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I Don't Want People To Feel Sorry For Me

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    I Dont Want Pity!!

    when i share stories here on ep, its just to express my feelings, and get things off my chest, cos i have so much difficulty expressing my feelings to people in real life, and i can share things here on ep, knowing that not many people that read my stories here on ep will...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 26, 2010

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    I Don't Want Pitty

    I do enough of that for myself and it gets me nowhere but deeper into my rut. I know it's maybe a bit hypocritical of me but I do feel sorry for myself but if I think some one else is feeling sorry for me or they say "I feel sorry for you" I take it as a bit of an insult. I...
    myselfxox myselfxox 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2010

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    Blind Man Looking For Respect.

    I like people friending me.But not because thay feel sorry for me or thay want friends.No one has messaged me for ages.And i am thinking get all of the friend things and no one messaged me.So i don't no but there you go if people want to friend me then cool but send me a message...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 25, 2011

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    I Share To Help Or If I Feel Like It....

    I know that I have some pretty tough stories here, about my past... a few of my present. But, I don't share them for praises... or WORSE, pity! Keep your pity to yourself! I only have pity for my enemies, not for my friends! =p I can care for my friends and support...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 16, 2009

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    I Have A Strong Sense Of Pride.....

    And I hope that will never change. I keep my life and past a secret from everyone as I am deeply ashamed of where I am right now. 26, single, still living at home and with no friends. I don't know if that comes across in person. Whenever anyone asks me what I did of a weekend, I...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2011

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    I Don,t Want Ppl To Feel Sorry For Me

    i have written some stories that have been hard for me to write , but in no way do i want to be felt sorry for, life can be tough and sometimes you have to tough it outand do the best you can
    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 3, 2011

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    Pity Is Not Welcome!

    but, i do appreciate a friend, wisdom, knowledge, understanding and conversations :) thanks eerbody.
    justwhatever123 justwhatever123 26-30, F Jan 2, 2011

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    Pity??no Thanks

    I only found this website about a week ago and think its great,it helps me express myself which i dont think iv ever done properly. I dont want pity because my problems only make me stronger. Hope everyone has a happy and peaceful life and may the good of people outshine...
    aceer aceer 18-21, M Apr 26, 2010

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    I know that I've lost a lot.

    But you telling me "I feel sorry for you" won't help me and in matter of a fact I'd take it as an insult.
    beautyoutofsorrows beautyoutofsorrows 18-21, F Feb 1, 2014

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    don' t ever feek sorry

    for me, i dont care what i say, just dont. i appreciate that you care but please
    FloralSmoke18 FloralSmoke18 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2014

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    I don't need people feeling sorry

    for me just because I choose to not have s*x it's my choice not yours you say my body is a temple and I should enjoy it I say my body is a temple and I should respect it I should be feeling sorry for you sl*ts on 16 and pregnant
    CookieMonsta17 CookieMonsta17 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I hate people feeling sorry

    for me because it puts to much attention on me. People feel bad for me because my back pack is to heavy and i cant use my locker but i can handle my problems unlike most of the people in my school who cheat of me or take advantage of me
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M Aug 28, 2014

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    "You Better Hate Me Than To Feel Sorry For Me."

    Everyone have problems that want to share. Everyone lived some difficulties in their lives from whom we are awarded with highly prise - strength, knowledge and experience! We all know that no one is perfect so life couldn't be perfect.. There are not always flowers in our lives...
    zoejanee zoejanee 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2011

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    I Can't Tell You When I'm Lonely!!

    I can't tell you when I'm lonely because you feel sorry for me! But I AM lonely sometimes!!!!! But you feeling pity for me makes me feel like ****. I'm sorry my feeling bad makes you feel bad... mostly because now I can't share that with you! And when we meet I have to make stuff...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 Aug 30, 2011

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    I want empathy, somebody

    who understands my pain, the things I'm going through. Sympathy and pity aren't wanted or needed.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 15, 2014

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    Truthful

    I am very honest I have multiple sclerosis I hate people asking me are you ok every two seconds Or trying to do to much for me I want to be treated normal because I am *** holes
    Pure712 Pure712 18-21, F Nov 23, 2012

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    Colostomy Bag

    I have been wearing a colostomy bag for years never ever wanting anyone to feel sorry for me I live a full active life but cant seem to find a lady to settle with kinda sucks
    bcdrc bcdrc 51-55 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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    I Want To Punch Them In The Face.

