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I Dont Understand Why Men Feel the Need to

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    Never Understood It

    I've seen it for years, in more situations than I care to remember. Doesn't matter if its on a sports field or the boardroom. Maybe it's an unconcious things. Then again maybe it's not. It's been disgusting to me. Although sometimes my dirty little mind wonders how is that...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2008

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    Make Excuses

    Girls, you know what I'm talking about.. all those lame excuses about why they haven't called you, or why they didn't text you, why they can't see you, etc etc. what i wonder is: why tell me you're going to do these things to begin with if you have ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTION of...
    greeeneyes greeeneyes 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 24, 2008

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    I Hate You When You Do This

    i'm sorry i havent submited a story for a couple of days. can someone please answer me this, why the **** do men look at everything that shows abit of ****** leg? my partner knows how insecure i am, he knows i've been away to find out about a boob job thats how bad i feel about...
    ashbash23 ashbash23 18-21, F 32 Responses Jan 10, 2008

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    Conquestador :p

    Brag about how many "chicks" they can get in the sack.... Lie(and they get so good at it!) Want to see their wife with other people(you know who are , you certain EPer's) Make comments about girls that walk by Make NOISES at girls( yes, we love it..not)
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    That Answer Is Very Simple

    IT IS CALLED LACK OF RESPECT if you love some one you treatthem with respect i am sorry if you do not love what be with them unless you are using them as a bed warm then leave
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jan 13, 2012

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    I Think I Understand The Readjusting.

    I believe that readjusting is due to the "external" appendage vs growth and shrinkage. Just imagine, women, how uncomfortable we are when we have to wear a pad. Imagine Your clitoris hanging out and being shoved in between hot skin and tight clothing. I personally don't...
    ClownieFreak ClownieFreak 26-30, F 5 Responses May 26, 2011

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    Ahhh...

    The list is endless...lol
    BrooklynGirl BrooklynGirl 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    Dominate Women They Love

    Why do some men have to do this and feel it is natural?  Why do they believe all women are naturally submissive?  Why do they only want woman they can boss around, control, and dominate, and insist they are the boss and get to make all the decisions?  I also don't understand...
    bluelady1021 bluelady1021 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Potty Business

    This is probably a dumb thought, but I don't understand why guys don't wipe themselves after they pee...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 10, 2008

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    I'll Tell You Why!

    Being a male with a rather large and prominate "package" I can tell you that sitting for long periods like airplane flights or in classrooms causes my meat and potatoes to get bound up from time to time.  When I stand up gravity should unravel everything but it...
    hairygoateeguy hairygoateeguy 22-25, M 6 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    Say Everything

    Why must they speak without thinking? Contrary to what they may believe, not everything in their brain is worth vocalizing. Dear Men Everywhere: Use a filter. Lots of hurt feelings can be avoided by following this simple advice.
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    Amy

    My sister,friends daughter and i used to work as security officers at the Minnespolis /St.Paul Airport , it was my friends daughter Amy's first job and she wasn't know for  not telling you what she thought( a good thing in many ways) . We were screening a flight with about 4...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    Why Do Men Get So Excited Looking At Womans Underwear?

    I don't know why men get so excited at even a fleeting glimpse of woman's underwear. I have had numerous times when men will try and get a look at my underwear....(I admit sometimes I've helped them, but that's in my other stories). If I wear a bikini swimsuit,  they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 88 Responses May 7, 2008

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    It Bothers Me...

    Perhaps it's just boys. But so many of them seem to feel like they have to hide their emotions to be 'cool', or that they have to play into stereotypes. I suppose it's the same with females in some respects. But so many guys don't say what they mean just because they think it...
    esclave esclave 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    I Don't Understand Why Men Feel the Need To....

    ......rearrange their, um, "boy parts" all the time.....
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 105 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Im a Guy But I Still Dont Understand How Some Can Get a Girl Pregnant Then Not Be There For Their Own Baby

    I was almost 14 when my first baby was born and I wasnt  there at first because  my grandparents wasnt the best poeple to have around  a baby.I was scared if I let them around her she would get hurt and I lived with them but once she was 1 year old  she lived...
    littleboyblue16 littleboyblue16 18-21, M 9 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    This Boggles Me

    I don't understand why they have to sniff their fingers after they fondle themselves
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 11, 2008

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    Most men I know are great guys.

    My best friend was a guy. So, you nice guys, please just cover your eyes. Xx Men who troll around looking for lesbians to target..thinking they'll get kinky or hating those of us who supposedly steal your ladies and turn them into lipstick lesbians...need to get a grip on...
    Incommunicado1 Incommunicado1 51-55, F 2 Responses May 16, 2014

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    Men Convos

    why do men call each other nothing but "mate" and "buddy" on the phone? ive never heard them actually call them by their real names...it baffles me..
    xxxsmurfiiexxx xxxsmurfiiexxx 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    Act Like Jerks To Get A Girl

    Not quite sure why younger guys (and maybe older ones too) think that to get a girls attention they need to act cool and like they don't care and aren't interested... Or worse yet think that bragging about other girls makes us want them more... I liked a guy a ton at college and...
    KeeleyKool KeeleyKool 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 5, 2012

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    What Is So Exciting About Two Women Kissing?

    i know guys like watching women fight, wrestle , but kissing?  what the heck???
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Last year, I finally understood that no one beside a few people will care in your whole life. I noticed that a lot of people here think by joinning those kind of groups or asking...
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    anything in life other than serve their man? I do not think I could be happier doing anything other than making certain he is happy in every possible way, no matter what...
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    seijuroheiko seijuroheiko 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I Finally Made It Too 19 Years Old .. The Age I Told Myself I Can Finally Get The Ball Rolling For My Life ... But I Feel Like A Failure , High School Was Hard ( Really Hard ) So I...
    SunnyMuffinsJr SunnyMuffinsJr 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I can't understand why Bombarder needs to protect her money so closely: she always makes sure she absolutely doesn't spend a penny she could dispense with. She never prepares a...
    ExileMyself ExileMyself 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I don't understand why people dont know how to listen...why they're always one sided and refuse to see anyone else's perspective on anything. Sometimes I just want to be heard...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    A week ago a guy who I recently have fallen in love with cheated on me with this ex girlfriend. I had been suspicious of her the entire time but he assured me nothing would happen...
    GabbyCot GabbyCot 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I really do not understand cheating either as I have been happy with the same beautiful lady for the past 21 years. I have not had any urges to find another or have more than one...
    cpguy cpguy 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    If i dont remember wrong the percentage of women who cheated were higher Than men, atleast in america.
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I agree with this your wife should be your everything your best friend and you bond with sex I have no idea why am one with cheat
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    ILoveBacon23 ILoveBacon23 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I really do need a mentor and need discipline
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