I Don't Want Kids

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    I do not want kids ever,

    I think it's way too much work. personally I don't think I could put that much care into something for that long a time.
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    22-25, M
    Mar 8, 2016

    I joined the group because I don't want kids

    for now. Maybe in the future I will change my mind.
    cuteshy cuteshy
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 17, 2016

    You know what really bothers me?

    When people ask me why I don't want kids and I tell them it's because I don't like them, they come back with "you were a kid once." Seriously, what's your point? Just because I was a kid once doesn't mean I have to like kids. That's stupid. I can't handle them. They're too...
    MichaelMyers1 MichaelMyers1
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    Nothing frustrates me more

    than being told I will change my mind when I "get old enough" or "meet the right man." These things imply that as an adult I am still not fully capable of making decisions and that the decisions that I will make in the future are not my own, that they'll be based on a man in my...
    charmyxd charmyxd
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 13, 2014

    I have literally no desire

    for it. Not even the slightest. It really cuts down on potentials for dating.
    OrganicMachina OrganicMachina
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 10, 2016

    This world is too hateful to allow kids in it.

    i would never be able to do anything just worrying about if my child is allright.
    LilNoName LilNoName
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 20, 2016

    Yea So I don't want Kids

    and I don't think so I own an explanation to people why? I mean hell yeah it's my oven and it's my choice whether I want to bake something or not:) I just Don't want Kids.
    liftingmind liftingmind
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    The Reason Most People Have Kids

    The main reason I don't want kids is because most young women I know (including my own mother) were scared to be alone got knocked up by the first guy that showed them attention and got married or stayed together for it. Years down the line they're miserable hate each other even...
    NocturnalNightmare NocturnalNightmare
    26-30, M
    8 Responses Jan 17, 2012

    And I hate it when adults tell me,

    "you're just saying that now". NO. I. AM. NOT. Kids annoy the **** out of me. Except for infants, they're absolutely ADORABLE! But that's besides the point. Why would I want to bring innocent babies into this cold, cruel, viscous, evil world . It's just selfish!
    HarryPotterFan0926 HarryPotterFan0926
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2016

    Another trip to Walmart reminds me to keep my

    legs closed. They're so loud, whiney, and obnoxious. I like to think I'd raise mine better but I'm not sure.
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Mar 20, 2016

    I'd rather help the earth

    than humanity...
    TerminaHero TerminaHero
    Apr 22, 2014

    In my opinion, I'm not a very smart person,

    have not made the smartest choices, and have not had the funnest time on earth. I don't want to raise a child in a world like this to set them up for hurt and disappointment, because humans are cruel creatures. I also don't have the patience to take care of a child when I don...
    ghostofthesun ghostofthesun
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 27, 2016

    One of a kind closeted gay man looking

    for his soul mate, a closeted lesbian. 100% discreet and 100% masculine. I am handsome, physically fit, athletic, genuine, outgoing, career oriented. I am 5,11 tall, 170 lbs, dark brown hair with green eyes. I am Caucasian, Italian background and was born and raised in NY...
    joesmithnyc joesmithnyc
    41-45, M
    Feb 28, 2016

    I accidentally gave my boyfriend hope today by

    talking about surrogate mothers out of curiosity. Not only do I not want to carry a child (which he thinks is the only reason) I just don't want a child. I don't want to take care of child, share my funds with a child, or raise a child. I don't know why I brought that up...
    ASadCatNamedNadia ASadCatNamedNadia
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2016

    I have started to feel more powerfully about

    this since my friends started to have them themselves. Good, old, Female friends that are essentially permanently off the market and incredibly difficult to even TALK to anymore because their entire lives are now devoted to raising the kids. it's kind of a Grim feeling now...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Jan 31, 2016

    I don't find anything special about kids.

