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I Don't Want a Boyfriend

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    Just Not For Me

    I just don't see myself with anyone. I'm not a pessimistic, but I'm not a romantic either. My aunt called a couple weeks ago, and she went "So, with anyone?" I reply no. She goes "Well you're looking though, but it'll take some time" Or something along those lines. I go "Eh, I'm...
    Purples Purples 18-21 Feb 3, 2010

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    I'm just scared. I don't want to be like my mom.

    I don't want a boyfriend. Okay well, maybe, I do. A little bit. I just want to feel like someone is there for me or something. I don't know. I suck at this department. I'll be a hypocrite for saying that I don't have an 'ideal' guy. I actually do. My definition of an...
    stupidsht stupidsht 16-17, F 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    Never Had One, But Saw The Carnage...

    While love appeals to many, and indeed is sometimes considered most important, romantic love is not for me. I''ll love my friends as friends, and my family as family, and the like; however, seeking a mate is something I hold no desire for. I have seen it hurt those close to me...
    Laughingwolf Laughingwolf 16-17, T 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    THIS Is My Story...kind of

    In the beginning of 2005 I got divorced and started seeing someone new...he was a guy I'd known for 9 years.  We went to high school together and I'd always known he liked me.  Things started off amazingly...I was very much in love with him within 3 months and vice...
    tinythesp tinythesp 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2008

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    Cannot Be Bothered

    Whilst I lust after guys, the idea of having a permanent person always there sort of freaks me out. I like knowing that I can do what I want when I want and without negotiation. The way I see it I have friends and as long as there are friends, I can have enough human company. I...
    Cynanthrope Cynanthrope 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    I Dunno If I Don't

    Umm....I don't know if I'm too much paranoid sometimes.   I don't want a BF,because I don't think I can afford that. L-bomb...? A boy I knew sent a message to me then called in the semi-midnight...I didn't even answered. What's more...I typed:"Dude,I'm sleeping now...
    Zinniqe Zinniqe 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2008

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    I Don't Want To Love Cuz I'm Lonely ...

    I'm about to be 15 ... Most of my friends have boyfrieds .. i don't want one , cuz I dont want to fall into their games .. they drop u like toys when they're bored . I prefer to wait until I grow up and become more wise ... and the most important is to "love when you're ready...
    Lamlooom98 Lamlooom98 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2012

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    So Annoying

    alright, so a few weeks ago, i met this guy at school. i developed a crush on him, as i do with a lot of boys. then, last week, he asked me out. i was happy and stuff at first. the date went okay, and we are kinda "going out" now. ive never had a boyfriend before. i should be...
    r548 r548 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    ....

    ...At least not another one.   I already have a great one and don't think I can handle more than one. he keeps me busy enough.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2010

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    I Have a Related Experience.

    titled "I do not want a boyfriend." I chuckled to myself upon seeing this group. Guess the "don't" is more popular than the "do not", huh? loobiesa, I formed mine first! Sigh. (it's okay, I have respect for individuality. Was it the logo?) My...
    Yknot Yknot 22-25, F Feb 10, 2008

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    Well..

    I'm 21 and i still have so much growing to do, i think back to when i was 18 and i'm totally different, I doubt anybody could keep up with my rapid growth and change. Also i don't particulally want to explain everything i do and think to another person! I don't really...
    lovephilosophylife lovephilosophylife 21-25, F Mar 21, 2008

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    •-• I got to make a shout out

    for all the random people that have messaged me so far. And plz don't take this the hard way or think that im a ***** or something awful. I just need to say this though. Once upon a time I had a boyfriend and we were going out for 9 months. Some **** went down with his family...
    Shadoevines Shadoevines 13-15, F Feb 20, 2014

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    A Silly Girl Who Wants To Fall In Love

    I'm a silly girl my self I love games and wish to fall in love but now that I'm growing up and going to high school soon hearing about how boys plan to have sex at 14 or 15 makes me scared and shy I don't want a boy firend and if I do get one I don't plan on having sex ..sex...
    Bittersweet46 Bittersweet46 18-21, F Aug 20, 2013

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    I've Been Dysfunctional...

    I don't know where to start... I have craved having a boyfriend at certain times in my life, primarily because I wanted to "fit in" and be normal. However, when I find myself in relationships (which have always ended quickly), I compromise who I am in order to make the...
    periola periola 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2011

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    I Dont!!!

    Every girl i know (almost) is saying "I really want a boyfriend" i completely understand how they feel coz i always feel the same....then i find a guy who it doesn't work out with and i finally realised that either im gay (which surprisingly is possible) or that...
    lifenotknife lifenotknife 22-25, F Feb 10, 2008

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    I'm Just Not Ready.

