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I Dont Understand Why Men Feel the Need to

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    Dominate Women They Love

    Why do some men have to do this and feel it is natural?  Why do they believe all women are naturally submissive?  Why do they only want woman they can boss around, control, and dominate, and insist they are the boss and get to make all the decisions?  I also don't understand...
    bluelady1021 bluelady1021 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Act Like Jerks To Get A Girl

    Not quite sure why younger guys (and maybe older ones too) think that to get a girls attention they need to act cool and like they don't care and aren't interested... Or worse yet think that bragging about other girls makes us want them more... I liked a guy a ton at college and...
    KeeleyKool KeeleyKool 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 5, 2012

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    I Think I Understand The Readjusting.

    I believe that readjusting is due to the "external" appendage vs growth and shrinkage. Just imagine, women, how uncomfortable we are when we have to wear a pad. Imagine Your clitoris hanging out and being shoved in between hot skin and tight clothing. I personally don't...
    ClownieFreak ClownieFreak 26-30, F 5 Responses May 26, 2011

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    Say Everything

    Why must they speak without thinking? Contrary to what they may believe, not everything in their brain is worth vocalizing. Dear Men Everywhere: Use a filter. Lots of hurt feelings can be avoided by following this simple advice.
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    I Hate You When You Do This

    i'm sorry i havent submited a story for a couple of days. can someone please answer me this, why the **** do men look at everything that shows abit of ****** leg? my partner knows how insecure i am, he knows i've been away to find out about a boob job thats how bad i feel about...
    ashbash23 ashbash23 18-21, F 32 Responses Jan 10, 2008

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    I Don't Understand Why Men Feel the Need To....

    ......rearrange their, um, "boy parts" all the time.....
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 105 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Ahhh...

    The list is endless...lol
    BrooklynGirl BrooklynGirl 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    Conquestador :p

    Brag about how many "chicks" they can get in the sack.... Lie(and they get so good at it!) Want to see their wife with other people(you know who are , you certain EPer's) Make comments about girls that walk by Make NOISES at girls( yes, we love it..not)
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    I'll Tell You Why!

    Being a male with a rather large and prominate "package" I can tell you that sitting for long periods like airplane flights or in classrooms causes my meat and potatoes to get bound up from time to time.  When I stand up gravity should unravel everything but it...
    hairygoateeguy hairygoateeguy 22-25, M 6 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    It Bothers Me...

    Perhaps it's just boys. But so many of them seem to feel like they have to hide their emotions to be 'cool', or that they have to play into stereotypes. I suppose it's the same with females in some respects. But so many guys don't say what they mean just because they think it...
    esclave esclave 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Make Excuses

    Girls, you know what I'm talking about.. all those lame excuses about why they haven't called you, or why they didn't text you, why they can't see you, etc etc. what i wonder is: why tell me you're going to do these things to begin with if you have ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTION of...
    greeeneyes greeeneyes 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 24, 2008

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    What Is So Exciting About Two Women Kissing?

    i know guys like watching women fight, wrestle , but kissing?  what the heck???
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    That Answer Is Very Simple

    IT IS CALLED LACK OF RESPECT if you love some one you treatthem with respect i am sorry if you do not love what be with them unless you are using them as a bed warm then leave
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jan 13, 2012

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    Men Convos

    why do men call each other nothing but "mate" and "buddy" on the phone? ive never heard them actually call them by their real names...it baffles me..
    xxxsmurfiiexxx xxxsmurfiiexxx 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    This Boggles Me

    I don't understand why they have to sniff their fingers after they fondle themselves
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Most men I know are great guys.

    My best friend was a guy. So, you nice guys, please just cover your eyes. Xx Men who troll around looking for lesbians to target..thinking they'll get kinky or hating those of us who supposedly steal your ladies and turn them into lipstick lesbians...need to get a grip on...
    Incommunicado1 Incommunicado1 51-55, F 2 Responses May 16, 2014

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    Potty Business

    This is probably a dumb thought, but I don't understand why guys don't wipe themselves after they pee...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 10, 2008

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    Amy

    My sister,friends daughter and i used to work as security officers at the Minnespolis /St.Paul Airport , it was my friends daughter Amy's first job and she wasn't know for  not telling you what she thought( a good thing in many ways) . We were screening a flight with about 4...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    Why Do Men Get So Excited Looking At Womans Underwear?

