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I Dont Want Pity, I Want It to Be Ok Again

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 145 People

    All I Want.

    The ONLY thing I want is to be rid of my stupid panic attacks.  I would even trade them for another health concern.  I just want to live my ******* life like every other human being in the world.  I don't want money, clothes, jewelry.  I ...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2009

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    it's over. the nature of my relationship with a

    good man I must say no to if I am to have the courage to say what is and what will not grow in my world. the judgment card is in effect but denial will nollie that back swing on the pendulum. focus, function, dominance, transcendence. just how much force will it take? well, I...
    bellaFigura bellaFigura 26-30 Jan 27

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    Pity Rant

    If I was to go to someone and say I don't have a job perhaps they'd point me in the direction of a good one. So if I go to people and say I'm unhappy in some way, why do people just give me pity. Pity is not a solution! It is in fact even more of a problem!
    purexperience purexperience 26-30, M Nov 20, 2013

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    Pity

    Pity brings me nothing more than greater amounts of what I already have, self-hatred. I want to die, and beg I do soon. Nothing is here for me. Pity is a cuss to me. I hate it almost as much as I hate myself. People trying to cheer me up, tch, it makes me feel weaker than I am. I...
    MaiaTheBroken MaiaTheBroken 18-21, F Jan 22, 2012

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    I Know People Just Mean Well.

    I know pity from others doesn't fix things, but on the other hand, I feel good that they care enough to pity me.  When things go horribly wrong, all people can really say is "I'm sorry."  At least they care to try.  
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2009

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    I'm sad. because my favorite person is leaving.

    and for some seemingly instinctual reason, I feel surprisingly peaceful about it. I'm quite happy for that man. it's refreshing to watch a him bumble away. I'm oddly inspired and even more 'in love' it's strange due to this plodding conspiracy from my reptilian mind... he's...
    bellaFigura bellaFigura 26-30 Feb 6

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    I don't want pity I am

    so sick of it Why can't they see that's y I don't like to tell people stuff because then they just stay because they feel pity towards me It's annoying I don't need ur damn pity It makes me feel worse If your my friend or something because of pity You can get up and walk...
    Hiddenamoungus Hiddenamoungus 13-15, F Jul 27, 2014

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    So This Last Year Hasn't Been the Easiest...

    ..but to be fair my memories of easy years are wearing thin. At the moment things seem to be ok, Im not 'cured' but I have the support to help me. When I came on EP I didn't know what I needed it for. I was just having some weird dreams and wanted an idea of what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2008

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    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 26-30, F May 19

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    Go for it ladies! if this make you feel good than by all means enjoy having milky breasts.I know I dream of being with a woman with big heavy milk filled beauties to let down daily...
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    It's harder to decide when I'm aware that I prolly might not have a chance to live. I'm too lost. I dunno if it's worth deciding at this point. I've had to leave to several other...
    PartyGuy21 PartyGuy21 18-21, M May 24

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    I fell in love once; it was unlike anything I have ever felt before or since. That sense of purpose, that drive, that pure joy at seeing her, the number of new skills I learned...
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    Just as soon as I got my wish, it was gone. I got too happy and needy....and ended up pushing him away. Today I called him. He was with a friend and kept dodging talking to me...
    PersistentRage PersistentRage 16-17, F 4 Responses May 8

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    I hate being clean I don't ever want to shower again
    IWantToBeTortured IWantToBeTortured 18-21, F May 11

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    I use to draw and paint. I want to start again but it's an expensive hobby. I need to find a way to fund it. I think it would help with my frustration.
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F May 13

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    Pinch it! Unwritten she goes designing her path and recreating it as a piece of art being recycled by time and use, life chooses its own way moved by passions and adrenaline How...
    livingtruthfully livingtruthfully 36-40, F 3 Responses May 22

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    had a fight with a friend and tried to make Amends twice already, it didn't work, I will be seeing him Sunday, and want to try again, id really love for it to work out finnaly! so...
    sbenveniste sbenveniste 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Tsk. tsk. I feel a very pity for Lakandula's hatred. Hmmmmmm? What should I do???The first time I visit this site, I was amazed of the features of this, I can do whatever I want...
    SempreverdeSelva SempreverdeSelva 13-15, F May 4

