I Don't Understand Women Who Stay With Bad Men

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    A Lot of My Friends Have This Problem.

    Why do they stick around with guys who abuse them? I don't comprehend their logic in that. One of my friends has fallen in love with two guys who she has a kid by each, and she still sticks with either one from time to time whenever they come back to see her. She always thinks...
    nosanity nosanity
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2008

    There's a Child Dressed Like a Man

    I don't understand myself, either. I just believe there's something deep in there. Maybe it's self-loathing? I don't know.
    Devly Devly
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 5, 2013

    The Bad Boy

    Women think they're going to change the bad boy...all that happens is that the bad boy changes the woman - usually for the worst
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 9, 2007

    Out Of Fear

    they have been so brained washed they fear no one will ever want them again
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Jan 20, 2012

    A friend posted on Facebook asking

    why every guy cheats on her. Well, some of that has to do with who she chooses to date. I'm pretty sure that a crack dealer who cheats and doesn't take care of his kid won't be someone you can have a long term relationship with.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Mar 20, 2016

    Namely Me

    well...he doesn't hit me or anything but he doesn't ever want sex or intimacy..i guess he could be considered a bad man in some ways..it sucks..he makes me feel ugly and unappreciated.
    yana1 yana1
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Nov 16, 2007
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