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I Dont Want a Boyfriend

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    I feel I'm better off with friends with

    benefits, I HATE the fact that he is so nosy about my stuff! I'm not really the type to share what's going on personally or what I'm doing on my phone. Gtfo. He's annoying, imurature, and omg childish! What to do?
    Shannyo Shannyo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    Some day, not now though.

    I like guy friends though. :)
    juliettecf juliettecf 13-15, F Jan 11

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    Lessons We Learn

    i have had 11 flings....2 were serious. And the only tihng i learnt was that i am not meant to be in a relationship, i am too much off a free spirit. I cant stand being dictated or behaving all goody goody when its fake, thats not love thats a lie...innit? I could have any guy...
    jackass jackass 18-21, F Dec 25, 2007

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    I'm reaaaaally not looking

    for a boyfriend or anything of the sort on this website, or just in general right now. I don't believe in dating, at all. I was raised to only have marriage as my main partnership in life, and I just find that dating is really pointless. I haven't dated a guy before, and again...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 10, 2014

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    I mean, I do, but right

    now school is my priority and until I find one who I truly believe I don't have to lower my standards for, I will gladly be single and living my life. :)
    Xo12345 Xo12345 18-21, F Jul 14, 2014

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    I Dont Want a Relationship

    I dont know whats wrong with me but I honestly dont want a realationship with anyone. All my friends have boyfriends....I mean I can easily get a boyfriend but I always turn them down. I had guys in the past come up to me and asked if I would like to go out wth them or just say...
    virgoshygurl virgoshygurl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 5, 2007

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    I've never had a boyfriend

    and I've never wanted one. It's so strange. Do girls usually want a boyfriend? It wasn't something I ever thought about when I was younger. the thought of having a girlfriend is more interesting to me
    theprettysideofugly theprettysideofugly 18-21, F Jun 20

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    The only guy I would actually date right

    now is my ex, he's the only one I want.
    drowningmeslowly drowningmeslowly 16-17, F Aug 17, 2014

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    I am sharing this story because I am truly hoping that getting it out of my system could help in my recovery of getting over my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend... This is not the first...
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    So here's what's going on My boyfriend has asked three different girls to come over and sleep with him. He lied about visiting one in Oregon and I thought things were better until...
    Chloe8221 Chloe8221 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    imacanceryo imacanceryo 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Daisygirl08 Daisygirl08 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    TeresaRudolph71 TeresaRudolph71 41-45, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Veggiegoddess Veggiegoddess 18-21, F Jun 26

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    FlourescentBlack FlourescentBlack 31-35, F Jun 23

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    I don't know if breaking up with him was a right choice. I still love him and leaving someone when you love them especially because you think of the future is just really...
    xoabelxo xoabelxo 18-21, F Jun 22

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    BleedSick BleedSick 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    And to be clear right away; this has nothing to do with my lifestyle in whatever form. I get along great with the kids of my friends and relatives and I do a lot of voluteerwork...
    MissLunaDomina MissLunaDomina 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 21

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    dandanpup dandanpup 18-21, M Jun 21

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