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    Hi everyone, My problem is related to my relationship. I used to be the kind of girl who would never depend on a man - that's why I would say I wasn't the best girlfriend to my SO...
    LadyCinephile LadyCinephile 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    It's been two years and still, I am obsessed. Me and him recently started back talking again but ended because he went back to his ex. This wasnt the first time he's chosen her...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I have only had a real boyfriend once, its was really fun to be with him after few months later found out he cheated on me.. i was depressed alone, almost scared to date again. One...
    boredgirl01 boredgirl01 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    My new mantra. (Well, it's my old mantra that's new again. :) Plus, I was almost named Elizabeth because my dad thought she was the most beautiful woman in the world.)
    livelaughlovedream33 livelaughlovedream33 41-45, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I fall in love and he loved me back . He did everything for me and I did everything for him. We hung out everyday and talked all night. He made me smile. But then I became jealous...
    icynthiaj icynthiaj 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I think everyone is entitled to beliefs and opinions. Obviously we all have them and I think everyone has the right to be heard as long as it is said in a non demeaning way and as...
    stargirl58 stargirl58 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    i went to the place i call home found out that the door was close i saw others went by to their homes n i saw that the door was open for them those that went inside their home were...
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    That Life... The years pass and eventually you realise you`re not a child anymore but you aren`t an adult. You feel misunderstood from the adut`s because the don`t see that you...
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    I Will Write No More of Love---- A re-post, from a time in 2013 that I almost left here. But back then, there was such an outpouring of love and caring that I stayed. In a...
    Elandra77 Elandra77 56-60 5 Responses May 3

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    It had rained overnight. The path was damp and the long grass in the field was still soaking, but the rain had knocked the pollen down and there was a lovely clean, fresh scent in...
    treborsniknej treborsniknej 56-60, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Nepal , one of the most rich examples of mythological sources and the country with world's highest peak; Mt. Everest, was worst hit by a disastrous earthquake on 25th April 2015...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F 1 Response May 2

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    Why Am I Sill Single? It is a question I am getting as I now enter middle age. I just think that I am one of the most selfish people I have ever met. There is no one telling me I...
    DARRIN001 DARRIN001 36-40, M May 13

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    Guys I need some help and some advise. Be kind please I'm very fragile. 6 weeks ago my boyfriend and best friend of two years left me. Heartbroken doesn't even begin to cover it...
    Lostnemo Lostnemo 18-21, F 2 Responses May 4

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    I lost my talent. It was misery. I was an expert in misery, writing to strangers worldwide giving advice and flawlessly understanding their situations and what they could do about...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M May 5

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    I've had 4 boyfriends in my life. One was James and it was long distance. We were both submissive and basically twins. Too much alike. I left him. Then there was Jackson. He asked...
    Nickbailes Nickbailes 16-17, M 1 Response May 8

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    I want to share a memory. It was rainy that day. Clouds filled the sky in patches making it seems clear and happy in some areas and somewhat gloomy and saddening in others. I...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    I used to be really healthy... Before my depression hit me hard... I used to play hockey. And I played well for like 6 years. Had great stamina! I was a little overweight but I...
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M 1 Response May 13

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    I feel like events from my past are consuming me and most of the time I feel like I'm going crazy. I've been depressed for a while,it started two years ago. For Middle School I...
    YOdawgaga YOdawgaga 13-15, F May 22

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    So I got a call about a month or so ago from him. He was going to be in Sydney again and wanted to see me. So we decided to meet at a bar again and have some drinks. I was wet...
    Nelson1984 Nelson1984 26-30, M 1 Response May 24

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    Hey there! i know that many of us had tried to restart our life so many times, i tried it for years, every time i think i was destroyed i intented to start again. Today, this is a...
    victorpons victorpons 22-25, M a week ago

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    After all the crap my husband has put me through I never want to get married again. Ever. Today was honestly the final straw. I gave him another chance a couple of weeks ago but...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I realized how awkward I am when dancing with a man I don't know. I went out this weekend for a friend's birthday. She wanted to go dancing. Great! I love dancing. Then, she...
    Stickwithmebaby Stickwithmebaby 36-40, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I want to be happy again because I waste my time being sad and lonely all the time and I just want some good things to happen in my life again.
    db174 db174 31-35, F 3 Responses May 3

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