I Dont Understand

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 427 People

    Do you want to have sex before

    or after marriage and why?????.......-ari 😏
    zakiana15 zakiana15
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    why do people assume that

    if a guy celebrity has soft hair he is automatically gay? if thats true, then i am the gayest ************ that ever lived
    BringMacktheHorizon BringMacktheHorizon
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Mar 27, 2014

    idk why I keep getting sad over people

    that don’t give a **** about me
    Angelcum Angelcum
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 4, 2014

    I don't understand why I had a post deleted

    when there are some terrible groups on here. A group about finding a suicide partner is wAy more harmful then sharing a rude comment someone sent me.
    njgina njgina
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    So a guy friend I'v known

    for 6 years finally expressed that he likes me but he wasn't interested in a relationship. That confused me because why would you tell some one that if you don't want anything? He told me he had fallen for me and liked me for a while. I eventually ended up convincing him that we...
    radisglad radisglad
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 20

    I simply don't understand

    why I fall for the same crap. Me and my boyfriend were together 5 years then his dad got bald and we called it quits he cheated on me we were apart for 2 years during that two years you moved in with another girl I became homeless got beat up by my mother step dad and my...
    angellcagle angellcagle
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2015

    He told me he would be there

    when I needed him the most... When I was broken and thought that I couldn't be repaired, he wasn't there.. When I found someone who helped me up and beyond, I knew he wasn't planning on staying the moment he said he would. Then he shows up out of nowhere and tells me that I...
    HayellsDorion HayellsDorion
    16-17, F
    Jul 22, 2015
    Lucia416 Lucia416
    18-21, F
    Sep 14, 2015

    People are so confusing

    and irritating. Especially men. I can't even express how confused men make me
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    I just saw an experience,

    this girl posted a pic or herself and someone commented "you'll never get a boyfriend because you don't wear designer clothes or wear makeup.." Let me get this straight with you. I will NOT wear nice clothes and makeup just to impress a boy, i shouldn't have to! If a guy...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 29, 2014

    every have those days

    where nothing you do is right? well today is one of those days
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 22

    My mother and her partner,

    who I will call Shonda, have been together for my entire life. (23 years) Yesterday my mothers partner, who I think of as my second mother and nothing less, calls to tell me, her and my mother are breaking up. I am devastated. There is reason to believe that my mom may have met...
    abbgor2399 abbgor2399
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 19, 2014

    Why does rejection hurt

    so damn much?why tell me you want me then you back off,cant take this any more,not talking at all to me,making me want you,its mental and emotional torment,if I ignore you,you talk to me...if I talk to you,you ignore me,why was it so wrong to want you,all I want to do is be...
    whitewitchwhiplash whitewitchwhiplash
    26-30, F
    Oct 26, 2014

    I dont understand why people call me gay!

    I have nothing against gays, i believe that homosexuality is a sin, but i treat them with the same respect as i treat my mother. Am i gay because i dye my hair? Am i gay because i wear skinny jeans? Am i gay because i wear toms? I just dont understand an it makes me so mad! Ive...
    BringMacktheHorizon BringMacktheHorizon
    16-17, M
    Feb 13, 2014

    I don't know why I get blocked

    for giving someone advice on something personal and then at the very end get blocked because they don't believe that I am a virgin. This is the second person within 24 hours that I get blocked by. Why does this happen to someone who I very sweet and kind and am very easy to get...
    harmonycurry1 harmonycurry1
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 14, 2015

    I feel this kind of stuff is really difficult

    to talk about because i don't understand it myself. I get scared. I don't show it, but i get scared. Terrified, would be a better word. I wouldn't say they are panic attacks like i used to ( although i have gotten 2 in my lifetime) so its not as if i feel like i am about to die...
    thesefriendsofmine thesefriendsofmine
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2015

    I don't get people sometimes.

    Scratch my head and say WHY????
    Chrysanthemummarie Chrysanthemummarie
    18-21
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2014

    my uncle died on my dad's side.

    he was an extremely smart and talented cardiologist. my father is his only brother. he was the good one. he was a good man. why'd he have to pass away..
    thisbrokengirl777 thisbrokengirl777
    13-15, F
    Oct 7, 2015

    I am confused.. If i am what you looking for.

