I Dont Understand Why Men Feel the Need to

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    Act Like Jerks To Get A Girl

    Not quite sure why younger guys (and maybe older ones too) think that to get a girls attention they need to act cool and like they don't care and aren't interested... Or worse yet think that bragging about other girls makes us want them more... I liked a guy a ton at college and...
    KeeleyKool KeeleyKool
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 5, 2012

    It Bothers Me...

    Perhaps it's just boys. But so many of them seem to feel like they have to hide their emotions to be 'cool', or that they have to play into stereotypes. I suppose it's the same with females in some respects. But so many guys don't say what they mean just because they think it...
    esclave esclave
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2008

    Dominate Women They Love

    Why do some men have to do this and feel it is natural?  Why do they believe all women are naturally submissive?  Why do they only want woman they can boss around, control, and dominate, and insist they are the boss and get to make all the decisions?  I also don't understand...
    bluelady1021 bluelady1021
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Apr 26, 2012

    Conquestador :p

    Brag about how many "chicks" they can get in the sack.... Lie(and they get so good at it!) Want to see their wife with other people(you know who are , you certain EPer's) Make comments about girls that walk by Make NOISES at girls( yes, we love it..not)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Nov 18, 2009

    Im a Guy But I Still Dont Understand How Some Can Get a Girl Pregnant Then Not Be There For Their Own Baby

    I was almost 14 when my first baby was born and I wasnt  there at first because  my grandparents wasnt the best poeple to have around  a baby.I was scared if I let them around her she would get hurt and I lived with them but once she was 1 year old  she lived...
    littleboyblue16 littleboyblue16
    18-21, M
    9 Responses Aug 6, 2009

    Men Convos

    why do men call each other nothing but "mate" and "buddy" on the phone? ive never heard them actually call them by their real names...it baffles me..
    xxxsmurfiiexxx xxxsmurfiiexxx
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Aug 7, 2009

    Say Everything

    Why must they speak without thinking? Contrary to what they may believe, not everything in their brain is worth vocalizing. Dear Men Everywhere: Use a filter. Lots of hurt feelings can be avoided by following this simple advice.
    BookNerd BookNerd
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Jan 12, 2008

    Ahhh...

    The list is endless...lol
    BrooklynGirl BrooklynGirl
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2009

    This Boggles Me

    I don't understand why they have to sniff their fingers after they fondle themselves
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Jan 11, 2008

    Why Do Men Get So Excited Looking At Womans Underwear?

    I don't know why men get so excited at even a fleeting glimpse of woman's underwear. I have had numerous times when men will try and get a look at my underwear....(I admit sometimes I've helped them, but that's in my other stories). If I wear a bikini swimsuit,  they...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    82 Responses May 7, 2008

    I Hate You When You Do This

    i'm sorry i havent submited a story for a couple of days. can someone please answer me this, why the **** do men look at everything that shows abit of ****** leg? my partner knows how insecure i am, he knows i've been away to find out about a boob job thats how bad i feel about...
    ashbash23 ashbash23
    22-25, F
    31 Responses Jan 10, 2008

    That Answer Is Very Simple

    IT IS CALLED LACK OF RESPECT if you love some one you treatthem with respect i am sorry if you do not love what be with them unless you are using them as a bed warm then leave
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Jan 13, 2012

    I'll Tell You Why!

    Being a male with a rather large and prominate "package" I can tell you that sitting for long periods like airplane flights or in classrooms causes my meat and potatoes to get bound up from time to time.  When I stand up gravity should unravel everything but it...
    hairygoateeguy hairygoateeguy
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Apr 22, 2008

    I Don't Understand Why Men Feel the Need To....

    ......rearrange their, um, "boy parts" all the time.....
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter
    26-30, F
    104 Responses Jan 11, 2008

    I Think I Understand The Readjusting.

    I believe that readjusting is due to the "external" appendage vs growth and shrinkage. Just imagine, women, how uncomfortable we are when we have to wear a pad. Imagine Your clitoris hanging out and being shoved in between hot skin and tight clothing. I personally don't...
    ClownieFreak ClownieFreak
    26-30, F
    5 Responses May 26, 2011

    Amy

    My sister,friends daughter and i used to work as security officers at the Minnespolis /St.Paul Airport , it was my friends daughter Amy's first job and she wasn't know for  not telling you what she thought( a good thing in many ways) . We were screening a flight with about 4...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jul 25, 2009

    What Is So Exciting About Two Women Kissing?

    i know guys like watching women fight, wrestle , but kissing?  what the heck???
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

    Potty Business

    This is probably a dumb thought, but I don't understand why guys don't wipe themselves after they pee...
    paperalias paperalias
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 10, 2008

    Never Understood It

    I've seen it for years, in more situations than I care to remember. Doesn't matter if its on a sports field or the boardroom. Maybe it's an unconcious things. Then again maybe it's not. It's been disgusting to me. Although sometimes my dirty little mind wonders how is that...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Oct 31, 2008

    Make Excuses

    Girls, you know what I'm talking about.. all those lame excuses about why they haven't called you, or why they didn't text you, why they can't see you, etc etc. what i wonder is: why tell me you're going to do these things to begin with if you have ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTION of...
    greeeneyes greeeneyes
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 24, 2008

    Most men I know are great guys.

    My best friend was a guy. So, you nice guys, please just cover your eyes. Xx Men who troll around looking for lesbians to target..thinking they'll get kinky or hating those of us who supposedly steal your ladies and turn them into lipstick lesbians...need to get a grip on...
    Incommunicado1 Incommunicado1
    51-55, F
    2 Responses May 16, 2014

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