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I Don't Want To Be A Disappointment

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    Disappointment...

    its the one thing we all fear, we all do it to others generally on accident. im the middle child which i believe is harder than being the youngest or eldest. Ive disappointed my mother time and time again. i just lift my head up look her in the eye (nowadays) and tell her im...
    nickifrank nickifrank 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2011

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    I Really Don't

    I always seem to be a great disappointment, whether to myself or to others. I don't know why, wish I did. I try so hard, but I know for certain that I disappoint many of the folk I have known.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 7, 2012

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    I always feel like such a disappointment

    and failure to my dad I'm so sorry I'm such a worthless and dumb daughter
    ashleymac96 ashleymac96 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    Need Some Help

    I feel am a bigest loser right now,this one girl i love and i have appreciate soo much in my life,I dont know whether it me or something we are in along distance,I have been stressing her l8teli demanding more time than what she can offer,she is in college and doing some test,i...
    khasim khasim 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    thunder0 thunder0 22-25, M Dec 9, 2013

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    I Don't Want To Be

    every guy i dated has disappointed me one way or another and because of my father i feel like i can't get close to anyone again i don't like this feeling i am having i really want to give him every thing he wants but i am scare to do it i don't know what to do
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2011

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    Daddy's Eyes

    I hated to see disappointment in my Daddy's eyes. It is what steered my life choices and decisions.
    silentwellofsorrow silentwellofsorrow 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2010

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    But I Just Can't Stop it is

    when I'm hanging out with the people I grew up with that know about my addiction that I feel most guilty. this is also when I notice how much I have changed since I started using meth, and I know they notice it as well. most have stopped trying to convince me to get help and...
    addictionbarbie addictionbarbie 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    I Always Am Though

    Whatever I do, I never do it right. I'm always gonna be a huge disappointment to my parents. I had a chance to prove them wrong, but I think I've missed it. Just 2 more weeks left to get my O'levels results, then I'll really know if I've been a disappointment or not. But I have...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2010

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    To Anyone

    My biggest worry is disappointing the people who love me or disappointing the people I love.. I just hate it when I do fall short of expectations though.. Or when I can't fall through..
    ToxicRyu ToxicRyu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    Mom and Dad, I am sorry I've disappointed you

    by not going to college, falling madly in love with a man 17 years older then me who treated me like I was a princess... and I am sorry for hiding that I was in an abusive relationship that caused me to have insecurity issues. I am sorry that I haven't gone back to college. I am...
    H3lt3rSk3lt3r H3lt3rSk3lt3r 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    But Feel I Am....

    I have felt like a disappointment to my family for years. My mother has had to lie about my life to make it sound more interesting and that makes me feel sad. I am 25 and it seems like everyone my age is getting married, thinking about kids or buying houses. I am doing none of...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F May 30, 2011

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    The Only One

    The only one you can truly be a disappointment to is yourself.  If you're not happy with yourself, etc.  The other people in your life, if they truly love you will forgive and support you.  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 14, 2011

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    Of Course Not

    But its way too late for that
    iminpain iminpain 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    Fear

    i always live in fear of disappointing others. i believe it started when i was little i could never please my mother i was never good enough.always told i can never do anything right. i feel bad talking about her this way but i need to vent my feelings. i do not like talking...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    Pressure

    Last week was emotionally and physically draining for me.  I was offered a full-time position and my friends, whom I affectionately refer to as the "lynch mob," wanted me to accept it.  For many reasons, I turned it down.  I'm not one to make quick and hasty...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 26, 2010

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    The Words Hurt

    I never thought I would hear or be a disappointment to my dad. Every time he used the word it would anger me and it would sadden me down to very bone. I never did anything that would make my parents feel that way. I never got arrested, I never took drugs, I never drank or smoked...
    QTB2 QTB2 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2012