    . Why do you need to open your door.. ? If am what you waited for.. Why do search more.. ? If you say you can't imagine life without my presence.. Why do you do things in my absence.. ? If you say you love me more than anything.. Why do you care for all the girls like they are...
    somebodythatuusedtoknow somebodythatuusedtoknow
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    Why girls take half naked pics

    and then hashtag the **** out of it with negative ****!?!? #uglyasfuck #ewwimfat #craterville #wideload #thunderthighs #skippingmeals #imnotseekingattentionguys What the actual f****?!? Don't worry males, even I don't understand my own sex.. 😳
    awokensheepislittlebopeep awokensheepislittlebopeep
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 21, 2014

    I don't understand why people add you to their

    circle and never even bother to contact you... Just a thought.
    acidpixiedust acidpixiedust
    36-40, F
    23 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    I wake up every morning

    and my right for hurts. Not the left one but the RIGHT ONE!!!! lol
    KomodoDragon KomodoDragon
    18-21, M
    Oct 18, 2015

    Romantic and sexual feelings.

    Don't get me wrong, I'm all for other people doing whatever they want. I just don't personally understand what it is to feel that desire. I have had sexual experiences in my past but it honestly it wasn't all that fun. I'd rather just do it myself
    skywalker9 skywalker9
    18-21
    Feb 7

    Why oh why what hs happened to you.

    ..we had soo much in common ad vot on so well then you ignore me for a long time.. i feel i have done something but know in my heaet i havent.i wanted to be the best to you and you know i would of been.. but you seen to throw out the attention blanket and everyone else comes...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 4, 2015

    He said he loved me within 2 weeks

    and I really thought maybe it was love at first sight and was falling. He wanted to move in together, marry me, have his baby. Asked what I want for wedding. Told me I was everything he wanted would never leave. But yet find out he's not divorced, and this is currently his...
    Pinkshoxx23 Pinkshoxx23
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 7

    Lol how is it that when I was 15

    and wanted to be a dad all the girl didn't but know I see that girl who are 15 want to be moms. Wish I was 15 right now. I still want to be a dad
    Nevershy90 Nevershy90
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 14

    Talk to me clearly, straightly

    because how can I know what you want when you only say,"its up to you, anything"? Then, when I choose or decide, you always question why..? Are you crazy? You're very stressful!
    theoabern0741 theoabern0741
    31-35
    Aug 11, 2015

    Higgs Boson

    Please can someone explain to me (very simply) what all the fuss is about Had God been found? I had to turn to the Daily Star for erudition! WHAT holds the universe together? It’s the question that has baffled scientists for years. Yesterday they got their answer when the...
    Orangetas Orangetas
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Jul 5, 2012
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 24, 2015

    What is the point of being friends

    if you don't know how to settle disagreements between you? I'm not talking about a complete breech of trust. I'm talking about minor disagreements such as: You spilled something on me or You broke something of mine - accidentally. Honestly, the things that I notice so-called...
    manusundr manusundr
    46-50, M
    Jan 7, 2015

    Honestly, I just don't understand how someone

    can be so oblivious to all the problems the cause. Like, can't you see you have done wrong or are you choosing to ignore it? How can you honestly place the blame on someone else? I just don't understand
    Doles96 Doles96
    18-21, F
    Dec 20, 2015

    Words in all languages are

    so similar to me; scattered, confused, hesitant and quivering. I sit here hoping they revolt, rebel, explode and groan . Hoping they will share the sadness in my melting eyes.. Words are frozen pearls; they don’t master the language of a trembling heart breaking to pieces...
    Thesystem Thesystem
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2014

    I worked over 2 years at this location.

    I went from knowing nothing to being the most senior employee and the one who everyone asks advice from. I love my job. I work my *** off. I'll skip lunches when needed. Yet my coworker of 6 months is the one who gets the key to the shop, the safe code, and was taught how to set...
    skywalker9 skywalker9
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 27

    Why do I always end up burning my bread.

    ... Why? Am I really all that? Haha
    lifetime201 lifetime201
    18-21, M
    7 Responses Jan 31, 2015

    About To Lose Everything?

    forgive my grammer please. i dont understand what is happening my whole world consists of my wife and kids and ita all crashing down around me. my wife has been asking for a divorce for about a year and i keep telling her no i dont want one and then she sleeps and i come home and...
    keepingmyfamily keepingmyfamily
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Oct 16, 2009

    A lot of things are going on in my life

    that I just don't understand. Maybe In time I will. But now things aren't adding up. Leaving me happy, confused and hurt.
    martinez1993 martinez1993
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 5

     Am I staying for you

    or for me? Am I staying for your needs or mine ? For a normal world where the victim finds herself not kill herself? Is my will feeding on your expectations and wishes for a happy ending? She will live to love and be loved and the tragedies of her past will not matter anymore...
    Thesystem Thesystem
    26-30, F
    Dec 14, 2014

    Ariel: changed for society by changing her own

    skin. Aurora: drugged into the deepest sleep. Belle: ran off Tattoos on the way Cinderella: snuck out and drank the most. Jasmine: found a rebel who smoked weed. Mulan: found knives, started playing. Snow White: took the poison off her mind. Can't you see why we...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 12, 2015