    I don't HATE them, I just don't know what the fuss about them is. To a parent, their kids are the greatest things ever, which is understandable, but to everyone else, they're just kids. They aren't gifts, they aren't miracles, (although to some women who can't have them, I'd say...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    Not having kids is for me a charity act to the

    world. I believe there are too many people on Earth, and millions do not live good. I think that reducing the number of person would be positive for the nature cause we could all have an access to food, field and water without fighting. So I don't want to participate to the...
    JuPond JuPond
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 1, 2016

    whenever I tell people my decision they keep

    nagging at me telling me the bad sides of not having kids as if having them as no bad sides at all
    Velune Velune
    18-21, F
    Mar 1, 2016

    I do not want to bring kids into this crazy

    messed up world. But I do want to help the ones already here.
    rubyjuly rubyjuly
    26-30, F
    6 Responses May 31, 2015

    Why Is Pregnancy Viewed As This Incredible Accomplishment? It Grosses Me Out

    When a woman (usually a celebrity) announces that she knocked up, it is looked upon like this miraculous, awesome feat. Why? Any idiot can get pregnant. No matter how stupid, poor, incompetent and emotionally unstable you are, if you're a female who has periods and a uterus...
    bolistoli bolistoli
    56-60, F
    21 Responses Aug 31, 2011

    I'm trying to take care of my body.

    I refuse to ruin it with pregnancy.
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    Apr 17, 2016

    Doing The World A Favor

       I have never liked kids, most of my family thinks I love kids. I would be really embarrassed if they found out some how that I don't. I don't wanna be judged just because I'm not like most women in the world who want kids right off the bat. Half the reason why I stayed a...
    Evlana Evlana
    22-25, F
    22 Responses Jun 30, 2011

    If I wanted kids, I'll have them

    because I WANT to. Not because I HAVE to. A lot of people have kids because they feel like they HAVE to.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 6, 2015

    This seems to be okay

    for a man to say, but not a woman. I'm 27 and there hasn't ever been a day I have just dreamed of having kids of my own. I always told my mother I didn't want any, but family still holds out for a maybe. I don't ever see it.
    dahliadiva dahliadiva
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 28, 2016
    deleted deleted
    Apr 27, 2015

    I have never wanted kids.

    People ask me why not, but to me that's just the wrong question. The right question is why I would want to have kids in the first place, and I don't have any good answer to that. Maybe me having kids would please my mother, but that doesn't seem like a good enough reason to do...
    YesChildfree YesChildfree
    1 Response Mar 5, 2016

    I have known most of my life.

    I got all the usual replies about how I will change my mind, I will be lonely, or how it's sad I don't want kids. Sometimes I STILL get those responses! Of course, I am fixed now. The decision has been made and I am goddmned proud of it!! Spring is baby season though. Two of...
    Doomflower Doomflower
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 29, 2016

    Reply 1) If your intentions are to guilt trip

    people for not wanting kids. 2) Tell why 3) And if you would ever force someone to have kids because you're uncomfortable with their decisions. Heart if you respect people's decisions for not wanting kids.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Nov 4, 2015

    I wrote a longer post about this before,

    but I saw this link recently and had to share it. People often act shocked and call me "selfish" when they find out that I don't want kids. But here is a link showing the devastating effects of overpopulation: http://amazyble.com/world/devastating-effects-overpopulation/ Who...
    pixieowl pixieowl
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 12, 2015

    I was just informed that a very good friend of

    mine is having a kid. I'm feeling very conflicted about the news. On one hand, I want to be happy for him. Kids are supposed to be a joyful experience, right? On the other hand, I've known my friend for over a decade and he's never expressed an interest in having children. In...
    AmayaTsuki AmayaTsuki
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2016

    There are countless reasons

    why I don't want children. One being: People may call me selfish for not having children. However, I say that bringing a innocent, helpless child into a world full or death, hate, pain, suffering, war, judgement, and confusion no matter how much help and love a parent may THINK...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    I attended a family gathering

    and when I mentioned for the million time that I don't want kids since I have a future to think about Ppl started to make the tick tock sound. Well actually your clock is ticking because as soon as you have your own kid then life is over for you not for me since I have a whole...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Mar 22, 2016

    How come when people say they want kids,

    they're old enough to make that decision, but when I say I don't want kids, I'm too young to make that choice?
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2016

    never, I've talked about this with my partner

    since we got together. I never want kids. I'm not gonna make my body suffer through labor.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 8, 2016

    I can't stand when a child screams.