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    I'm very comfortable with myself and I know exactly what I want and I may be young but I'm 100 percent sure I don't want kids and it's a deal breaker for me. People have told me...
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    I was introduced to this guy at a town street fair the other night. We chatted and had fun. I don't know many people in the area, but the ones I do know are twice my age and this...
    WiredCritter WiredCritter 22-25 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I find no use in meeting people as very few turn out to be helpful, they just pretend to be friends but apparently they are not.I do know that I am in secured in terms of trust but...
    darkheart93 darkheart93 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    So There's this guy.. I'm really tall like 5'9 and he's quite taller than me like 9" taller and I think I like him but it's getting a little irritating that he doesn't talk much...
    inspiredwriterxx inspiredwriterxx 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    My adoptive-parents forgot about my up coming birthday. They know that I've been molested and raped and they just shrugged their shoulders and said "sucks". A lot of the time I...
    100PercentMe 100PercentMe 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I can understand how people romanticize marriage and build it up with words like commitment, faithfulness, loyalty, etc. A marriage in itself doesn’t actually have the power to...
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    I've been staying in my parents apartment for the summer, but now were going home this weekend for our town's homecoming. I don't want to go but I have to. I'll run into my pot...
    crystal234 crystal234 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm a recovering addict and I have two years clean from drugs and alcohol.. I lost my kids my house my career. I'm starting all over again I have my kids back in my life but from...
    Lotusgirlred Lotusgirlred 31-35, F Jul 13

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    I just hate it when people say “you will change your mind as you get older”! Guess what, I said I didn't want kids when I was 15, now I'm 25 and I still don't want kids! I just...
    Naturalsimple Naturalsimple 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 23

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    I DON'T WANT TO GROW UP, I'M A TOYS R US KID, THERE'S LOTS OF TOYS AT TOYS R US THAT I CAN PLAY WITH, FROM BOOKS TO TOYS TO VIDEO GAMES, IT'S THE BIGGEST TOY STORE THERE IS, GEE...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I really don't :'( she's my whole world. Life means nothing if she's not in it :'( what's the point of life if you can't be woth the one you love most in the entire universe :'( I...
    ywilliam31 ywilliam31 16-17, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M Jul 22

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    I don't want kids because I know I wouldn't be a good mother. I would rather go out and have fun with friends instead of stay at home and change diapers. Does that make me a bad or...
    ashizz ashizz 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I currently live with a roommate who has a baby (approximately one year old). I didn't know I would be living with a baby when I decided to move in, I was told all of the roommates...
    secretgarden22 secretgarden22 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Well I want a party........ Let me explain. My friend and I have a pact. This pact isn't a suicide pact do not worry, is more of a if I'm too old to live without pain, I'm on life...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Sometimes I wonder why am I alive, what is my purpose in life to be here, why did god choose to create me. I hate my life, I hate everything about it. Nothing good ever happen to...
    emmiecarmi emmiecarmi 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Today is mine and my husband's 10 year anniversary. I'm not thrilled at all. Quite frankly, I'm depressed. Nothing about today is exciting for me. I've been unhappy food the past 5...
    lonelysara1211 lonelysara1211 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want a life that is fully mine and the life that is right for me. My path, my own destiny, a purpose and belonging. A life that I feel comfortable and at ease in. Nothing is...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    and i don't want to lie bout myself. If people don't like me its ok. I understand.
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    I don't want to stay with my family(my parents), because we often have quarrel. Perhaps, it is good for us to keep a distance.
    Aspada Aspada 16-17, M Jul 13

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    My mom has cancer I don't want to lose her
    Countrycutie2098 Countrycutie2098 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I'd rather just crawl back into my sheets and watch the perks of being a wallflower and be sad together with charlie. I don't want to have to act happy and energetic all day...
    sproetje sproetje 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    But I don't want to not have someone to take care of me when I'm old.. lol.
    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F Jul 20

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    I get waay too jealous waay too easily and I don't want to be like this anymore. If anyone knows how I can work at not being this way anymore, or even if you're the same way...
    trysten778 trysten778 13-15, F Jul 23

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    one crazy conversation... acquaintance: "Hey, you want to have kids one day?" me: "No." acquaintance: "Why not? You seem like you’d be a good mom. Or is it that you don’t...
    Neiymara Neiymara 22-25, F Jul 8

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    I don't feel comfortable in my own home. Having to worry and having fear every night before going to sleep isn't normal. I don't feel safe. I'm 16 years old and want to move in...
    kaaligirl kaaligirl 16-17, F Jul 6

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    I don't like it when people worry about me.. It adds a burden to me.. I start feeling too responsible for their feelings Don't get me wrong I like people caring for me and what...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Or whether you love it when your boyfriend tells you how much he loves you. Seriously. Why the fück would I care? Don't take me as insensitive, but seriously, girls who do this...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    Don't trust too much. Don't love too much. Don't hope too much, because that too much can hurt you so much...
    AnnaKhit AnnaKhit 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    If you don't like me out what I do, keep it to yourself please. I wont spam you. Don't bother me please
    rmindeed rmindeed 22-25, M Jul 5