    Im loved by many. And all i do is be nice to

    everyone I meet. Now all of the sudden I have like 10 guys asking me out. 9 perverts asking for ***. 8 people telling me their stories. 7 people gaining my trust. 6 people telling me Im cute. 5 people laughing with me. 4 people hearing me out. 3 people I want to actually meet...
    londonbr1dge londonbr1dge
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 2, 2015

    I was sparring on a trampoline with a friend

    and we got too violent. I ended up being kicked in the chest and sent flying through the air horizontally. While inwas on my back in the air I somehow managed to flip myself upright and into a crouched position and landed perfectly safe on the ground ten to fifteen feet from the...
    BatMan457977 BatMan457977
    16-17, M
    1 Response Aug 8, 2015

    Some of us post now and again about the habits

    of our annoying neighbors. Here's a new one for you. My nonstop outdoor radio neighbors have gone silent .I should be outside enjoying the ability to hear nature instead I'm concerned.... Hmmm
    holywren holywren
    56-60, F
    Dec 3, 2015

    Ok so my older brother has a friend

    who I always had a crush on and I think he is gay. So I'm at a party with my brother and there is friend is and music is play and everyone is dancing and he is a really good dancer so as he is dancing I'm staring at him and he is look back into my eyes and I'm just giving him...
    fiftyshadesoforange fiftyshadesoforange
    18-21, M
    Sep 7, 2015

    Am I Boring?

    Why does no one comment on my stories? I mean, only my really close Epeeps comment, which is like two people. I take time to write out my feelings my beliefs my dreams my fears... so why does no one comment. Its like no one cares. My very first story i wrote was about...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Mar 17, 2010

    I pay good money for culinary school,

    yet I still have to sit in a dark classroom til 10 at night watching documentaries about Sumo Wrestlers because people call this an "English class." I'm sorry but that makes no sense to me
    skywalker9 skywalker9
    18-21
    Feb 9

    I still feel second best.

    but life goes on. fate will be fate. whatever happens will happen and happens for a reason. is it wrong to just quit caring? my feelings have been hurt bad. lots of things I don't understand. I know what I have to do but don't want to do it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 26
    sweetguy20144 sweetguy20144
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 23, 2015

    Im pretty attractive,

    smart, easy going, down to earth, im how id want my partner to be, and yet i feel like i dont attract people very well or at least nog the kind of people i want to attract. My friends try to date me but i dont like them in that way, the people i want dont seem to want me and i...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2015

    I don't understand why we're all

    so unhappy. I'm 18 I shouldn't be stressed with life. 13 years olds shouldn't be wanting to tear their heart out over a break up. We have so much life, even those decades older than us still have so much time to enjoy themselves to look forward to what's coming. Why can't we sit...
    Abcdefghijessy Abcdefghijessy
    18-21, F
    Aug 29, 2015

    I was having a regular day till someone decided

    to get too close to me. He was carrying a small instrument. He wanted me to answer a question related to work. But it was sudden and he didn't keep enough distance. My heart rate increased instantly, I started shivering. I stood up and i literally screamed the answer at him...
    Thesystem Thesystem
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    why is it that people such

    as musicians, and actors and everything else get paid so much money and their job isn't that serious But there are people who risk their life doing their job and they dont get paid half as much as celebrities do. The rich get worshiped and the Everyday people get treated as if...
    LunarDream LunarDream
    18-21, M
    7 Responses Nov 19, 2014

    How Someone Can Be So Cold

    Today i got to spend the day with my beautiful daughter and loved it..she is as I have mentioned in other stories about her...the most beautiful woman ever...even at 2 yrs old...amazing in every way...as I spent time with her I was informed by her mother that I am a bigger...
    SingleDad40 SingleDad40
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Nov 28, 2012

    This place is about all the experiences we have

    whether it be good, bad, or indifferent. I try to stay positive, I recently wrote about a new job that I'm going to shine at. Not one person I believe saw it, because I'm my opinion (I'm not trying to offend anyone) we only write about the bad in our lives, it's mostly all in...
    allyangel0293 allyangel0293
    22-25, F
    Mar 9

    Ep removed my post that ,

    Synapse81 called me a nlgger and they took it down. I dont understand why. He did wrong so I wanted to expose him.
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2015

    I don't understand how a person will message

    you saying they have stuff in common with you but it's only like 3-5 things and they are all sexual
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 18
    msvanish0 msvanish0
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Mar 22, 2015

    I don't understand the meaning of Beauty.

    when someone is called beautiful, what does that really mean? no one is the same so how could you put them in a category that's called beauty? is it what you're attracted to? what you see in magazines? does it depend on the body? or the personality? what?! beauty shouldn't be...
    Bharbert Bharbert
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 17, 2014
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