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I Dont Understand Why Men Feel the Need to

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    Never Understood It

    I've seen it for years, in more situations than I care to remember. Doesn't matter if its on a sports field or the boardroom. Maybe it's an unconcious things. Then again maybe it's not. It's been disgusting to me. Although sometimes my dirty little mind wonders how is that...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2008

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    I Don't Understand Why Men Feel the Need To....

    ......rearrange their, um, "boy parts" all the time.....
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 105 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Im a Guy But I Still Dont Understand How Some Can Get a Girl Pregnant Then Not Be There For Their Own Baby

    I was almost 14 when my first baby was born and I wasnt  there at first because  my grandparents wasnt the best poeple to have around  a baby.I was scared if I let them around her she would get hurt and I lived with them but once she was 1 year old  she lived...
    littleboyblue16 littleboyblue16 18-21, M 9 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Men Convos

    why do men call each other nothing but "mate" and "buddy" on the phone? ive never heard them actually call them by their real names...it baffles me..
    xxxsmurfiiexxx xxxsmurfiiexxx 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    Say Everything

    Why must they speak without thinking? Contrary to what they may believe, not everything in their brain is worth vocalizing. Dear Men Everywhere: Use a filter. Lots of hurt feelings can be avoided by following this simple advice.
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    Make Excuses

    Girls, you know what I'm talking about.. all those lame excuses about why they haven't called you, or why they didn't text you, why they can't see you, etc etc. what i wonder is: why tell me you're going to do these things to begin with if you have ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTION of...
    greeeneyes greeeneyes 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 24, 2008

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    This Boggles Me

    I don't understand why they have to sniff their fingers after they fondle themselves
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    That Answer Is Very Simple

    IT IS CALLED LACK OF RESPECT if you love some one you treatthem with respect i am sorry if you do not love what be with them unless you are using them as a bed warm then leave
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jan 13, 2012

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    Act Like Jerks To Get A Girl

    Not quite sure why younger guys (and maybe older ones too) think that to get a girls attention they need to act cool and like they don't care and aren't interested... Or worse yet think that bragging about other girls makes us want them more... I liked a guy a ton at college and...
    KeeleyKool KeeleyKool 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 5, 2012

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    Conquestador :p

    Brag about how many "chicks" they can get in the sack.... Lie(and they get so good at it!) Want to see their wife with other people(you know who are , you certain EPer's) Make comments about girls that walk by Make NOISES at girls( yes, we love it..not)
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    I'll Tell You Why!

    Being a male with a rather large and prominate "package" I can tell you that sitting for long periods like airplane flights or in classrooms causes my meat and potatoes to get bound up from time to time.  When I stand up gravity should unravel everything but it...
    hairygoateeguy hairygoateeguy 22-25, M 6 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    Amy

    My sister,friends daughter and i used to work as security officers at the Minnespolis /St.Paul Airport , it was my friends daughter Amy's first job and she wasn't know for  not telling you what she thought( a good thing in many ways) . We were screening a flight with about 4...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    I Think I Understand The Readjusting.

    I believe that readjusting is due to the "external" appendage vs growth and shrinkage. Just imagine, women, how uncomfortable we are when we have to wear a pad. Imagine Your clitoris hanging out and being shoved in between hot skin and tight clothing. I personally don't...
    ClownieFreak ClownieFreak 26-30, F 5 Responses May 26, 2011

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    Ahhh...

    The list is endless...lol
    BrooklynGirl BrooklynGirl 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    It Bothers Me...

    Perhaps it's just boys. But so many of them seem to feel like they have to hide their emotions to be 'cool', or that they have to play into stereotypes. I suppose it's the same with females in some respects. But so many guys don't say what they mean just because they think it...
    esclave esclave 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Why Do Men Get So Excited Looking At Womans Underwear?

    I don't know why men get so excited at even a fleeting glimpse of woman's underwear. I have had numerous times when men will try and get a look at my underwear....(I admit sometimes I've helped them, but that's in my other stories). If I wear a bikini swimsuit,  they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 86 Responses May 7, 2008

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    What Is So Exciting About Two Women Kissing?

    i know guys like watching women fight, wrestle , but kissing?  what the heck???
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Most men I know are great guys.

