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I Dont Understand Why Men Feel the Need to

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    I Think I Understand The Readjusting.

    I believe that readjusting is due to the "external" appendage vs growth and shrinkage. Just imagine, women, how uncomfortable we are when we have to wear a pad. Imagine Your clitoris hanging out and being shoved in between hot skin and tight clothing. I personally don't...
    ClownieFreak ClownieFreak 26-30, F 5 Responses May 26, 2011

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    Im a Guy But I Still Dont Understand How Some Can Get a Girl Pregnant Then Not Be There For Their Own Baby

    I was almost 14 when my first baby was born and I wasnt  there at first because  my grandparents wasnt the best poeple to have around  a baby.I was scared if I let them around her she would get hurt and I lived with them but once she was 1 year old  she lived...
    littleboyblue16 littleboyblue16 18-21, M 9 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Thought You Meant Rearrange Their Stuff?

     I'm not sure about that one.  Some men do it more than others.  Maybe a penis fixation or their balls are too big?  Women rearrange their bra and boobs in public and seem not to know they're doing it.  Isn't that the same?
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 13 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    Say Everything

    Why must they speak without thinking? Contrary to what they may believe, not everything in their brain is worth vocalizing. Dear Men Everywhere: Use a filter. Lots of hurt feelings can be avoided by following this simple advice.
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    Act Like Jerks To Get A Girl

    Not quite sure why younger guys (and maybe older ones too) think that to get a girls attention they need to act cool and like they don't care and aren't interested... Or worse yet think that bragging about other girls makes us want them more... I liked a guy a ton at college and...
    KeeleyKool KeeleyKool 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 5, 2012

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    I'll Tell You Why!

    Being a male with a rather large and prominate "package" I can tell you that sitting for long periods like airplane flights or in classrooms causes my meat and potatoes to get bound up from time to time.  When I stand up gravity should unravel everything but it...
    hairygoateeguy hairygoateeguy 22-25, M 7 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    Conquestador :p

    Brag about how many "chicks" they can get in the sack.... Lie(and they get so good at it!) Want to see their wife with other people(you know who are , you certain EPer's) Make comments about girls that walk by Make NOISES at girls( yes, we love it..not)
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    Ahhh...

    The list is endless...lol
    BrooklynGirl BrooklynGirl 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    Most men I know are great guys.

    My best friend was a guy. So, you nice guys, please just cover your eyes. Xx Men who troll around looking for lesbians to target..thinking they'll get kinky or hating those of us who supposedly steal your ladies and turn them into lipstick lesbians...need to get a grip on...
    Incommunicado1 Incommunicado1 51-55, F 2 Responses May 16

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    Never Understood It

    I've seen it for years, in more situations than I care to remember. Doesn't matter if its on a sports field or the boardroom. Maybe it's an unconcious things. Then again maybe it's not. It's been disgusting to me. Although sometimes my dirty little mind wonders how is that...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2008

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    Amy

    My sister,friends daughter and i used to work as security officers at the Minnespolis /St.Paul Airport , it was my friends daughter Amy's first job and she wasn't know for  not telling you what she thought( a good thing in many ways) . We were screening a flight with about 4...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    Potty Business

    This is probably a dumb thought, but I don't understand why guys don't wipe themselves after they pee...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2008

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    Make Excuses

    Girls, you know what I'm talking about.. all those lame excuses about why they haven't called you, or why they didn't text you, why they can't see you, etc etc. what i wonder is: why tell me you're going to do these things to begin with if you have ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTION of...
    greeeneyes greeeneyes 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 24, 2008

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    I Hate You When You Do This

    i'm sorry i havent submited a story for a couple of days. can someone please answer me this, why the **** do men look at everything that shows abit of ****** leg? my partner knows how insecure i am, he knows i've been away to find out about a boob job thats how bad i feel about...
    ashbash23 ashbash23 21-25, F 32 Responses Jan 10, 2008

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    What Is So Exciting About Two Women Kissing?

    i know guys like watching women fight, wrestle , but kissing?  what the heck???
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    That Answer Is Very Simple

    IT IS CALLED LACK OF RESPECT if you love some one you treatthem with respect i am sorry if you do not love what be with them unless you are using them as a bed warm then leave
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jan 13, 2012

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    Why Do Men Get So Excited Looking At Womans Underwear?

    I don't know why men get so excited at even a fleeting glimpse of woman's underwear. I have had numerous times when men will try and get a look at my underwear....(I admit sometimes I've helped them, but that's in my other stories). If I wear a bikini swimsuit,  they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 87 Responses May 7, 2008

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    Men Convos

    why do men call each other nothing but "mate" and "buddy" on the phone? ive never heard them actually call them by their real names...it baffles me..
    xxxsmurfiiexxx xxxsmurfiiexxx 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    It Bothers Me...

