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I Dont Understand Why Im Not Happy

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    Recently - I cannot say that I am sad, depressed, or any of that. I can say that sometimes, but not right now. Right now, I am just...fine. I am not happy. I am nervous, excited at...
    Doglover5290 Doglover5290 18-21, F Jul 16, 2009

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    Well, I Do, But... - I know the reason I'm not happy is because I cannot forgive myself for my past mistakes. What I don't understand is why I can't forgive myself. "It's all in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 16, 2011

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    I Can't Understand - I can't understand,Why I'm so sad,Everything,It seems,Goin' my way,I don't understand,Is somethin' missing,Or, am I,Missing the point?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Mar 20, 2012

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    Souless - Well I havnt written anything in about 3 years but i finally have reached a point of insanity which noone i know can understand or be made aware. Where do I start this...
    username13 username13 22-25, M Jun 4, 2013

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    .,.nj - So when your not happy, you tend to think and think about it, trying desperatly to understand why, or what may be stopping you from being happy...well this is atleast true...
    username13 username13 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 22, 2009

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    Not Happy With The Way Things Have Turned Out - Its really hard to put into words how I feel, but I just know I am not happy with myself and haven't been for a long time. Now a...
    LollyMarv LollyMarv 18-21 1 Response May 11, 2012

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    Same Thing Every Day.. - I get soo angry and sad I sometimes take it out on my mom.. When she asks whats wrong I have nothing to tell her. So she takes it in my way of trying to...
    summershine99 summershine99 13-15, F Apr 19, 2013

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    Sad/Confusion - I have a very supportive family, two best friends, a bright future etc. . . but i just feel empty and numb! I dont understand it! It's in my nature to analyse...
    lostbutsearching lostbutsearching 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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