I Don't Want a Boyfriend

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    I've Been Dysfunctional...

    I don't know where to start... I have craved having a boyfriend at certain times in my life, primarily because I wanted to "fit in" and be normal. However, when I find myself in relationships (which have always ended quickly), I compromise who I am in order to make the...
    periola periola
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2011
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 15, 2015

    Well..

    I'm 21 and i still have so much growing to do, i think back to when i was 18 and i'm totally different, I doubt anybody could keep up with my rapid growth and change. Also i don't particulally want to explain everything i do and think to another person! I don't really...
    lovephilosophylife lovephilosophylife
    22-25, F
    Mar 21, 2008
    affictitiousredamancy affictitiousredamancy
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    mainly cause how they have treated me put me

    down cheated and treated and talked to me like dirt but if i was to meet someone who would talk nice to me treat me nice and he doesn't put me down or treat me like I am just someone to go out with till they get better if he truely liked me and told me and I felt it then maybe...
    vampirediariesfan vampirediariesfan
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 14, 2015

    I Dont!!!

    Every girl i know (almost) is saying "I really want a boyfriend" i completely understand how they feel coz i always feel the same....then i find a guy who it doesn't work out with and i finally realised that either im gay (which surprisingly is possible) or that...
    lifenotknife lifenotknife
    22-25, F
    Feb 10, 2008

    THIS Is My Story...kind of

    In the beginning of 2005 I got divorced and started seeing someone new...he was a guy I'd known for 9 years.  We went to high school together and I'd always known he liked me.  Things started off amazingly...I was very much in love with him within 3 months and vice...
    tinythesp tinythesp
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2008

    I like them to look nothing more

    and know no guy would actually be interested in me for me it will only ever be about sex I may say I miss a boyfriend but I don't
    susangoga susangoga
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2015

    Never Had One, But Saw The Carnage...

    While love appeals to many, and indeed is sometimes considered most important, romantic love is not for me. I''ll love my friends as friends, and my family as family, and the like; however, seeking a mate is something I hold no desire for. I have seen it hurt those close to me...
    Laughingwolf Laughingwolf
    16-17, T
    5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

    Cannot Be Bothered

    Whilst I lust after guys, the idea of having a permanent person always there sort of freaks me out. I like knowing that I can do what I want when I want and without negotiation. The way I see it I have friends and as long as there are friends, I can have enough human company. I...
    Cynanthrope Cynanthrope
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

    Just Not Passionate

    This is a fairly recent topic in my life. I guess I searched out this site because none of my friends have replied to my texts. This site has helped alot for making me decide what steps to take next. First, I suppose I should share with you all my story. I am a teenage girl who...
    Junobunn Junobunn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 23, 2013

    A Silly Girl Who Wants To Fall In Love

    I'm a silly girl my self I love games and wish to fall in love but now that I'm growing up and going to high school soon hearing about how boys plan to have sex at 14 or 15 makes me scared and shy I don't want a boy firend and if I do get one I don't plan on having sex ..sex...
    Bittersweet46 Bittersweet46
    18-21, F
    Aug 20, 2013

    •-• I got to make a shout out

    for all the random people that have messaged me so far. And plz don't take this the hard way or think that im a ***** or something awful. I just need to say this though. Once upon a time I had a boyfriend and we were going out for 9 months. Some **** went down with his family...
    Shadoevines Shadoevines
    16-17, F
    Feb 20, 2014

    I'm Just Not Ready.

    Im just starting to get things moving in my life and as much as I have thought that having a love interest might be nice, it's just not what I am looking for right now or for quite awhile. I have had my fair share of romantic attachments, I flirt with guys but I wouldn't be...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84
    26-30, F
    Mar 10, 2010

    I Don't Want To Love Cuz I'm Lonely ...

    I'm about to be 15 ... Most of my friends have boyfrieds .. i don't want one , cuz I dont want to fall into their games .. they drop u like toys when they're bored . I prefer to wait until I grow up and become more wise ... and the most important is to "love when you're ready...
    Lamlooom98 Lamlooom98
    13-15, F
    Mar 29, 2012

    ....

    ...At least not another one.   I already have a great one and don't think I can handle more than one. he keeps me busy enough.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2010

    I Dunno If I Don't

    Umm....I don't know if I'm too much paranoid sometimes.   I don't want a BF,because I don't think I can afford that. L-bomb...? A boy I knew sent a message to me then called in the semi-midnight...I didn't even answered. What's more...I typed:"Dude,I'm sleeping now...
    Zinniqe Zinniqe
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 16, 2008

    Right now I'm happy being a single young lady.

    I prefer just getting out there and having fun with whoever, than settling down with any commitments
    soph20593 soph20593
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2015

    So Annoying

    alright, so a few weeks ago, i met this guy at school. i developed a crush on him, as i do with a lot of boys. then, last week, he asked me out. i was happy and stuff at first. the date went okay, and we are kinda "going out" now. ive never had a boyfriend before. i should be...
    r548 r548
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2011

    I'm just scared. I don't want to be like my mom.

    I don't want a boyfriend. Okay well, maybe, I do. A little bit. I just want to feel like someone is there for me or something. I don't know. I suck at this department. I'll be a hypocrite for saying that I don't have an 'ideal' guy. I actually do. My definition of an...
    stupidsht stupidsht
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2014

    Just Not For Me

    I just don't see myself with anyone. I'm not a pessimistic, but I'm not a romantic either. My aunt called a couple weeks ago, and she went "So, with anyone?" I reply no. She goes "Well you're looking though, but it'll take some time" Or something along those lines. I go "Eh, I'm...
    Purples Purples
    18-21
    Feb 3, 2010

    If a potential 'Mr. Right' comes along,

    sure I'll give it a go. But I'm perfectly content, right now, by myself. Is that so bad?
    glitched glitched
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2014

    I Have a Related Experience.

    titled "I do not want a boyfriend." I chuckled to myself upon seeing this group. Guess the "don't" is more popular than the "do not", huh? loobiesa, I formed mine first! Sigh. (it's okay, I have respect for individuality. Was it the logo?) My...
    Yknot Yknot
    22-25, F
    Feb 10, 2008
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