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I Don't Want To Be All By Myself

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 62 People

    Am So Afraid Of This

    I have never been a ladies man, and I'm shy. I find it hard to articulate how badly I desire to have a girl who loves me in my life. I learned a lot when I was with my ex. Mainly I learned its important to communicate, and how much I was missing not having a partner in my life...
    Grin32 Grin32 31-35, M Apr 28, 2010

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    Yeah..........

    But I just can't see it any other way..........
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 26-30, M 5 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    I Always Will Be

    I have seen into my future, it's a lonely one and my fate will one day come at my own hand and on my terms. I think I have set the bar way too high for any woman to be with me. Too much has happened for me to take any more chances. If I am to be alone, then it will be my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    i asked before and chosen to be loved but honestly i hate love by every painful pain i feel right now!!!, i hate it i hate it and i never hated something in my life but it...
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    My mom was abused by her mother, went to live with her dad, later in life she had kids, and then abused them. That is what has happened for generations in my family. History has...
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    Especially if it's an ex that had the most terificly bad things to say about u... Also when people ask u what ur doing now and ur like... erm... I am looking for a job... I...
    Backspaceblogger Backspaceblogger 26-30 1 day ago

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    I have a feeling so many of my friends parents pity me. I don't want that. They've seen me go throughout so much family related issues and I feel like they're overly cautious when...
    PearlyyJayy PearlyyJayy 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Here I am, another spring semester, another crisis. I am currently awaiting results from a brain scan. Could be a brain tumor, could be epilepsy, who knows? Not me. Understandably...
    BuzzFanatic BuzzFanatic 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I get antsy when people want to talk on the phone for more than 5 minutes. I thought this anxiety would be gone by now.
    Jewelz62 Jewelz62 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I don't get any pleasure when people who know nothing about me leave comments like "I'm sure you are beautiful" and "Lots of men find X really sexy" after I say something about...
    adel66 adel66 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    My energy is severely limited by a disease and I don't think I could physically handle the care for a child. That lack of energy also gets in the way of gathering the money for...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't understand today's "obsessional" priority of a phone call...we've all got voice mail, so use it...if you're actually with someone that took the time out of their day to be...
    BooBoo493 BooBoo493 61-65, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    No i won't be, i refuse to be a verbally abusive lazy alcoholic. Who didn't want kids but had them anyways.
    PanHead1989 PanHead1989 26-30, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate it when every time I go to my mum's, I am subjected to having to watch her and my husband argue. I'm tired of being the one stuck in the middle of them both all of the time...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    he has never respected me as a son and made me feel horrible about myself at times. if I ever have kids I'll know what not to do with them
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Pain pain pain pain pain. That's all I feel is pain. I want to scream it hurts so much. Pain inside. Driving me crazy. I want others to see my pain. Know my pain, but I can't tell...
    faeriefate faeriefate 18-21 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Though I really don't know what defines a boing life. Since no one's life is completely boring.
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I dont want to do that. I dont care what all the other ones do. I dont feel comfortable. I have a hard time saying no because I dont want to hurt feelings or lose friendship and...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Do you find it ****** up that most people want you to respect their decision of wanting kids, but they won't respect your decision of not wanting any?
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Not having kids is for me a charity act to the world. I believe there are too many people on Earth, and millions do not live good. I think that reducing the number of person would...
    JuPond JuPond 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    Sometimes you care too much about someone who doesn't give a **** about you. Life sucks
    LoloRegz LoloRegz 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    It's crazy. When you are friends with someone for so long, only to realize years later that you can't talk about EVERYTHING. I learned that over the past weekend. I love this...
    Jazzy1234 Jazzy1234 31-35, F Jan 31

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    I was just informed that a very good friend of mine is having a kid. I'm feeling very conflicted about the news. On one hand, I want to be happy for him. Kids are supposed to be a...
    AmayaTsuki AmayaTsuki 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    We drove by her house today. I wasn't the same for the rest of the night.
    kayla459 kayla459 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    I want my first time to be with someone special, on the other hand I get h0rny and just want to have sex with whoever. It's hard.
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    ughhhh really don't wanna go.
    hexKrona hexKrona 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I don't want children nor do I have children and it's staying that way. First when becoming intimate with my husband when get the mood all of the sudden kids come in no thank you...
    Cynthia1976 Cynthia1976 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    im madly, deeply in love with a man that dosnt love me back. i want to marry him but he wants to lie and cheat. i need to forget about him so i can be happy but its difficult to...
    jbrose413 jbrose413 22-25 Jan 29

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    In my opinion, I'm not a very smart person, have not made the smartest choices, and have not had the funnest time on earth. I don't want to raise a child in a world like this to...
    ghostofthesun ghostofthesun 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    If I help you, it's because I have made the choice. Although I don't ask for anything in return, understand that I will not allow myself, or my family to be taken advantage of.
    ZenGrrrlLioNESS ZenGrrrlLioNESS 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I accidentally gave my boyfriend hope today by talking about surrogate mothers out of curiosity. Not only do I not want to carry a child (which he thinks is the only reason) I...
    Nadiiaa Nadiiaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Unless it is from family or a friend who i am certain is not just going to want to chit chat for the sake of passing time I ignore the phone unless I really want to kill time...
    shadowgurl444 shadowgurl444 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 26

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    I've been out with acquaintances and friends a lot lately, indulging in the nightclub scene even though it's not really my thing. They're fun enough but the only reason I wanted to...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 31-35 1 Response Jan 26

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    Reasons why I don't want kids: 1) I argue with them 2) I have no patience 3) I get mad at them if they're being naughty 4) And I have to watch my cussing
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Hey people I'm 13 I'm a girl and just really want a best boy mate and a boy friend who I can get along with so DM me as soon as possible X
    charlotte762 charlotte762 13-15, F Jan 25

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    I hate that people say that "you'll change your mind one day." maybe I will, maybe I won't. As of right now I don't see myself as a motherly figure. I'm much too selfish to be a...
    queenkandas queenkandas 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    It's gotta be the medication. It has to be. It couldn't be anything else. But I've never felt a sadness like this. It's as though all of the other times I was ever sad have been...
    TheWalkingDread TheWalkingDread 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Kids aren't a bad thing, really they're not (some of them). My only concern is if I do bad at parenting, or if they end up hating me. I know a lot of people that cannot stand they...
    FromAntoinette FromAntoinette 22-25 3 Responses Jan 23

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    If I ever live by a neighbor who has kids whom are intentionally throwing their toys in my backyard, I'm taking those toys and donating them to GoodWill. They don't need 'em.
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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