    I don't know why men get so excited at even a fleeting glimpse of woman's underwear. I have had numerous times when men will try and get a look at my underwear....(I admit sometimes I've helped them, but that's in my other stories). If I wear a bikini swimsuit,  they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 88 Responses May 7, 2008

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    Im a Guy But I Still Dont Understand How Some Can Get a Girl Pregnant Then Not Be There For Their Own Baby

    I was almost 14 when my first baby was born and I wasnt  there at first because  my grandparents wasnt the best poeple to have around  a baby.I was scared if I let them around her she would get hurt and I lived with them but once she was 1 year old  she lived...
    littleboyblue16 littleboyblue16 18-21, M 9 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Never Understood It

    I've seen it for years, in more situations than I care to remember. Doesn't matter if its on a sports field or the boardroom. Maybe it's an unconcious things. Then again maybe it's not. It's been disgusting to me. Although sometimes my dirty little mind wonders how is that...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2008

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    FindingThingsOut FindingThingsOut 26-30, F 7 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I need advice; guy dropped bombshell after over a year of hunting me constantly that he was only trying to have sex with me. Would a guy really pursue a girl and tell her he loves...
    mermaids312 mermaids312 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't understand why at 16 I should be worried about were I'm going to live, how in going to get to school, and how to pay the bills. I shouldn't be worried about being homeless...
    ClassyGirl099 ClassyGirl099 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't understand why the things are really happening to me only.. Eventually I can't understand and obviously it makes me feel confused.
    Deepikha Deepikha 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    .....even tho I know it is just a waste of time
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Here is my story... It's kind of a long one so I apologize in advance. I met my ex when I was 18, had just gotten out of my first serious relationship. We were friends for four...
    pollyphonetic pollyphonetic 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am usually a person who always wants to understand why things happen and until I understand I feel bad. And even sometimes after. I keep feeling like I can't handle when I make...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I see kids at school every day picking on other kids and being mean to them. Sometimes I just want to march right up to them and ask them what gives them the right to be so mean to...
    ericawalker ericawalker 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't understand why we're all so unhappy. I'm 18 I shouldn't be stressed with life. 13 years olds shouldn't be wanting to tear their heart out over a break up. We have so much...
    Abcdefghijessy Abcdefghijessy 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Well.. I ran into a old friend I haven't seen since college. He seems to be doing fine and recently started a new job. We couldn't talk long but we exchanged details to stay in...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't understand why I can't let go of the unnecessary people in my life and move on alone. I don't need the disrespect or the humiliation of a secret relationship and be blamed...
    WendyYang WendyYang 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I have been bestfriends with the guy I have liked since the end of my freshman year, I was so head over heals for him and then he started to distance himself every other month he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend of 4 years has always been a sweet talker and a flirt. He has done a lot to make our relationship possible. At times, I feel like a princess. But there is always that...
    JennyMitchell JennyMitchell 36-40 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hello? I dont know yet how this works hopefullly someone would read this. I just need some people that I could talk to. I hope I hear from anyone of you guys soon! I wanna forget...
    timetravellers99 timetravellers99 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    look at this idiot
    ExtremeNext ExtremeNext 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Seriously. Maybe my eyes? But seriously I'm whiter than sour cream and I've nothing about me that's Asian at all but I still have people randomly asking me what part of Japan my...
    NerdModeActivate NerdModeActivate 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So sometimes love means letting go. I have let go of you did you think I wanted to no absolutely not. I see what happened between us very confusing, we both hurt eachother and we...
    Bestisyettocome344 Bestisyettocome344 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I saw it recently and I thought it was pretty solid. honestly, the biggest worthwhile complaint I could fathom was that most of it doesn't actually take place in the Matrix...
    FluttershyLabeouf FluttershyLabeouf 18-21, M Aug 24

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    I'm not really looking for advice. I just really really need to vent. I can't talk to anyone I know. That's just not the kind of person I am. Every Time this specific person in...
    DeIuxedEdition DeIuxedEdition 18-21, F 19 Responses Aug 24

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    my wife is open to the idea but not sure how to go about it!!
    NRCOUPLE NRCOUPLE 36-40, M 6 Responses Aug 24

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    I am in a Zero-Romance relationship.. I dont even understand why i continue to love this guy.. I dont feel needed.. i miss the feeling of being adored
    Peanuter Peanuter 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Uncomfortable silence, that follows her saying, “You still love her.” She wonders whose arms he would run to, if hers were still an option. He laughs, “you’re being...
    chronicfiend chronicfiend 22-25, F Aug 23

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