    My best friend was a guy. So, you nice guys, please just cover your eyes. Xx Men who troll around looking for lesbians to target..thinking they'll get kinky or hating those of us who supposedly steal your ladies and turn them into lipstick lesbians...need to get a grip on...
    Incommunicado1 Incommunicado1 51-55, F 2 Responses May 16, 2014

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    I Hate You When You Do This

    i'm sorry i havent submited a story for a couple of days. can someone please answer me this, why the **** do men look at everything that shows abit of ****** leg? my partner knows how insecure i am, he knows i've been away to find out about a boob job thats how bad i feel about...
    ashbash23 ashbash23 18-21, F 32 Responses Jan 10, 2008

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    Potty Business

    This is probably a dumb thought, but I don't understand why guys don't wipe themselves after they pee...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 10, 2008

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    Dominate Women They Love

    Why do some men have to do this and feel it is natural?  Why do they believe all women are naturally submissive?  Why do they only want woman they can boss around, control, and dominate, and insist they are the boss and get to make all the decisions?  I also don't understand...
    bluelady1021 bluelady1021 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Why can't this be 'I WANT TO FEEL NEEDED' I find wanna so irritating .. It could be my OCD 😖😕
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    Life always has to change. For me, it's always for the worse. I really thought things would stay the same growing up, I honestly did. I mean, I knew some things would change like...
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    my life s just.... haha I never had anything good ever... I have worst night mares... lively in childhood never had good friends. .. I became fat ppl started to ignore me. .. then...
    kirti92 kirti92 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    So I'm going to come off as spoiled kid but I don't care because I need to know if what happened was normal. My day started normal as usual and I had no troubles at all except for...
    A20s A20s 22-25, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Why am I this awesome person that tends to be alone, or get the ****** end of the stick all the Damn time! Why am I so nice, maybe because I thought that's what we needed in the...
    Bryona Bryona 18-21, F Mar 15

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    You act like you care so much when you don't. I don't know why you put on this front like you actually care about me or mynlife, when, probably years ago you stopped. This is...
    EarthyLocks EarthyLocks 22-25, F Mar 16

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    I really, REALLY don't! Sure we all have our problems and struggles. I would think people would want to be better instead of horrible to others considering what they've been...
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was just having a good day until he decides to hml like boyy u have a whole gf stop texting me telling me how u miss me. And when the next time I see his girl ima tell her that...
    HerTrapQueen HerTrapQueen 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Some people just want to control others, even those they will never meet.. I've just been hearing how this friend of my mom is so hateful towards religious people and religion in...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Why we see facts. But never improve life in america. http://youtu.be/CM2PRONIiMU
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    I don't understand this girl shows me her thong while going up the stairs. Some times it's accidental but for the past week this girl has been waiting for me to start going...
    Hereforlols Hereforlols 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Why do we hurt the ones that love us the most? But love the ones who hurt us?
    unknown413 unknown413 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I seriously don't understand these people, waste of oxygen
    Gayooshit16 Gayooshit16 16-17, F Mar 22

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    Really, why? Don't you know the quiet ones are the worst kind?
    Stickwithmebaby Stickwithmebaby 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Why am I always the one traded in for somebody else...? Every time... I wish I could say even the people who used to touch me once traded me in for somebody else... But that would...
    iamFrightened iamFrightened 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I hate posting anything because all I get are men non-stop! It's crazy! You can see my profile look at it before contacting me!
    xfunxgirlx xfunxgirlx 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 7

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    You know what passes me off? In schools and other places they always have WOMENS abuse hotlines. and seminars on WOMENS rights. and lectures on how WOMEN are objectified in the...
    tylerlh tylerlh 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    This is an actual experience. When I was in carpool in 6th Grade there was this girl that would always abuse the boys, I mean hitting, yelling, correcting, and just treating us...
    RyanFiletMignon RyanFiletMignon 13-15, M Mar 4