    Im just starting to get things moving in my life and as much as I have thought that having a love interest might be nice, it's just not what I am looking for right now or for quite awhile. I have had my fair share of romantic attachments, I flirt with guys but I wouldn't be...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F Mar 10, 2010

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    If a potential 'Mr. Right' comes along,

    sure I'll give it a go. But I'm perfectly content, right now, by myself. Is that so bad?
    glitched glitched 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 4, 2014

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    Just Not Passionate

    This is a fairly recent topic in my life. I guess I searched out this site because none of my friends have replied to my texts. This site has helped alot for making me decide what steps to take next. First, I suppose I should share with you all my story. I am a teenage girl who...
    Junobunn Junobunn 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    My boyfriend and I met last summer through some mutual friends, when I first met him, he was so sweet and nice. I had just gotten out of a really horrible relationship with my ex...
    Wvgirl20 Wvgirl20 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I know it's a naive wish, but I don't want to be an adult. Honestly, I don't know what I want to be. My sister wanted to drive so much, she counted down the days, but I don't want...
    fighteratheart fighteratheart 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Yea So I don't want Kids and I don't think so I own an explanation to people why? I mean hell yeah it's my oven and it's my choice whether I want to bake something or not:) I just...
    liftingmind liftingmind 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 13

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    I was sexually abused for years when I was younger. I suffered from severe, suicidal depression when I was at school. I was sexually assaulted by some guys I thought were my...
    PlayingARole PlayingARole 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    No, this group shouldn't be about minors being too stupid to be here, I beg to differ. I don't want minors in here because I don't want dirty people influencing them. Sure, I've...
    trAnSyLvanIanconcuBinE trAnSyLvanIanconcuBinE 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    iv never liked kids...even when I was a child other kids were playing with baby dolls and i couldn't stand them...I would rather play with barbies and video games. from the time i...
    phinixmak phinixmak 26-30 a week ago

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    I don't want kids. Plain and simple. When I'm in a store and when I hear kids screaming on top of their lungs, I actually HAVE to leave the store or go somewhere else in the store...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    Okay, so there's this guy and we've been friends for a year+ now. He has continually expressed wanting to date me and I have said no A LOT. I value him so much in my life, he's one...
    heidiiscatlady heidiiscatlady 16-17, T 1 Response Feb 5

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    You know what really bothers me? When people ask me why I don't want kids and I tell them it's because I don't like them, they come back with "you were a kid once." Seriously...
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M 6 Responses Feb 12

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    I'm so lost right now, I don't want to live anymore...
    EyelessGlitch EyelessGlitch 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 28

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    I just don't want to face the next day so soon
    Brimmless Brimmless 16-17, F Feb 1

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    My girlfriend is moving to Canada for anywhere from 6 to 14 months. I'm unable to go with her due to other commitments. She's super excited, but I really don't want her to go and I...
    illnameitlater illnameitlater 26-30, M Feb 4

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    Okay let me just start by saying I'm 15 nearly 16 years old. I'm working making my own money, paying my own bills -- and soon will have my licence. Believe me when I say ALL...
    mstv1112 mstv1112 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I hate being single I don't want to be all alone and sad on Valentine's Day
    kota134567 kota134567 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 8

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    love women who prefer to be touched by women. I worship them and don't want to be allowed to touch them. Hope to be taunted and humiliated by them.
    Hermeister Hermeister 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    I always said that I would never be this type of person... what am I doing... it's like I have no control over my self anymore. I use to give myself the best advice but now.... I...
    mypawshaveprints mypawshaveprints 18-21, F Feb 15

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    I already have 3 kids from my first marriage, a 5 year old boy a I had twin girls last year. My ex cheated on me when I was pregnant so I kicked him out. No my divorce isn't final...
    youreallywanttoknow youreallywanttoknow 26-30, F Feb 17

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    It's not that i never want kids because that would be a lie; I know that i am definitely not ready for one. I am 16 and honestly i want to be like 30 and have my first baby. I want...
    lolawolf lolawolf 16-17, F Jan 31

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    When I was younger I like the idea of becoming a mother until my nephew became a Father for the first time and his drama mama ex girlfriend keeps calling my mother to babysit so...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 18-21, F Feb 8

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    God. Help me. I feel so alone. It kills me every now and then. I want to live another life but I don't and I can't leave my current. I can't lose everything. That'll be the end of...
    MargoRothSpiegelman MargoRothSpiegelman 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    What's the point of having any anyway? Having a big belly for like 9 months just for another human being who is going to **** on your face when growing up? Or the perfect husband...
    indiebabe46 indiebabe46 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I can't accept that life is short. I can't accept that... It's hard. You just want to grab someone you love and tell them how much you love them and how much they mean to you...
    undeadsuperhero undeadsuperhero 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I'm losing it I can't hold on anymore. I just want to be done with life. I've never hurt this badly before. He destroyed me I hate him for it. I loved him I was there. He doesn't...
    imjustme8268 imjustme8268 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I've been fat my whole life. I have no idea what it's like to be skinny. But I do know what it's like to not be able to do the things the skinny people do. I'd like to think I'm...
    wefallbutoursoulsfly wefallbutoursoulsfly 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    No offence, Its not that I think you are dumb or anything, but i just don't. I do not want to talk to people who are underage here. So if you are using a false age in your profile...
    Serveyou100 Serveyou100 41-45, M Feb 4

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    But I know I will be. Every time someone saids they like me or want to be my friend, they always ignore or stop talking to me, or treat me bad. I don't know what I do that makes...
    Huskyforders Huskyforders 13-15, F 26 Responses Feb 6

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    2/7/2015 It has been 4 years to this month( unsure about the day) and i have not kissed/loved or touched another person until i met Him. I am writing this because i do not want to...
    lovexghoul lovexghoul 36-40, F Feb 8

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    I just want someone that will help me and won't leave. Someone I loved just left we don't talk an im dying I have no one anymore.
    ash0014 ash0014 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Yeah the world today is all about people furthering their own agendas. Makes me want to get off grid. Reconnect with what is real. Get away from all the human bullshit our species...
    Progs13 Progs13 22-25, M Feb 15

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