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I Don't Want To Be A Disappointment

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 418 People

    Disappointment...

    its the one thing we all fear, we all do it to others generally on accident. im the middle child which i believe is harder than being the youngest or eldest. Ive disappointed my mother time and time again. i just lift my head up look her in the eye (nowadays) and tell her im...
    nickifrank nickifrank 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2011

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    Need Some Help

    I feel am a bigest loser right now,this one girl i love and i have appreciate soo much in my life,I dont know whether it me or something we are in along distance,I have been stressing her l8teli demanding more time than what she can offer,she is in college and doing some test,i...
    khasim khasim 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    I Always Am Though

    Whatever I do, I never do it right. I'm always gonna be a huge disappointment to my parents. I had a chance to prove them wrong, but I think I've missed it. Just 2 more weeks left to get my O'levels results, then I'll really know if I've been a disappointment or not. But I have...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2010

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    I Don't Want To Be

    every guy i dated has disappointed me one way or another and because of my father i feel like i can't get close to anyone again i don't like this feeling i am having i really want to give him every thing he wants but i am scare to do it i don't know what to do
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2011

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    The Words Hurt

    I never thought I would hear or be a disappointment to my dad. Every time he used the word it would anger me and it would sadden me down to very bone. I never did anything that would make my parents feel that way. I never got arrested, I never took drugs, I never drank or smoked...
    QTB2 QTB2 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2012

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    I always feel like such a disappointment

    and failure to my dad I'm so sorry I'm such a worthless and dumb daughter
    ashleymac96 ashleymac96 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    I Really Don't

    I always seem to be a great disappointment, whether to myself or to others. I don't know why, wish I did. I try so hard, but I know for certain that I disappoint many of the folk I have known.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 7, 2012

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    But Feel I Am....

    I have felt like a disappointment to my family for years. My mother has had to lie about my life to make it sound more interesting and that makes me feel sad. I am 25 and it seems like everyone my age is getting married, thinking about kids or buying houses. I am doing none of...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F May 30, 2011

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    The Only One

    The only one you can truly be a disappointment to is yourself.  If you're not happy with yourself, etc.  The other people in your life, if they truly love you will forgive and support you.  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 14, 2011

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    thunder0 thunder0 22-25, M Dec 9, 2013

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    Pressure

    Last week was emotionally and physically draining for me.  I was offered a full-time position and my friends, whom I affectionately refer to as the "lynch mob," wanted me to accept it.  For many reasons, I turned it down.  I'm not one to make quick and hasty...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 26, 2010

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    Daddy's Eyes

    I hated to see disappointment in my Daddy's eyes. It is what steered my life choices and decisions.
    silentwellofsorrow silentwellofsorrow 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2010

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    Mom and Dad, I am sorry I've disappointed you

    by not going to college, falling madly in love with a man 17 years older then me who treated me like I was a princess... and I am sorry for hiding that I was in an abusive relationship that caused me to have insecurity issues. I am sorry that I haven't gone back to college. I am...
    H3lt3rSk3lt3r H3lt3rSk3lt3r 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19, 2014

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    Fear

    i always live in fear of disappointing others. i believe it started when i was little i could never please my mother i was never good enough.always told i can never do anything right. i feel bad talking about her this way but i need to vent my feelings. i do not like talking...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    But I Just Can't Stop it is

    when I'm hanging out with the people I grew up with that know about my addiction that I feel most guilty. this is also when I notice how much I have changed since I started using meth, and I know they notice it as well. most have stopped trying to convince me to get help and...
    addictionbarbie addictionbarbie 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2014

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    Of Course Not

    But its way too late for that
    iminpain iminpain 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    I just don't want to live in general.
    Wheresmywayout Wheresmywayout 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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