    Perhaps it's just boys. But so many of them seem to feel like they have to hide their emotions to be 'cool', or that they have to play into stereotypes. I suppose it's the same with females in some respects. But so many guys don't say what they mean just because they think it...
    esclave esclave 16-18, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Dominate Women They Love

    Why do some men have to do this and feel it is natural?  Why do they believe all women are naturally submissive?  Why do they only want woman they can boss around, control, and dominate, and insist they are the boss and get to make all the decisions?  I also don't understand...
    bluelady1021 bluelady1021 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    This Boggles Me

    I don't understand why they have to sniff their fingers after they fondle themselves
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    I Don't Understand Why Men Feel the Need To....

    ......rearrange their, um, "boy parts" all the time.....
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 105 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Everyday I'm more and more hurt by you. When we text it's like we're the best of friends but in school I'm invisible. And it makes me feel worthless and useless. Why do you do this...
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    Even after studying most reasons.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    I can't understand why too many guys have a crush on me and they find me soo attractive, cute or whatever because tbh sometimes I just hate myself >.> why why why xD
    XxxxMemoriesXxxx XxxxMemoriesXxxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    in everything. i may not ask, sometimes i do. i quit asking mostly, because i get no response. so why do i have to be a mind reader? why when i miss, the one person i distrust the...
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I want to have self-control and self-discipline but it's something that I lack. I have so many wonderful ideas and plans but it seems like motivation fades when it comes time to...
    LittleBirds0827 LittleBirds0827 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    You start to forget who you are, one happy person once you were. Always you walk in school with a fake smile on your face to hide the pain. When you Mature a lot faster then normal...
    Pnbamania Pnbamania 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    Sometimes it bewilders me, how people intentionally want to make you feel stupid or mock you, despite asking a legit question. I understand there is an entertainment factor, but...
    EstuaryRivers EstuaryRivers 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 17

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    They are soo uncomfortable and for them to be in anyway bearable you literally have wear them to a point where your foot is shaped differently to other human beings. They make you...
    ChloeMaay ChloeMaay 18-21, F Aug 31

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    There are various things in my life that confuse me. Why can I no longer do 100 pushups at a time? Why does it seem like there's more unrest nowadays then there was in the past...
    nightpatroller78 nightpatroller78 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    I always wonder why I end up in arguments with the people in my life I love, or how much can I take. Can I get a dose of happiness for once? Can I get the things I really want? Yes...
    NightMagic367 NightMagic367 36-40, F Aug 30

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    When you ramble on about anything and everything as much as I do, there is bound to be a lapse in the clarity of communication somewhere, and my tendency towards flippancy and...
    puck61 puck61 51-55, M 5 Responses Sep 4

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    Is it a defense mechanism? I really don't care for most people my age. They are so selfish and rude. Infact I'm a rarity I find myself caring a lot for people and going out of...
    bettygingham bettygingham 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    When I think of all the things people do to each other and what people have done to me. I don't want revenge. I want to know why they did it.
    mic112 mic112 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 11

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    The world is amazing to pr pondered. From earth worms to the sensual erotic opening of a poppy. To why cd
    Paperwhite Paperwhite 41-45, F Sep 18

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    There have been a few occasions when I have had my shirt off and a car load of girls would make a comment to me. I like to have my shirt off on warm sunny days. Usually I limit...
    2tfx 2tfx 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    Don’t you just hate when you think you finally found someone that is going to save you from yourself but then the world has to prove you horribly wrong? People in this world are...
    jessicaconte jessicaconte 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    Like wtf! Not cool did nothing to u
    yassbishh yassbishh 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    Every single person I count on, NEVER comes through... Can somebody please come and shoot me in the head. Make it easy on me.
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 14

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    Especially MAC... Ive never tried any of their products, simply because they are so expensive!! Kind of annoying... I would love to try some of the foundations and powder though...
    veeshybi veeshybi 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    very indecisive- I AM! get bored so easily- I DO! I say i love you- I DON'T REALLY DO. I am super fine- I AM TOTALLY NOT.
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 Sep 16

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    Now I understand why a kid needs a father figure and to have a bond. Because a father can teach his kid on how to be a man, how to be a leader and how to get the girl he wants...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    I don't understand why i feel this way. Overall I don't think I can complain about anything in my life, yet I feel alone. I have tons of friends but none close. My two closes...
    Souldiscover Souldiscover 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 18

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    She lived here over a year and moved away in June. She cheated on her long distance boyfriend with me we had a two month affair. She wrote me long love letters and professed her...
    itsreadymade itsreadymade 36-40, M 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    First of all. Money, to me, is only a resource that allows me to live where I live, buy food, gas, etc. I have been rich, I have not had a cent to my family name, yet money never...
    RegicideJester RegicideJester 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    From my experience only, not saying at all that this always happens to every single men... It's funny how women get the reputation of "gossiping" with others. I never figured out...
    Eyedontgiveahoot Eyedontgiveahoot 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 16

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    I am not sure what to say, but feel overwhelmed that my partner has to deal with the pain that I feel from my childhood. I feel like its not fair to her, and don't understand why...
    justmegurl justmegurl 31-35, M Sep 20

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