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I Don't Want a Boyfriend

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    I Don't Want To Love Cuz I'm Lonely ...

    I'm about to be 15 ... Most of my friends have boyfrieds .. i don't want one , cuz I dont want to fall into their games .. they drop u like toys when they're bored . I prefer to wait until I grow up and become more wise ... and the most important is to "love when you're ready...
    Lamlooom98 Lamlooom98 13-15, F Mar 29, 2012

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    ....

    ...At least not another one.   I already have a great one and don't think I can handle more than one. he keeps me busy enough.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2010

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    I Have a Related Experience.

    titled "I do not want a boyfriend." I chuckled to myself upon seeing this group. Guess the "don't" is more popular than the "do not", huh? loobiesa, I formed mine first! Sigh. (it's okay, I have respect for individuality. Was it the logo?) My...
    Yknot Yknot 22-25, F Feb 10, 2008

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    Just Not For Me

    I just don't see myself with anyone. I'm not a pessimistic, but I'm not a romantic either. My aunt called a couple weeks ago, and she went "So, with anyone?" I reply no. She goes "Well you're looking though, but it'll take some time" Or something along those lines. I go "Eh, I'm...
    Purples Purples 18-21 Feb 3, 2010

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    I like them to look nothing more

    and know no guy would actually be interested in me for me it will only ever be about sex I may say I miss a boyfriend but I don't
    susangoga susangoga 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2015

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    Never Had One, But Saw The Carnage...

    While love appeals to many, and indeed is sometimes considered most important, romantic love is not for me. I''ll love my friends as friends, and my family as family, and the like; however, seeking a mate is something I hold no desire for. I have seen it hurt those close to me...
    Laughingwolf Laughingwolf 16-17, T 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    Just Not Passionate

    This is a fairly recent topic in my life. I guess I searched out this site because none of my friends have replied to my texts. This site has helped alot for making me decide what steps to take next. First, I suppose I should share with you all my story. I am a teenage girl who...
    Junobunn Junobunn 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2013

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    THIS Is My Story...kind of

    In the beginning of 2005 I got divorced and started seeing someone new...he was a guy I'd known for 9 years.  We went to high school together and I'd always known he liked me.  Things started off amazingly...I was very much in love with him within 3 months and vice...
    tinythesp tinythesp 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2008

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 15, 2015

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    If a potential 'Mr. Right' comes along,

    sure I'll give it a go. But I'm perfectly content, right now, by myself. Is that so bad?
    glitched glitched 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 4, 2014

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    I've Been Dysfunctional...

    I don't know where to start... I have craved having a boyfriend at certain times in my life, primarily because I wanted to "fit in" and be normal. However, when I find myself in relationships (which have always ended quickly), I compromise who I am in order to make the...
    periola periola 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2011

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    I'm Just Not Ready.

    Im just starting to get things moving in my life and as much as I have thought that having a love interest might be nice, it's just not what I am looking for right now or for quite awhile. I have had my fair share of romantic attachments, I flirt with guys but I wouldn't be...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F Mar 10, 2010

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    I Dont!!!

    Every girl i know (almost) is saying "I really want a boyfriend" i completely understand how they feel coz i always feel the same....then i find a guy who it doesn't work out with and i finally realised that either im gay (which surprisingly is possible) or that...
    lifenotknife lifenotknife 22-25, F Feb 10, 2008

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    mainly cause how they have treated me put me

    down cheated and treated and talked to me like dirt but if i was to meet someone who would talk nice to me treat me nice and he doesn't put me down or treat me like I am just someone to go out with till they get better if he truely liked me and told me and I felt it then maybe...
    vampirediariesfan vampirediariesfan 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2015

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    Right now I'm happy being a single young lady.

    I prefer just getting out there and having fun with whoever, than settling down with any commitments
    soph20593 soph20593 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2015

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    I Dunno If I Don't

    Umm....I don't know if I'm too much paranoid sometimes.   I don't want a BF,because I don't think I can afford that. L-bomb...? A boy I knew sent a message to me then called in the semi-midnight...I didn't even answered. What's more...I typed:"Dude,I'm sleeping now...
    Zinniqe Zinniqe 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2008

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    Cannot Be Bothered

    Whilst I lust after guys, the idea of having a permanent person always there sort of freaks me out. I like knowing that I can do what I want when I want and without negotiation. The way I see it I have friends and as long as there are friends, I can have enough human company. I...
    Cynanthrope Cynanthrope 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    A Silly Girl Who Wants To Fall In Love

    I'm a silly girl my self I love games and wish to fall in love but now that I'm growing up and going to high school soon hearing about how boys plan to have sex at 14 or 15 makes me scared and shy I don't want a boy firend and if I do get one I don't plan on having sex ..sex...
    Bittersweet46 Bittersweet46 18-21, F Aug 20, 2013

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    •-• I got to make a shout out

    for all the random people that have messaged me so far. And plz don't take this the hard way or think that im a ***** or something awful. I just need to say this though. Once upon a time I had a boyfriend and we were going out for 9 months. Some **** went down with his family...
    Shadoevines Shadoevines 13-15, F Feb 20, 2014

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    Well..