    It ****** me off and all I want to do is tell the child to shut up.
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2016

    I rather have puppy fever

    than baby fever.
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Feb 8, 2016

    Manipulation does not work on people

    who don't want kids. Parents who do it to their own kids, are horrible parents. Who the **** gave them the right to do such a thing? They do it because their kids are not giving them what they want so those parents are trying to make their own kids feel bad about themselves and...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    Because I'm forty-*******-four years old.

    Stop asking when, or why not. It's none of your ******* business anyway.
    andie2007 andie2007
    46-50, F
    18 Responses Oct 17, 2015

    In china there is a 1 child policy.

    Too bad that policy isn't world wide. Then there will be Less annoying ******* you want to slap the **** out of.And less risks of overpopulation running out of resources and have famine take over the globe. Some idiots with their 1 world problems nag how cruel it is to grow up...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 17, 2015

    Next month, I'm getting a new puppy.

    I can't wait to go puppy shopping :)
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    This girl was screaming in my face,

    she's about ten or so, and I could hear her through my ear phones blasting music. I turned to her and said " can you NOT yell in my face? " I don't give a darn if that was rude of me. She's old enough to know manners.
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 20, 2016

    What's the point of having any anyway?

    Having a big belly for like 9 months just for another human being who is going to **** on your face when growing up? Or the perfect husband who won't be so perfect at all when he'll want to divorce to continue his ''own damn life'' They just make me wanna slap the crap out of...
    AfricanGirl19 AfricanGirl19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2015
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2016

    I don't hate kids, I actually look forward to

    becoming an aunt so I could spoil them with toys then return them when they get annoying. I just like my personal space alot and wish that I could find a guy who thinks this way as well.
    Velune Velune
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2016

    The thought of a thing growing

    and feeding inside my body disgusts me and makes me nauseous.
    sunflowerpet sunflowerpet
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Feb 17, 2015

    I would feel trapped

    and held back if I had kids. I wouldn't be able to up and leave w/o worrying about finding a babysitter if I decided to go on vacation. I hate the idea that I can't be selfish.
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    Apr 11, 2016

    Reasons why I don't want kids: 1) I argue with

    them 2) I have no patience 3) I get mad at them if they're being naughty 4) And I have to watch my cussing
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 25, 2016

    When I see a sticker on the window of a car

    with "Baby on board" I just want to puke. It's like everyone needs to bow down to their holy crotch drop.
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    And to be clear right away; this has nothing to

    do with my lifestyle in whatever form. I get along great with the kids of my friends and relatives and I do a lot of voluteerwork that involves childeren, so it´s not that I hate kids either. I am 31 now and so is my boyfriend. We have reached an age where people around us...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    Do you find it ****** up

    that most people want you to respect their decision of wanting kids, but they won't respect your decision of not wanting any?
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Feb 3, 2016

    Honestly, I hate children.

    Especially babies, idk, they're too much responsibility for me. Crying is annoying, and they're too ******* needy. They're like little gremlins who steal your youth and money. I'd much rather just have a dog. At least dogs don't argue.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    I haven't always felt this way,

    but I don't want to bring a child in this messed up world. My friends think I'm selfish, but I think it's selfish if I have one. I'm not emotionally stable to support a child. It's not like it's only me. All of my sisters don't want children either. Our legacy stops with our...
    Schoolinlife Schoolinlife
    31-35, F
    13 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    Why should I bring a child into this unfair,

    cruel and satanic world? While I ignore other children starving and dying all over the place...
    Youcanthandlemyusername Youcanthandlemyusername
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Sep 9, 2015

    The Top 10 Reasons....

    10. I've got no motherly instinct. I've never felt it at all, even when around babies. I don't see the facination. 9. Screaming and whining just grate on my nerves. 8. Pain of childbirth? No thanks. Stretching out that area down there? No thanks. Chance of ripping...
    DietIcedTea DietIcedTea
    36-40, F
    11 Responses May 30, 2009

    Especially when my niece kicks me in the

    ******* face for putting her in time out and by deleting her apps. God forbid I actually try to discipline the little brat. That would mean you guys would have to deal with the brat crying! Boo hoo. I rather deal with this bs now then have to deal with a ***** of a teen later on...
    GrinchFairy GrinchFairy
    Apr 7, 2016
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