I Don't Understand Why Parents Disown Their Children

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    Who Does That?

    Parents, in my view, are supposed to do two things above all:  Love their children and help their children (Of course, in an ideal world, everyone would be loved and helped by everyone else, but our culture keeps love in the "family unit).  Disowning a child is a...
    Onaquest Onaquest
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2009

    I ****** up big time with my parents.

    Don't know what to do. Rather die then go through this. They make me feel like I'm the ******* worst child on earth. No matter what day it is. I try so hard all the time but they don't ******* see it.
    carlover16 carlover16
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 27, 2014

    To Many Times.

    As a parent you are the adult in the relationship and whatever happens should be discussed with your children.  Hopefully a resolution is not to difficult to achieve. I am in my early 30's, never smoked, never drunk, never slept around, no religious issues in the...
    ignored42long ignored42long
    36-40, F
    4 Responses May 8, 2009

    Yeah, I Don't Understand It At All.

    Not entirely my experience but close enough.When my father was 16 years old he took my grandfather's car without asking and ended up getting into an accident. Instead of worrying about whether or not my dad was hurt my grandfather was extremely pissed off and from what I hear...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos
    18-21, F
    May 21, 2011

    I Can't Either

    I have a hard time disowning cats!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 14, 2009

    Major Heartbreak

    I know how some of the children feels. My Dad had disowned me once or twice in my lifetime. I don't understand how anybody can do that as well. It confuses me especially since I'm one of those children. My younger sister has it worse than I do and my dad's first child. He is so...
    AuntTammy AuntTammy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2008

    My Story And Struggle

    I was adopted and the only man I ever called "Daddy" for the 20 years of my life completely disowned me for no reason what so ever. I looked up too him, he was my hero I told him i loved him everyday, I was 19 years old when he first said "I'm proud of you" and he was always very...
    BamaBelle2012 BamaBelle2012
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2012

    I Want An Answer!

    Most of the time, parents absolutely adore their children. Whether thay are planned or a surprise, makes no difference. The majority usually fall madly in love with their baby the instant they hold them in their arms and look into their eyes. My daughter was not planned. I was...
    emptyheart emptyheart
    41-45, F
    51 Responses May 7, 2008

    My Story . . .

    My parents have formally disowned me and I don't have any good reason why.  Perhaps it is because my mother is a narcissist and my father is her enabler - who knows.  I have not talked to them in over two months now.  This is the third and last time they are to...
    downeastfarmer downeastfarmer
    41-45, F
    9 Responses May 16, 2010

    I Don'T Understand Why You Hate Me...

    I have never felt loved after my younger sister was born. I was 4. Ever since that day, I became the evil child. I never did anything really wrong, just didn't do good in school, I was uninterested and my parents made me do chores before homework so that did not help. But I was...
    ithurts2013 ithurts2013
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 11, 2013

    Who'd Do Such A Thing?

    I don't get parents who disown their children, personally I think that parents should love and provide for their children at all times, because it was them who brought them into the world. Recently, my parents have been talking about disowning me, threatening me with it at...
    DarkShadowfax DarkShadowfax
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2010

    Gone

    i left home a long time ago ,my childhood was troubled and spent a lot of time in care ,,but one day i left my mum abandoned me and my sister my father went away and never came home again , i was gone for thirty years and i thought know one cares any way i traveled but i was...
    stef360 stef360
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2010

    I Was Disowned

    I was born in Russia and was put in the orphanage at 14 months old. At age 6 I was adopted, but the family was really abusive. Now my third family is perfect with 16 brothers and sisters who I can relate to. Like they say, third time is a charm!
    PainOnPaper PainOnPaper
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 11, 2013
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