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I Don't Want To Be All By Myself

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    Am So Afraid Of This

    I have never been a ladies man, and I'm shy. I find it hard to articulate how badly I desire to have a girl who loves me in my life. I learned a lot when I was with my ex. Mainly I learned its important to communicate, and how much I was missing not having a partner in my life...
    Grin32 Grin32 31-35, M Apr 28, 2010

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    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    I Always Will Be

    I have seen into my future, it's a lonely one and my fate will one day come at my own hand and on my terms. I think I have set the bar way too high for any woman to be with me. Too much has happened for me to take any more chances. If I am to be alone, then it will be my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Yeah..........

    But I just can't see it any other way..........
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 5 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    I love my freedom too much to be a father. Once, I dated a girl with a kid and it didn't work out because I couldn't handle fatherhood. I've told my parents before that I don't...
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    I'm too ambitious & have things I want to do with my life instead of focusing all my energy into something like a kid for 20 years. Really it's not self-centered because I'd be a...
    SimpleShares SimpleShares 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    i'm not being selfish or something, but i just want my friend back... recently this best friend of mine just met a new friend online. they happened to be in the same school (and...
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    I'm already 21, I don't want to get old :( I don't want to have wrinkles I want to stay young forever? Is it even normal?
    itachiuchiha07 itachiuchiha07 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 8

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    I just want to be numb. I don't want feelings to get in the way. I don't want to get hurt again. I will build a thicker wall, change my door with a steel one, with more locks and...
    pepperdoll pepperdoll 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I am feeling so high right now, listening to the same song over and over! Drinking wine, and I'm the only one home. I love it! Right now... I don't want to come down, I don't want...
    PurpleGlassPalace PurpleGlassPalace 26-30, M 17 hrs ago

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    thewondergirl thewondergirl 13-15, F Aug 20

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    I miss how close we used to be and I miss it everyday. Just a single thought makes me breakdown and cry because I miss you ... I miss us and the friendship we had. It hurts me so...
    nadiarenee nadiarenee 16-17, F Aug 29

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    I don't want a typical wedding. Im not a typical bride!
    BabyGirlAtHeart BabyGirlAtHeart 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I almost crashed my car today. I tried to overtake a Mack truck on a u turn with a double lane, and floored it. I realized there was no way in hell I was gonna make it so I slammed...
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    lonleygirl01 lonleygirl01 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Eh, I say I don't but I wouldn't mind it. Then I realize that my fertility is questionable for one. My uterus and hormones hate me. For real. Two, I am ALWAYS in dire straits. I...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Being myself doesn't work, I'm too weird for everyone. I don't know what should I be instead.
    ThatAwkwardOne ThatAwkwardOne 16-17, M a week ago

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    Aikin2 Aikin2 18-21, M Aug 24

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    Sometimes , I feel unloved but he always makes it better.. But.. Sometimes he doesn't understand me and he misunderstand me sometimes.. He's nice , kind , and sweet but sometimes...
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    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Aug 31

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    I'm still young and I do attend college. I am single and all but one thing I don't ever want to go through is divorce. It makes me want to never get married.
    steve0629 steve0629 18-21, M Aug 24

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    We function in tight partnership with our mother Boston party bus and limo rental providers company - Roman Limousine. Without the trust of its prospects no corporation would...
    Lillafyq Lillafyq 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    I am so confused right now and I can't tell anyone...I've been best friends with a guy (we'll call him Larry) for about 3 years. Larry is married and has 2 kids; I've always...
    meowmeowkitten meowmeowkitten 31-35, F Sep 5

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    I CANNOT ******* STRESS THIS ENOUGH. I DO NOT WANT TO RECEIVE ANY PICTURES. IF I DON'T ASK, DON'T SHOW ME. HOLY ****.
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Why have kids if you can't nurture and protect them?! Um hello they're a part of you. You have to take care of your mini me. IF you don't, they'll be traumatized. I won't have kids...
    youknowwhothefuckiam youknowwhothefuckiam 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 4

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    missbellelettres missbellelettres 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 10

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    And i don't actually. But sometimes that can get boring, too.
    stonedalone stonedalone 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I've never cut my hair. I like how long it is. It hardly ever gets in my way, and I only put it up when I'm cooking. I don't see any need to cut it.
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    It's super triggering for me, as an anorexic about to try and recover... just... please don't.
    nosouvenirs nosouvenirs 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Bad *chicks* i don't wan no mediocre i won't hit no mediocre
    NicoleGabriella NicoleGabriella 13-15, F Sep 7

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    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Itunes has given everyone the new U2 album, and it's not that I'm ungrateful or anything, but I don't even really listen to them >.> so yeah, thanks I guess?
    SuperLemon SuperLemon 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It seems to be mutual. Society doesn't want me to be a part of it. So whatever, I'll do my own thing. It's okay.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    i had a dream about my ex, and one of my best friends and i was having sex with them, but i told myself why am i doing this... i changing alot myself, but i dont know how much do i...
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M Aug 29

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