I Dont Want A Relationship Right Now

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 156 People

    Once I am free of this man's control,

    I doubt I will want a relationship for a very long time!
    Strugglemuch Strugglemuch
    46-50, F
    Oct 23, 2015

    Avoid The Light

    Being recently separated has left a void in my life. I don't feel it all the time, but I feel empty now and then. There is this giant whole that seems to be missing. I have no interest in getting into a relationship right now, but I want someone to hang out with. Bowling, movies...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 20, 2012

    Lies

    I was in a relationship with my boyfriend for 15 months or so, half of it long distance, and we broke it off because he was in love with my best friend instead (who actually lives in the same city as him). A month after that, he gets a girlfriend, but not my best friend that he's...
    TakeMyHand688 TakeMyHand688
    18-21, F
    Jun 11, 2013

    I Dont Want a Relationship Right Now

    Its been 2 years since i have had a relationship,prior to that i had been married twice and one long time relationship,at the moment i dont seem to want anyone i have my 12 year old son most of the time staying with me and if i were to find someone else it would interfere with my...
    Tom1958 Tom1958
    51-55
    1 Response Aug 31, 2009

    I get so annoyed when I tell people this

    and they think they can change my mind because they're so wonderful. Or a guy hears this and thinks ok cool she's friend with benefit material which is far from the truth. All I can say is if you expect either you're wasting your time and you end up wasting mine. I don't have to...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    Life isn't about relationships.

    It's about you. Manifest your goals and make something of yourself and you will be at peace with the world and yourself . Then you will find someone who enjoys what you enjoy and things might happen, if not, who cares . Lol
    jacqueline212 jacqueline212
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2014

    Nope

    not one serious anyway.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 25, 2010

    There's nothing wrong with giving me

    compliments... Or casual conversation... But, please don't try to find your way into my heart... I've put it under lock and key...
    Mfudgie Mfudgie
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Mar 22

    False. ...

    False. I do want a relationship however I seem to want it with the wrong people lol
    hotmess hotmess
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2007

    I'm on here to make friends

    and express myself so maybe if we'd been speaking for a while I would contemplate going out but If your first message to me is hi let's date or something like that I'm not going to be very nice
    snazzygal3000 snazzygal3000
    16-17, F
    May 7, 2014

    Everybody always asking

    if I have a girlfriend right now. Why the hell should you care?! No, I don't have one right now, and I don't feel like losing one right now either. I already lost the one I loved the most when we both moved away from each other. Until I can get over that great pain, don't even...
    BloodFanatic BloodFanatic
    18-21, M
    May 7, 2014

    Finally, A Special New Years

    I haven't not had a boyfriend for the past two years. If I don't have a boyfriend, I'm pursuing some guy. I've been chasing a guy for the past few months, and last night he and a bunch of friends came over to celebrate the new year. We stayed up all night just being...
    Tyler Tyler
    16-17
    1 Response Jan 1, 2007

    I Really Long to Be In a Roman...

    I really long to be in a romantic relationship with a friend I've known since primary school. We live far from each other but with the brief amount of time I've spent with her during our summer holidays, it really increased my fascination and even obsession about her. I can't...
    lupin136 lupin136
    16-17, M
    Aug 25, 2007

    Not For Me At This Point In Time

    Im just i guess kinda to self focused right now ...i have to be well and  ready for the stress that comes from a relationsip ... they tend to make me manic @ least in the beginning anyways  and thats not good and i tend to get to wrapped up in it and forget about my...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    Mar 21, 2007

    I probably don't ever want one again.

    What's the point? The guy I loved broke my heart & used me for sex & money. He wasn't my boyfriend he was my husband for 12 years & the father of my kids. I don't hate him, I hated myself for being a doormat.
    selina1986 selina1986
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 15

    And I'm not sure that I ever will quite frankly.

    It's not because of a bad experience or anything like that, it's just how I see my life going and I'm not sure that I particularly need someone to share it with.
    TiredTruth TiredTruth
    16-17
    Dec 22, 2015

    Loving the single life

    but seriously, I'm kind of bummed with everyone getting into relationships. I feel like I'm losing them as my buddies. I'm somewhat friends with my cousin's buddies and they are great for road trips!! Just really chill guys and I get kind of flattered when some try to hit on...
    syltutu syltutu
    22-25, F
    May 4, 2014

    I'm In a Permanent Relatio...

    I'm in a permanent relationship right now, so there's no need for another one.  I'm lucky enough to have found the person I will spend the rest of my life with.
    harleywife harleywife
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2007

    In 3 Words Why I Don't Want It

    I Don't Want A Relationship Right Now or in a longgg time because: TOO.MUCH.DRAMA.
    LawI LawI
    16-17, M
    Dec 18, 2011

    "99 per cent of socks are single

    and you don't see them crying"
    bringmethemoon bringmethemoon
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    Oh So True

    I have been single now for about five months now and have come to realize that although i love the whole stability of a relationship sometimes a girl just doesnt wanna be tied down, especially when she is only 20 yrs old. I loved being with my ex....he was a really great guy...
    gigi07 gigi07
    22-25, F
    Aug 31, 2009

    Almost 4 Years, No Relationshipever

     i don't know that i ever will want one again. i'm 25 and have been single since i broke up with my bf almost 4 years ago. don't get me wrong, i've dated more than i would ever care to mention, but haven't even made a connection with anyone. i often wonder what is wrong with...
    misstiff22 misstiff22
    22-25
    1 Response Sep 16, 2008

    Who has time 4 relationships,

    when there is so many men, so little time!!! Come & get it!!!
    pyeito pyeito
    31-35, M
    May 7, 2014
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