    I am an extremely peaceful person, but i absolutely hate when people feel sorry for me. Yes, i am sick. That does not mean i am broken. I may be afflicted by a disease, but this disease DOES NOT define me. Pain does not confine. I live by this everyday, I am staying strong, I...
    nwarwick11 nwarwick11 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    Don't Give Me That Look.

    (This was after I had gotten some news that sent my life on a different curveball.)Don't look at me that way. I have been able to hold myself together and put this from my mind and your flustered pity threatens to crush me yet again, if only to weigh on my shoulders like a heavy...
    CharlieAfrica CharlieAfrica 22-25, F Jan 8, 2012

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    Please Don't

    I really hope you don't mistake my telling of my stories with the idea that I want people to feel sorry for me. Granted I have experienced a lot of sadness in my life but me telling the story or writing a book about my experiences is an attempt to share with others those moments...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    I Do Not Want sympathy.

    I want respect. I am a survivor to extreme emotional, mental, physical, and sexual abuse. In saying that I have my deal of problems. Many would probably say I suffer from mental illness. Many would say I am crazy. But to me... I am strong. I am 25 years old, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Don't Get The Wrong Impression Of Me

    Quite a few of the stories I've written on here have a negative slant to them, but that's only because I'm writing about how I'm feeling. How I feel is how I feel and I won't apologize for that. Instead of writing in a journal, which is something I always say I'm going to do but...
    BlankPage123456787 BlankPage123456787 66-70, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    I HATE WHEN PEOPLE ARE SORRY FOR ME.

    I mean I have been raped 4 time I was beaten by my 6exs I have been shot I have been stabbed 12 time. But that makes me who I am. And I love every part of me
    SECRETOFLOVE SECRETOFLOVE 18-21, F Mar 24, 2014

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    Alone For Christmas

    I left my abusive family behind this year, and currently live in the town in which I go to school. Christmas hasn't been an event for us since I was very young, so I didn't think I'd be missing much. I am little bit worried about being lonely when all my friends leave for the...
    royalmint royalmint 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    Lately I've been feeling/thinking that I would be better off with out my husband. I love him very much but I just feel better when he isn't around. I've grown accustomed to being...
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    I wish I could drink from the fountain of youth in my 20s, I don't ever want to be old cause I think old people are cranky and just disgusting. lol!
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    At the end of World War II, over 20, 000 French people accused of collaboration with Germany endured a particularly humiliating act of revenge. Their heads were shaved in public...
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    What the hell do I do? My parents are both unreliable, and are putting me in a bad position. I lived with my father up until 8 months ago, as he was abusive, pulling me around my...
    Emigirl7 Emigirl7 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    3 days ago I moved to Spain to start my bachelors degree. Ive been looking forward to this for so long, I could not wait to get out of my country and start a new and more exciting...
    moretotheeyes moretotheeyes 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Period Period, Go away I don't need you, I don't want kids some day
    0KatieKat0 0KatieKat0 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm pretty smart. Im pretty sensitive. Im pretty intuitive. And I understand that people change. But I don't understand how someone can talk to you practically every day for a...
    Polyamory55 Polyamory55 56-60, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    There, I said it. I am not having a baby! Yes, my hips look like they could plop one out in a heart beat. Yes, my large breast probably could feed 10 of them a peice,a day. Yes...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Alone is not bad, when it is a choice. When it isn't a choice, it is not necessarily bad, but it is lonely. I find it strange that I am lonely, when in the past, being alone didn...
    comeonletsgo comeonletsgo 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 24

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    That's what I thought. If someone is interested in becoming my friend, I immediately judge whether they are able to hold my attention with at least mildly intelligent conversation...
    Handyman25 Handyman25 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    I didn't say I don't want to be rich though.
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F Aug 22

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    I just don't want it anymore... I don't want to pretend I am a lucky girl anymore. I just can't... Bye.
    GirlyGirl1993 GirlyGirl1993 18-21, T 3 Responses Aug 22

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    I have been having a problem with food for the last few months. I am recovering from a stimulant addiction where I almost never had to eat, maybe a few times a week tops. I can't...
    EmTheRedhead EmTheRedhead 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    "We don't meet people by accident. They are meant to cross our path for a reason."
    EPNids EPNids 36-40, F Aug 22

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    I've heard on the news before about these young teen mothers who abandon their babies because they don't want to take the time to raise a child. Rather than putting the child up...
    girlfullofenergy girlfullofenergy 13-15, F Aug 20

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    I don't know how I feel, I do not know if this is official. I have this theory, where, if I ever had a girlfriend, another guy may take her away from me, somehow. I feel that way...
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