'd...
    peepsqueek peepsqueek 31-35, F Mar 8

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    Some people on here are really messed up. i just don't know what to say. HOw can anyone justify cheating? And how can anyone justify being a pervert? Amoungst other things. I just...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    my life s just.... haha I never had anything good ever... I have worst night mares... lively in childhood never had good friends. .. I became fat ppl started to ignore me. .. then...
    kirti92 kirti92 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Seriously, why is it so bad to be clean? If you have a job interview, they won't hire you because of bad hygiene. If you don't take care of yourself properly you will have problems...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F Mar 13

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    I don't get why sometimes when I ask a question, people will message me with an answer instead of posting it as a comment.. Do you not want others to know about your knowledge...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F Mar 13

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    Sometimes I get really sad and suicidal out of no where, like now. I'm just feeling so down and I don't know why. -.- I really don't know what's wrong with me. I can be happy one...
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Some people just want to control others, even those they will never meet.. I've just been hearing how this friend of my mom is so hateful towards religious people and religion in...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    What is the god damn point. You won't get anywhere pretending to be something you are not. I'd rather have an average looking person talking to me and be happy knowing that's...
    nainaii nainaii 18-21, F Mar 3

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    Wtf my my managers are outside my house and they called me telling me to get ready cause we're getting ******* tonight lol like noooo lol and they're 2 dudes I don't want to be the...
    IsMyStory IsMyStory 16-17, F Mar 14

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    My roommate today told me she sees me as a happy person with my life all together. I was shocked for a few seconds wondering how anyone could see that in me. Does she not notice...
    DarknessWolf DarknessWolf 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    I never understood some peoples hatred of the "friend zone". Not everyone is going to want to be with you, and having friends is great. ._. Maybe it's because I barely have any...
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I don't know why I only have like 4-6 friends on EP and why hardly anyone every comment on ANY of my posts. If you're not a woman on here it's like no one cares.
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Like half of the comments are stupid.. Half. I need to learn to just not look at them. It's usually a waste of time, and there are always those next-level stupid comments that...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Why do people want to hurt another being. Wether it be murder or just not caring about other people's feelings. I just think if we were positive and caring, this would be a better...
    Spartanrunner66 Spartanrunner66 46-50, M 6 hrs ago

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    First off i'm married... my husband loves me.. I love him but i'm really really bored.. and have been unhappy for quite sometime I've had a couple of affairs in the past but...
    iheartny28 iheartny28 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    It is funny..life..people..trust..happiness..sadness..the moment I think I understand I find myself in the next moment utterly lost...trust is earned not given..happiness is...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    My wife says she flirts with ppl to get them to like her. Why that makes no sense. She says she has nothing to hide and wants her privacy but she hides everything. PlZ help me...
    Dotcom2 Dotcom2 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    And a lot of the women too.You talk for weeks,Then they are gone.I'm only on an hour a day,i may be ready to leave ,what is the point in making friendships that won't last
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 17 Responses Mar 8

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    It's not fixing anything. You still have 50 year old pedophiles hitting on 13 year old girls. This censoring thing isn't helping the site at all. Like, why are you censoring all of...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M Mar 8

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    Okay, this sexuality **** doesn't even phase me anymore. You're a lesbian? Cool, hmu! You're ace, sweet! You're pan? Cool beans. The other day I literally forgot. between...
    monochromaticscale monochromaticscale 13-15, F Mar 17

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