I Don't Want a Divorce

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    What To Do?

    my husband left 1.5 months ago after i learned about his affair he is now living with the other woman and believe it or not, I don't want a divorce. I have done all of the desperate things people do.. crying, begging you name it.. i am wondering why he hasn't served me with...
    onnie1234 onnie1234
    36-40, M
    Feb 7, 2010

    I Really Love My Wife(the Love Of My Life), But She Want To Get Seperated Now.

      I am married for the last 12 months. It was a love marriage.the day when she said yes to my proposal was one of the most beautiful day of my life. we had a courtship of 5 years before we got married. its an intercaste marriage.she is a brahmin and i am not, due to which...
    sarkarp sarkarp
    26-30, M
    Dec 20, 2010

    My Wife Wants a Divorce

    I've been married for 3 years, andmy wife says she doesn't love me anymore.  I put her through hell, I really did.  I never beat her, nor have I ever demeaned her, but it seems that I did worse.  I neglected her.  See, she has always been so sacrificial for my...
    Mushrat79 Mushrat79
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

    First Christmas Eve alone with out my children.

    I am heart broken. Why is this happening?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 23, 2013

    I'm a real piece of work.

    I married the girl of my dreams and had three beautiful kids with her. But I have issues. Serious issues. I have PTSD, anxiety, anger issues, depression. I lash out and say hurtful things, I get tired and do not want to move, I withdraw from everyone, I do not go to social...
    Cantevergetright Cantevergetright
    31-35, M
    1 Response Aug 19, 2015

    As I look through our marital home,

    I remember all the happy times and the parties we have held here. I'm looking at all this hostess stuff and all I see are parties that will never happen, thanksgiving potlucks with his family that will never happen, Christmas decorations for a once merry house, party...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2014

    I Really Don't Want And I'm Afraid

    I have posted several stories about my story with my wife and the changed that happened in our marriage when our first baby came My wife recently keeps telling me she decided she cannot live with me anymore, when I ask her about the reason she keep saying it is because she want...
    fatherinpain fatherinpain
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 20, 2011

    I Don't Want To Give Up

    December 11th of this year would have been our 4th anniversary. Except that Friday..my husband told me that he had spoken to a lawyer and filed for us to divorce. We still sleep in the same bed.. he puts his arms around me every night. Yesterday we made love. We still laugh...
    1sweetcookie 1sweetcookie
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 21, 2013

    Don't Want This!

    My husband n I recently seperated because he got scared of the intense committments that finally fully realized themselves to him...He was now a husband...Now a father...N he ran...I understand that I really do, and I wanna be able to help him thru all of this...But now he has a...
    MariMissQueen MariMissQueen
    18-21, F
    Aug 23, 2008

    After 23 Years

    My husband and I have been married for 23 years. Last week he came home and says he is not happy in our marriage. While we have had our problems over the years, I thought we were doing pretty well. He says he doesn't really know why he is unhappy but doesn't want to work it out...
    Becka1272 Becka1272
    1 Response Nov 13, 2012

    So today this was it,

    this has gone on long enough and had to end... She flippantly said she loved me... ( but this unloving has gone one for well over 10 yrs) like that's always supposed to make it better. But today I told her that I needed more... That things needed to improve and quickly.. If not...
    CrownedSprite CrownedSprite
    46-50, M
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    I never in a million years thought a divorce was

    even possible for me and my husband. After ten years and three kids later, he is giving us up, so he can be "healthier" and not die in three years from working so much. He easily blames me for everything, but he forgets that he owes almost $500,000 in student loans. It's...
    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 26, 2014

    My Wife Fell In Love With Another, And Now I Am Nothing To Her

    I don't suppose the details are too important.  I have been separated from her since July 2009, and she told me about the affair in October.  We have a three year old son, which makes it hurt so much more.  That's what matters the most about this situation - it...
    starless starless
    31-35, M
    6 Responses Feb 24, 2010

    Husband Having Affair

     My husband is having an affair and says he wants a divorce, on most days.  Others he is undecided.  But my biggest problem is as follows:  And I need all teh help i can get with it:   Discovery Channel, in conjunction with 3Ball Productions, is...
    armysis132 armysis132
    1 Response Aug 16, 2009
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