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I Dont Understand Why People Gossip

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 97 People

    Is It Insecurity Or Just Far Too Nosey!

    I dislike gossip intensely.  It can cause hurt to people, spread lies and it can make those who gossip appear untrustworthy.  No where is safe from it, within families and friends, the workplace, and even here. For some people their constant curiosity...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 9, 2010

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    I Hate Gossiping!!

    i hate it when people start gossiping!!! i mean, people pass these stories on to other people, and then they pass the story on to someone else, and so on ,and so on,and all this time, something gets added on to the story, and then something else gets added on to the story, and by...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 7 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    The more a person gossips about others,

    the weaker their virtues/character. Someone with strong virtues would not participate in gossip and spread invalid stories that could potentially hurt people, just for entertainment purposes. Gossiping always makes me feel nauseous, & saddens me that people find enjoyment out of...
    InnerCalm InnerCalm 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    I Just Hate It

    ive been on the recivening end of gossip the ones that gossip  dont feel the pain of the words that are untrue . i cant stand it . ive got one friend shes a '' christan '' she has to tell me every thing about everyone at church it drives me crazy . one of these...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F Apr 9, 2010

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    Your Gossip Hurts

         MY MOTHER IN LAW AND SISTER IN LAW GOSSIPS ABOUT MY TWIN SISTER EVERY THING SHES DOES AND IAM SURE MY MOTHER IN LAW DOES THE SAME ABOUT ME TELLING MY SISTER IN LAW THAT I STAY IN MY BEDROOM ALL DAY . I DO THAT BECALSE I CANT STAND HER GOSSPIN EVERY TIME I...
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 5, 2008

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