I Don't Wanna Beg For What I Need

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    I've done it before and know first hand

    that it hurts that much more when you are still denied. Nobody should beg for what they need. Especially when it comes to love and relationships. I do not want to ever beg again. Unless it's for fun! When someone actually cares about me, I will never feel so neglected that...
    HerDuality HerDuality
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 26, 2015

    Begging For Intimacy...

    ... I shouldn't have to do that! There are times in my marriage where I feel like, "Maybe if I dress up really nice and make him his favorite dinner and make sure our daughter is on her best behavior...maybe THEN he'll treat me like more than just a room-mate!" You don't know...
    Shipsonariver Shipsonariver
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 16, 2012

    No Way

    Uh uh..that'll never happen.Nor will I manipulate someone to give me anything.  The act of either two creeps me out..point blank.Whatever I have it's honest and earned. Begging for material things is sad, emotional love must be true , attention is going to turn out negative if...
    wiseowl wiseowl
    61-65, F
    4 Responses Feb 4, 2011

    But I Will If I Have To

    And I sound like a child too. I will wheedle. Pleeeeaaase? Pleeeeeeeeaaaaase?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 9, 2010

    I like a girl who can turn me on in every way.

    Like this one time I was with my x girlfriend and she hugged me and kissed me and just made me feel good. I had to **** her she just kept on saying please please so I did she loved every second of it. It then came down to climax I was about to *** when she told me to *** her...
    andressierra andressierra
    16-17, M
    Aug 8, 2014

    I Hate Begging

    I don’t want to be somebody else, why can you not understand I’m not the same person I was. I was not incorrigible anymore, was not silly at all. I changed cause I want to, I changed cause I felt I have no one with me… the pain inside is killing softly, please why can’t I...
    vhon2x vhon2x
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2011

    If you ask any one on what's the most

    interesting topic they'll keep answering love. If you go to the local bookstore you'll see romance novels clattered every section. I tried to read and see what's all the fuss about. And it's a good thing i found out that it'll hurt like hell before stepping into it.
    orange225 orange225
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2014

    It's one thing I hate to do is beg.

    I rather do without than beg anyone. I do not mine asking for what I need but if I have to beg. I pass. It's the pits to beg. I do not like being in a situation were I must beg.
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 19, 2015

    Done it before. I felt bad

    for about 5 seconds afterwards then I was good ;)
    FreightTrainOG FreightTrainOG
    22-25, M
    May 24, 2015

    I don't want to have to beg to be held

    and kissed. I don't want to beg for intimacy. Not sex or *******. Intimacy. I am a pretty young woman. I am sexy. I don't want to beg for it. But I need it so much. I crave it. I want it. But I don't want to beg. I've asked and I've been given ... As a thing to do. Not because...
    cl0udyskies cl0udyskies
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    The last thing in a relationship I need is a man

    who don't know what I need. It is a basic need and it is personal. If he is doing as he suppose he will not only know both. He will also know when and how. If not? He's helpless in my book.
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2015

    Respect, Reciprocation, And Sex.

    I don't ask much from my man. When I was 18, I moved in with him (he was 35 then), and got working to supplement his already good income (he used to work a government job, and became disabled as a result). Well, he spent all his money on beer, weed, cigarettes, and stupid "As...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 15, 2011

    I find I can get the things done

    that I want much quicker and correctly done the first time if I only rely on myself.
    Sophia117 Sophia117
    22-25, F
    Aug 19, 2015

    I hate when people say I love you

    and its just words. to be more accurate, I hate when my wife says she loves me and can't make me feel it. maybe our marriage was broken long ago and the best thing for me to do is leave. I want to make it work, I love her, biut her every word destroys me. I am so...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 23, 2015

    I Am Not A Trainer

    You train a dog. I don't like having to tell a man what I need or want. I like perceptive people.
    saweetkisses saweetkisses
    31-35
    4 Responses Feb 5, 2011

    No one should make you beg

    for what you need. "NEED"
    camsc camsc
    18-21, F
    Oct 22, 2015

    I Have...

    And I havd been cut off at the knees. Now I just bottle it up. Who cares what I might want or need?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 28, 2012

    I Shouldn't Have To

    I shouldn't have to beg for what I need...phone calls, texts, a card or flowers here & there for no reason. He should just do these things because he wants to..because he wants to be with me, loves me, cares about me, etc. I get tired of asking or telling him or anyone else...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    Oct 14, 2012

    Than

    I need help, support, assistance, aid, attention, but I dare not ask for it. I rather remain in desperation than beg.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2010

    I had a nice friend. Everything seems to be

    going okay. I couldn't believe it. I thought Very exciting. I asked him .What are the 5 most negative things you have to say about yourself. What are you advantages and disadvantages? He named them I said to myself okay to all of them. However 1 stood out. He said he can shut...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2015

    I Don't Want To Sound Like A Douche...

    I love my girlfriend very much (I'm bi sexual). She's beautiful, sweet, funny, and just amazing. I hate that there is a big "but" coming on...but she doesn't make me feel appreciated. I go out of my way to let her know I love her and care for her (paid for a cabin for her and her...
    eforempathy eforempathy
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 15, 2012

    My parents taught me not to beg

    but I don't know who else I can ask for help. Anything I want to do, their only reason is it's too far away. It's hard to find a new job right now & I really need the money. I really need to go to the 10th Anniversary concert of my favorite singer-songwriter. Her voice is...
    yumemi yumemi
    26-30, F
    Feb 15
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