    I'm 21 and i still have so much growing to do, i think back to when i was 18 and i'm totally different, I doubt anybody could keep up with my rapid growth and change. Also i don't particulally want to explain everything i do and think to another person! I don't really...
    lovephilosophylife lovephilosophylife 18-21, F Mar 21, 2008

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    affictitiousredamancy affictitiousredamancy 13-15, M 4 Responses Sep 24, 2015

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    So Annoying

    alright, so a few weeks ago, i met this guy at school. i developed a crush on him, as i do with a lot of boys. then, last week, he asked me out. i was happy and stuff at first. the date went okay, and we are kinda "going out" now. ive never had a boyfriend before. i should be...
    r548 r548 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    I'm just scared. I don't want to be like my mom.

    I don't want a boyfriend. Okay well, maybe, I do. A little bit. I just want to feel like someone is there for me or something. I don't know. I suck at this department. I'll be a hypocrite for saying that I don't have an 'ideal' guy. I actually do. My definition of an...
    stupidsht stupidsht 18-21, F 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    I dont want to do that. I dont care what all the other ones do. I dont feel comfortable. I have a hard time saying no because I dont want to hurt feelings or lose friendship and...
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    Do you find it ****** up that most people want you to respect their decision of wanting kids, but they won't respect your decision of not wanting any?
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    Not having kids is for me a charity act to the world. I believe there are too many people on Earth, and millions do not live good. I think that reducing the number of person would...
    JuPond JuPond 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I could stare at her for hours. Her kissable lips her beautiful eyes. Her contagious smile. She's everything I've ever wanted and yet some. She's perfect to me. I shall call her my...
    CleansedSoul CleansedSoul 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Sometimes you care too much about someone who doesn't give a **** about you. Life sucks
    LoloRegz LoloRegz 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's crazy. When you are friends with someone for so long, only to realize years later that you can't talk about EVERYTHING. I learned that over the past weekend. I love this...
    Jazzy1234 Jazzy1234 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I don't believe in marriage. Making vows and saying 'I Do' is just a promise. And promises are quite easily broken. A wedding ring does not offer any protection. It will not...
    Elmayarah Elmayarah 70+, F 5 days ago

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    I was just informed that a very good friend of mine is having a kid. I'm feeling very conflicted about the news. On one hand, I want to be happy for him. Kids are supposed to be a...
    AmayaTsuki AmayaTsuki 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    We drove by her house today. I wasn't the same for the rest of the night.
    kayla459 kayla459 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hearing about my old friends from middle school having kids now in their twenties makes me think about how much I value my freedom. It surprises me that they decided to have kids...
    rbblackcherry rbblackcherry 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I want my first time to be with someone special, on the other hand I get h0rny and just want to have sex with whoever. It's hard.
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    ughhhh really don't wanna go.
    hexKrona hexKrona 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't want children nor do I have children and it's staying that way. First when becoming intimate with my husband when get the mood all of the sudden kids come in no thank you...
    Cynthia1976 Cynthia1976 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    im madly, deeply in love with a man that dosnt love me back. i want to marry him but he wants to lie and cheat. i need to forget about him so i can be happy but its difficult to...
    jbrose413 jbrose413 22-25 a week ago

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    In my opinion, I'm not a very smart person, have not made the smartest choices, and have not had the funnest time on earth. I don't want to raise a child in a world like this to...
    ghostofthesun ghostofthesun 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    If I help you, it's because I have made the choice. Although I don't ask for anything in return, understand that I will not allow myself, or my family to be taken advantage of.
    ZenLioness ZenLioness 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I know several women who went through it at some point in their lifes, and it's no joke ! If it happens that a stranger just gropes her, it feels as she is severely violated and...
    AdBlue AdBlue 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I accidentally gave my boyfriend hope today by talking about surrogate mothers out of curiosity. Not only do I not want to carry a child (which he thinks is the only reason) I...
    Nadiiaa Nadiiaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Unless it is from family or a friend who i am certain is not just going to want to chit chat for the sake of passing time I ignore the phone unless I really want to kill time...
    shadowgurl444 shadowgurl444 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 26

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    Especially not if your number is private. i always say if it's important they'll leave a message. Am i the only one who does or thinks that?
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